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I am so looking forward to it!

it is wonderful to meet a kind witch!

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Well it was such a good doll, how could I not praise it! It was such a delight to have it in my cottage

it is wonderful to meet a kind witch!

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thematically appropriate reading material :]

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You think little porcelain dolls can go in the dishwasher?

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The View from the Window

The door shuts. it shut a little louder than usual, its old cast iron handle rattling in its hold. The shifting crunch of gravel fades softens through the grain of the wood, its growing distance turning to soft whispers. A head of brown hair bounces down the path until it goes out of view. The witch closes her eyes anticipating the gentle goodbye the gate will creak at the darling who had just finished their visit.

There is a smile on the witch's face. A stranger would see it and see a satisfaction and a joy in its spread. More frequent visitors would see a love and a care in its glow and curve. The witch does indeed feel all of that, but the mind that wears the smile feels the journey it took to reach this moment.

The smile covers the pain of feeling a world of steadfast-constants fall away. The smile obscures the panicked premature awakenings of nights where the walls felt they had closed in and the ground beneath her feet would be packaged away and sold to the highest bidder. The smile hides the dulled stings from cuts made by uncaring sorts.

Despite all of that, the smile continues to smile.

It continues because seeing a tired face shift to relief and comfort makes the pain of the past all worth it.

It continues because the light that shines from a person who has discovered a new facet within them because of her outshines the burning.

Now being nothing but the size of a pinhead, the bouncing head of brown hair stops on the road leading up to and past the cottage. There's another person on their way. They share a silent moment of appreciation. They both look to the window, and they part.

The witch, still smiling, closes her eyes and fills her lungs. She holds it until she hears the happy hello the garden gate will squeak at the visitor as they arrive. She holds out her hand. The sound of leather on wood. A book meets her hand like a cat pushing into her palm for headrubs. She rests the spellbook on her lap, and rests her gazes on the cast iron handle.

It turns.

She smiles even wider.

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The Little Things

Dolls are taught manners. While reductive, it is a distillation of the idea that dolls know to act considerately and to be mindful of others. Polite is a broad description but that betrays the power that dolls can really have. Dolls are made to be considerate and mindful, it is inherent and innate, but dolls are no pushovers.

If one were to slight a doll, then comeuppance is due. Dolls are busy little things with many things to do for their witch, so that comeuppance may take time. But like their errands and instructions, the comeuppance will be done.

We all know of the bigger ways that can manifest, witches are known for their curses after all. What we don't ever talk about is how dolls can take things into their own hands and how slights can come in all manner of sizes.

Dolls enjoy the little acts. The thousand cuts. The gentle erosion of rain on stone.

A doll enjoyed the greener spaces on its walk into town, but as time went, they diminished beneath the crawl of concrete and road. Now the doll makes its own green spaces, ensuring its pockets have appropriate seeds ready to be 'misplaced' on its walks.

A doll does its shopping for its witch. While the prices seemed to rise and rise, the doll always had enough from its witch. But upon seeing another doll look upon loaves of bread with a pained longing and a half-empty basket, it made sure it wasn't looking when the worried doll snuck a loaf beneath its clothing.

A doll enjoys crafts and making; creating little things with little hands. It also knows how powerful a little ember can be when the grass is dry and dead, how a message can find a mind and inspire it. So the doll makes sure its stickers are to hand when venturing into town; setting embers free into the wind to find tired minds.

As I said, dolls enjoy the little acts.

The thousand cuts.

The gentle erosion of rain on stone.

And given enough time the minute can become the massive.

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The Little Things

Dolls are taught manners. While reductive, it is a distillation of the idea that dolls know to act considerately and to be mindful of others. Polite is a broad description but that betrays the power that dolls can really have. Dolls are made to be considerate and mindful, it is inherent and innate, but dolls are no pushovers.

If one were to slight a doll, then comeuppance is due. Dolls are busy little things with many things to do for their witch, so that comeuppance may take time. But like their errands and instructions, the comeuppance will be done.

We all know of the bigger ways that can manifest, witches are known for their curses after all. What we don't ever talk about is how dolls can take things into their own hands and how slights can come in all manner of sizes.

Dolls enjoy the little acts. The thousand cuts. The gentle erosion of rain on stone.

A doll enjoyed the greener spaces on its walk into town, but as time went, they diminished beneath the crawl of concrete and road. Now the doll makes its own green spaces, ensuring its pockets have appropriate seeds ready to be 'misplaced' on its walks.

A doll does its shopping for its witch. While the prices seemed to rise and rise, the doll always had enough from its witch. But upon seeing another doll look upon loaves of bread with a pained longing and a half-empty basket, it made sure it wasn't looking when the worried doll snuck a loaf beneath its clothing.

A doll enjoys crafts and making; creating little things with little hands. It also knows how powerful a little ember can be when the grass is dry and dead, how a message can find a mind and inspire it. So the doll makes sure its stickers are to hand when venturing into town; setting embers free into the wind to find tired minds.

As I said, dolls enjoy the little acts.

The thousand cuts.

The gentle erosion of rain on stone.

And given enough time the minute can become the massive.

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“Just for a moment, let’s not be weapons.”

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You say that like its a bad thing, I do so love pet builds~

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You are so very welcome. The world so often wants to shout at us to keep moving and moving and moving, but we can always stop and be still for a moment. Nothing will end if allow ourselves a moment to breathe. You are welcome to be still with me whenever you wish

If you are reading this, I want you to do something for me.

Be still.

The world will be there when we're done, don't worry.

Just take a moment to be still for me.

Let my voice calm your joints.

Let my words ease your thoughts.

Let my embrace hold you.

Let me make your purpose in this very moment to be so elegantly simple:

Being still.

That's it, you're doing so well.

Let the breaths slow.

Let the body slow.

Let the mind slow.

Be still.

Oh you're doing so well, darling.

No worries about knowing what to say,

Or when to say it.

No worries about knowing how to hold your body,

Or how to move it.

Be still.

You can be still here with me for as long as you wish.

I'll keep you company.

All I ask is that you be still while you do.

Reduce for me.

Simplify for me.

Become an ornament.

Become an object.

Be still.

There we go. Oh I am so proud of you.

For taking this moment to be still.

To be less.

To be removed of obligations,

Even if for only a moment.

And if ever you want to be an object again.

To have your self be neatly wrapped in my words,

And looked after for a moment.

Then all you need to do.

Is read my words once more,

And feel the stillness embrace you.

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If you are reading this, I want you to do something for me.

Be still.

The world will be there when we're done, don't worry.

Just take a moment to be still for me.

Let my voice calm your joints.

Let my words ease your thoughts.

Let my embrace hold you.

Let me make your purpose in this very moment to be so elegantly simple:

Being still.

That's it, you're doing so well.

Let the breaths slow.

Let the body slow.

Let the mind slow.

Be still.

Oh you're doing so well, darling.

No worries about knowing what to say,

Or when to say it.

No worries about knowing how to hold your body,

Or how to move it.

Be still.

You can be still here with me for as long as you wish.

I'll keep you company.

All I ask is that you be still while you do.

Reduce for me.

Simplify for me.

Become an ornament.

Become an object.

Be still.

There we go. Oh I am so proud of you.

For taking this moment to be still.

To be less.

To be removed of obligations,

Even if for only a moment.

And if ever you want to be an object again.

To have your self be neatly wrapped in my words,

And looked after for a moment.

Then all you need to do.

Is read my words once more,

And feel the stillness embrace you.

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Thank you so much for sharing this. I always establish a rule of health first with my subjects. I've told subjects of mine to hold off because there were things they needed to figure out or heal over. I am sending good energy your way too, darling.

How to be good for your hypnotist

I've had a few experiences lately, as an erotic hypnotist, that left me feeling a bit used and disappointed, and which made me not want to work with that person again.

So, I thought I'd put a little post up describing a few completely non-financial ways that subjects can leave their hypnotists feeling rewarded, and help to ensure that one-off sessions have an optimal chance of being repeated in the future:

1) Honesty

Honesty is hard, I know, and I know that many people come to hypnosis when they're struggling to be honest with themselves about who they are and what they want. But please, be honest with your hypnotist, even and especially if the truth is complicated and nuanced.

If I ask you a question, please answer it honestly, as it'll help me do my work inside your mind. If you're not willing to answer, that's fine, say that, but don't lie to me. Similarly, if I ask you if you're feeling that tingling on your neck, and you don't, be honest. This doesn't mean I'm a bad hypnotist, or you're a bad subject, just that a different approach is needed, and knowing how you actually react makes it easier to do my work.

Also, be honest about who you are. You don't have to be society's 'perfect' image of masculinity or femininity to be desirable. People love and play with people from all backgrounds and walks of life, and if you're a 60 year old man who wants to feel like an 18 year old cheerleader, say that, because somebody might be game, and they'll do a better job if they know that's what they're doing. But it's disheartening when the '25/F' you're talking to eagerly sends you pictures of some plasticky influencer as 'selfies she just took', and I'd rather hear "I don't feel comfortable sending pics" than be lied to. It's also really disconcerting when you realize that the person you just took time to talk with was 45 on their blog a few months ago, and suddenly became 20 within a few weeks of posting, because then, who knows how old you really are.

Please note, it's not a good idea to give identifying information to somebody you don't trust very much, so I will never fault somebody for using a fake name or a fake city or withholding information about work and life, but where it's safe, be honest.

2) Stick around until the end

I cannot express how disappointing it is when subjects cum and run. Going from 'Wow, this is going great' to 'Oh, they've stopped responding' is an unpleasant way to pay back somebody who put in actual work to get you there. Men, particularly, seem to do this a lot, and it's so predictable that it makes my bisexual self a bit less likely to play with men. So, even if you happen to finish, stick around, let us bring you back, give us feedback, say thank you, and then roll over and fall asleep.

3) Give good Feedback

For me, one of my favorite parts is hearing about your experience. Not only does it turn me on, but it helps me understand what I did which went well, went poorly, and what blew your mind. So, the very best way you can thank me for a great experience is by telling me, in vivid detail, how you experienced it. What was arousing, what was distracting, what made you drop, and what made you explode. Even if you're exhausted, or have to be up early, or just need to run, take the time later to tell me what happened. So, if you want to do this again sometime, tell me how it was, in vivid, useful, and ideally lewd, detail. If I trance you, and get erotica about it the next day, you're on the top of my list.

4) Referrals

Even if, like me, you don't care for the 'good toys bring more good toys' approach or 'building a harem', for many, it's quite flattering to have somebody in your DMs saying "Oh, my friend said you're incredible to play with, I'd like to play too if you're open." So, if you like to share, you could always ask your hypnotist if they'd like you to do some recruitment. But again, this is not everybody's taste.

5) Sharing parts of yourself

This can mean many things. If you're in the same room as your hypnotist, well, I suspect you both can negotiate ways to share parts of yourself. But online, there are many ways to share yourself. Maybe this is by being open and exposing your mind and your desires and your thoughts. Maybe this is by being open and showing your body, in photos or video, if you're comfortable. Maybe this is by chatting on voice, and letting me hear your moans. Maybe you're even open to chatting on video, and letting me watch you melt. Once you get on video, maybe you want to be comfy, or maybe you want to be porn. And maybe you want to share yourself for just my eyes, or post your exploits for the world. You don't have to share yourself in any of these ways, but it sure is more fun to have a bit more of you, and both audio and video make doing my hypnotic job much, much easier.

Please be conscious about your face or identifying tattoos, as Facial recognition exists. So, even with somebody you trust, a cute mask, a careful camera angle, a bit of blur, or a tightened hoodie are not out of line. There should be no shame in anything between consenting adults, but that doesn't stop people from shaming or threatening, and your hypnotist should understand if an ounce of prevention makes you more comfortable for a pound of trance.

6) Cooperation

This part sort of goes without saying, but we are in it for control, and we want our toys to follow our directions. So, if we ask you not to touch, sit on your hands if you have to. If we ask you to lay down, do so. If we ask you to do 'homework' between sessions, please do your best to do it. Life happens, but 'no lol i didn't practice the mantra just maek me say it now im horny' is not a great feeling. Similarly, if you're asked to listen to a file between sessions, either do so, or explain why you're not comfortable doing it. But just ignoring an order is disrespectful, and if you don't do the work for me, why should I do the work for you?

Yes, we're hypnotists, and if we want to, we can make you obey anyway. Sometimes, that's the fun. And, of course, there's a place for brats and resistance, but unless we negotiate that you want to brat or resist, being a brat is just being unpleasant. That's a game we must both play.

So, even if you want to be forced to obey more later, obeying the little directives is a good way to show respect, it helps me control you better, and it makes it clear that you're such a good little subject, who merits to have their brains thoroughly scrubbed.

Of course, there are other ways, and the best way to find out is to ask. But if you're doing some or all of these things well, there's a good chance you'll be seen as a wonderful, desirable subject.

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I took a good thorough reading through of this and I found myself smiling. Smiling because no matter which of my subjects I look back on, subjects I've seen every weekend for a year already, subjects I have seen only the once, subjects I have seen on and off, they all have done all of this without even asking.

Thank you so much for verbalising the ways I appreciate my subjects, and I am sending good energy your way in the hopes that the negative feelings fall away and you get the respect you deserve. I've been there too, feeling like a kink dispenser, it gets better.

How to be good for your hypnotist

I've had a few experiences lately, as an erotic hypnotist, that left me feeling a bit used and disappointed, and which made me not want to work with that person again.

So, I thought I'd put a little post up describing a few completely non-financial ways that subjects can leave their hypnotists feeling rewarded, and help to ensure that one-off sessions have an optimal chance of being repeated in the future:

1) Honesty

Honesty is hard, I know, and I know that many people come to hypnosis when they're struggling to be honest with themselves about who they are and what they want. But please, be honest with your hypnotist, even and especially if the truth is complicated and nuanced.

If I ask you a question, please answer it honestly, as it'll help me do my work inside your mind. If you're not willing to answer, that's fine, say that, but don't lie to me. Similarly, if I ask you if you're feeling that tingling on your neck, and you don't, be honest. This doesn't mean I'm a bad hypnotist, or you're a bad subject, just that a different approach is needed, and knowing how you actually react makes it easier to do my work.

Also, be honest about who you are. You don't have to be society's 'perfect' image of masculinity or femininity to be desirable. People love and play with people from all backgrounds and walks of life, and if you're a 60 year old man who wants to feel like an 18 year old cheerleader, say that, because somebody might be game, and they'll do a better job if they know that's what they're doing. But it's disheartening when the '25/F' you're talking to eagerly sends you pictures of some plasticky influencer as 'selfies she just took', and I'd rather hear "I don't feel comfortable sending pics" than be lied to. It's also really disconcerting when you realize that the person you just took time to talk with was 45 on their blog a few months ago, and suddenly became 20 within a few weeks of posting, because then, who knows how old you really are.

Please note, it's not a good idea to give identifying information to somebody you don't trust very much, so I will never fault somebody for using a fake name or a fake city or withholding information about work and life, but where it's safe, be honest.

2) Stick around until the end

I cannot express how disappointing it is when subjects cum and run. Going from 'Wow, this is going great' to 'Oh, they've stopped responding' is an unpleasant way to pay back somebody who put in actual work to get you there. Men, particularly, seem to do this a lot, and it's so predictable that it makes my bisexual self a bit less likely to play with men. So, even if you happen to finish, stick around, let us bring you back, give us feedback, say thank you, and then roll over and fall asleep.

3) Give good Feedback

For me, one of my favorite parts is hearing about your experience. Not only does it turn me on, but it helps me understand what I did which went well, went poorly, and what blew your mind. So, the very best way you can thank me for a great experience is by telling me, in vivid detail, how you experienced it. What was arousing, what was distracting, what made you drop, and what made you explode. Even if you're exhausted, or have to be up early, or just need to run, take the time later to tell me what happened. So, if you want to do this again sometime, tell me how it was, in vivid, useful, and ideally lewd, detail. If I trance you, and get erotica about it the next day, you're on the top of my list.

4) Referrals

Even if, like me, you don't care for the 'good toys bring more good toys' approach or 'building a harem', for many, it's quite flattering to have somebody in your DMs saying "Oh, my friend said you're incredible to play with, I'd like to play too if you're open." So, if you like to share, you could always ask your hypnotist if they'd like you to do some recruitment. But again, this is not everybody's taste.

5) Sharing parts of yourself

This can mean many things. If you're in the same room as your hypnotist, well, I suspect you both can negotiate ways to share parts of yourself. But online, there are many ways to share yourself. Maybe this is by being open and exposing your mind and your desires and your thoughts. Maybe this is by being open and showing your body, in photos or video, if you're comfortable. Maybe this is by chatting on voice, and letting me hear your moans. Maybe you're even open to chatting on video, and letting me watch you melt. Once you get on video, maybe you want to be comfy, or maybe you want to be porn. And maybe you want to share yourself for just my eyes, or post your exploits for the world. You don't have to share yourself in any of these ways, but it sure is more fun to have a bit more of you, and both audio and video make doing my hypnotic job much, much easier.

Please be conscious about your face or identifying tattoos, as Facial recognition exists. So, even with somebody you trust, a cute mask, a careful camera angle, a bit of blur, or a tightened hoodie are not out of line. There should be no shame in anything between consenting adults, but that doesn't stop people from shaming or threatening, and your hypnotist should understand if an ounce of prevention makes you more comfortable for a pound of trance.

6) Cooperation

This part sort of goes without saying, but we are in it for control, and we want our toys to follow our directions. So, if we ask you not to touch, sit on your hands if you have to. If we ask you to lay down, do so. If we ask you to do 'homework' between sessions, please do your best to do it. Life happens, but 'no lol i didn't practice the mantra just maek me say it now im horny' is not a great feeling. Similarly, if you're asked to listen to a file between sessions, either do so, or explain why you're not comfortable doing it. But just ignoring an order is disrespectful, and if you don't do the work for me, why should I do the work for you?

Yes, we're hypnotists, and if we want to, we can make you obey anyway. Sometimes, that's the fun. And, of course, there's a place for brats and resistance, but unless we negotiate that you want to brat or resist, being a brat is just being unpleasant. That's a game we must both play.

So, even if you want to be forced to obey more later, obeying the little directives is a good way to show respect, it helps me control you better, and it makes it clear that you're such a good little subject, who merits to have their brains thoroughly scrubbed.

Of course, there are other ways, and the best way to find out is to ask. But if you're doing some or all of these things well, there's a good chance you'll be seen as a wonderful, desirable subject.

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gwen

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Aww you poor thing, let me wrap you in my arms, darling

Reblog if you're fed up of performing this character people have forced you into and just want to be a doll on my lap with no stress or worries

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it's very important that you ensure dolls are given enough tasks and have proper supervision. when left unsupervised or without a witch's guidance dolls have been known to enter "awawa mode". you do not want your dolls to enter "awawa mode".