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How to Master the Art of Seduction

Are you tired of chasing the opposite sex? Do you want to turn the tables and make them look for you instead? With a little practice, it is easy to master the art of seduction. A little self-confidence and playfulness may be all that is needed.

Master

Stop being needed. Necessity and seduction are mutually exclusive. The more desperate you are, the less you will be attracted. The last thing you want to do is make the person feel pressured. If you want to seduce someone who is completely independent, you may also benefit from learning how to tame the free spirit.

At the same time if you feel the neediness coming on, don’t give up. Think of it this way: Your desires will be met at some point down the line, but perhaps not now. Satisfaction must be delayed.

Get the devil’s care when you seduce that special someone. Be a little reckless for a reason: do something a little risky or unexpected to make them guess. Maybe go out on the beach in the middle of the night. Maybe go on an unannounced trip for a few days. Try to cultivate a little mystery.

Relax. The more comfortable you feel, the more comfortable the other person will feel around you, and the more receptive they will be to your affection.

Walk somewhere close instead of driving. Even just 10 minutes of physical activity can reduce stress and help you relax.

Listen to music that has been proven to reduce stress, lower blood pressure, and fight a high heart rate.

Move the golf ball under your desk or workspace. Rub bare feet over it for a simple but effective massage.

Have a nice rest! Sleep deprivation can also mean more stress. People who sleep more usually relax more easily.

Read: How to Become a Goddess? Find Inner Peace and Embrace the Power of Femininity

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Be playful.  Smile. Flirt. Touch. Tease. Don’t be too serious-minded; society enjoys having a good time. Have fun with this person. Enjoy the game.

Surveys have found that a humorous attitude makes people more attractive. Playfulness in males indicates non-aggression, while in females it signifies youth and fertility.

Humor is also another crucial aspect of your personality that plays a role in attractiveness. The study found that women are more likely to give their phone numbers to men who use humor, while men also perceive humor as an attractive trait in women. 

Be able to make fun of yourself. People generally don’t like others who can’t joke or take offense when they say something bad to them. Don’t be that person. Critically criticize. Hey, if you bake it to other people (and you should; playfulness is appealing), you should also take it.

Don’t always be available. People enjoy hanging out with other people who have exciting and interesting things happening in their lives, because they feel happy because of the opportunity for someone like them to share their precious time with them. So what will you achieve if you try to meet with them or talk to them at any time? It is best not to overload the other person with your time and let the relationship develop at a more measured pace.

On some occasions, if a person asks you for an appointment, you do not agree immediately. Say you’ll check your agenda first and then say yes. Even if nothing happens, play cool. That way, your social appearance will improve with a simple trick.

Plus, fill your calendar with real events and real people. There is no real substitute for the right thing. You will actually be happier and feel more fulfilled if you are outside and when you are not sitting at home and touching your thumbs.

Make effective use of body language. Move confidently. Most people are not attracted to flowers, but to people who are confident in themselves. Remember to smile and, if possible, make contact with the body when appropriate and do not impose.

Use body language to flirt. If you are not Shakespearean with words, do not complain. You can send subtle signals to the people you want to attract, depending on the social situation. Don’t be afraid to lightly touch someone’s arm or shoulder while talking to them. Physical contact of men actually increases the temperature of women, sometimes by a whole degree Celsius.

Use eye contact to flirt. Eyes are an incredibly powerful tool, so use them wisely. Lock your eyes when you talk; nothing shouts self-confidence like a good look in someone’s eyes. If you use eye contact to flirt, do not scan the room looking at each person. People want to feel special, so learn to locate several candidates and shower them with attention.

Use suggestive messages. If you send notes, texts, or emails back and forth, learn to communicate calmly, with a little intrigue. Instead of saying “Would you like some coffee later?” try something a little more suggestive: “You have a little craving and they may have something to do with you. I’m in the mood for coffee, are you?”

Seduction

Don’t be a completely open book. Leave some imagination. You don’t have to share everything about yourself with another person: mystery is always attractive. It makes people realize that they don’t know you, and that secrecy will give off a seductive aura.

Resist the urge to tell that person your whole life story, especially your parents. It’s not that parents aren’t great; they just aren’t seductive!

If you are forced to say something about yourself, stick to vague bits, not specific details. You can explain where you came from, how you grew up, and what your plans were for saving the world, but put that in a conversation form instead of a big, long essay.

Be patient. Wait for their desire to catch you desire for them. Believe that it is only a matter of time; they will only need to discover how phenomenal you really are. If you don’t believe that, you can’t seduce anyone. But the fact is that we are naturally attracted to everyone with whom we feel comfortable, they make us laugh and we are a bit out of reach (due to the excitement of the unknown). It is human nature.