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🕊“Every saint has a bee in their halo.”

—Saturn in the Houses & The Sky has no limits 🏛🪐

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Hey guys its Jenx here and I’m back with the Saturn in the houses post just as promised. Enjoy loves,

— Unlike Venus, Saturn is not a soft planet. While Saturn travels at a leisurely pace, Mars travels swiftly. Jupiter is the star’s cheerleader, not Saturn. Schedules, work, and passions are a roadmap that guide you on your path in life for yourself and others. It is plentiful with significance of obtaining: tasks, education, a career, and responsibility. Engagement affects everyone. Saturn talks to you about your errors more than your successes. He is our cosmic alarm. Don’t discuss big stories or scandal with Saturn.  Saturn will not make a commitment until it is kept.Saturn takes business seriously. Saturn is the one we can always rely on. Your growth is related to Saturn. Wisdom is derived from what you’ve seen, done, and experienced. All that Saturn taught you can only help you educate others. Saturn is that soil, from our childhood and youth through our challenges, duties, and accomplishments. Let’s not treat Saturn as a simple keyword. And let’s see Saturn for what he really is. 🤎

Saturn in the first

Natives of Saturn in the First House are mature, fiery, self-starters. They are loyal and trustworthy, and they despise disappointing others. They will have a take-charge, domineering demeanor. They might be outspoken or powerful and silent. They were born to be the boss, no matter how they display it. They are entrepreneurial, but they also value tradition. They mix innovative ideas with tried-and-true methods. As a result, Saturn in the First House has a regular structured routine, which makes Saturn happy, as well as a joyful creative outlet, like as music, to satisfy that First House drive for self-expression. Because musicians must rehearse, the First House is a fantastic venue for them to spend their Saturdays. Saturn understands that practice is necessary for success, and Saturn desires success! In addition, the First House wishes to create an impression in this life. They are not content to play it safe or live their lives on the sidelines. Saturn will therefore be of assistance here, calming any First House impetuosity and adding more than a dash of cautious forethought. SUGGESTIONS Don’t tell them what they should do. They want to find things out for themselves via trial and error. They don’t mind going through this procedure since Saturn in the First House doesn’t have to do it right the first time. They understand that everything worthwhile requires patience, and they are prepared to learn from their failures. Natives of Saturn in the First House are aged before their time. Some of them may even claim to have been born elderly. It’s written all on their faces. They have smart eyes, regardless of whether they sparkle or are sad. They were most likely assigned responsibilities as youngsters that well surpassed what was reasonable. They may have had to parent one or both of their parents or siblings. This is the classic latch-key child, who is not necessarily mistreated or abused but is regarded like an adult, and Saturn in the First House children do their best to rise to the occasion. It is natural for people to accept responsibility for themselves and others, whether or not they are in dissatisfaction. The ideal employment for a Saturn in the First House individual is one in which they can work hard, even incessantly, and exercise control or influence over others, and I mean this in a positive manner. Jobs in which Saturn in the First House can safeguard others are also suggested. Consider police officers, security guards, military professions, a UN peacekeeper, firefighters, and other types of inspectors. Consider any career where you are paid to be serious! For Saturn in the First House, a job as an investigative photojournalist in a warzone presenting harsh news and photographs would be ideal. People with planets in the First House seek an adventurous existence. Saturn in the First House has such a serious side to the personality and attitude on life that it will appear regardless of what else is going on in the chart. Remember that these locals are passionate, thus their careers and lives must reflect this. They can’t just go to work and come home every day. For Saturn in the First House, all work and no recreation is a risk. Saturn in the First House is an adult. They can handle adult responsibilities, but they can also be irritable. There is a tendency to be bossy, dominating, and even nasty at times. They have the potential to be depressing. Many people find them “too serious,” and they have difficulty relaxing and letting their guard down. They get secluded and believe that there are no actual friends in the world. Above all, those with Saturn in the First House are continually working. They never get a day off, so these locals will benefit from friends and loved ones who can help them see the bright side of life and get them away from work for a day (or more!). Go ahead and give it a go!). They will be work-obsessed, authority-obsessed, and may even be an authority figure themselves, and they will be offended if you criticize their tried-and-true life practices. Don’t forget to have fun too okay?

Saturn in the second

Saturn is located in the Second House. The planet Venus and the earth sign Taurus are linked with the Second House. Saturn in the Second House earns their money by hard effort. They put forth a lot of effort to earn every dime. There is no way to sugarcoat the reality. They may be brilliant at their profession and at generating money, but Sat- urn in the Second House does not have an easy time of it. Hard days, long hours, the adage “no free lunch” may apply to this Saturn placement. As a result, the Saturn in the Second House individual must roll up their sleeves, get to work, and accept that this is a life-long condition. It is not a punishment, despite the fact that it may appear to be at times. That said, it’s even more crucial that those born with Saturn in the Second House find a career and a manner to generate money that feels right for them, because they’ll have to labor themselves to the bone anyhow. They might as well take the time and make the effort to locate exactly what they need, both professionally and financially, to be happy. SUGGESTIONS Don’t teach them how to make a living. They must make their own decisions. Keep in mind that Saturn travels slowly. Saturn travels slowly magnified by a hundred in the Second House. Saturn in the Second House should have them finding out their desired vocation by the time they are in high school, ideally sooner. Remember that Saturn influences both our life path and our fate. Saturn in the Second House has a “daily grind” fate and will never be joyful unless this fate is addressed and accepted, and the best vocation for the native is selected! Another example of how Saturn in the Second House may manifest itself. There are people that do not need to work or earn a daily paycheck in order to pay their rent, mortgage, or expenses. They either inherited money, married it, or earned it all themselves and retired. They don’t have to be concerned about money coming in or going out. It isn’t infinite, though it can feel that way at times. The Second House, however, does not only govern earned income; it also governs our sense of self-worth. Saturn in the Second House folks will experience this difficulty, not in terms of money in the bank, but in terms of esteem, and they will have to work endlessly hard to increase theirs, to invest in theirs, to have plenty on hand, plenty to spare, and plenty left over, and it will seem like labor to them. This procedure becomes their responsibility. It may require counseling or any number of cal-listhenic self-development methods. Just as the worker must roll up their sleeves and go to work, so must the one who does not have to worry about making money. The perfect profession for Saturn in the Second House is one you are totally in love with, a vocation you pursue with tenacity and never give up on. Do not squander your time with mediocre jobs, phony passions, or doing what others believe you should do. It will only work in the short term. The Second House is related with the planet Venus, which controls art, beauty, and style, therefore Venus occupations will benefit you and you will benefit them. Finance is also a good choice because the Second House is one of the money houses. Saturn in the Second House might work as an accountant, financial counselor, stockbroker, stage designer, architect, makeup artist, aesthetician, hairdresser, fashion designer, or model. You may be a painter, filmmaker, sculptor, arts administrator, or museum director. If you are an artist, you will not merely scribble away as a pastime; you will have a strategy for your work and will be able to make it a true job. Because the Second House is related with the throat, you might be a vocalist.

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hey, what turn ons or kinks would you apply to certain placements, if it's not too broad of a question? thanks!

hi there:)

first off i would like to say that i love you guys and your questions LMFAOOOO i woke up to this every morning HAHAHAHAH PLSSS i can hear my catholic grandma screaming in the far distance calling out for jesus💀😀

but yes!! i think i have been observing and noticing some repeated patterns so far and i'd love to share this with y'all:

part I

part II can be found here

ANYTHING Leo touches(Sun, Moon, Rising, Venus, Mars heck even Mercury😭), Leo in the 8H, Leo in the 10H, Leo in the 12H: Need to feel appreciated during sex. I have an inside joke with my s/o (also leo venus 1H) about how we should install a mirror on our ceiling LOL but seriously, look at how the others with Leo placements are taking notes rn like write that down write that down💀 In general the sign of Leo is associated with royalty, with extravagance✨, hence there's this distinctive flashy and proud nature to them. But especially in bed, Leo placements needs that validation in general because even the proudest of the pack have their ups and downs too, they need to know they're doing a good job. Lowkey get turned on by looking at themselves during the act though don't yell at me I'm being so serious #selflove guys. Comment on how good they make you feel, praise the new trick they learned recently or simply gives them constant validation (tbh make them earn it, leo venus will fs stay with you if you do this to them LMFAO)

Anything Pisces (But especially Venus, Mars and sometimes Rising), Pisces 8H: before I go into this please be advised that I have a Pisces Moon and the Pisces energy in my life in general recently have been abnormally high so please be mindful that I'm not making this up, consider this as your trigger warning it gets worse. But degrading, S/M, r*pe pLaY, age play are namely some of the stuff Pisces are into. Please don't bring feet into this. I notice that Pisces Sun men in general are very rough?! Especially if they have Venus in Capricorn bro the type that gives you flowers and forehead kisses but whips out a full on collection of toys and chains in the bedroom💀 Pisces men have this sick thing where they can be into prudes though, as in people who are very well mannered yet exude a distinctive sensuality. They like people who only have a soft spot for them ONLY( true for all pisces placement tbh not just men) Women with pisces placements are literally begging for someone to go all 50 shades on them yall its bad😭 They have the biggest hearts I've ever met and will honestly forgive their cheating bf just because he choke them in the bedroom the way they like it LOL i'm just kidding but seriously, I see women with pisces placements(esp venus and sun&8H) would still ask their s/o to continually choke them even though they turned blue and their partners started to sweat profusely already💀 Also why does Pisces women are so into humilation ????? Like my Leo dominant ass will never understand this sksks

Sagittarius anything (Especially Mars, Lilith and 8H): welcome to the mile high club ladies and gentlemen. sexually adventurous people. they're super into kinky stuff like threesome, sharing or even casual sex with a stranger. Sagittarius needs a certain amount of chaos in their life to feel like themselves and once they unlock this side of them we'll have one of the horniest people alive💀 Would be down for whatever tbh but they need someone even more toxic than them or wayyy more modest than them. Sag placements have a soft spot for reserved yet fiery people tbh. When they meet one they're just like, ChAiN me to the bedframe dAdDy I'm all yours (^capricorns, taurus and scorpio there i said it) Anddddd I feel so bad for bringing this up here my blog migh get marked for nsfw help😭 but c*ckolding is often seen with couples that both have a lot of sag or sag in their composite chart. yep. i think the word speaks for itself😤

Scorpio,Taurus, Capricorn 8H, Mars or Venus (I'd say Moon too or even Sun): fml they're crazy yall they just are. Sex with a Capricorn 8H will change your life💛 bruh why are they ✨like that✨ Super duper into gagging a lil too much sometimes but this is apparently some kind of compliments to them?!💀 Scorpio and Taurus placements loooooveeee sensual sex with a lot of impact play LMFAO. also keep this lowkey but why does scorpio placements enjoy masochism so so much?😭😭😭 like why is pain fun for you guys (same goes for pisces lowk) they can honestly do both, either on top or bottom as long as the sex is hella fun and bonding, a true switch. Taurus are amazing at giving head, they like to receive em too their eyecontacts is insane🥰 God bless the taurus-scorpio axis, you guys win.

Cancer&Libra placements (Especially Venus, Moon, Mars,8H): !!!!!pleaser!!!!!, lowkey that have a pregnancy kink (esp Cancer) so down that pill and check that condoms twice gurlies😋 So detached yet sentimental at the same time? Beautiful sex, aesthetically pleasin sex, sweet and very missionary sex LOLOLOLOL DONT COME FOR ME. the ass. aNaL❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Libra Mars Men looooveeeee curves. Both placements are fascinated by curves and people who are traditionally good looking. They like to imagine that they're dating whoever tf they're fucking tbh💀

Here are some of my very vague observations!! I'd love to hear your opinions on this and lemme know if you guys have any other requests:)

love,

saint jenx🪐

[sassynightmaresong]

Intimacy and Sex Astrology Observations 🔞

Warning ⚠️ : Mature topics , NSFW , do not read if you are a minor or uncomfortable with these topics.

🍓 Aquarius placements favorite position is doggy style head down ass up

🍓 Scorpio Venus Men are into Mommies sorry not sorry = the subbiest when in love.

🍓 Men with Leo Mars love boobies and want to C*m on them 🍒

🍓 Sagittarius and Capricorn Sun Men loves Asses and into spanking.🍑

🍓 Virgo placements = Ass fingering = An*l

🍓 Aquarius Venus love it when their thighs and knees being touched.

🍓 Libra/Pisces Mars Ass Patting " Eating "

🍓 Gemini rising love being gagged , love being forced to speak moan to be exact or to be silenced.

🍓 Aquarius Moon want to tie 🤝 Cancer Moon Want to be tied

🍓 Aries Mars , Lilith in the 1st house, Mars in the 1st house, Mars conjunct Lilith, Aries lilith= knife Play

🍓 Taurus Moon (chocke and being chocked) 🤝 Leo Moon (chocke) 🤝 Cancer Moon (being chocked)🤝 Capricorn Moon (chocke)= chocking + breathplay

🍓 Cancer venus Want to get someone knocked up

🍓 Cancer placements are the ones to whore around weirdly into hokups just because they felt something when their eyes catched you.

🍓 Aries Mars can be easily aroused and c*m fast , sorry but it's what it's 🙃 a lot of women and men said that those with Aries mars c*m fast and leave them unsatisfied.

🍓 Taurus Mars on the other side take a lot of time to get aroused and c*m and are so lazy they will count on you to do most of the work.

🍓 Air signs are good Moaners 😂 But also good at faking it 🙃

🍓 Libra Venus/Mars whines a lot during s*x.

🍓 Gemini Venus/Mars wants dirty talk during s*x and if you don't match their energy they won't hesitate leaving you.

🍓 Aquarius Venus/Mars Moans even during small kisses and Amazing at role plays.

🍓 Aquarius/Capricorn : do not f*ck them if you have one sided feelings for them their style is more aloof and detached you'll end up getting hurt.

🍓 We all know that Capricorn placements are strict and want to tame people around them but in bed they want someone experienced they low-key want to be dominated and being told what to do at least one in a while.

🍓 Scorpio and Aries placements are into bruising, biting, giving visible hickeys. Scorpios do it for ownership while Aries do it because they want rough s*x.

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The Gifs are not mine clearly

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🍯💖 Some 18+ NSFW Astro Observations 💖🍯

(Keep in mind these are my own personal observations. Depending on the signs, what houses they’re in, their degrees, etc. this may not be your experience.)

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- Water Moon/Fire Mars people play innocent as a way to try to seduce. The type to wiggle on your lap a little bit or put their hand somewhere on you and play the whole “what did I do?” while batting their eyelashes.

- Venus/Uranus aspects or heavy Capricorn placements in natal chart can show someone who is attracted to people much older or younger. Some might have a mommy/daddy kink.

- Venus/Jupiter aspects in synastry, especially the softer ones, can give intense “I’m going to take care of you.” energy.

- Virgo risings are FREAKS. That’s all imma say.

- Pluto aspects synastry can show a BDSM relationship. However, in order for this to be healthy, both individuals need to be used to Pluto energy. Otherwise things can get dark.

- Scorpio Mars... what’s with y’all and physically ripping people’s clothes off????

- I’ve found Mercury/Mars aspects in natal show a love for oral. In synastry, this can show a lot of oral in the bedroom especially if the orbs are close.

- A lot of people I know with Mercury in their 8H or Mars in 3H love dirty texts and dirty talk.

- People who have a lot of Fixed signs (Scorpio/Taurus/Leo/Aqua) might like tying/handcuffing their partners or being tied/handcuffed.

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mars in the first house: synastry edition

When you drop Mars the planet of action, drive, and passion, into another’s first house, you’re bound to get some interesting and immediate results. The mars person will find the first house person sexy (especially if the mars person is a male) and the house person will be drawn (or possibly repelled) by the confidence and intensity mars brings to the table. The mars person will lift the house person into action and inspire them to get out there and get things done. This is extremely beneficial for someone who has a passive chart or afflicted first house in their natal chart. This can also link to sexual attraction between two people, especially if mars is conjunct the ascendant. The house person identifies on a sexual level with what mars brings to the table, and they may feel more confident to pursue them than they would with other mars overlays. On the downside, the house person may find the Mars person to be “too much” as the qualities of their Mars sign will be right in their face. Mars will be straight to the point, not wasting any time with petty games. The house person may feel that their identity is challenged by the mars person, and could find them to be overly aggressive depending on other chart aspects. Competitiveness and rivalry can also be shown.

note: I am not an astrologer, the above is based on astrology books and a few years of research

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❤️‍🔥Life changing/heartbreak aspects in synastry ❤️‍🔥

[DISCLAIMER: everything I’ve written comes from personal experience and observation. It may not resonate with you and it’s totally fine! 🥰 tysm and stay safe!]

Mars square Venus. ⚡️

I can’t stress this enough, I’ve seen the same patter happen with this aspect over and over again. Usually the Venus person falls in love with the Mars person at first, meanwhile the Mars person is only sexually attracted at the begging. Later on the Venus person moves on and falls out of love (because Mars lacks love towards Venus) and exactly at that time, the Mars person falls in love with Venus, because Mars likes the adrenaline and the chase. Is almost like a chaser-runner type of energy. But at the end the Venus person doesn’t come back and Mars regrets his actions.

Pluto conjunct/square Moon.🕯

Where can I start? In my opinion these aspects are even stronger than Pluto-Venus, but why? Because Venus is the way we love, meanwhile the Moon is who we truly are at the very core. These aspects show a strong soul connection between two people. That’s because, Pluto and the Moon are both spiritual. Having this aspect in synastry is an indicator that both people met to change each other’s lives. Pluto gets to know the Moon person from a deeper perspective, seeing all the fears, sorrow and pain the Moon holds within, meanwhile the Moon person sees and feels how vulnerable and emotional Pluto truly is. They both dive deep into each other and this makes the soul connection even stronger. The down side of these aspects tho, is that once something bad happens in the relationship and both partners have to break it, it is extremely hard to let go. These aspects sometimes even got to the extreme, where one person couldn’t live without the other and committed suicide. This is very rare to happen, but unfortunately it has happened.

Mars conjunct Descendant/ Mars in the 7th house. 🔥

At the begging of the relationship everything is great, the relationship starts off very very very passionate, sexual and full of fun, but over time more and more arguments tend to arise. Relationships with this aspect usually don’t last for the long run, it’s kinda like a “summer love” type of thing. The Mars person leaves a strong impact on the house person, but things fall off eventually. It’s either because the Mars person is not able to fully commit due to his nature, or the house person has trust issues towards the Mars person. Of course the house/sign and aspects tell more, but often the outcome is the same from what I’ve noticed.

Venus-Neptune (any aspect counts but the conjunction/square and opposition are felt more). 🦋💔

Most of the time Soulmates and Twin Flames will have these aspects in their synastry. From personal experience I can say these are some of the most beautiful and sad aspects out there. Sometimes, relationships don’t even start when these aspects come to play, either because both people misunderstand each other’s emotions and true feelings, or because the love/feelings will play out more on the spiritual plane than the physical plane. There will be some type of blockage and confusion (because of Neptune) and this will prevent the relationship to kick off. Could also be because of a 3rd party too. Long story short usually both people will reach unconditional love for each other and spiritual enlightenment of the relationship. But if a relationship does start, it will be kinda like a Romeo and Juliet story.

Venus Square/Oppostion/Conjunction Saturn. 🪐

Karmic relationships or past life relationships will have these aspects 100%. When the aspects are hard (Square/Oppostion/Conjunction) there is some Karma or a lesson that needs to be cleared out. Venus most of the time owns something to Saturn and Saturn has something to teach Venus in regard to love. These relationships don’t last long because of the blockages and cause extremely strong heartbreaks. It is most likely both people did something very wrong and hurtful in a past life and both weren’t able to fix things, so they have to do it in this lifetime, this is why they’re brought together again.

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Moon square Pluto in synastry is what I like to call the "Ron & Sam" aspect. This is an intense and powerful relationship in which a person and their partner feel a strong attraction to each other, one that seems to unconsciously draw them together. Their deep feelings for each other need to be nurtured in a loving manner in order for the union to be long lasting. However, this can be quite difficult for this type of couple to achieve. It's not that they don't love each other, because they do care very deeply. The problem is that at times their intense emotions seem to erupt from nowhere. In fact, the feelings have been simmering under the surface ready to be expressed at any moment. The pressure builds up quickly between these two and before they know it, they are embroiled in an emotional drama. Of course, this can vary, depending on how this pair handles intense feelings. Some individuals thrive on intensity, while others feel threatened and powerless.

The moon person is likely to feel that their life has been transformed in some way by their Plutonian partner. It's possible that the Pluto person has changed the way that the moon person feels about the world, making the moon person conscious of things that have been bubbling under the surface for a long time. Life is not the same for the moon person once they encounter the Pluto person. The moon person may feel powerless, overwhelmed by their Pluto partner's volatile nature. The key is for the moon to be able to see through the explosive behaviour to the true heart of their Pluto partner and to nurture their goodness. As a result, the Pluto partner will deeply appreciate the emotional support offered by the moon person. If this does not occur, then it is likely that Pluto will feel angry about the constant demands being placed on him by the moon. Pluto will start to withdraw and become isolated, only initiating contact in the relationship when they feel at boiling point. The challenge for Pluto is to maintain a loving attitude and to give the moon time to learn their emotional lessons.

This is indeed a passionate personal union and one that needs to be loving, otherwise there is a danger of abuse. This combination can also signify a secret love affair in which intense feelings are indeed in the background. It can also depict an intense working relationship in which power struggles abound, but it is more likely to point to a personal union.

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Mars in the Composite Chart

🤎Mars in Aries🤎

In this relationship you are very attracted to each other, the sexual tension and desire are visible to both you and everyone else. There’s something exciting in their relationship, perhaps it is the teasing that occurs or how you seem to be a challenge to the other. You’re both people with strong temperaments, you know what you want and go after it regardless of the opinions of others. You encourage each other and are proud of each other's achievements. The goal of this couple is to create a space in which the other feels loved and respected in their entirety. Sex is hot, passionate, it leaves you tired and very satisfied. It is the moment in which you fully enjoy each other, it’s usually somewhat noisy and can feel like an intense and once-in-a-lifetime experience regardless of whether it is the first time or not. When there are arguments, both are very clear with what they think and feel, they can say things very frankly, which can sometimes hurt.

🤎Mars in Taurus🤎

You both can feel really comfortable with each other, physical contact is very important for both of you and you can be constantly in it. Hugs, caresses and kisses are abundant and very constant. This couple always encourages each other to get the things they want, if one of the parties does not feel enough confidence, the other will sweetly tell them all the positive points they have and will make them see that they are really capable of achieving what they set out to do. Both have the goal of a long-term relationship that is stable and comfortable for both of them. Sex can be slow, accompanied by caresses in the right places, a trail of kisses across the back and constant attentions. Romantic sex that makes you feel like you found the right person, the feeling of pleasure in every sense and wanting the moment to last a lifetime. When arguments arise, both can be very patient with the other and listen carefully, if there are many tense aspects there may be passive-aggressive comments.

🤎Mars in Gemini🤎

Both awaken each other's curiosity quickly, the charm that captured you in the other is that duality that both have, you see yourselves reflected in the other. The intelligence, cunning and way of thinking of the other fascinates you because of how complex you perceive it. The main goal of both in the relationship is to learn a lot from and with each other and let each other know that you can talk about anything with the other. You love to learn from each other, especially in the sexual field, you are experimental, you like a lot to talk about sex and express those things you want to do to the other or with the other. You are very open with the subject. You hate the boring type of sex, so you will always come up with things to spice things up with. Neither has a defined role, both can be switches and enjoy their partner in many different ways. You can have fun arguing/debating, but if the situation becomes serious, you will say everything you feel you have to say and listen to the other.

🤎Mars in Cancer🤎

You two may feel that the other awakened a protective, loving and attentive instinct in the other, even a bit emotional. This couple may feel a strong emotional connection and a desire to become closer. You both want to know what the other needs to give you absolutely everything, you love that the other is satisfied. You love satisfying the physical and emotional needs of your partner and the emotional connection is so strong that it makes sex something comforting and wonderful. Physical contact is crucial, you can be hugging or together most of the time. Something happens with you and it is that the love you feel for each other can easily motivate you to do things or achieve personal goals, love becomes your main driving force. When there are arguments, this couple can be incredible at listening to the other and looking for solutions and ways to comfort the other. If it makes lots of tense aspects, one of you [or both] may keep what you feel thinking that you don’t want to cause problems.

🤎Mars in Leo🤎

The passion is very strong between you, the fascination you feel for each other is as obvious as the fun you have together. You love to make each other feel desired and admired and you are only capable of feeling weak with each other. Nervousness that makes your legs weak, product of the deep stare and charming smile of the other. Sex is a show, exciting from start to finish, a dangerously addictive mix of fire and romance. This couple aims to have a long-lasting relationship in which they continue to fuel that spark. You awaken each other's joy almost immediately and can feel a boost of energy from being together. When arguments arise, you will want to make it very clear what is bothering you and what you would like to do about it. You say what you need easily. If Mars is making lots of tense aspects, the fact that both are very dominant can prolong the discussions, and if you don’t put your ego aside, it’s likely to expand the issue. 

🤎Mars in Virgo🤎

Both parties are very helpful to each other, you seek to help each other when things go wrong or difficult and may want to help the other de-stress in very effective ways. Slow massages, exclusive attention for each other and a desire to please every fantasy you learned the other had. You are very dedicated to the relationship and put a lot of attention into improving its quality to make it a place of tranquility and peace for the other. This couple seeks to have a beautiful relationship with the other, whom they consider the right partner. It is possible that both of them thought a lot before making a move with the other. They motivate each other to be the best versions of themselves, they will bring out the best in each other. If arguments arise, they may need a moment alone and then come back calm and probably with some solution. In case Mars is making tense aspects, they may argue over small things.

🤎Mars in Libra🤎

Both want the relationship to be harmonious and romantic. They have the ability to find a common ground, since for them equality is crucial in the relationship. You two are sensual, flirtatious and seductive with each other, they know how to excite the other and capture all their attention. Masters of flirty speech, you will enjoy making each other nervous and making sex not only a pleasurable experience, but also a beautiful and truly sexy one. They may think about marriage or formalize the relationship from the beginning of the relationship. When conflicts arise, both can be assertive and patient with the other, however, when this Mars makes very tense aspects there may be a tendency to avoid conflicts or keep opinions or feelings to themselves for fear of making the relationship imperfect. They seek to constantly reaffirm to their partner how important they are in their life and how much they value their presence, their efforts, and the love they give back.

🤎Mars in Scorpio🤎

You may feel strangely fascinated by each other, there will be something that will make you look at each other more than once the first time you meet. The attraction is undeniable, as is the sexual compatibility, which is quite high. Being with each other sexually will make you feel lost in them and found by them at the same time, you will feel seen, desired but at the same time you will feel so vulnerable only that this time you will feel good after having been. This couple seeks to connect deeply with the other and know each other's core. They motivate the other on a subconscious level, they can feel more powerful and capable after having entered this relationship. The relationship has a very strong emotional charge and can transform them quite a bit. In the event that discussions arise, the ideal is for them to be transparent and not hide anything from the other, as they will know how to identify lies or omitted information.

🤎Mars in Sagittarius🤎

The moment they become a couple, both can have a more hopeful vision of the future, they feel more happy and motivated. They both hope to be able to grow together and experience the good and joyful side of love. High sex drive, they make sex fun while at the same time feeling that it takes on a deeper meaning. Will love the idea of ​​teaching each other new things in the sexual field and will be very receptive to them. This couple is very open about the differences that may exist between them, they love the idea of ​​knowing all the things that are going through each other's heads. They love to experience things together and can have experiences they never thought they would ever experience. They help each other see things in a different way and dare to feel and try new things. In discussions, both will have their point of view very clear and will try to understand their partner's, they will not want it to escalate and they won’t take the difficulties that arise very seriously.

🤎Mars in Capricorn🤎

At the beginning of the relationship, both tried to maintain control of the desire they felt when their eyes met. You pretend to have a lot under control but when you two are alone, the only word there is, is lack of control. You get lost with the other and feel an intensity that they did not think the other had. One of you is likely to be more composed and dominant. There’s a huge amount of compromise in this relationship, even in the early stages. The goal of this couple is to be together in the long term, being with each other makes them think about the future. This couple stands out for their ambition, both parties are independent and feel good about themselves, but they love the idea of ​​seeing the other by their side in the future. When there are arguments, you try to keep a cool head and be as assertive as possible. If there are many tense aspects you may do the silent treatment.

🤎Mars in Aquarius🤎

You feel really good with each other, with the trust to bring out that freaky side. You show your true selves and both feel a lot of freedom in the relationship. Sex is a unique and incredible experience, the atmosphere is so open that both act uninhibitedly with each other, you lose coyness and do what you want with each other in bed. You are open to trying things together, fulfilling each other's fantasies. As far as goals are concerned, you think about things to do together in the future and ways to be happy with each other. This couple has the distinction of being best friends and a couple at the same time. You are motivated to make your aspirations and desires a reality when the other is around. When differences arise, you do not let it weaken the relationship and are able to understand your partner's point, share your own, and be open to whatever solution they both come to. It is likely that one of you is more carefree and goes more with the flow.

🤎Mars in Pisces🤎

There was something on a subconscious level that attracted them intensely to the other, it is classic that both thought that the other had "that something" that attracted them like a magnet. This couple dislikes arguing, so they will always listen to what the other says, validating what they feel and opening their heart. However, if this Mars makes many tense aspects, this couple may escape from the discussions. You both support each other unconditionally and love talking about their dreams with each other, as they always feel supported and listened to. The goal of this couple is to be a safe space for each other in which they are treated with affection after a difficult day. Sex can be a magical experience, in which pleasure is shared and equally important, both desire each other from tenderness and romance. You may feel something unique on a sexual level and you may feel very full spiritually and emotionally. You twoo feel “in your own bubble” at times.

🖤Mars in 1st house🖤

The physical attraction is immediate, they will draw a lot of attention from the other and they will make a first step quickly. They motivate others to have a better self-concept and to work on themselves. This relationship is very dynamic and helps you a lot with self-discovery, since you can see behaviors of yourselves in others. There are many similarities in both goals and temperaments, which will make them understand each other quickly. With this relationship they can learn to reaffirm themselves, set boundaries and love each other more. There is a lot of sexual chemistry between them and they may feel more energized and/or motivated with each other.

🖤Mars in 2nd house🖤

Physical contact is of utmost importance for both of you, you may want to be close constantly. They can give many gifts to each other spontaneously and have details regardless of whether something is celebrated or not. You may be surprised at how quickly you felt like you wanted to become intimate with each other. There is a lot of sensuality and they focus a lot on making their partner feel pleasure. This couple is motivated to create stability and security for both of them. They can help each other boost their self-esteem, as they will actively value all the good things they perceive about their partner.

🖤Mars in 3rd house🖤

They both help each other give focus and make their ideas a reality. They activate each other's minds and challenge them intellectually, they find themselves fascinating and amazed by each other's minds and interests. They are very experimental in sex and want to know everything about their partner in this sense. They may find fun in debates or in realizing they have different ideas. You two help each other to be clear in mind about what they really want and are passionate about. There may be lots of flirting, compliments and verbal affirmation.

🖤Mars in 4th house🖤

Their emotional world will be moved by the other, they will feel a spark inside them in the presence of the other and a desire will be born to protect and have the other by their side. They bring out the protective and emotional side of the other, they motivate the other to express their emotions and show their most sensitive side. They seek to emotionally fill their partner in sex and make them feel as much love as you feel. They solve problems privately and will never speak ill of their partner to others. They may want to settle down from the early stages of the relationship.

🖤Mars in 5th house🖤

Fun is guaranteed, their relationship is full of various and interesting activities, a playful and pleasant atmosphere in which they feel happy. They may compete for fun, jokes abound, and affection is expressed effusively. They get excited at the simple idea of ​​seeing or being near that person. It is likely that you share hobbies and motivate each other to follow what your heart tells you. They can feel bursts of energy when they are with each other. When they go on dates, they would like the idea of ​​conquering the other as if it were the first time. They will look for activities to do together to make each other happy. Sex is very important to you, and you may need it constantly. May exist this chase and be chased dynamic.

🖤Mars in 6th house🖤

The work and effort put into the relationship is equitable, they are fair with each other and always help each other to not feel so much stress. They add spice and excitement to each other's lives, they do many things together that push them out of the routine they may find themselves in. Strong sense of duty as a couple and the commitment with which they see the relationship is high. It is crucial for both of you to maintain and create many pleasant experiences, as you will avoid falling into monotony. Sex should be constant for this couple and can even be a comforting solution for a tense or difficult day.

🖤Mars in 7th house🖤

Both of you may feel like you have found the person you want to be with long-term or marry in the case of some, others may feel like you are even jumping at such a statement. In this relationship they feel like one and seek to continue growing and improving as a couple. When problems arise, they quickly propose solutions, they know they can really speak and be heard by their partner. In sexual terms, one may be more active or dominant than the other. Even so, both will prioritize the love and pleasure of the other.

🖤Mars in 8th house🖤

You two are enchanted by each other on such deep levels that it is difficult to express, the sex is intense, you have never felt anything even remotely close to this. Both parties give their all in the relationship, they give their body, their soul and their heart to the other. They feel that they can fully enjoy sex when it comes to each other, they want to feel close, be with each other and merge on all levels. They make their partner discover sides and things about themselves that they didn't feel they knew. Sex is very important to this couple, but it's more than just sex, it's the connection that makes it feel so necessary.

🖤Mars in 9th house🖤

They will have a more positive vision of life and what they can expect from it. Having each other will make you grow a lot as people. You will be motivated to express yourself, your beliefs and thoughts more authentically. They will help the other person have more confidence in being themselves and accepting their differences with pride. This couple will seek to have interesting and new experiences together, they can travel a lot or try things they always wanted to try. 

🖤Mars in 10th house🖤

They can feel that they can both do great things together, they feel capable and confident that they can make their goals a reality. This relationship will give you a sense of stability and a desire for both of you to grow in every way. They are a powerful couple, many people can admire them for their capabilities and this unstoppable team that they appear to be. There is a lot of magnetism and sexual attraction between you and people are able to notice it, perhaps before you noticed it. They are motivated to take risks and dare to go after what they truly want.

🖤Mars in 11th house🖤

They always surprise each other by the ideas they have and the spontaneity of their actions. They dream big and take each other's dreams as their own to support them. They will seek to become close to people that the other considers friends and may have quite a few acquaintances after entering the relationship. Both motivate each other to grow together on all levels and give each other the necessary space. This couple may have started with a friendship. In sex they are open-minded and share their most personal fantasies and desires without any inhibition. They will take the other's opinion into consideration.

🖤Mars in 12th house🖤

You may feel nervous around the other, even a little shy, but once you get to know each other better, you can see that the other is much more similar to you than you initially thought. Sex can be a very emotionally intense experience and you may feel a connection that is difficult to explain. There will be something that attracts you to each other, a feeling of wanting to be close from the beginning is likely. When differences arise, it is crucial that this couple be open with what they feel to avoid misunderstandings.

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Synastry observations based on (personal) experience, part 5:

I’m back!!!! After months lmao

Moon opposite mars: a big ‘want’. Moon opposite mars is a story. It’s every romance movie/ romcom aspect, and i’ll tell you why. These people see in each other the potential of moon conjunct mars fullfillment that’s actually (way, but opinions differ ofc) better than the conjunction. That’s because in the opposition, each has something the other lacks. This can create for both people the ultimate romantic fullfilment when brought together by effort and acceptance of each other, and this promise is very hard to let go of. Typically, these are couples that fight a lot but find it very hard to let each other go once they know what they can have with each other, because it really is the best. Just think about it, even the thought of people putting conscious effort to be sweeter to one another is precious. That only creates a bond that’s very raw and very real (quoting jewelastrology here). Then combine that with the power of the mars and the moon and the friction of the opposition, keeping things interesting and keeping both parties learning more. You shouldn’t romanticise struggle in a relationship. Too much ‘work’ can just mean you aren’t compatible. THIS aspect is an exception. Just watch out for possible aggression. That’s never okay. One day I’ll make a seperate post about the amount of moon opposite mars couples in literature. The best I can think of now is Pride and Prejudice, with Mr Darcy being mars and Elizabeth Bennet being moon.

Venus twelfth house overlay: sorry y’all, in my personal experience, it’s true what they say. The twelfth house person has a hard time feeling this overlay on their side, or on a very subconscious level. I was the 12th house person. On one hand, I really ‘got it’ so to say but on the other hand, I don’t have a shitty clue of how he picked up on this ‘thing between us’ he thought or picked up on we had. That’s actually the big thing about this overlay. Don’t lose all hope, but you’ll have one person going “you knoww like there’s this thing between us...” and the 12th house person will be going: “what thing?” 😂 this can actually be nice because the 12th house person will get in touch with that subconscious twelfth housey part of themselves IF there are other nicely supporting aspects. Like the venus person’s venus to other stuff. They say a true connection is always mutual. I want to say to you all that don’t be surprised when a 12th house person in such an overlay is not ‘feeling’ this mutually. I literally wrote in my diary: “i might actually like him when it’s too late. Or just never lol i do not know.”

Update: I wrote this observation months ago in like april. It is now october and I’m starting to gain interest in him, albeit slowly and subconsciously, but, yeah 🤦‍♀️😂 i came back to this draft being like “WHATT?? Astrology had predicted this TOO for me???”

Moon trine pluto: you know when the fighting super intense troubled couple FINALLY gets together in this really intense and satisfying time when things are finally going the way they’re planned? Like an end all all good? That is this overlay, but constantly. On the outside, it’s the annoyingly passionate/emotional couple in a series that you don’t get because you haven’t seen them do any work to deserve this kind of intense fan-service scene. It’s because it lacked that kind of character development? It was me watching avengers infinity war with vision and wanda. I didn’t like the couple because i didn’t get it. I didn’t know their history i thought it was just some random very bland peaceful couple being very dramatic about each other all the time. Another example (i’m not shitting on this aspect i swear 😂) when a cartoon shows an example of a ‘romantic movie scene’ where the couple says “i loove you!!” And the other goes “oh bill!!” You don’t swoon because you’re like… okay. You get the oogies/ick because it’s like ‘ew that’s a couple’ anyways what I’m trying to say is that moon and pluto are not typical besties they’re supposed to be two problems kind of, they’re two very intense and bare planets, so harmonious flowing energy between them will feel kind of unsettling? Even. So these people will be kind of ‘gross’ with each other but in a soothing way. It’s how you imagine such a trine to be, but it plays out exactly like this irl too lmao! It feels bland on the outside because it’s always going well. And on the inside it plays in the background, because issues bring moon and pluto stuff to the foreground as a ‘theme’ in the relationship. So this aspect is also is the simple idea-of-a-passionate relationship. It’s the groaning “I’ll never let you go!!” Which doesn’t hit the same way for some people because there isn’t any drama or shit that happened before to deserve this pay off. However, some people loooove this aspect and by that I mean people in real life who like to have a secure and deep relationship where two hidden parts of people correspond and love each other well. This aspect is reaallly hard to let go of lol.

Sun conjunct mars: I call this the ‘spicy friends’ aspect. This is the aspect of two people who get into shenanigans together. I also see this aspect a lot with romantic couples who got together young, because it makes for boy-girl relations where the boy actually gets motivated by the person the girl is and the girl feels understood on the same level by the boy. They don’t get bored and so these people will forever get on or be aggravated by each other. It’s because these are two extremely conscious ‘in the moment’ planets so they easily fire off each other and it doesn’t take a lot of energy to have that interaction. No in between. It creates a certain ‘click’ that really motivates both for each other. Not in a deep/karmic way, but in a way that their behaviour connects easily and the energy gets going. It’s really easy to have good sex and interesting energy with this aspect so it’s a really potent aspect to get people together! Also fast, because conscious behaviour is accelerated by each other. I’m thinking dopamine..

Sun conjunct venus: unlike mars, venus is a cold planet, which is totally okay in a synastry, only the interaction plays out a little different. Sun and venus don’t fire off each other. Their influence on each other is more passive and more ‘internal’. The sun, how basic it may sound, warms venus or even makes them burn. Venus gives the sun person chills. The venus person is responsible for the harmony and awesome functionality that this aspect brings. They will take a step back to fully adore and admire sun from afar sometimes. The sun will run to venus basically when it feels it needs love and beauty and also a kind of sensibility that the sun person misses, like a puzzle piece, and the venus person is Thee person who brings that in their life. Vice versa is the sun person someone who personally signifies beauty and love in the eyes of venus, while it brings the heat that the venus craves. So they become passionate and adoring about who each other is. So venus typically loves every little thing the sun person does and the sun person is just taken by the venus person every single day. Think Oliver (venus) and Loretta (sun) from Only Murders In The Building. This aspect makes for real contentment in a relationship because of the strong loving connection that it brings.

Mars in twelfth house synastry or composite: with this placement, you’re not even sure if the person is actually even attracted to you and if you’re making it all up in your head. This is also typically seen as a ‘synastry/composite of secrets’ which I wasn’t so sure about at the time I experienced this one myself, but now I realise, hey, that man actually had a girlfriend while he was giving me ‘special attention’ while holding back, with me being like ‘what could he mean what could he MEAN’ typical mars in twelfth scenario. One guy I had this with in composite was basically lying to me about his sex life and not having cheated on his previous girlfriend… and guess what… I had lied about my sexual history too 😭 I even thought to myself ‘why the f*ck did I lie that elaborately??? I didn’t even have to??’ But whatever, it’s the way of the worlds apparently 😂 but you see how this immediately creates distrust when it is not actually what we mean to do or coming from a place of disrespect. Oh and this aspect in composite also created months of us being like ‘🧍🏻‍♀️….🧍🏻‍♂️’ not normal sexual tension, but sexual tension we weren’t sure should be concreticised out loud or in action. We’d only kissed once Monthsss before which is basically nothing in western european student culture. It was like: “does this person know I’m still, in this moment, attracted to/like him/her? Am I making this all up in my head?”

Moon in the 8th house: a lot has been said about this aspect. Just a few things: intensity, yes. Either one will always be a significant person for the rest the person’s lives. It’s not nothing. It’s the basis of real all consuming love that’s a very rare and unique mix between total safety and total rush-like danger, which makes people think it’s a soulmate aspect. It’s actually not, imo, it’s a deeply (deeeeply) karmic aspect. It’s funny to see all the friends with benefits who have this aspect start out as “lol we don’t want a relationship” to “……. Lol nevermind” and end up together. They go back to each other because they’re simply too significant to each other. Fear of being vulnurable is also big on both so they either take that step or they’re just standing there forever. Mutual aspect, but it’s mutual in different ways. Truthfully, I don’t see this aspect so often in relationship charts. I see it with people who are in love with each other and aren’t together, or people who started out casual but still for some reason can’t let each other go after more than a year, or people who have had the roughest most obsessive breakup in history and ask me for advice. Often, people in relationships who have this aspect don’t come to astrologers for advice. They’re too ‘into’ one another to do that, I feel like.

Venus trine moon: cute cute cUTE because the venus loves reassuring the moon person with affection, which makes the moon person feel so safe and endorphined and warm. The moon person simply inspires that in venus! Great for a chart with more difficult aspects !

Moon conjunct jupiter: so if a guy is jupiter and the moon is a woman and they’re married, the woman doesn’t need to worry about jupiter feeling turned off from the relationship by her pregnancy. Moon is the feminine, the nurturer, the mother, jupiter adores and respects her. Jupiter inspires respect, optimism, friendships and all things serotonin. Jupiter will make the moon feel good. The kind of union where the guy will constantly declare how much he lovees her pregnancy glow ✨ the same goes ofc for lesbian relationships but since this is a cultural phenomenon i thought i might touch on it.

Moon opposite jupiter: i feel like this might be the opposite story :/ the girls motherhood and need for support and needs in general will just be the opposite to what the jupiter person finds ‘fun’ and joyful, BUT if they’ve made it this far in the relationship as to have a child together it should be okay. At least the cause of the behaviour would moreso be astrology, not misogyny.

Moon square jupiter: wife jokes, but the ones that are cute and funny.

Moon in third:

Being someone with a moon in third house be like: wow imagine going through something hard and not type 10k words in your notes app about it.

Having your moon overlay in someone’s third house be like: wow imagine going through something and not telling that person 10k words about it

Also: jupiter has such an underrated influence on us in astrology!! Jupiter radiates the most energy out of all the planets in our solar system and may be way more personal and influential than we think in astrology… And in synastry also it’s the MOON

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Synastry Observations V

🤎Moon-Neptune conjunction is somewhat complex, and not because it only represents negative things, but because of the various nuances of the relationship. In some cases, this aspect makes both of them not see things clearly, and even idealize the other a lot. However, it also gives a very devoted quality to the relationship, both may be more than willing to give everything for the other, they may be fascinated by the level of sweetness or care they feel when being with the other, a utopian feeling of finally being together. at home, and it is precisely this feeling that makes being with the other so addictive, that they feel so good and just want to stay by each other's side. A lot of people seem to put too much emphasis on obsession when it comes to Pluto-Venus/Moon conjunction, but there is something about the Moon-Neptune conjunction that makes it addictive to being with the other, especially to the Neptune person.

🤎Something really beautiful that you can have with someone is Venus-North Node conjunction regardless of the nature of the relationship. If you are the Venus person, you will find yourself being kind, sweet and affectionate with them even without wanting it, you will show your best face before them and you will want to spend time since you genuinely enjoy their company. In case you are the North Node person, you will be fascinated by the presence and personality of the other, you will think that he is one of the most attractive people you have ever met and you will instinctively see yourself wanting to be the best version of yourself.

🤎Mercury-Jupiter conjunction is something really positive, since it gives both of them a lot of affinity intellectually and in matters of their personality. Both may notice that they are more playful with each other and are fascinated by the other person's sense of humor and intelligence. They can learn to be more positive after spending more time with each other. Mercury person learns a lot from Jupiter person, both new perspectives and seeing life with better eyes, others may notice that they are more positive por happy since the Jupiter person arrived into their lives. While Jupiter person feels that they have finally met a person with whom they are able to talk without getting bored, with whom they can share their deepest side without fear of being judged.

🤎Juno-Sun conjunction in the synastry can be a very beautiful aspect, as it gives both of you not only a quick and genuine interest in each other, but also a sense of trust and a desire for commitment. Juno Person sees Sun person as a person with whom they see themselves committing, as someone suitable to formalize the relationship. While Sun person sees in Juno person someone who knows how to commit in any of her relationships, she gives him the feeling that she will always be there for them and will never let them down. What they both take for granted is the other's loyalty, and they can form a bond much more quickly than usual.

🤎Venus square Venus in a relationship indicates that both people may have very different ways of showing affection, they may have very different tastes (music, lifestyles, slightly trivial things), but despite being very different they find each other quite attractive, there may be This feeling of fascination that makes you think "Why do I like them so much?". Personally I do not think it is a very difficult aspect to handle, since the energies of Venus are passive and very easy to cope with, this aspect does not take away the attraction but it can give many small differences. Both of them may not be what they usually notice or are attracted to, but they can't help but be charmed by the other.

🤎Mercury-Moon harmonious aspects create this feeling of familiarity even at the first talk. Both people are very attentive and listen to the other. They will always make sure to be there to provide advice and support, both emotional and practical. It can become a daily thing to communicate with this person regardless of whether you are a person who forgets to answer messages or not. Conversing with each other will feel like being at home, and if it's conjunction or trine they can be the first person they feel like they've been able to open up to [especially the Moon person].

🤎When your Jupiter is conjunct the other's North Node you are bound to bring a lot of joy, learning and fun into your life. Both will feel that the connection was meant to be and they give each other a stable partner, with whom they can talk about life in depth. You give the North Node person the feeling that if there is a beautiful side to life, there are good, positive, friendly people. You can help them a lot to change their ideals and perspectives, and they will always take into account what you have to say, your opinion and attitude towards what they plan to do or what they think is something that matters a lot to them.

🤎Do you want to know what aspects make a couple not forget each other even with the passage of time? Check out the Moon. Again, many people seem to have this strange obsession with Pluto in synastry, but they forget that the Moon is your soft spot, it is related to memory, to what touches your heart. So aspects with the Moon, especially conjunctions, play a very important role. The aspects of the Moon are the classic ones that cause the person to come to mind and smile like a fool. It is one of the most subtly intense expressions of love, blinded by constant and somewhat cheesy displays of affection.

🤎When your North Node falls in the other's 2nd, 4th or 7th house that person will know and want you to stay in their life for a long time. This overlay is something common both in friendships and long, lasting relationships full of stability and support. You can be of great help to the person and you can make them believe that lasting and healthy relationships exist. Your company can have something very relaxing in them, and you can give them a lot of trust very quickly.

🤎The following aspects can show “love at first sight” or instant attraction: Venus conjunct or opposite Mars. Venus conjunct Rising. Venus conjunct MC. North Node conjunct Venus. Ruler of the 5th house conjunct the other person’s Venus or Mars. Mars conjunct Jupiter. Sun conjunct Venus. Venus conjunct Venus. Pluto conjunct the 1st house ruler. 

🤎When your Sun falls into someone's 10th house you become a role for them. There is something in you that they deeply admire to the point of wanting to be the best version of themselves to match you. You inspire them a lot of trust especially to start some kind of serious relationship, they feel that you will take them seriously but that in return you expect them to take you with the same seriousness. They may think that you are older than them, whether in age, maturity or capabilities, they can put you on a pedestal.

🤎Your Jupiter, Sun or Moon falling in the other person's 9th house means you make them feel luckier. They feel lucky to have you in their life and without a doubt, beyond being a source of happiness for them, you are also a source of inspiration and learning. They can feel very happy with your presence in their lives and you will see how little by little they include you in their plans. You can be a great travel companion for them, they may even feel that they want to take you everywhere they go. There is something in you that has a teacher function, you seem to open their horizons and show them a side of life that they did not know.

🤎Many people get excited when they find out that their partner has the same placement as them, but they quickly get disappointed when they find out that their planets are not conjuncted. If you want my opinion, you should not be so disappointed, since the nature of the planet is the same, that is, it is in the same sign. So it can cause them to feel many similarities with the other, facilitating connection and understanding.

🤎The house it lands on and the aspects the Ruler of the other person's 8th house makes will tell you how you perceive their jealousy. The same if you check yours at your partner's house. If the ruler of your partner’s 8th house makes positive aspects with your Venus, Jupiter, Saturn or Mercury you will feel that it is easy to solve the issues that may arise as a result of these, they may have enough emotional intelligence to face them, the same if the ruler falls in the 3rd, 7th or 11th house.

🤎Moon-Moon square can be something very extreme, since it can create a love-hate relationship or a very pure love regardless of the differences. Both have different needs, but the maturity and way in which each of the parties resolves the tense aspects of their natal chart are key so that this is not a problem. They may have very different lifestyles as well and may find the other's way of expressing their emotions strange, but somewhat appealing at best. [I've noticed there's always one Moon we square that we get along with really well and one that things just don't work out with, let me know if this applies to you.]

🤎North Node conjunct Moon is a really beautiful aspect. North Node person can find the Moon person as very cute, tender, lovable and someone to protect no matter what, no matter how badass, independent or even sassy the Moon person may be, they will see ways to keep them safe and take care of them. Moon person for their part will be fascinated by the feeling of home that North Node person provides, and like them, they will be very protective and attentive, but in a slightly more subtle way. Both will be very attached to each other and will want their well-being.

🤎Rising squaring rising has a rather curious effect on both people. Although both may seem different, the other always shows traits that one would like to have or that one represses or does not express as much. This is because it is usually the sign found in the 4th or 10th house. You may both feel like you have a similar outlook on life, just with a different focus, priorities, and personalities. This square can be solved with a lot of patience and understanding. In addition, it is not all bad, especially for the person whose 4th house sign matches with the sign of the other person’s Rising, since they will see it as someone very special that reaches the depths of their heart.

🤎When the ruler of your partner's 8th house is making an opposition or square to your Venus or the ruler of your 1st house, they can be very jealous and very protective too, but in a subtle way. It seems that you can feel the intensity of their gaze on you, they do not make dramas, they do not yell at you, but you feel that they are truly aware of you. These people will not hesitate to jump and attack if they see that you are in danger or if someone is hurting you.

🤎Your Mars falling in their 8th house makes them see you as a very attractive, desirable and alluring. You can seem very attractive to them when you get upset, when you have a goal in mind, when you go after what you want. They perceive you as a very sexual person, someone with whom sex can be something wonderful and full of unimaginable nuances. You can turn on them easily and they may find whatever you do fascinating.

🤎When the Venus of someone falls in your 12th house it is very likely that you do not notice their interest, or you feel that they are somewhat distant. The reality is that these people may even seem shy when it comes to showing their emotions, but if it is your partner who has this, you will mean a lot in their life, they will love everything about you. This overlay shows us a very deep relationship, very significant, even for you. Although you do not see that they are very demonstrative, you will know that they love you over time, they will show it to you with actions that, although small, will mean a lot to you.

🤎North Node-Saturn conjunction may sound like something tense, but the cases that I have seen have been more than positive, very interesting. Saturn person brings stability, reliability and lots of support to the life of the other person, it seems that they can finally straighten their path, besides that I finally feel what it is like to have a person attentive to them and their progress and growth as a person. North Node person makes them feel that they are someone who will stay in their lives for a long time, someone stable whom they can count on and trust.

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Moon trine moon; You have an easy flow of companionship and harmony, a desire to nurture and support each other, and an intuitive sensitivity to each other’s emotional and romantic needs. This is an excellent indicator for a secure long term relationship or a happy marriage.

Moon opposite Venus; What you feel that you need from your partner in a loving romantic relationship seems to be contrary to what or how your partner is inclined to think he/she should give it. If your partner’s Moon is in opposition to your Venus, the love you feel and the ways you express it do not seem to match your partner’s expectations. You both are drawn together by a need to experience each others version of love, romance and domestic partnership, and to grow by incorporating balance, harmony and cooperation into your relationship. You are both right.

Mars opposite Neptune; You and your romantic partner have opposite approaches to self-expression, sexuality, willingness to take risks and accept challenges. You may develop an indirect or somewhat covert approach to assert personal desires and overcome your romantic partner’s objections, which will considerably impair your effectiveness and create anger, mistrust, and confusion. If your partner’s Mars is in opposition to your Neptune, you are likely to argue about the differences between what you want and what your partner thinks you should want from your relationship.

Mars opposite Uranus; Change and unpredictability are your calling card, danger’s the name and innovation’s the game. Your sexual life and romantic relationship is subject to sudden bursts of energy, uncontrollable impulses, daring even risky physical activities, as you urge each other on to see who can be the most original, the most nonconforming. If your romantic partner’s Mars is in opposition to your Uranus, you are in for one wild ride, but take some care - you both tend to be accident-prone.

Mars conjunction Mars; Your levels of action, desire, and sexuality are compatibly matched in what should prove to be a very lively relationship. Both you and you partner are assertive and willing to go after what you want. Your competitive natures and desire for self expression are focused on mutual interests and goals.

Mars trine Pluto; There is nothing to hold you back from extremes. Sexual energies between you and your romantic partner are very intense, very absorbing. Whatever you two do, you do with everything you’ve got. You both have the individual assertiveness, desire, willingness to be inspired by challenges and overcome opposition, you could accomplish even more together. If your romantic partner’s Mars is trine your Pluto, you naturally have a source of regenerative energies which create and sustain a intensely possessive sexual union. Power plays come easily and both of you enjoy driving.

Mars trine Sun; A Mars trine Sun aspect makes it easy to master challenges, relate sexually, feel free with self expression, and cooperate toward mutual goals. If your romantic partner’s Mars is trine your Sun you will find him/her responsive to your desires, encouraging you to go after what you want and dare to be your best.

Jupiter trine Saturn; You bring optimism and exuberance, he/she adds practicality and wisdom. Together you have the best of instincts and can take whatever energies life send your way and turn them into realistic plans for your future. You are very secure in each other and in your abilities to achieve abundance by defining your boundaries and seeing your plans through to completion. If your romantic partner’s Jupiter is trine your Saturn, He/she will understand the need for long term investment in your mutual growth.

Jupiter square Uranus; You tend to challenge each other’s assumptions about life and relationships by impulsively experimenting with new approaches toward partnership. It may be hard to understand or be empathetic with your romantic partner’s ideas. You each have such a spirit of independence and love for adventure, but each of you is functioning on a preconceived set of opinions about the ways you both should approach exploring new possibilities. If your romantic partner’s Jupiter is square your Uranus, you will have to rely heavily on your intuition and observation rather than any philosophy you came into this partnership with. You have a great deal to learn from one another if you can manage to stand still long enough to figure that out.

Jupiter square Neptune; Your likely to believe that you and your romantic partner can do anything; just being together amplifies imagination, hope, and idealism far beyond any realistic expectation of odds. You tend to trust in luck to make the most extravagant wishes into reality. Your partner is aware that carelessness, irresponsibility and excess can spiral your relationship and your lives out of control. If your romantic partner’s Jupiter is square your Neptune, he/she just may want to have fun enjoying the good life, while you believe that essence is more important than appearance and desire a more mystical romantic idea of soul bonding.

Jupiter conjunction Jupiter; Whatever possibilities you explore together, you do it in a big way. Optimism and opportunities are compounded by your romantic relationship. Each partner brings the other luck, an expansion of contacts and experiences which enhance their enjoyment of life and give them more inclusive life perspectives.

Jupiter sextile Venus; It will expand your feelings of love and romance for your partner. Opportunity knocks, offering the benefits of good luck, good fellowship, and a romantically and materially successful relationship. You respect and enjoy your partner’s company and he/she sparks your interest in inquiring into new things and expanding your social horizons. If your romantic partner’s Jupiter is sextile your Venus, he/she finds you interesting and attractive, comfortable to be with, sexually playful, and sees opportunities ahead, for sharing life’s adventure and good times together.

Pluto conjunction Pluto; You are highly affected by your romantic partner. When you are together, repressed emotions and latent desires are triggered. You may not consciously understand what it is that attracts you to him/her.

Pluto square moon; You will feel sensations of great power and intense assertive or competitive sexual energies in your romantic relationship. This relationship is all about deep emotional transformation. If your romantic partner’s Pluto is square your Moon, irrational energies come into play. The intensity of physical sensation and emotional impact you have on each other might surprise you. Unfinished business, issues from past, failed romances, and feelings of possessiveness, could appear with irresistible impact in order to change the way you look at life and love forever.

Pluto trine Mars; There is nothing to hold you back from extremes. Sexual energies between you and your romantic partner are very intense, very absorbing. Whatever you two do, you do it with everything you’ve got. You both have individual assertiveness, strong desire, a willingness to be inspired by challenges, and to overcome opposition. You could accomplish even more together. If your romantic partner’s Pluto is trine your Mars, you naturally have a source of regenerative energies which create and sustain a intensely possessive sexual union. Power plays come easily and both of you enjoy driving.

Pluto conjunction Mercury; You will be inspired by your romantic partner to explore the mysteries of the universe, to undergo some profound changes in your understanding and in your ways of thinking, and develop a deeper understanding of and compassion for life, spirituality, and humanity. If your partner’s Pluto is conjunct your Mercury, your words and your mental energies could be very influential. The intensity of your relationship and his/her learning experiences with you, will transform the usual ways your partner looks at love and at life.

Mercury square Jupiter; You use your relationship to expand your consciousness as you bring out your partner’s adventurous side. You have a tendency to have great ideas but find it easy to get the two of you involved in projects that either grow too quickly or somehow become unmanageable. If your partner’s Mercury is square your Jupiter, your optimistic attitude and good luck bolsters your partner through the tough bits with a witty sense of humor and a philosophy that finds opportunities in what others might consider abject failures. It’s all a learning experience, and the two of you are definitely students of life, so you’re up for it.

Mercury conjunction Uranus;  You partner heightens your intellectual stimulation by challenging your ideas and usual mode of thinking. Originality adds excitement to your relationship and you both enjoy experimenting with new ideas. If your partner’s Mercury is conjunct your Uranus, you show him/her exciting possibilities of intellect, come up with amazing and original ideas together. Discovering alternative ways of seeing the world and living in it are essential attractions in your relationship.

Mercury sextile Sun; A Mercury sextile Sun aspect shows that you value and encourage your partner’s thoughts and ideas and are very open to supporting his/her intellectual progress. You like to talk with one another and find it easy and enjoyable to exchange concepts and information. If your romantic partner’s Mercury is sextile to your Sun, your partner is open to any request which will further your intellectual growth, and is stimulated by your ideas and conversations.

Sun sextile sun;  A Sun sextile Sun means that you have an opportunity to create a warm, loving, romantic relationship where cooperation and harmony create an empowering domestic scene.- but you have to work on it a little. Things work out really well when you ask and answer questions and listen to each other. The willingness will be there for both parties, it’s all what you make of it. 

Sun conjunct Neptune; A Sun conjunction Neptune aspect emphasizes intuitive, nonverbal levels of communication and understanding. It increases the creative imagination of both partners. If your partner’s Sun is conjunct your Neptune this relationship could cause you to see more of what you want to see in your partner but it can also boost your intuitive awareness and sensitivity. 

Sun conjunction Uranus;  A Sun conjunction Uranus aspect gives emphasis to your partner’s sense of excitement and expressions of individuality. Your Sun empowers change, new methods of behavior and sparks each other’s interest. If your partner’s Sun is conjunct your Uranus, her/she is attracted to your unconventional side and willing to support your desires to take risks in order to achieve the changes you desire to make in life with originality. 

Sun opposite Mars; A sun opposition Mars aspect causes each of you to assert independence but attracted by your partner’s romantic inclinations. You certainly know how to compete with each other. If your romantic partner’s Sun is in opposition to your Mars, you will feel more pressure to do things your own way and to perform well at physical lovemaking. All too often this energy can express itself in conflict as your egos battle it out for supremacy.

Uranus conjunction Neptune; Your romantic partner will inspire your creativity and expand your intuitive abilities. You will share radically new ideas and ideals which will intensify during your romantic relationship. If your romantic partner’s Uranus is in conjunction with your Neptune, he/she may begin to experience heightened states of consciousness and even ESP phenomena.

Uranus conjunction Uranus; You stimulate each other, mentally and sexually. Bright new ideas and sudden changes, instability, excitement, sexual experimentation, taking risks and general nonconformity keep things fresh. Did I mention you both love surprises? You enjoy your freedom and create a romantic relationship that is totally in the present because you make it up as you go along and the universe supports you while you’re doing it your way.

Uranus opposite Mars; Change and unpredictability are your calling card, danger’s the name and innovation’s the game. Your sexual life and romantic relationship is subject to sudden bursts of energy, uncontrollable impulses. Your ideas are daring, even risky as you urge each other on to see who can be the most original, the most nonconforming. If your romantic partner’s Uranus is in opposition to your Mars, you are in for one wild ride, but take some care - you both tend to be accident-prone.

Uranus sextile Pluto;  New ideas and innovations are your constant source of re-growth and renewal integrated into your experimental romantic relationship. Everything is subject to revision and reevaluation as you honestly acknowledge and honor the needs of your body rebelling against everything that is structured, outworn and unnecessary in order to discover the essence of love and relationships. If your romantic partner’s Uranus is sextile your Pluto, expect to uncover every self destructive habit and repressed feeling. Be willing to face sudden and unpredicted extremes of highly charged emotion which will jolt you free from the concepts and beliefs you came in with. Opportunities to experience real transformation and completely new ideas about love and relationship are ahead.

Neptune sextile Pluto; This would be a rare relationship promising a synthesis between romantic partners which could harness your creative imagination and the power of dreams. Use them in visualizations which could provide an opportunity for you both to purge self destructive habits and feelings.

Saturn conjunction Saturn; You give each other structure, meaning, and purpose. You know that you both are very reliable, practical, hardworking partners that an organize your activities to efficiently carry out your long term plans for material security and advancement. Your dedication to mutual service and creating a traditionally supportive relationship is truly worthwhile. Step by step, you will build your future as you deepen the bonds between yourself and your partner.

Saturn conjunction Moon; you will feel emotionally responsive to the ideas of marriage, domestic responsibility, possessive of your mate and your emotional relationship. It is almost as if you feel that you always were connected and were re-establishing your previous links. If your partner’s Saturn is in conjunction to your Moon he/she is receptive to your concepts of domestic structure, and feels a deep emotional need for a serious, long term commitment. There are karmic aspects to your relationship, either directly or your romantic partner reminds you of someone out of the past.

Saturn sextile Venus; You feel a steadfast commitment toward your partner and see an opportunity to create a traditional domestic relationship, and permanent practical friendship. You share mutually ambitious goals for material and emotional stability and have a willingness to focus together on that task at hand in order to achieve your desires. If your partner’s Saturn is sextile your Venus, he/she is loyal, constant, willing to practically contribute to your mutual and family benefit, and sees you as a fitting romantic partner and long term friend. You both feel very connected to each other by past experience.

Saturn square Sun; A Saturn square Sun aspect finds the partners feeling restricted by limitations based upon previous experience with relationships and even karmic relationships with each other. Both will desire to achieve their goals but find themselves challenged by the demands of the other. If your romantic partner’s Saturn is square your Sun, your partner may make you feel such a sense of heaviness, seriousness, or obligation that you are not comfortable in his/her company, but it highly unlikely that you will be willing to leave with any unfinished issues between you.

Saturn square Pluto; You draw your personal guidelines from practicality, traditional values instilled in your childhood. Your romantic partner balks when you try to impose them on your relationship. Your romantic partner draws his/her guidelines from an internal source, and feels that your attempts to bring order are too burdensome. If your romantic partner’s Saturn is square your Pluto, you will understand that you both probably have enough problems dealing with circumstances outside your relationship. Neither of you find that you can accomplish much unless your partner can overcome his/her need to make rules which you don’t feel are necessary.

Venus conjunction Moon;  Harmony and sharing are a major part of your relationship. You are very receptive to your partner’s artistic interests and ideas of beauty and romance. If your partner’s Venus is in conjunction with your Moon, he/she will share her deepest feelings and be receptive and supportive of your creative and artistic interests as well as your romantic feelings.

Venus square Mercury; You understand love on an intellectual rather than an emotional level. Although you find each other interesting and are attracting, You may never quite understand each other’s reasoning about romantic relationships. This can make even the most mundane communications difficult. If your romantic partner’s Venus is square your Mercury, you will have to negotiate areas where the two of you will bethinking on opposite sides of the spectrum. Fortunately, there are areas where you will agree, your affection for one another is one of these. You will just have to agree to disagree over some things and accept the rest.

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LGBTQ+ indications

‼️please read‼️ astrology does not decide if you’re lgbtq+ i am aware of that. this post is not meant to be offensive in any way these are some placements that revolve around struggles with hidden things about you and struggles with discovering your self identity

cancer mars

mars is the planet of masculinity so when in cancer (which is ruled by the moon - the moon represents femininity) it can make you more feminine (this is typically found in gay mens charts)

12th house ruler square/opposite neptune

the 12th house represents bed pleasures and neptune represents secrets/the hidden (often people hide their sexuality before coming out)

chiron square/opposite mars

mars represents our sexuality and chiron represents a wound (the wound is sometimes hiding your sexuality due to shame because someone in your life made you feel like it was wrong to be LGBTQ+ even though it isn’t)

sun square/opposite uranus

(often found in transgender peoples charts) the sun represents identity and uranus represents rebellion and freedom. with this aspect you can want to rebel from your current identity

pluto in the 12th house

pluto represents transformations and the 12th house represents the hidden. this placement indicates you’ve gone through a transformation that you want to keep secret (which can sometimes be finding out your sexuality)

sun square moon

this aspect causes a battle between your masculine and feminine (usually found in bisexual peoples charts)

asteroids:

ganymed (1036) in the 1st house or 8th house

this indicates being a gay man

sappho (80) aspecting chiron or saturn

this indicates being a gay women

how to find asteroids

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How does Lgbtq+ manifest in astrology?

What could be the indicators of being queer?

• Air signs or houses in the big 6 (especially Moon, Venus, Mars and ascendant).

• Asteroid Ganymed [1036] in air/water sign/house or in aspects to ascendant, Venus/Mars/Uranus/Neptune/Pluto for gay or bisexual men.

• Asteroid Sappho [80] in air/water sign/house or in aspects to ascendant, Venus/Mars/Uranus/Neptune/Pluto for gay or bisexual women.

• Moon, Venus or Mars aspecting Uranus or Neptune.

• Chiron in a hard aspect Venus/Mars/Uranus/Pluto for transgender.

• Chiron in air/water sign/house.

• Chiron in the 1st house for transgender. Could also mean common issues with the self-image, insecurities and the identity.

• Pallas Athene/Pallas/Athene (there’s a few asteroids in the honour of Athena) in a hard aspect to Moon, Venus, Mars, Uranus or Neptune for aromantic or asexual.

• Uranus, Neptune or Pluto in the air/water house.

• Asteroid Dionysus [3671] in the air/water sign/house or in aspects to ascendant, Venus/Mars/Uranus/Neptune/Pluto for androgynous.

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♡Astro Observations for the Gays, Queers, and the Girlies♡

❣ Libra placements and the urge to be liked by people that don't like them (even though they themselves don't like them either)

❣ Gemini placements (especially Rising/Venus/Doms) have a contrast in their feminine and masculine style/taste/interests. They frequently change from one end of the extreme to another, rarely in between. Think bougie girls who like to get all done but aren't afraid to eat with bare hands or etiquette.

❣ Sun/Moon square Jupiter doesn't have the best relationship with one or both of their parents/parental figures

❣ I noticed many gay icons have a Venus in Gemini, Leo, or Sagittarius/ MC in a Water or Fire sign/ 5th house in an Air or Water sign/ Pluto in the 1st, 3rd, 5th, 10th (Of course there are exceptions but I found these to be the most reoccurring)

❣ Despite the perpetuated stereotypes, the people that I have known to throw down with others the most have been Cancers, Virgos, and Libras. Meanwhile, the Aries, Scorpios, and Saggitarians were either diplomatic or cowards (Cowards as in they would talk a big game but when push comes to shove, they'll run).

❣ Sun conjunct Saturn will stay stepping on people's necks

❣ Taurus Venus are obsessed with the 50s/60s

❣ Earth Moons emotional state can be reflected in their surroundings. When they're feeling low, they can either seek control by controlling others and being critical or they shut down and let everything go to waste (uncharacteristically of them). In extreme cases, they can become hoarders.

❣ Moon square personal planets 🤝 Being a bitch 24/7

❣ Virgo is the sex freak yall been sleeping on

❣ Water placements and the struggle of wanting to be left alone and also be given love and attention

❣ Also on the topic of Water placements in general, why do they never get along with one another?

❣ Sun/Venus in the 1st/5th/7th/10th/11th grow from a "fawn among sharks" to the HBIC

❣ Venusian (Taurus and Libra) and Mercurian (Gemini and Virgo) placements are common among prominent fashion designers/houses. (Anna Wintour, Donatella Versace, Karl Lagerfeld, Coco Chanel, Georgio Armani, Pierre Balmain, Marc Jacobs)

❣ Gemini, Leo, and Sagittarius are the epitome of the 00s "it" girls

❣ Your rising reflects on the purpose/struggle of your life journey.

Exp:

Aquarius rising's life-long mission is to find who they're and be themselves

Taurus rising's lifelong mission is to be comfortable with themselves and find gratitude

Sagittarius rising's lifelong mission is to find their purpose or calling

Cancer rising's lifelong mission is to find strength in their heart and let the world in

❣ Scorpio Venus is obsessed with movies. Especially ones that are historical depictions and/or true stories.

❣ Taurus and Libra, Scorpio and Sagittarius, Aries and Virgo are some of the most underrated friendship pairings

❣ Despite all the fame indicators, Chiron in Leo remains the most prominent. Many child stars have this placement. (Selena Gomez, Ariana Grande, Demi Lovato, Miley Cyrus, Keke Palmer, Justin Bieber, Freddie Highmore, Josh Hutcherson, Jennette McCurdy, Debby Ryan, Miranda Cosgrove, etc.)

❣ You attract people that have placements in your 1st, 3rd, and 11th house. Meanwhile, we are attracted to people with placements in our 5th, 7th, and 8th.

❣ The placement of the personal planets along with the rulers of the house mentioned also play a big role, but it pertains to the nature of the relationship than just attraction.

❣ The sign opposite to the sign of your Venus is usually in the big three of your early years crushes and people "you know better than to like". (They may also share a similarity or quality to said sign)

❣ My association of each Lilith signs with an iconic female lead (Movies/TV):-

Aries/1st house Lilith: Regina George 'Mean Girls'

Taurus/2nd house Lilith: Cookie 'Empire'

Gemini/3rd house Lilith: Brenda 'Scary Movie'

Cancer/4th house Lilith: Thelma 'Thelma & Louise'

Leo/5th house Lilith: Jade 'Victorious'

Virgo/6th house Lilith: Miranda 'The Devil Wears Prada'

Libra/7th house Lilith: Elle Woods 'Legally Blond'

Scorpio/8th house Lilith: Jennifer 'Jennifer's Body'

Sagittarius/9th house Lilith: Chanel 'Scream Queens'

Capricorn/10th house Lilith: Fallon 'Dynasty'

Aquarius/11th house Lilith: Veronica 'The Heathers'

Pisces/12th house Lilith Courtney 'Jawbreaker'

Byeee💅

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💋Astro Observations💋

(Sex and Love Edition)

💋Aquarius and Pisces in Venus, Mars, and the 8th house is most likely to have a variety of fetishes

💋Aries, Cancer and Scorpio in Venus, Mars and the 8th house is most likely to be into edging, bondage and dominantion sex

💋Taurus, Leo and Virgo in Venus, Mars and the 8th house is most likely to prefer a slow and passionate sex over a fast and rough one. Very into massaging and erotic sex.

💋Gemini and Libra in Venus, Mars and the 8th house is most likely to have threesomes, and do risky things like public sex.

💋Capricorn and Sagittarius Venus, Mars and the 8th house is into multitasking sex, meaning working and having sex at the same time, cooking, cleaning, taking a shower. Also, most likely to do porn.

💋If you have Mars in 8th and Venus in 5th you’re more likely to get knocked up. If it’s the opposite, Venus in 8th and Mars in 5th, you’ll actively have unprotected sex or use the “I am pregnant” excuse.

💋Although the 8th house is the sex house and the 7th house is our romantic relationships and love interests. People forget that these are what we look for while the 1st and 2nd is what we offer and how we attract others.

💋With that, there’s a sexual tension with someone that your 1st house is in their 8th or the otherway around.

💋Our 2nd house is our resources and what we have to offer. If we relate it to someone’s 7th house, we can see what we can give them and vice versa.

💋Allegedly, Water and Fire Mars people have a bigger penis 👀

💋Earth Mars has a thicker one

💋Air Mars got a long, but a slim, penis

💋Water and Earth Venus people are more voluptuous and curvey

💋Air Venus is generally taller

💋Fire Venus is little but fiesty

(Again all of that was alleged)

💋If you have Mercury in the 2nd, 5th, 7th or 8th house, then you have a very sexual voice

💋Venus in 3rd loves dirty talking

💋If your Moon is in the same sign as your 4th house, it could mean you’ll be a great mother/motherly figure to your children

💋Venus is in 12th could indicate few but long relationships

💋On the other hand, Venus in 7th indicates many off and on relationships

💋Venus in 9th is a heartbreaker. They probably make a relationship with someone in a new city then end it when they leave. Or they just runaway from them.

💋Venus in 5th looks for the one.

💋Earth in 8th is a power bottom

💋Fire in 8th is a pillow queen/king (pillow queen/king is someone that just lays back and leaves you to do all the work).

💋Air in 8th is either overly sexual or loathes at the idea of having sex

💋Water in 8th loves sloppy and “hot and heavy” sex

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LGBT astrology🏳️‍🌈

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DISCLAIMER: This post is not by any means intended to invalidate anyone’s self-identification. You and only you determine your sexuality and sexual identity regardless of anything else. 😊

On this post I wanted to share the repeating energies, aspects and placements I’ve seen in the charts of LGBT and queer people. Basically Uranus, Neptune and water energy ruling matters of love and sex seem to be the focal point in these cases. 

💕 Venus or mars aspecting Uranus, Neptune (specially hard aspects: opposition, square and conjunction)

💕 Mars or venus in a water sign or in a water house (very common in those who are gender fluid)

^(these two combined AKA mars/venus in a water sign or house harshly aspecting Uranus/Neptune is pretty much the n1 gay aspect I’ve seen)

💕Personal placements in the sign of Scorpio seem to be a favorite as well

💕Uranus/Neptune in the 7th, 8th or 5th house

💕 Aquarius, Pisces or Scorpio ruling the 7th or 8th house

💕 8th house placements, specially venus is more common in bisexual individuals or people with ambiguous or unlabeled sexuality

💕 12th house placements specially venus can be the type of person who is open to love anyone regardless of gender

Strong Pisces or Scorpio influence overall has shown to be significant. Very common for these people to have at least had doubts about their sexuality

💕 I don’t know why this is, but Leo energy is also common but on those who have a clearly labeled sexuality (fixed energy I guess)

💕 Ruler of the 5th, 7th or 8th aspecting Uranus/Neptune, especially hard aspects

💕 Chiron in the 2nd or 8th house: very common in transgender individuals

💕Chiron in hard aspect to mars is also common in transgender individuals

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Astro notes: Sex🔥💦

Here’s a little quick astro notes post (guess you could call it a quickie 😉) nah sorry that was a really bad joke anyways here it is

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🔥 People with Mars-Saturn aspects, Capricorn mars or Saturn/Capricorn in the 8th house have no issue with going YEARS without having sex or without masturbating regardless of their level of libido or sex-drive.

💦 People with Lilith in Virgo have this HUGE fantasy of having sex with someone that is a virgin or less experienced. They wanna take someone that has this “innocent” energy and pervert them

🔥 On the other hand people with Lilith in Capricorn may have this fantasy of having sex with someone older or much more experienced

💦 Aries moons are the most horny people I’ve ever met. Seriously I’ve never seen a single a Aries moon who was sexually inactive or who had gone more than a month without having sex (unless of course Saturn is involved). Not to say they’re players or anything but they seem to almost need sex (moon = our emotional needs)

🔥 Everyone going off about Scorpio but y’all forget that Taurus energy can be just as seductive and magnetic. Many female sex symbols have inner placements or angles in the sign of Taurus or in Taurus degree, Venus-Jupiter aspects or Jupiter in the 2nd house (Megan Fox, Marilyn Monroe...)

💦 Also, it’s very common for sex symbols to have the ruler of the 8th house placed in the 1st house

🔥 Mars aspecting venus, moon or Neptune generally makes someone vanilla or submissive (unless others aspects say otherwise). This can also happen with moon or Venus in the 8th house

💦 I’ve noticed Mars-Saturn aspects can sometimes make someone submissive as well, since these people tend to suppress/restrict their sexuality, they may like a dominant partner that is more assertive and inhibited than them

🔥 Also, Mars-Saturn aspects can manifest as a delay in sex-life, probably the native lost their virginity later than their peers

💦 Mars-Pluto aspects makes someone likely dominant in sex or a power-bottom. They’re the definition of liking power plays

🔥 Mars-Jupiter aspects are more prone to enjoy switching between being dominant and submissive in bed

💦 The only REAL kinky people tho are those with Mars-Uranus EASY aspects or Uranus in the 8th house. Period. Fight me.

🔥 Going back to Mars-Pluto aspects, these people ARE freaks/kinky too but they can low-key or high-key be sexually deviant. They can have kinks/fetishes that involve some "force" or lots of roughness (cus like I said they like any form of power plays) TW!!! (Abuse) I once met someone with this aspect who literally had a rape fantasy

💦 Hard aspects between Mars-Saturn doesn't necessarily mean asexuality like I've often seen addressed. These aspects can manifest as the native having trouble "accessing" their sexuality, like they could have a hard time figuring out what is it that they enjoy, what's their sexual nature, etc. It may take them a lot of time and experience to figure themselves out sexually.

🔥 You may often feel attracted to the sign that’s opposite your Venus sign

💦 I’ve noticed that woman who have Sappho aspecting their big 3 or MC, if they’re not lesbian/interested in woman themselves, they can attract a lot of unwanted attention from lesbians. Specially true if Lilith is involved

🔥 Water rising in the mars persona chart is that type of person that can only have/enjoy sex with someone they love or have very deep feelings for. Otherwise they may not even be interested in sex or turned on at all. I’ve seen this people often stay sexually inactive until they find someone they love

💦　Fire rising in the mars persona chart indicates someone who doesn’t mind flings and tends to have them

🔥　Earth rising in the mars persona chart are very particular when it comes to their libido. They either find it hard to enjoy sex or they are often sexually inactive and there doesn’t seem to be a particular reason for that. They can often come off as dry or cold in their sexual approach. Can also indicate someone who likes the idea of getting something out of a sexual relationship

💦 ALTHOUGHHhhh I’ve noticed people with Virgo rising in the mars persona chart are often known to be VERY promiscuous

🔥 Air rising in the mars persona chart indicates someone that can be sweet talked into sex and wants to bang that one person that looks interesting and totally detached

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