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Accept and support repulsed people or die by my blade

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so when the allos say that they are marrying their best friend thats all fine and dandy but when the aroaces say they are marrying their best friend somehow THATS a problem

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Asexual/aromantic allyship when an aspec person has a unique relationship with another person that isn't just being friends or dating

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Every time someone talks about how it's our "purpose" or how we're "meant to" to reproduce, I want to tear my reproductive organs out and slam them down on the table.

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Uh, of course I have straight As!

-Agender

-Aromantic

-Asexual

-Autistic

-Anxious

-Asthmatic

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With great power (aromanticism) comes great responsibility (destroying romance with my bare hands)

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Happy ASAW 2024, here's something about community !

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I'm kinda shy but if youre persistent in getting to know me for 5-6 years I can be a good addition to your household

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"But not shipping this character is infantilizing!" Skill issue if you can't think of any way to make it clear that a character is an autonomous adult besides putting them in a romantic/sexual relationship.

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People treat characters being AroAce like they're being forced to eat vegetables despite the fact that a character being aspec instantly makes them 300% more cool and interesting.

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here's the thing. "ace people can still have sex" and "aro people can still be in relationships" are objectively true statements. this is because people can do whatever the fuck they want forever regardless of their label/orientation. however some of you have GOT to get your shit together and stop using those statements to undermine larger conversations about aspec identity. following up "ace people don't owe you sex in a relationship" with "ace people can still have sex in a relationship though!" is not fucking helpful! yes it's true. yes it's a reality for many people. however if we used our fucking brains for a second and thought about how following up "people don't have to conform to societal expectation" with "but people can still conform!! don't worry they can still conform!!!!" is counterproductive and very frustrating for a lot of people then we could get back to the actual point which is not "aspec people can still have sex/be in relationships" but "aspec people can do whatever they want with their relationships and their bodies". which they can, by the way. they can do whatever they want forever. and you should give them 200 dollars every time you see them for dealing with this shit

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I don’t need a BOYFRIEND I need someone to share a LIETMOTIF with

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All this aroace character shipcourse has proven to me that a majority of people that interact in fandom cannot actually interact with characters and media outside of shipping and genuinely I believe you need to learn how to interact with media outside of shipping.

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"aros and aces can still love and have sex!" yeah but do you really mean that? can you accept the fact that some aroaces don’t want sex and dont do romance? or do you just want to use that as an excuse when you want two people to date despite one or both of them being actively repulsed by romance, or when you want two people to have sex despite one or both of them being actively sex repulsed? are you only saying that for your own benefit?

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as much as i understand why people make posts about aces who have sex and aros who are in relationships, and i love all aces and aros no matter what they do or dont do, i really wish all of the aspec positivity wasnt centered around that. aces who dont have sex and aros who dont want relationships of any kind are stigmatized so much even by other queer ppl and even other aspec ppl and i really wish we got positivity too bc as an aroace person ive dealt with so much bullshit over the years for not wanting to have sex or wanting a relationship. so to all my sex repulsed aces and romance repulsed/relationship repulsed aros, you are just as valid as anyone else <3 aspec worth doesnt come from relationships or sex, we all matter equally :)

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Characters dynamic that’s like “ they’re not in a romantic relationship but they definitely love each other with all their heart and fucking soul”