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heyaa, made a Shuake post canon encounter after long years bcs the idea just can't get out of my mind.

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Sometimes I remember that time the girl I sat with on the bus wanted to play with me at recess, and I didn't want that, but she wouldn't take no for an answer so I ended up having to literally run away from her all across the playground. And then somehow I got in trouble for that? I was the one who got given indoor recess and made to stay inside the next day?

Apparently consent isn't important when you're a six year old who wants to be left alone. If someone decides they're your friend, you can't actually say no. If someone refuses to take no for an answer to the point that you have to physically remove yourself from the situation? It doesn't matter. You're a bad person for not wanting to play with someone during recess. She just wants someone to play with, after all.

Hot take, but maybe the solution to bullying and kids being ostracized isn't to force kids to be friends with everyone, either. Maybe children's consent matters.

Like. I know aplatonicism isn't widely known and platonormativity is huge and pervasive, but sometimes it really hits me that I have in fact been aplatonic all my life and that's never been treated as a possibility or a thing.

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i hate dogs with blue eyes. why is fucking jeff the killer at my back door

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some of you aren’t even perverts you just have normal sexual desires that you are ashamed of

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Stay toxic, king 🤍

always putting my best foot forward in that regard

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Saw that post about transmascs and how ppl need to talk more about vaginal atrophy and how it's easily treatable with estrogen cream without affecting your HRT and it got me thinking about how none of us transfems seem to talk about dick atrophy either and how it's also easily treatable with topical testosterone cream provided you're not taking a T blocker (so on a GnRH agonist, estradiol monotherapy, or have had bottom surgery). Without T you don't get that passive tissue maintenance so unless you want to get hard every other day for the rest of your life to keep it healthy you're kinda screwed and erections can become really painful, let alone the change in length/shape. So yeah ask about topical testosterone.

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Trans women will never be free until people stop having strong emotions about penises. Like we, as a society, have got to stop caring about dicks! Dicks have to stop symbolizing maleness, obviously, but they also have to stop symbolizing power, dominance, sexual agency and aggression, violence, and even sex itself. Like trans women can’t be free if the very conceptual presence of a penis represents an intrusion(!) of unwanted(!) sexuality(!) in public life. Like that’s why trans women are abhorrent to both male chauvinists and radical feminists, because both groups have extremely strong feelings about what a penis *represents*, and find the conceptual and actual presence of a woman with a penis to be simultaneously vile and nonsensical because they’ve loaded so much symbolic baggage onto both women and penises.

Anyway dicks are totally neutral body parts and seeing a dick, or a bulge in a swimsuit, or simply knowing that there’s a dick somewhere in the same bathroom as you isn’t harmful or violent

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when me and my boyfriend make meals we have a tradition of sending each other unappetising off-centre photographs of them in poor lighting. we call this "wikipedia food".

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Tumblr is good for creative types because the tag system lets you be truly deranged about how much you like it without feeling as Exposed as a Comment Section

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mentally taking a drag of my mental cigarette because I don’t smoke but life has been very smokable lately

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Genshin Impact | Version 5.3-1 Genius Invokation TCG Character Cards

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white boy SHOCKS friend group by growing perfect c cup breasts

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i can't explain it, but the older you get, the more you realize that the hornier, filthier the music is, the better it is for cleaning. it is not good for sex. it's good for cleaning. if it's breathtakingly misogynistic? even better. i'm sorry, Hollywood Undead, i'm sure you think Everywhere I Go was written to fuck to while blown out on a couple lines of coke, but you're wrong. it's for Fabuloso and industrial grade cleaning vinegar and degreaser. the only daddy here is Scrub Daddy. sorry.

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culturally insensitive things to say to your werewolf girlfriend.