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WHAT DO THEY LIKE IN BED?

A POST ABOUT VENUS & MARS IN THE EROS(433) PERSONA CHART 18+

VENUS OR MARS IN ARIES/1ST HOUSE: These people tend to like when there is some kind of competiton or conquest involved so(in worst case) can be someone with a ”i can steal your wife/husband” attitude. Tend to like latex or leather. Might be turned on by anger and aggression. Might be turned on by someone being mean to them. Others tend to be attracted to how confident people with this placement are.

VENUS OR MARS IN TAURUS/2ND HOUSE: These people can be very into kissing, oralsex & moaning. Anything that has to do with the mouth. Might be into rich people or even getting paid. They love the natural smell of their partner. Can be turned on by seeing someone wear specific fabrics. If you have this placement you probably get compliments for your lips. They like missionary so that they can kiss during the act.

VENUS OR MARS IN GEMINI/3RD HOUSE: These people tend to really enjoy fingering/jerking. Might prefer to use the hands a lot during the act. Also enjoy doing it on the phone. A lot of dirtytalk. Turned on my seeing someone masturbate. Tend to be very talented when it comes to fingering and can have attractive hands. They tend to like doing it in the car.

VENUS OR MARS IN CANCER/4TH HOUSE: These people can be very infatuated with breasts and milfs. Can be into milf/stepson/stepdaughter roleplay. Might like a lot of hugging and comforting talk during the act, feeling cared for. Their sexual taste can be very influenced by their mommy issues. Can like to suck tits or have their sucked. Tend to have nice looking breast area and can have a milf/dilf look.

VENUS OR MARS IN LEO/5TH HOUSE: These people are the most likely to enjoy having someone watch them have sex. Might enjoy sleeping with people they can be proud over like a celebrity but they can also be the opposite and want their sexpartner to worship them. Might like to put on a show or want their partner to put on a show. Can enjoy doing it in positions where they can see their partners back.

VENUS OR MARS IN VIRGO/6TH HOUSE: These people tend to have a pet/owner kink. Tend to be attracted to nurse or maid costumes. Can be ultra serving and obedient. Others are attracted to people with this placement because they come across as impossible to get into bed. They come across as ”pure” and ”too good for you”.

VENUS OR MARS IN LIBRA/7TH HOUSE: These people tend to have a analfixation. Very into conventionally attractive and popular people. Might have a thing for the ”it girl/guy”. Tend to be very fixated with butts and they tend to have a nice butt themselves. Might like very nice and romantic sex instead of messy and aggressive. They want the one everyone wants.

VENUS OR MARS IN SCORPIO/8TH HOUSE: These people can be very turned on by forbidden scenarios. Doing it with the one theh arent allowed to sleep with. In worst case this can lead to having very inappropriate affairs. They like eyecontact and the tension leading up to the sex. Can be into criminals or ”bad guys”. Tend to find seeing someone smoke a cigarette a turn on. Doing it in the dark.

VENUS OR MARS IN SAGITTARIUS/9TH HOUSE: These people tend to prefer partners from a different cultural background than their own. Might like doing it in the school bathroom. Can also like doing it outdoors. They love a pair of nice legs. Can have a teacher/student kink and enjoy roleplay with these themes. Can be very reckless with where they have sex and might enjoy almost being caught.

VENUS OR MARS IN CAPRICORN/10TH HOUSE: These people tend to be attracted to people with fame or some kind of social status. Might like doing it in a public place or starting the foreplay in public and then finishing at home. Might be into age gap relationships. People find their bone structure and elegance attractive. These people tend to be the most picky with who they sleep with.

VENUS OR MARS IN AQUARIUS/11TH HOUSE: These people tend to enjoy watching porn or other kinds of sexual content on the internet. Might enjoy doing it over the webcam instead of irl. Might enjoy sex with people they arent emotionally attached to so having a lot of friends with benefits is common here. Group sex. Kinks that are considered out of the norm.

VENUS OR MARS IN PISCES/12TH HOUSE: These people tend to like damsel in distress/knight in shining armor scenarios. Might be turned on by seeing someone crying. Might like doing it while under the influence. Can be into fragile or weak people. People with a sobstory. Very turned on by someone with a touch of innocence to them. Someone ”accidentally sexy”. Can have a feet fetisch.

INFO: This post is based on my personal observations of the sign & house placement of Venus and Mars in the Eros Persona Chart. Ive checked the Eros Persona Chart of people Ive been involved with, adult movie stars & friends chart.

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— Greg Santora (via letsbelonelytogetherr)

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— Jasmine Gibson, from "Hot-Hand Fallacy," Don't Let Them See Me Like This (Nightboat Books, 2018) (via letsbelonelytogetherr)

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astro hypothesis: what does your future partner look like?

this is an expansion on one of my previous hypotheses of the where you're likely to meet a future spouse. still based on the 7h ruler's persona chart, the 1h, ascendant, and sun in this chart will describe what they look like!

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taurus (2°, 14°, 26°) sun/rising: they would have a solid and sturdy build, likely with broad shoulders and a well-proportioned body. their face might have strong, earthy features with a square jawline, full lips, and a calm, steady gaze. their skin may have a healthy, glowing appearance, often with a warm undertone. they might have a slower, deliberate way of moving, exuding stability and dependability.

leo (5°, 17°, 29°) sun/rising: they have a regal, charismatic flair. their hair might be thick, possibly with a hint of golden or warm tones, and they might take pride in maintaining it well. they could have a confident posture, standing tall with an air of authority and dignity. their eyes might be bright and expressive, reflecting their "inner fire" / passion.

sagittarius (9°, 21°) sun/rising: they are someone who has a fit and athletic build from a love of hiking / outdoor sports. they might have a radiant smile and an open, engaging demeanor that immediately puts people at ease. their clothing could be practical and suited for various adventures, reflecting their active lifestyle and spirited nature.

1h jupiter: they have a touch of warmth and generosity in their overall appearance. they might have a larger-than-life presence, with a big smile and an open, friendly demeanor. their body could be slightly larger or more expansive, and they might carry themselves with an optimistic and confident vibe, making them approachable and likable.

mars positively aspecting asc/sun: they have an energy/vitality to them. they might have a more athletic build, with a natural inclination towards physical activity. their movements might be quick, decisive, and purposeful, showing their dynamic nature. they could also have a slightly reddish tint to their complexion (rosacea) or a fiery glint in their eyes, reflecting their inner drive and determination.

saturn conjunct asc/sun: tends to have a more serious/mature demeanor. their facial features might be more defined, with sharp cheekbones or a prominent nose. they might appear older or more experienced than their actual age; they have a composed/disciplined look. they might have a leaner build.

neptune positively aspecting asc/sun: they have a soft appearance, giving them a somewhat dreamy or mystical quality. their eyes might be especially captivating, with a depth that suggests intuition and sensitivity. they might have an almost ethereal or otherworldly charm, with a gentle, compassionate aura. their features could be slightly more delicate or refined, adding to their overall allure.

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— Nizar Qabbani, ‘What Love Can Do’, from Arabian Love Poems: Full Arabic and English Texts (via lunamonchtuna)

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Had a dream about this, so take it as you may, but if you have a Shravana placement, get a duck(plushie, keychain or backpack etc) or make a duck(sewing, crochet, etc) and keep it with you.

It gives you good luck.

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If this pops up while you’re scrolling, I wish you unconditional love and massive success.

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🔥✨ Pick a Calcifer & I’ll Tell You What Needs a Little Extra Heat in Your Life!!! 🍳💭

Are you simmering? Stewing? Boiling over emotionally while pretending you’re fine? (Mood.) Whatever stage of inner soup you’re at, Calcifer is here to stir the pot!!!!🔥

Look at the little fire demon and pick the vibe that calls to your current soul status:

🥄 Calcifer over the stove (Pile 1)— lowkey in charge, highkey tired 😮 Calcifer with his mouth open (Pile 2)— screaming? excited? we’ll never know 🍳 Calcifer with the pan (Pile 3)— chef mode activated, may be doing too much

This pick-a-pile is for when you’re feeling a little blah and need to know: ✨ What part of your life needs more passion, energy, or delicious change? ✨ Go ahead, pick your fire friend!! Your reading’s on the bottom/after the "read more" (and maybe a little egg-related wisdom too).🔥

🔥 Pile 1 — Calcifer Over the Stove, Holding It All Together with One Singed Eyelash 🥄💬

"My little speed demon, you’re powerful... but also possibly running on three brain cells and a granola bar."

Your Cards:

Reversed Ace of Swords

The Magician

Queen of Cups

Nine of Cups

Two of Wands

The Emperor

Six of Pentacles

Lenormand: The Mice + The Rider

Your Message: Okay, my sweet overachieving soup dumpling — this pile is giving “I have a million ideas but also zero spoons,” and that’s okay. You’re smart. You’re intuitive. You’re creative. But babyyyy, you’re mentally crispy right now. Like... overcooked-toast energy. (The Reversed Ace of Swords is literally just ✨brain fog vibes✨.)

The Magician is here to remind you: you actually can do the thing. You’ve got the tools. You’ve got the vision. But you might be overthinking it or doubting your own sauce. You don’t need a bigger brain. You need a little more trust in your own spicy magic!!✨

The Queen of Cups and Nine of Cups? This is major soft girl energy. Your heart’s been doing a LOT — emotional labor, hoping for the best, healing like a champion. But are you letting yourself receive the joy? The fun? The actual heat of desire and satisfaction? You might need to add more pleasure-for-no-reason into your life. More romantic little hobbies. More “I want this just because it makes me smile” moments.

The Two of Wands + The Emperor say: you’ve got goals, baby. Big ones. World-domination-in-cottagecore-form kind of goals. But the structure around them? Might need a tiny refresh. Let go of the plan that’s draining you and build something that fits you now — not who you were when you started.

The Six of Pentacles is your reminder that relationships (and life in general) need balance. Don’t just give, give, give. Take. Rest. Say “no thank you” without apologizing. Let people give to you — even if it’s just letting someone hold the door or compliment your vibes.

Lenormand time:

The Mice = little worries chewing holes in your peace. Death by a thousand mental nibbles. You deserve better than background anxiety being your default setting.

The Rider = something new wants in. A message, a shift, a burst of excitement, a new hobbie. It’s on its way, but you might need to stop spiraling long enough to hear the knock.

🍲 What Needs More Heat in Your Life:

Clarity & decisiveness. Stop putting your dreams in the microwave and walking away. Pick something. Burn it with passion. Try.

Creative self-expression. Make a mess. Write badly. Wear something chaotic. Say the thing. You’re not here to be subtle.

Pleasure and softness. Seriously. More luxurious snacks. More romantic playlists. More saying “I want this because it feels good.”

A cute plan. Your empire deserves structure, not stress. Make a cozy to-do list. Use stickers. Turn your planner into a vision board.

✨ Final Vibe: You’re not behind. You’re just stuck in a pause that feels longer than it is. Stir the pot. Light the match. Let joy be the spark that gets you moving again. Your inner flame? Still hot. Still powerful. Still Calcifer-core. 🔥

🔥 Pile 2 — Calcifer With His Mouth Open Screaming, Probably at the Meat 🗣️🍖

"My little speed demon, are you okay or are you just fueled by vibes, caffeine, and unspoken expectations again??"

Your Cards:

Reversed Eight of Pentacles

Reversed Three of Wands

The World

Ace of Wands

Six of Pentacles

Reversed Star

Two of Cups

Four of Swords

Reversed Knight of Swords

Reversed Judgement

Lenormand: The Moon + The Man

Your Message: Babe. Sweetie. Light of the fire realm. You are tired. But also? You’re bored. And frustrated. And full of spicy little ideas and dreams that you haven’t even let yourself chase because... what if it doesn’t work out? What if it’s too late? What if you’re not “ready”?

(Hint: you are. Calcifer’s screaming at you with love.)

The Reversed Eight of Pentacles + Three of Wands tells me you’re either stuck in a rut or completely ghosting something you used to be really excited about. The vibes? Avoidant procrastination. The kind where you scroll for hours and then go “ugh why don’t I feel fulfilled.” 👀

The World is here like: “hey bestie, you’ve already closed a chapter. It’s done. You’re in the in-between now. Don’t dig it back up just because the future looks foggy.” Meanwhile, the Ace of Wands is begging to be lit. Passion. Curiosity. Movement. Something inside you wants to get cooking again — even if you’re not sure what it’s turning into yet.

The Six of Pentacles and Two of Cups both say: connection, reciprocity, intimacy. Whether it’s friendships, romance, or collaboration, you might be craving more mutual energy — where you’re not always giving or performing. You need people who meet you where you are, not just where you’re most “useful.”

The Reversed Star + Reversed Judgement = you might be doubting your glow, your path, or your calling. Like “am I even on the right track or just making pretty chaos?” But guess what? The Star is still there — she’s just covered in dust. You haven’t lost your magic. You’ve just stopped looking for it in yourself.

The Four of Swords wants you to rest — not just physically, but spiritually. You need space to hear your own thoughts. A scroll-free bath. A walk. A playlist. Time to say “what do I want right now?” without judgment.

Lenormand Clarity:

The Moon says your intuition is strong, but your self-trust is wobbly. Dreams, feelings, ✨vibes✨ — they’re real. Follow the ones that don’t drain you.

The Man could be someone literal (hello?? mystery dude??), or just that yang energy you need: focused, bold, self-directed. Tap into that “I do this because I said so” energy. No external permission needed.

🔥 What Needs More Heat in Your Life:

Your spark. Creative stuff you abandoned, ideas you shelved, projects that still live in your notes app. Pick one. Fan the flames.

Reciprocal connections. Whether it’s texting back the friend who gets you, or swiping for the plot — you deserve softness and support.

Rest with intention. Not just crashing. Resting like it’s sacred. Like your brain and body deserve to feel safe.

Your belief in yourself. You’re not lost — you’re just leveling up, and it’s okay if that looks messy. You’re still moving.

🫠 Final Vibe: You don’t have to rush to make sense of everything. You don’t have to be “on” all the time. But you do need to honor what’s calling you — even if it’s just a whisper. Even if it starts with something tiny, like making art again or writing that chaotic fic idea or texting someone first.

Let the fire in you be playful again. Not panicked. Calcifer isn’t screaming because you’re doomed — he’s screaming because you’re ready to feel something real again!!💖

🔥 Pile 3 — Calcifer in Full Chef Mode: Cooking for the Crew, Probably Cooking His Feelings Too 🍳🥓

"My little speed demon, you’ve survived so much, and now you deserve warm eggs, soft mornings, and peace that doesn’t feel like a trap."

Your Cards:

Reversed Five of Pentacles

Reversed Nine of Swords

Reversed Wheel of Fortune

Reversed Five of Swords

Ten of Pentacles

Reversed Three of Cups

Queen of Wands

Queen of Cups

Reversed Eight of Cups

Lenormand: The Mountains + The Birds

Your Message: Okay... first of all? I love you. Second of all? You’ve been through it™.

This pile screams “I am healing, growing, and occasionally having mini meltdowns in between, but doing my best.” You’ve been clawing your way out of emotional burnout, trust wounds, and the mental fog of overthinking your entire life purpose at 2AM. (Reversed Nine of Swords + Five of Pentacles is like the emotional hangover from a decade of being “the strong one.”)

But now? You're stepping out of that frost zone. You’re starting to realize the door was never actually locked. That Reversed Five of Pentacles is like — babe, you’re not exiled anymore. You’re just learning how to open up again.

The Reversed Wheel of Fortune and Five of Swords say you’ve been feeling stuck in the Bad Loop™. Like no matter what you do, it keeps circling back to the same emotional dead-ends, the same draining friendships, the same “I should’ve said no” moments. But the good news? That cycle is already breaking. It’s slow. It’s quiet. But it’s happening.

And then BOOM — Ten of Pentacles. You are so deeply meant for security. For comfort. For finding your version of “home,” whether that’s a person, a place, or just finally having a weekend to yourself. You might not feel stable yet, but it’s coming. Calcifer’s literally cooking it up for you. (With love. And eggs.)

The Reversed Three of Cups tells me you’ve been feeling a little out of sync with others. Like… craving connection, but also hiding under a blanket because people are exhausting. That’s okay. Take your time. Your people will find you — or rediscover you — when you’re ready.

And the Queens?!? BABY. You’ve got the fire and the tenderness. The Queen of Wands says you’ve still got your sparkle, even if it’s been dimmed. The Queen of Cups is your reminder that your softness is not a weakness — it’s a f*cking superpower. You can be both mystical and loud. Powerful and tender. Hot and healing. Get you a you that can do both. (Spoiler: it’s already you.)

The Reversed Eight of Cups says you’re not quite ready to walk away from something. Whether it’s a person, a dream, or just an old version of yourself — you’re lingering. And that’s okay. Take what you need. But don’t stay just because you’re afraid of what comes next. You’re not lost — you’re just gently in-between chapters.

Lenormand Clarifiers:

The Mountains = the hard thing you’ve been facing? It’s not immovable. It just requires patience. This isn’t a sprint. It’s a scenic hike.

The Birds = thoughts, chatter, social overstimulation. Protect your peace, babe. But also… speak your truth when you're ready. Your voice matters.

🔥 What Needs More Heat in Your Life:

Joyful connection. The real kind. Friends who get your weird jokes and check on your mental health.

Creative confidence. Make something dumb. Be cringe. Be free. The Queen of Wands demands a little flair.

Soft routines. Light a candle. Romanticize your breakfast. You deserve peace that isn’t performative.

Emotional space. You’ve done enough carrying. Put some of it down. Let softness in.

🥚 Final Vibe: You are not too much. You are not behind. You are not broken. You are a magical little fire soul who has survived storms and is now quietly building a life that actually fits.

Calcifer’s got the pan. The heat’s just right. You don’t need to rush. Let the warmth find you.

Final Note from Me (and Calcifer, Obviously):

I CANNOT believe all three piles were like “what if we lovingly dragged them and then tucked them into bed after” 😭

Everyone’s out here going through their own brand of mini tower moment, burnout spiral, or mysterious emotional molting — and that’s okay. You are allowed to be both in-progress and deserving of warmth right now. You don’t have to earn rest or joy or excitement. You’re literally a fire spirit in a little human suit trying their best.

Whether you picked:

🍳 Chef Calcifer (giving “domestic healing queen”),

😮 Screaming Calcifer (giving “emotionally feral but cute”),

or 🧂 Stressed-over-the-stove Calcifer (giving “I am a spell with legs”)...

Just know that the spark is still in you. It hasn’t gone out — it’s just simmering. Let this be your permission slip to turn the heat up exactly where it counts.

And if you’re feeling extra spicy: go do one (1) tiny thing today that feels like warmth. Light a candle. Romanticize your cereal. Say no to something soul-draining. Text the friend who makes you laugh so hard you snort.

Calcifer and I believe in your chaotic brilliance!!!!🔥💕

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Olan Ventura — Still Life with Parrot Tulip, Poppies, Roses, Snowballs (acrylic on canvas, 2019)

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This is your reminder to not fail the test of the Universe.

Right before your dream life becomes reality, you will be offered something else.

It’s always one of two:

Either an old wish that contradicts your dream life, or a reality that’s only about 80% as good as your dream life.

Never accept either of these offers.

If you do, you will fail the test.

I’ve said it before: Not even the most powerful person in the world can take what’s truly yours.

But, when you choose one of these two things over your dream, you are willingly giving up what's yours.

And the Universe will say, “If you’re settling... then okay.”

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When was the last time you said thank you for the bad things?

The failure that made you try even harder.

The heartbreak that led you to someone better.

The rejection that brought you something bigger.

The betrayal that made you much wiser.

The grief that built your soul stronger.

Sure, it’s the blessings that introduce happiness to our lives.

But it’s the bad things that help us stay happy even through the darkest nights.