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꒰ Tretij Rebenok―Psycho Mantis moodboard ꒱

જ⁀➷ 🦋 “ Which one of them are you? 1-9 ” 🦋

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big shoutout to …

- yumes who have a lot of f/os.

- yumes who are monogamous with their f/o.

- yumes who have an irl partner and their f/o(s).

- yumes who have lots and lots of love to give, and use their f/o as an outlet for that.

- yumes who don’t experience romantic attraction, and find comfort in their relationship with their f/o.

- yumes who see their relationship with their f/o as a little hobby, something silly or fun.

- yumes who take their relationship with their f/o very seriously & devote themselves.

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Quick pyscho mantis doodle, fsffsfsfsf his boss fight was really cool wish I had a controller tho

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The 2025 Gender Census is now open!

[ Link to survey ]

The 12th annual international gender census, collecting information about the language we use to refer to ourselves and each other, is now open until 30th August 2025.

It’s short and easy, for most participants it takes 5 minutes or less.

After the survey is closed I’ll process the results and publish a spreadsheet of the data and a report summarising the main findings. Then anyone can use them for academic or business purposes, self-advocacy, tracking the popularity of language over time, and just feeling like we’re part of a huge and diverse community.

If you think you might have friends and followers who’d be interested, please do reblog this blog post, and share the survey URL by email or at AFK social groups or on other social networks. Every share is extremely helpful!

Survey URL: https://survey.gendercensus.com

The survey is open to anyone anywhere who speaks English and feels that the gender binary doesn’t fully describe their experience of themselves and their gender(s) or lack thereof.

If you can't wait for survey numbers, you can click here for a public spreadsheet of non-secret info with graphs as it comes in, updated manually a few times per day.

Thank you so much!

[ Link to survey ]

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Pyscho Mantis Stim Board

Gifs all found on google, sorry

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mgs men love languages

Solid Snake, Otacon, Big Boss, Kazuhira Miller, Raiden, Revolver Ocelot, Liquid Snake

TAGS: gender neutral reader, fluff, a tiny bit angsty in Raidens part

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Solid Snake

Snake would value quality time

His favorite way to spend time with you is to train you one on one

The close proximity, the lessons you'd both learn

It was such a great way for you and him to spend time together

Snake would also enjoy playfighting

Just nudging and elbowing each other, general rough housing

Honestly I think he'd be really into that

Otacon

I'd like to think he'd be into gift giving

Since Otacon is a huge geek, he will know EXCATLY how to get whatever you want

Even if you don't ask for it

if you mention it in conversation, he'll make a mental note for later to get it for you

It doesn't matter what it is

You could mention your favorite snack in a conversation ONCE

and already the same day he'll get that exact snack for you

You need new art supplies? He's got you

Figures from your favorite media? Even they're rare to find, somehow he finds them

Big Boss 

Quality time most definitely

He's pretty busy, so he will jump to any opportunity to spend precious time with you

It doesn't matter what you guys are doing

Whether it's watching a movie, yapping to each other about your interests, taking a walk together

even something as simple as sitting in silence, he appreciates

He only wishes he had more opportunities to do so

Kazuhriza Miller

PHYSICAL TOUCH

if he can, he will be VERY open about it too

he loves cradling you in his arms, or vice versa

giving you a bunch of kisses to make sure you know you're loved

and he definitely appreciates being on the receiving end aswell

Like if you suddenly kiss him on the cheek out of nowhere?

That will be the one and only time you'll see him flustered

His mouth will be agap for a moment

before it turns into a HUGE smile

And his face is completely red aswell

Course, he'll try to make some smug remark

"Must be a lucky guy to be surprised with kisses like that"

Raiden 

I think he'd be into words of affirmation

A part of it is because of his childhood

He was so used to getting praise if he survived another days fight in the battlefield

So it's only natural for him to give the same treatment to you

Even if he's not aware of it

But another part of it, is seeing the comfort his words bring you

Seeing you ease up a bit after whatever words he said

He's addicted to it

Revolver Ocelot

Ocelot would be into acts of service

Helping you with whatever you needed helping with

MGS3 era Ocelot would do it because he thinks it makes him more "manly" 

As he gets older, he grows out that mentality (thankfully)

Beyond that though, he would do it because he just got a thrill from it

You're already dealing with alot, the least he could do is make a task a bit easier for you

Liquid Snake 

Liquid would be into words of affirmation as well

He's always bossing everyone around in Foxhound

However, on the rare occasion someone does something right 

Eli will actually praise them

"Nice work! Now if only you could work this well every day!"

I forgot to mention that, on the rare occasion he does give praise to the people around him, he'll have the most mocking tone of voice you've ever seen

This applies to you as well (expect you usually get more praise compared to everyone else)

You do something well? He will rave about it

You're not doing anything at all? He will comment on how amazing you look that day

Plus, he's just LOVES to tease you

With the others, his mocking comes from a place of disdain

But with you... it was just different

He didn't know how to explain it

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imagine your f/o gives you an article of their clothing to wear when you miss them, a jacket or a t-shirt. any worry of wishing for it back someday melts away when they see how wonderful it looks on you, the smile it puts on your pretty face.

they take it back every once in a while, wear it again, only so it retains their scent... but besides that, it will always be there for you, a warm hug from them whenever you need it, no matter the distance. <33

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BANNER UPDATE AFTER 2 FUCKING YEARS!!!

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I know that, i wasnt trying to insinuate that it was, my bad! Some of my f/os and i are closed poly

A little PSA because people still don’t get nonsharers smh

I’m going to say it again: the concept of nonsharing really isn’t that hard to understand. Some people choose not to share their F/Os because it makes them uncomfortable and that’s valid. Why shame someone for being open about their boundaries? Would you rather they lie about how they feel and quietly suffer, just to keep others happy? It’s much healthier to let people exist within their comfort zones.

Now, how someone handles being a nonsharer is a separate issue. There’s a big difference between respectfully enforcing a boundary and acting out in toxic ways like spreading misinformation about doubles, making possessive or snide remarks, or encouraging mass blocking someone just because they share the same F/O. That kind of behavior is a problem, but it’s a problem with that person, not with the concept of nonsharing itself.

Being nonsharing should have never been seen as an issue to begin with. The real problem lies with those who abuse it and create unnecessary drama. I’ve met plenty of nonsharers who simply block, move on, and stay respectful. And I’ve also seen the kind of nonsharers who give the rest a bad name.

At the end of the day, hating an entire group for the actions of a few is frankly quite stupid and close minded. I fully support nonsharers and their reasons, but I will never support those who weaponize it to be cruel. There’s a difference between having boundaries and being a jerk.

Nonsharers are valid. Period. 😤🩷

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Being nonsharing is like being monogamous and seeing your partner cheat on you. Bc its a relationship

A little PSA because people still don’t get nonsharers smh

I’m going to say it again: the concept of nonsharing really isn’t that hard to understand. Some people choose not to share their F/Os because it makes them uncomfortable and that’s valid. Why shame someone for being open about their boundaries? Would you rather they lie about how they feel and quietly suffer, just to keep others happy? It’s much healthier to let people exist within their comfort zones.

Now, how someone handles being a nonsharer is a separate issue. There’s a big difference between respectfully enforcing a boundary and acting out in toxic ways like spreading misinformation about doubles, making possessive or snide remarks, or encouraging mass blocking someone just because they share the same F/O. That kind of behavior is a problem, but it’s a problem with that person, not with the concept of nonsharing itself.

Being nonsharing should have never been seen as an issue to begin with. The real problem lies with those who abuse it and create unnecessary drama. I’ve met plenty of nonsharers who simply block, move on, and stay respectful. And I’ve also seen the kind of nonsharers who give the rest a bad name.

At the end of the day, hating an entire group for the actions of a few is frankly quite stupid and close minded. I fully support nonsharers and their reasons, but I will never support those who weaponize it to be cruel. There’s a difference between having boundaries and being a jerk.

Nonsharers are valid. Period. 😤🩷

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Btw selfshippers who vocal stim, I promise you your f/o does not think you’re annoying for it. That’s just the way you are, and they don’t mind. They love you <3

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some ocelot

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imagine your f/o reminding you…

• “I don’t care how messy you think you are. You’re mine. You’re allowed to unravel here.”

• “You never have to earn rest or softness. I want to give it to you just because you exist.”

• “Even on your worst day, I still choose you. Always.”

• “Nothing you say is ‘too much’ for me. I want to hear it all. I want to know you.”

• “You don’t have to be ‘on’ for me. If all you can do is exist, that’s still enough.”

• “Let’s just take the world off your shoulders for a while, yeah? You’ve carried enough.”

• “I’m proud of you. Not for what you did, just for being you. Just for trying.”

• “Every time I look at you I’m like, ‘Yep. That’s mine. That’s my whole world right there.’”

• “You’re not hard to love. You’re easy to love. The world just made you feel otherwise.”

• “I’m not going anywhere. I mean it. You’re stuck with me.”

• “I don’t need you to be ‘better.’ I just want you to be okay. And I’ll help however I can.”

• “Even if the rest of the world doesn’t understand you, I do. I see you.”

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Date Everything but instead of dating objects it’s all of your f/o’s and you’re the only one who gets to date them all🤩

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Your f/o would never yell at you, even when mad. They would take a deep breath before saying anything. Even if they're mad at you for any reason, they'd work it out in a way to not overwhelm you. They love you and would never want to hurt you, even accidentally.