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Looks like we’re gonna need Mod Olliepop to make the blog look all fancy and edit our about pages and icons. So we’re under construction for now! Also, anybody got some good selfship blogs to follow? We’re uh...lacking in that department since so many people are just inactive now rip

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Hi hiii!!! We’re all still alive and well, I promise! Sorry for the long hiatus OTL I wasn’t kidding when I said we forgot what the login was and I forgot the email wasn’t a gmail account BUT! Luckily Mod Olliepop had it saved on his old laptop. Olliepop always comin’ in clutch!

*Opens door*

Uh….Hi! Long time no see! I’ll be so so honest, we all kinda forgot the password for the blog ^_^” I’ve fixed it though! Now uh…I got some cleanin’ up to do and gettin’ this place up and runnin’! Do send us some asks and such~

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*Opens door*

Uh....Hi! Long time no see! I’ll be so so honest, we all kinda forgot the password for the blog ^_^” I’ve fixed it though! Now uh...I got some cleanin’ up to do and gettin’ this place up and runnin’! Do send us some asks and such~

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Imagine cuddling with your F/O(s) under a bundle of blankets on a particularly chilly night and huddling close to each other for warmth

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Imagine your villain f/o grabbing your arm, and pulling you into a dance as they sing about their evil plans. Imagine their voice, filled with pride. Imagine their face, their sinister smirk. Imagine how it’d feel, being held and gripped as you’re twirled and tossed around~

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imagine your OWN life being YOUR f/o's favorite TV show, with you being THEIR favorite character!

they love the depth you have, they empathize with your backstory, and they (of course) have your picture as their lockscreen! they love everything that makes you, well, you! even the traits you dislike.

in fact (and don't tell them I told you this), your f/o likes learning about your supposed 'shortcomings' or 'flaws' - it helps them remember that even people as wonderful as you are still human.

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imagine your f/o helping you out from a difficult therapy session!

maybe you processed some old traumas, or just are exhausted from talking about your feelings and situations.

They pick you up out of therapy and when you get home, they know not to pry too much and just help you take it easy. They make you your favorite meal for dinner, watch your favorite movie and just Be with you. Cuddles are optional, because sometimes after talking about heavy stuff can put a damper on the snuggles.

If you do want cuddles, they're all there for you, holding you close and giving you a billion kisses.

They ask if you're comfortable with them sitting in on one of your sessions, to learn how to help you better.

They research DBT skills so they can help you through anything.

And most importantly, they know your trauma isn't your fault and they love you regardless.

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When you're listening to a love song and thinking about your F/O and the song comes to that part...

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Imagine your F/O(s) in swimsuits. Imagine them seeing you in a swimsuit and getting flustered over how cute you look.

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A gentle reminder that not only is your F/O a comfort for you, but you would be a comfort for them. You love them despite any mistakes they may have made in their lives and there is no greater comfort than someone loving them unconditionally. You’re always there when they need you and the calm that washes over them when they see you is irreplaceable. YOU are irreplaceable to them. Being in your presence is like soothing a burn. Their hurts go away and in it’s place is a calm contentment they can’t describe as anything but healing. Thank you for being there for them!   

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i've been meaning to make these for a while, but here we are!!! (you guys can use them for whatever you want!)

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Imagine you and your F/O sharing a milkshake together, sitting across the table, with two straws in the same cup, gazing into each other's eyes, mesmerized.

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Imagine your F/O not being able to sleep because they’re too busy thinking about you. They stay up late into the night staring at the wall and they think about everything they’ve noticed about you. From the curve of your face to the way you laugh. They grip the sheets and think of the way you look when you’re thinking hard about something. They try to picture the way your voice sounds when you say “I love you.” They picture how your hands would feel laced with theirs. They think to themselves how they’re in too deep now.

They’re slowly losing their minds over you but they just can’t stop. They’re helplessly falling in love with you because they’ve never met someone quite like you.

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Imagine you and your F/O looking up books/comics/manga to read and talk about together

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hello! i just made this blog so i could follow other people who selfship

if you post selfship content or knows any good blogs that do please like / reply / reblog / whatever so i can follow! thank you!  

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This self-shipper is in need of a big hug from their f/o!

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Imagine cuddling with your F/O(s) under a bundle of blankets on a particularly chilly night and huddling close to each other for warmth