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My fourth child, a girl, has a very cool and unique name. I shared the story of her name on another site and was told it was a stupid name and that her nickname was ridiculous and too long to pronounce. I admit, I was hurt to the point I just deleted my comment. I wish I hadn’t. But, then again, why would I want such a beautiful memory about my child to be smeared and called stupid? It may be gone from that other sight. But I’m going to share it here now & if you have anything negative to say, please keep it to yourself. Thank you✨🌿

When I found out I was pregnant with my 4th child I soon realized I would be giving birth to her when I was 40 and that my children would all have 4’s in their ages as well. 24, 14, 4*

Our 4th child would continue with the 4’s.

She ended up being born at 4:40pm

When she arrived we still didn’t have a first name for her. Her Grandmother liked the name Estelle and we decided that would be perfect for a middle name. As for her first name, I thought it would be like last time, my 3rd child was named mere minutes from leaving the hospital.

But, this time we would end up going home with a baby with no name.

We spent a good portion of our time trying to find the perfect name for her & it just happened that on the fourth day home my Husband, who was studying the periodic table for school, came up with the perfect name for our 4th child.

The 4th element & its symbol BE was even more perfect because of the middle name we had already decided on.

Our 4th child born at 4:40pm when I was 40 years old, her siblings where 24, 14, & 4 would be named on her 4th day of life.

*~{Beryllium Estelle}~*

Lillium for short {lily-um}

I think it’s a perfect name and all the things that happened around her for her birth and name to come together like they did is truly unique.

I was just thinking about it today and how it doesn’t matter what anyone thinks. I shouldn’t have let anyone try to take this away from me even for a second. I was also appalled that anyone had the nerve to be so outright rude about someone else’s name choices. It’s honestly very disgusting behavior.

But, life moves on as do I. I love her and everything surrounding who she is and how her name came to us and all the 4s surrounding her.

* Although 3 of the 4 children were planned, the age gap was not😉

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