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Cheap AliExpress Bitchsuit REVIEW

The long awaited for review of the cheap AliExpress Bitchsuit is here!

I bought and paid for this suit myself back in November 2020. I am not being paid to make this post.

I have linked down below the URLs to the suit and I bought the black one.

As you can see the suit has a pretty basic design. This reduces the price of the suit but there are some drawbacks to this which I will detail. From my research, this suit is a clone of HWDesign’s “Bondage Suit Doggy“. Quite a famous suit used by a few video makers that I have posted on here.

The major problem, for me at least and maybe not you if you are more bendy, is the leg design and zips. This style of suit requires you to bend your foot backwards behind you or crossed inwards behind your butt. This is quite uncomfortable if you are not very bendy or use to this position. If you are thin, you might not have this issue but for us with a few extra pounds on or with legs that have decent amount of muscle on, you might struggle with this suit for longer than 10-20 mins.

(photo above is to show off how your feet need to be, as you can see for this user, she is able to bend them enough to fit behind without crossing them. This allows for full zip entry and some sitting.)

(Another photo of how crossing your feet can also work. This is not a suit fyi. Just spandex with arms and knees bent over like in a Bitchsuit).

Because of this design, it is quite hard to get into the suit solo. I very much recommend that you have someone help you in and adjust the suit so that you are as comfortable as possible as long sessions in this suit wont be much fun otherwise.

This photo is of KinkProjects’ version of the suit. As you can see, they have added extra room in the legs compared to the AliExpress and HWDesign suits. This results in a much better fit.

If you saw in December when I posted that my suit got damaged, this was because there is little reinforcement in this area at the back where the zip ends.

The zippers used are okay quality and are clipped together using metal clips. While that is fine for most stuff, due to the ends of your feet wanting to spring out while putting on the suit, there is a lot of force being placed onto these zips. Resulting in the zip giving way and ripping the latex as in my case. Luckily for me I have fixed latex sheets before so I had glue on hand along with extra sheets. I ended up replacing this whole rear panel and reinforced both leg zips with latex sheet. Since doing this, I have had no issues. But just be careful if you do get this suit and try to put it on solo.

The suit is 0.4mm by the way. The latex is of an okay quality. Standard Chinese latex and glue so don’t expect it to last forever.

I went for the XXL size. I am around 5′7″ and 180lbs. With my legs crossed behind my rear end, the suit becomes very tight. And took a lot of effort to get on. Talking 20+ mins to get all zipped up when solo. With a helping hand, getting into the suit will take less than 3-5 mins. The main issue is that when your legs are crossed behind you, you pull down the back of the suit which makes zipping up the arms quite difficult when solo. With your legs behind you like in the stock photos shown above, I don’t think this would be as much of an issue. But for me, this is the only way to get into the suit. I managed around 30 mins like this before I just had to take my legs out due to pain.

Walking on all fours with this suit is okay. The ends of the legs and arms are just rounded over and have seams. Unless if you are making use of the latex stretch, as in you are filling the suit and stretching it 5-10%, you will end up with some excess on the tips. This is again not comfortable as the layers become pinch points. Flat bottoms are always better (even more so if they are padded) but this is a budget suit so we don’t get those. Walking around with your feet forced behind your butt cheeks or slightly interlocked is not great either. Sitting is a no go for sure. You are either on all fours, on your back or being suspended from ropes.

Front access is okay but I found the zipper does not come up the belly enough. It digs into my you know what at the top. If it was enough inch higher it would be okay but as it stands, for me at least, it slightly pinches my you know what. Women you will find the zip fine, in fact maybe too long up the front. It is double zipped for your pleasure. This style of suit can support rear entry as long as you have your legs behind you and not slightly interlocked. Personally I would prefer a hole at the front rather than zip but that is personal preference. Note that interlocking your legs does pull the zip back a little which does not help that it is already so low at the top.

I paid $85 in total as I bought it with faster shipping via EMS. It arrived in about 2-3 weeks. These sellers now offer AliExpress’ shipping service which is around the same time these days for half the cost. Right now as I write this review, the suit is $51 and AliExpress shipping is $16. So $67 total. Which is not too bad for what you are getting. The suit has a few issues for sure. But it is a budget suit. My dream suit is around $600 and that is before you start adding on custom fit and options. Total is $770 with the options I want. Ouch! As a test suit to see if you like latex BitchSuits, I think it is worth it. You will have some fun for sure! You can get it on solo though it is a pain and probably requires the same fixes I did. With a couple, you will have good fun. I recommend getting a latex or steel collar and a nice mask to go with it to complete the suit.

(photo above is not of the suit I am reviewing)

Overall, if you want a bit of fun but don’t want to spend over $100. This is totally worth it. Is it as good as the $600+ German made one? No. It is a 1/10 the price. But for $67 it is something you can easily add to your collection and force people into without much trouble. Sessions can easily last 20-60 mins without much discomfort (plus the whole putting it on and off can be another fun 60 mins, especially if you are being forced into it) and the feeling of being forced to walk on all fours is great.

Here are the links to buy this suit. First two are the seller I bought from, any more are other sellers but they are the same people AFAIK.

Black https://s.click.aliexpress.com/e/_AWCvoL

White https://s.click.aliexpress.com/e/_AVz91H

Multiple colour options here https://s.click.aliexpress.com/e/_AAks3b

There are some other cheap suits out there. I plan on getting them to review if you guys want me to. So let me know! This review took a while to make and was quite difficult due to me being on my own. Please consider donating to my Bitchsuit fund so I can get some more suits to review! If you plan on getting this suit, use the links provided as they also go towards the fund.

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Suits I am after are from AquaLatex and another AliExpress suit.

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severelygeneraltale · 4 years ago

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...ganz genau, sie braucht ja noch ihre dicke spreitzhose...aber die Farbe passt nicht dazu darum schnell ausziehen und...

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severelygeneraltale · 4 years ago

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severelygeneraltale · 4 years ago

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You are being punished...

Pick up your desired level of restraints...

-Light restraints: Posey Mitts

-Moderate restraints: Segufix handcuffs belt

-Moderate to heavy restraints: Segufix handcuffs belt and posey mitts.

-Heavy restraints: Posey straitjacket

-Complete restraints: posey straitjacket and muzzled.

-Extreme restraints: Segufix complete bed restraints.

-Ultimate restraints: Segufix complete bed restraints and muzzled.

-Ultimate severe restraints: Segufix complete bed restraints and hooded sensory deprived.

Note: Every levels of restraints includes thick diapers and plastic pants.

WHICH ONE will you choose?🤔

And for how long?🕑

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severelygeneraltale · 4 years ago

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Hypnosis

Preface

First, if you don’t like hypnosis, this post isn’t for you. Yes, I understand that hypnosis files should be assumed to be permanent and irreversible, and that nobody should assume they have a safety margin before the effects kick in. I assume my audience are mature enough to realise that.

Second, for those of you who have already been conditioned with hypnotic triggers, there are uncensored triggers in this post, so stop reading at the end of this sentence if you don’t want to risk being triggered.

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Urinate NOW.

(If you have EMG’s InstantWetting trigger, can be triggered through text, and kept reading past the end of that sentence, it’s your own damn fault.)

About hypnotic files

I have honestly found that hypnosis derives its power through belief. If you believe it can work, it can. I know several people who I cannot reasonably disbelieve have successfully given themselves subconscious hypnotic triggers.

If you have gotten past the milestone of believing that hypnosis can work, the next most important thing to remember is that it is essentially impossible to condition you to do anything you don’t want to do. Some people enter hypnotic trance and, after they leave, they don’t know what happened to them; I don’t know about them.

However, the state of consciousness I have experienced during hypnosis is simply standard consciousness, except completely relaxed (to the point of finding it extremely difficult to move my limbs) and completely willing to do what the hypnotist orders me to do, to the best of my ability.

I would still say that I have been hypnotically forced to do things, though; the sensation I experience when wetting my diaper under hypnosis is unlike the sensation of wetting it when completely conscious - it feels more as if my bladder has simply decided to start peeing on its own, without my input. It does feel like voluntary wetting, but not voluntary on my part - on the part of something in my bladder.

You personally, however, may be more or less suggestible than I am, or than average. I personally think I am less suggestible than average because I achieve results more slowly than average. The spectrum is huge: some people report total loss of control after listening to a complete incontinence file once, others take a year or never achieve it at all. Almost all files appear to be successful for someone, though.

Personally, I found that when I was training with EMG’s InstantWetting trigger, I had some effects after a week. I never actually wet myself on command, but when commanded to ‘Urinate NOW’, I would find that I had arched my crotch upward slightly and started attempting to pee a couple of seconds before I actually realised what I was doing.

It was at that point that I decided that a common trigger which causes you to uncontrollably wet yourself regardless of what you are doing, what you are wearing or what the circumstances are, was not necessarily a good thing to have in my head, so I stopped training. Depending on how full-time diapering goes, I may start training again.

Types of hypnotic files

Inductions - You listen to these while conscious and, ideally, they take you into a hypnotic state. Some inductions are standalone. Many files have inductions built in; I have not experienced more success by stacking inductions, and the change of narrators, themes or other elements may actually jar some people out of a hypnotic state.

Deepeners - You listen to these while already somewhat further down than full consciousness, and they take you deeper. I have never used one.

Body - The body file is where the actual suggestions are. Most of the files I have used have had spoken bodies - that is, someone straight-up says, “When you hear x, you will do y”, or simply “Do y”. By implication, the body also includes the awakener - I have never seen standalone inductions paired with standalone awakeners.

Subliminal - My understanding is that you listen to these not necessarily while hypnotised, but as often as necessary, and they implant or reinforce suggestions without you being aware of it. I haven’t tried one of these for long enough to notice an effect.

Video - These are what they sound like: a hypnotic file which relies on a video for part of its hypnotic effect. Personally I occasionally have trouble using these, because I tend to want to lie back and relax with my eyes closed when being successfully tranced, but they do apparently work for some people.

Environment

In my experience, hypnosis is much less effective when interrupted by more than very slight, momentary distraction. If you’re scared of your parents or housemates walking in on you and so you’re keeping an ear out for the sound of them moving around the house, it is going to have a negative effect on how well you retain the triggers.

Protection is also important. I tend to wear cloth diapers when trancing because they fit me in such a way that I can be sure that if I’m forced to wet, I won’t leak. If you’re using a continence-related file while lying on a surface you would not want to leak on (which is really just about any surface), wear a diaper you’re confident in.

Presentation styles

Straight - A lot of files seem to be like this. Someone talks to you, you listen very intently to them, and you trance. There are no tricks.

Themed - Some files (specifically, in my experience, AB/DL files) use background stimuli related to the suggestion. A file that will make you wet yourself might use running water. A file with an AB/DL purpose might have nursery music.

Confusion - These have been the most effective for me. They use audio tricks like echo, and a script with some level of misdirection, to force you to listen hard, because you can’t predict what the next word will be and you might miss it unless you listen really closely.

A selection of hypnotic files that I’ve used

Wet Echo by allison-in-love - This is the one I have found the most success with. The file implants an obedience trigger (‘Allison owns you’), then uses the trigger to command/compel you to wet yourself.

Sissy Poopy Time by Brand_X - This works for me too, even though it shouldn’t (I’m not especially sissy and messing is a taboo for me). A lot of the effectiveness is the background sounds, which are indeed associated with things that make control in that area harder for me.

ShowMeYourDiaper by EMG - If the file works, you take a picture of your diaper and upload it. In my case, it worked (I am an exhibitionist).

InstantWetting by EMG - When you hear 'Urinate now’, you urinate. I was only ever triggered through text, but I still experienced some success; you may not immediately, but that doesn’t make you unusual, as there are definitely files circulating which make you receptive to text triggers.

Interesting hypnotic files I haven’t used

The Diaper Does It by Sarnoga - Triggered by you putting on a diaper. Causes you to lose wetting control whenever you are wearing a diaper, including while you are asleep. Self-reinforcing: if you don’t wear a diaper at least once every ten days, you start wetting your pants or bed, and the file only completely wears off once you’ve done this twenty times, so it is essentially impossible to escape from if you have anywhere near a normal degree of interaction with the world.

Safe Bladder Bowel Loss by EMG - Causes you to lose wetting and messing control while, and only while, wearing a diaper and being in a safe place. You decide what a safe place is.

Diaper Trap by EMG - Causes you to lose wetting control while wearing a diaper and for two hours after removing it, regardless of circumstances.

Trig Diaper Dependence by hellion0 - Causes you to lose wetting control when triggered and regain it when untriggered; however, you can’t untrigger yourself. If you can’t get untriggered by someone else, it takes three days for you to regain wetting control.

TrainBedWetting by EMG - Pretty self-explanatory.

TrainBladderIncontinent by EMG - Also pretty self-explanatory.

TrigIncontinence by EMG - Causes you to lose wetting and messing control when someone says “incontinence time for you” and regain it when someone says “revert to normal”.

Anything by ForAdultBabies.com - FAB is a paysite providing incontinence training and behavioural training files. Incontinence training can be sleep-wetting only, wetting all the time, or wetting and messing all the time. Behavioural training includes self-triggerable or other-triggerable regression options. There is also a universal reversal file which will remove any conditioning from above.

A polite note

Do not train unethically. There are files which will, for example, compel you to exclaim loudly how much you love your diapers every time you change them. If you are a lifestyle AB/DL, this is more than likely going to cause you to expose non-consenting parties to things they really didn’t need to be aware of. That is unethical.

This doesn’t mean don’t do anything extreme. You are quite entitled to permanently remove your own toilet training, which is pretty extreme and likely a bad decision for the vast majority of people. The point is that it is not unethical unless someone else relies on you to be toilet-trained - if, for example, you have a partner who you know would object to you un-toilet-training yourself, or if you aren’t prepared to wear swim diapers when swimming.

If you are absolutely unable to resist doing something under the influence of hypnotic training, it is still your fault. You chose to be trained. You don’t get out of the blame, because you knew this would happen when you were trained and you decided to be trained anyway.

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severelygeneraltale · 4 years ago

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AB/DL Caretaker Contract

I have designed the following contract to provide some basic ground rules that may be used in an AB-Caretaker relationship. Though this contract may not be legally enforceable, it contains sufficient provisions of semi-binding nature to show how to deal with any conflict that may arise within the course of such relationship. You may adapt it to your wishes and use it as guidelines for your own relationship, if you so wish. Have fun!

AB/DL Caretaker Contract

between __________________________________________

(hereinafter: “the charge”)

and _____________________________________________

(hereinafter: “the caretaker”)

Preamble

The following is an agreement between consenting adults who wish to engage in a long-term relationship based on mutual trust and common interests. The parties of this agreement hereby acknowledge and declare that they enter into this agreement of their own volition and free from any undue influence or force. The parties further acknowledge and accept that this agreement contains a long-term commitment which may only be resolved under certain conditions in accordance with the legitimate interests of the respective other party. With regard to the nature of this agreement, the parties further declare to be aware that its execution may lead to long-term or even permanent physical and/or mental changes which will affect inter alia the charge´s continence and his/her ability to control his/her bladder and bowels. The parties hereby confirm that it is indeed their will to bring about these changes with all their ramifications and consequences, knowing that they may proof to be irreversible and permanent. In full knowledge of these consequences and their possible impact on his/her future life and living conditions, the charge hereby confirms that it is indeed his/her genuine and most sincere wish to be rendered incontinent and diaper dependent as a result of the unpotty training regimen set out in this agreement, knowing that these effects may proof to be irreversible and permanent.

§ 1 – General Provisions, Objective of this agreement

By virtue of this agreement the parties establish a long-term relationship governed by a mutually accepted set of rules and obligations, in which they will adopt the roles of (dominant) caretaker and (submissive) charge to fulfill their mutual desires.

§ 2 – Roles and Obligations of the Parties

(1) Throughout the period of validity of this agreement, from its entry into force till its termination, the parties adopt the following roles and responsibilities:

- caretaker:

The caretaker is responsible for the care and well-being of his/her charge and is inter alia in charge of the charge´s education, discipline and diaper training. He/she enforces the rules set out in this agreement and ensures that the charge´s every need is met so that he/she may thrive and become a healthy and well-behaved adult baby.

- charge:

The charge is obligated to submit to the care provided by the caretaker in accordance with this agreement and the rules set out therein. He/she will discard all his/her former adult responsibilities, with the exception of those explicitly specified in this agreement, and will let the caretaker take care of things in his/her stead. In particular, he/she will give up control over his/her bladder and bowels and will submit to the agreed upon unpotty training regimen until full diaper dependency is achieved.

(2) The caretaker may appoint representatives (e.g. baby sitters) to fulfill his/her responsibilities under this agreement in his/her stead whenever the need arises, provided that these representatives are open towards the AB/DL lifestyle and respect the limits and obligations under this agreement. The caretaker is responsible for any violation or lack of care that may result from the appointment of these representatives and is obligated to ensure that this agreement is abided by at all times. The charge may oppose the appointment of any representative only insofar as he/she is able to raise legitimate concerns in this regard.

§ 3 - Duration and Conditions for Termination

(1) This agreement shall be valid and in full effect until it is terminated by one of the parties.

(2) This agreement may be terminated by the charge only under the following conditions:

- in case of severe and/or persistent violations of rules or limits set out in this agreement by caretaker or representative, immediately without having to comply with any cancellation period

- in case of serious lack of care by caretaker or representative, if no remedy is provided within two weeks after a substantiated complaint or if the breach of duty continues to persist even after such remedy has been provided, immediately without having to comply with any cancellation period

- in case of other compelling reasons of such importance that the party giving notice cannot reasonably be expected to continue the relationship established under this agreement, after taking all circumstances of the individual case into account and after weighing the interests of both parties to the contract, immediately without having to comply with any cancellation period.

- without any particular reason with effect to the end of the year, after at least one full year has passed since the beginning of care, provided that notice is given at least three months prior.

(3) This agreement may be terminated by the caretaker only under the following conditions:

- in case of severe and/or persistent violations of rules or limits set out in this agreement committed by the charge, if these violations pose a serious threat to the caretaker´s health or his/her reputation, immediately without having to comply with any cancellation period

- in case of other persistent violations of rules or limits set out in this agreement committed by the charge, if they persist even after all other means of discipline provided under this agreement have been exhausted or proven to be ineffective, immediately without having to comply with any cancellation period

- in case other compelling reasons of such importance that the party giving notice cannot reasonably be expected to continue the relationship established under this agreement, after taking all circumstances of the individual case into account and after weighing the interests of both parties to the contract, immediately without having to comply with any cancellation period

- without any particular reason at the end of year with at least 6 months of prior notification, provided that a proper replacement is found that meets the charge´s needs and is willing to continue the care in the caretaker´s stead according to the provisions of this agreement (possible candidates are to be discussed with the charge beforehand).

§ 4 – Limits and Restrictions

(1) Insofar as the charge is employed or pursuing a career, none of the provisions of this agreement may be interpreted in any manner that would affect these undertakings. In particular, the caretaker may not interfere with the charge´s professional obligations and has to allow the charge to maintain a professional appearance in all work-related matters. The rules set out in this agreement, in particular the ones in regard to bedtime, appearance, conditions for diaper changes, diaper type and diaper usage, are to be adjusted accordingly.

(2) The general goal of training the charge to become diaper dependent, however, has to be pursued at all times and may not interfered with for any reason whatsoever. This precludes any concessions that would allow the charge to use the toilet or to stop wearing and using diapers, even if it were only for a short while.

(3) None of the provisions of this agreement may be interpreted in any manner that would be contrary to public policy or the law applicable where the charge is habitually resident or habitant.

§ 5 – Safeguards for Public Exposure

To avoid legal ramifications or detrimental effects for the charge´s social standing, the charge must be dressed and treated in such manner when in public or in the presence of other people not being part of the AB/DL community, that public decency is adhered and that no other people are molested. If the charge´s diapers are to be exposed or changed in public, it has to be done in a socially acceptable manner. Appropriate safeguards need to be taken to ensure that the charge´s identity is protected.

§ 6 – Rules to be enforced by the Caretaker

(1) The caretaker is responsible for the enforcement of the following rules the charge has to abide by, for as long as this agreement is in force:

1. Diapers are to be worn 24/7, no exceptions.

2. The toilet is off limits. Diapers are to be used at all times.

3. All potty privileges are revoked. Diapers are to be used as soon as the need arises.

4. Diapers may only be changed/removed by caretaker, his/her representatives or with their explicit permission.

5. To ensure proper diaper usage, diapers are only to be changed, if they are either messy or filled to the point of leaking. No diaper changes may be requested before then.

6. Random diaper checks may be performed at all times to avoid leakage and to ensure proper diaper usage. The charge may not interfere with these regardless of the circumstances.

7. To keep the charge regular, the following rules apply:

- The charge has to drink at least 3 liters per day.

- The charge may not eat any salty or unhealthy food, unless with explicit permission of caretaker or representative.

- At least one of the charge´s daily meals has to consist only of baby food.

- If the charge has no proper bowel movement within 24 hours, suppositories, enemas or laxatives are used to relieve the constipation.

- The charge has to consume every meal/drink it is given by caretaker or representative regardless of its taste or its ingredients, unless it conflicts with the dietary requirements or limits established beforehand (e.g. to avoid allergic reactions).

- The caretaker may decide at any time that the charge is not ready to feed himself/herself and may take it upon himself/herself to feed him/her instead. The charge has to submit and may not interfere or protest.

8. Unless otherwise specified, all drinks are to be consumed from baby bottles or sippy cups.

9. Bedtime is at 8 pm, unless otherwise specified. Once put to bed, the charge may not leave it until 6 am the next day unless with explicit permission of caretaker or representative. Noncompliance may be sanctioned with spankings and additional restraints.

10.Whenever the caretaker or a representative is present, the charge may not adjust his/her appearance in any way without explicit permission of caretaker or representative. This includes covering or hiding worn diapers or any other accessories indicating the charge´s babyhood.

(2) Unless otherwise specified, these rules may only be altered or amended by agreement of all parties involved.

§ 7 – Enforced Diaper Training

(1) The caretaker may take appropriate steps to ensure that the charge fully commits to his/her diaper training and gives up any remaining resistance against becoming diaper dependent.

(2) The goal of achieving diaper dependence is to be achieved primary by means of natural unpotty training. Long-term treatment with invasive measures (e.g. catheters, stents, plugs) may only be used as means of last resort, if natural unpotty training has failed due to the charge´s continuing resistance.

§ 8 – Curative Measures

The caretaker may take appropriate steps to keep the charge clean and healthy.

He/she may in particular:

- remove the charge´s pubic hair and excess body hair and take appropriate steps to hinder its regrowth

- prevent masturbation (either by restraints or use of chastity devices)

- administer enemas, prostate massages and other curative measures

- ensure good hygiene (by force if necessary)

- determine the charge´s haircut and hair style

- adjust the charge´s diet to ensure optimal weight and healthy digestion

- take steps to ensure the charge´s physical fitness

§ 9 - Disciplinary Measures

The following punishments may be administered by the caretaker or his/her representatives at their discretion in accordance with the principle of proportionality and the limits set out in this section and in the rest of the agreement:

- Spanking (e.g.: hand, hairbrush, paddle)

> only on bare/diapered bottom and thighs

> no open wounds, no lasting bruises, no long-term harm

- Reflective Punishments, such as

corner time, time out, being send to bed early, writing lines, temporary crib confinement, etc.

- Enemas, Suppositories and Laxatives

> medical limits need to be observed

> goal is to enforce natural bowel movements, not to rely on forced ones

- Bondage, Restraints and Restrictive Clothing, such as

lockable plastic pants/onesies, padded mittens, spreader bars/pants, pacifier gags, cuffs, crib restraints, etc.

- Stricter Rules (temporary)

> This may not alter the nature of the rules set out in this agreement and may only affect their severity (e.g. earlier bedtime, more baby food, less big kid privileges)

> Even this may not interfere with the charge´s professional obligations or other limits set out in this agreement

- Enforced Chastity

> in case of prolonged chastity, prostate massages are to be given when advisable

- Anal Stretching (e.g. buttplugs, stretching rings)

> Bodily damage must be avoided (e.g. caution required in case of hemorrhoids)

> Long-term stretching only if natural unpotty training has failed

- Catheterization

> Bodily damage must be avoided; proper hygiene required

> Long-term catheterization only if natural unpotty training has failed

- Humiliation

> This may not be applied in any manner that would affect the charge´s career or its social standing and has to be done in socially acceptable manner

> possible scenarios (non-exhaustive):

- forced to use diaper in presence of other people

- forced to buy diapers in person while in used diaper

- forced to publish pictures / videos / reports of punishments (without revealing identity or showing name and face)

- forced to announce diaper usage in public

- public outings with diaper partly exposed

- public outings in diaper with punctured outer layer

- public outings while holding enema / after taking laxative

> to minimize risk of detrimental consequences, most scenarios have to take place in locations where the charge is not known

- Prolonged time without diaper changes

> Layers may be added to avoid leaks

> Bodily harm needs to be avoided; proper use of lotions, creams, etc. required

- Other Discomfort Punishments, such as

mouth soaping, diaper fillings (e.g. ice, oatmeal, nettles, etc.), uncomfortable clothes, forced masturbation, etc.

§ 10 – Assessment of Progress

The caretaker may take appropriate steps to assess the progress of the charge´s education and diaper training. At the end of each month, the results and their consequences are to be discussed with the charge, followed by a talk about the plans and milestones set out for the following month. The charge may oppose these only insofar as he/she has legitimate concerns regarding the compliance with the limits set out in this agreement.

§ 11 – Closing provisions

If a provision of this agreement is or becomes legally invalid or if there is any gap that needs to be filled, the validity of the remainder of the agreement shall not be affected thereby. Invalid provisions shall be replaced by common consent with such provisions which come as close as possible to the intended result of the invalid provision. In the event of gaps such provision shall come into force by common consent which comes as close as possible to the intended result of the agreement, should the matter have been considered in advance. Any changes of or amendments to this agreement must be in writing to become effective.

______________________

Charge

______________________

Caretaker

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severelygeneraltale · 5 years ago

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Some additional pictures of my self bondage-setup.

Play safe. Here is my list for bondage play:

1. Never play with a ligature around your neck. Or anything that could act as a ligature around your neck. Never play with strangulation, even with a partner.

2. If you do bondage, have a backup. This applies to all types of bondage. It is better to play with two bondage-buddies than just one. Play parties can provide tens of backups. The Delta and Inferno runs have specific designated individuals to keep the play safe. When I do self-bondage I have four separate timers, a connection to two smoke detectors, and someone who will check on me if I don’t show up.

3. Don’t eat, drink, or take drugs excessively prior to play. Don’t play when sick.

4. Throwing up and passing out need to be planned for, even if the event is unlikely. They both can quickly result in dangerous bondage scene. There is a good reason that surgeons insist that you to fast prior to an operation.

5. Don’t obstruct your breathing. Most autoerotic deaths are the result of asphyxia. The one death I know about occurred at a play party was also the result of asphyxia. So DO NOT obstruct your breathing if doing self-bondage. If your breathing becomes blocked, even when playing with others, there is only about three minutes for your play partner(s) to recognize the problem and fix it. Gags, gas masks, any form of breath-control, and most hoods are inherently unsafe in self-bondage.

6. Play with safe people. People that use drugs excessively, including alcohol & marijuana, are not safe play partners. Play with people that pay attention. If you are new to bondage, play parties can be a safe place to meet people. Once you know people in the scene, play with people your friends know and have played with. Talk to strangers, just don’t let them tie you up, especially at your place. If you insist on playing with strangers make sure a friend knows with who and where you are playing. See item #2 - have a backup.

7. If you play by yourself it is safer if you are mobile enough to get out of the building or call 911 in the US (for other countries see: http://www.sccfd.org/travel.html). Remember, you really will not die from embarrassment.

8. If you do long term play make sure you can get water and food. I have heard you can go without air for three minutes, without water for three days, and without food for three weeks. So for self-bondage air and water gives you a “safety-window” of three weeks for someone to find you.

9. Have at least two keys for every lock. Know where the keys are, Store locks locked, it forces you to check the lock by unlocking it prior to use. For self-bondage make sure you can not only reach the needed keys, but that you can also get the keys into the lock. Have a knife or scissors for cutting straps and rope. Have a grinder and/or a bolt cutter for cutting locks, chains, handcuffs, and leg irons. (And if you play with rivets, a tool to remove rivets.) Use as few locks as you can. Simpler the better.

Play save. Be safe. I believe that if self-bondage is carefully done it is as safe as other risky activities such as surfing, skydiving, scuba diving, and flying your own plane. These and many other risky activities can be done safely with the proper planning, precautions, and preparation.

For a wonderful example of being prepared, see Jeremy Foley and his co-driver Yuri Kouznetsov’s 2012 Pikes Peak International Hill Climb crash: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=on3RxOpGNYA. They reportedly walked away “[a] little beaten up but nothing major” after the crash.

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