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listen. aging into your thirties rocks. yes your joints get a little creaky. yes you can’t sleep in a pretzel on the floor anymore after a concert or a convention. and you lose some friends. but the thing is that you sort out who your real friends are and you sort out who you really are. and you get to see your friends settling into careers they like, and adopt new dogs and cats, and you find a job you can stand, and get really good at arts and crafts, and maybe that book you loved as a kid gets a movie deal and it doesn’t suck, and you learn to like new food and bake your own bread, and you realize that the great portfolio of self harm scars you all used to curate are going white with age and not updated, and half your friends are a different gender now and so much happier and maybe you are too, and you know who you are, and that it’s a journey and not a revelation. it’s a direction you’re headed, and you’re enjoying the trip.

reaching your 30′s rocks. and i’m hearing good things about what comes next, too.

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"you cant heal if you pretend you're not hurt"

-filmythings

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"someone who allows you to rest" is the relationship dynamic of all time

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pre menstrual sadness beats my ass every month and I can't do anything about it

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Gaslighting isn’t the same as lying.

Gaslighting also isn’t lying a lot, or lying and deflecting the lying by shaming the victim for not believing the lie.

Gaslighting is a long con. It is a practice of ongoing emotional/mental abuse, that doesn’t just involve lying, but manipulating or altering someone’s reality in order to make them question both the truth, and more importantly, question their own mental and cognitive wellbeing.

The reason that it’s called gaslighting is because the tactic was demonstrated in a 1944 film called “Gaslight” starring Ingrid Bergman. In the film, Bergman‘s character’s husband tries to make her have a mental breakdown.

He tells her that she is having blackouts (she’s not) and doing things that she didn’t do.

He steals things from her, and tells her that she lost them herself.

He makes noises in the attic of the house, then tells her that he wasn’t in the house at all.

He steals things from other people, puts them where she will find them, and then tells her that she stole them.

He puts his pocket watch in her purse and tells her that she stole it from him.

He isolates her from the world by telling her that her behavior is too erratic to be safe near others.

He encourages their housemaid to be cruel to her and to repeat his lies about her behavior.

And, to apply the title, he repeatedly causes the gas lighting (it’s set in 1875) in her bedroom to go dim, then comes into the room, and when she says that the lighting is dim, he says, no, it’s perfectly fine.

It goes well beyond just lying. Gaslighting is a setup to make the victim so confused that they’re unable to trust themselves and their own perceptions of the world around them or even themselves.

It’s beyond time to stop calling run of the mill dishonesty gaslighting.

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wanting to talk to people is so fucking embarrassing. literally hi it's me again I wanted to have a conversation with you because I think you're fun to talk to. oh god you can just fucking kill me if you want sorry

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learning that people want you in their lives is a skill you can develop if it does not come naturally

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GIFs of Stargate Outtakes/Bloopers Part 3

Here are some more GIFs for your viewing pleasure 🙂

Outtake #55

Outtake #56

Outtake #4

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More Stargate Outtake/Blooper GIFs

Here are some more GIFs from the clips Joe Mallozzi has been posting. Enjoy!

Outtake #37

Outtake #39

Outtake #35

Outtake #20

Outtake #16

Outtake #6

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GIFs from SG-1 outtake/blooper clips

Here are some gifs from the fun Stargate outtakes/bloopers that Joe Mallozzi has been posting on Twitter! I’ll keep adding more as I make them.

Outtake #50

Outtake #52

Outtake #53

Additional GIFs:

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STARGATE SG-1 1x15

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can he not. post these things. what is this. SIR. why THAT QUOTE. HELLOOO????

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I saw this quote and I just had to do a Teslen version :D