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best thing you can do with a repressed character is hit them with various hammers and sharp objects until they crack open to reveal beautiful sparkling homosexuality inside. geode guy

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*meeeting a friend for coffee* friend: how's work been?

me: oh you know *mimes putting a gun in my mouth but i moan a little and start sucking the barrel and pushing it deeper

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cameo from julian bailey answering a couple questions if anyone wants this . 1. acab son or franco goon daughter 2. would he work at the pentagon 3. easterman impression

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if you just followed me bc i followed you

the blog i normally use nowadays - @existentialcrisisetcetera

my nsfw blog - @v-bee-lilac

the one full of cute animals - @blanketsandcakes

the reason my blog is full of pro-choice posts - now-ex-friend followed me and we were arguing about abortion for Months instead of just cutting ties. also she made an aita post about me, which is also on this blog and the funniest thing to ever happen to me

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can one of you tell me to get my shit together and finish my fic already. i Will join the coyle fuckers union

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IVE BEEN LOOKING FOR THIS FOR AGES

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This was an interesting read. Surprisingly nonpreachy given the subject; and well worth the time.

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This is a bad idea but:

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If there’s one thing I learned since I signed up on 2/28/16, 5:11:37 PM, it’s that #i didnt think you would do it takes up too much of my time.

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oh so they’re just saying the quiet part out loud? Good to know they’re just out and open now

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Happy May Day! 🏴🏴🏴

For a short history of this day of celebration and resistance across a century and a half:

https://crimethinc.com/MayDayHistory

To give a sense of what the day means to us, read this excerpt of a text published today in Russian by the anarchist project http://akrateia.info.

We've translated it because it is a beautiful and inspiring expression of how the struggle for liberation and mutual aid has persisted across centuries against all odds.

"Mayday is an international distress signal in radio communications, similar to the SOS signal in telegraph communications. This is an approximation of the French phrase 'm'aidez,' a shortened version of the phrase 'venez m'aider'(meaning 'come to my aid,' 'help me'). On this day, we offer to come to each other’s aid (what Peter Kropotkin called 'mutual aid').

"We appeal to you: wherever you are—under fire, in a hospital, in prison, in a foreign country, trying to find a way to earn money, in your native country where you risk becoming a victim of torture by the authorities—we want to remind you that you are not alone. We want to be with you in spirit, no matter how difficult it may be right now.

"Anarchism never died. Throughout the bloody history of the 20th century. it survived and developed. If you are reading these lines, that means you are also involved in our great cause. How many times have anarchist periodicals addressed their readers on May 1? How many times have anarchists feared that anarchism might die and totalitarian countries and fascists would win?

"We will continue, as our predecessors did. We will not give up because we are coming to help each other."

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Uh oh sisters

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can i get a price for my wonderful Long Boy?

The wonderful long boy showing off his full lanky form! Get the impressive long kitty for only $32.79!

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hey guys, i have an update 4 months later. i can confirm from @whyisthisposted's reblogs that the screenshots in question ARE of me and my ex-friend's messages, so this is our situation.

why am i only updating now? long story short she just got a massive callout for, among other things: harassing people, driving someone to the point of suicide, and (as a twenty year old) sending porn to a fifteen year old. considering that shit i consider myself no longer required to keep my promises to her.

yes this argument was about abortion. shes pro life, i am pro choice, and the "passing comment" was about being pro life and being glad roe vs wade was abolished. i was asked to keep this a secret and i did bc we were friends at the time and later bc i have this whole moral code thing.

i think she left this out of the post bc. well. theres no universe where you are not the bad guy for telling your "best friend" (who you know would rather die than go through a pregnancy) that you would have no moral issue blocking their access to an abortion.

i reacted terribly, and our split was extremely messy and drawn out because neither of us wanted to let go of our friendship. bad communication all round and a lot of unnecessary arguing when frankly i should have just blocked her and been done with it, which i can say now with certainty now that its not my first friend breakup.

thats all, have a nice day and stay safe yall

AITA for ditching my best friend and not believing what they say?

My former best friend was great. We were the same age. We just got each other, and they never seemed to think I was weird as they were also autistic. They would regularly tell me they loved me and I trusted them. I trusted them to keep their word and to not be hypocritical, as they were also my confidant.

Not too long ago we got into an argument over a passing comment I had made about myself. They ended when they either took a break or I "won," but it didn't feel like winning. I was calm while they weren't afraid of insulting me. I thought we had agreed to disagree; I thought the best of them. But then they admitted that they would post things out of spite and ignore me even though they made a vent post about the same situation happening to them? (On this occasion they talked behind that person's back to a bunch of other people, then later said they talked it out)

Then they wanted me to "repent" about something i said a few months ago as a hypothetical, as in "an apology isn't enough" even though they already admitted beforehand that i was right and they agreed with me. They used our friendship as a bargaining chip. I don't know if it's related but they knew I had abandonment issues.

I was torn about choosing between my morals and their friendship. They were everything to me. I replied and left the internet for a few months, especially because they told me to leave the situation if I couldn't handle it. It was hard knowing that my depression before that incident was probably because they would regularly talk down to me and start arguments seemingly at random. I always responded to them and would send messages if they were "out of energy," when in reality they were shunning me.

It's a few months later and whenever I hear about anything they do I don't believe it at all, like them taking awhile to do something for a mutual friend. I don't even believe what they said before, that they loved me.

I feel bad about running away. I was having a breakdown and should've handled it better, but I fled like a coward. I also feel bad about the confidant thing--I was a burden for letting it show. They would sometimes say "I'm not your therapist" but also they were the one who inspired me to talk to people. (And they never said to stop telling them about myself)

It feels unfair to assume they're always wrong, too. Love to me is piecing together your friends like a puzzle and maybe not agreeing with them, but understanding.

I can't help but think they never loved me and instead wanted validation? Maybe I'm too harsh or I'm not understanding it, but the friendship was so bad at that point that I would barely flinch at the insults and instead compliment their "creativity." I hate to admit it, but I thought that them blowing up at me was... a privilege. Trusting me enough to show their true colors. I'll always remember how kind they were to me and I know I'll never find anyone else like them.

But still, AITA for running away? For unfairly assuming that they never tell the truth? One situation doesn't account for everything, right?

What are these acronyms?