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In order to stop the culture of faking orgasms, we need to stop the culture of shaming others for their sexual experiences.

Can’t get your partner off on the first try? Cool. You can still be thoughtful and make them feel good.

Can get your partner off within 30 seconds? Awesome, good for you both, don’t let it get to your head.

Can make someone cum in less than 5, but for others, it’s a process that takes an hour? That’s alright, everyone’s different. 

Does it take you 30 minutes to cum? That’s okay, you’re not broken, you’re not a failure.

Does it take you 10 seconds to cum? That’s great, you’re not a slut, you’re not overly sensitive or dirty. 

Can’t cum without toys/vibrators? That’s awesome, that’s a valid part of sexual play!

Can only cum with loving, vanilla sex? That’s perfectly normal, and you will find lots of great partners to experience that with!

Can’t orgasm at all? THAT’S ALSO COOL. It’s not a bad thing, you can still enjoy sex TONNES just like others.

Orgasms are NOT the defining characteristic of your sexual prowess. They are great, they’re lovely when they happen, but for the love of science, stop bringing them up higher than they need to be. 

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I don’t know how to love without using my whole heart. I don’t know what its like to love someone ‘half way’. I practice giving love in the same way I’d like to receive it.

Reyna Biddy (via perrfectly)

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that mentally ill feel when u have a bad weekend which leads into a bad week and then another bad weekend and then all of a sudden it’s Sunday at 1pm and ur like…wait have I been like this for a month?

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What an understatement 🙌🏾

i’m tired

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The struggle between me wanting to be successful and me wanting to lay in bed 24/7

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https://www.instagram.com/p/BRIqnrzjDTn/

Follow BrownnessCrew!

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Well damn ❤

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Me.

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Fuck her. Don't worry, she's gonna fall for some one she really likes. Probably gonna be attractive AF and have the most mind blowing sex. Then they are gonna trash her for 2 years. They want sex and she'll want a relationship. Then at the end when she's broken and screwed up she'll wonder why someone like you won't want her. #FuckHer #MovieTicketsAintCheap

😢

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Pay attention to whom your energy increases and decreases around, because that’s the universe giving you a hint of who you should embrace or stray from.

(via alunit)

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In honor of 19-year-old Simone Biles being named Woman Of The Year by ESPN. 

She won a record four gold medals at the Olympics. She’s untouchable!

Congratulations!

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My little sister did my makeup, now I wanna go out, but it's the country... so walking around Walmart will suffice. 😩😂

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 Actresses of color on this year’s greatest performances by The New York Times magazine 

Ruth Negga • Taraji P. Henson • Royalty Hightower • Sasha Lane • Viola Davis

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This.

So this black guy on twitter said “black women really blaming black men for their insecurities. We do nothing but lift you up. ” which caused a fierce response from many of my followers.

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