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Tbh the more “weird” a person is, the more I get confused when they don’t support other “weird” people

Like how can you be a system and alterhuman and objectum and autistic and trans and queer and schizophrenic etc etc but then be anti endo or anti “contradictory” labels

Like

Like dude those are our cousins what are you talking about

You’re weird as fuck why are you complaining about other people being weird in different ways tf

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Welcome to Space Cafe! ‿⁔‿⁔‿⁔‿⁔‿⁔‿⁔‿⁔‿⁔‿⁔‿⁔ We are a server dedicated for the Starsighted Collective, who is a system stuck mentally in 2020-2023. Thus, this server is inspired by old 2020 servers!

We offer • A safe space for everyone, including non-traumagenic systems, kins, alterhumans, and LGBTQIA+ • A new server and small community that’s hard to get forgotten in • Open applications for moderator for those who want to help • An authentic 2020-themed server environment, with a blacklist, cute roles, custom-emojis, and vent channels • Zero-tolerance policy for trolls and raiders, to ensure the safety of the server environment • Open partnerships

We hope you join us! ‿⁔‿⁔‿⁔‿⁔‿⁔‿⁔‿⁔‿⁔‿⁔‿⁔

We currently moderate in Space Cafe, and we would have to give it a 10/10 rating! Friendly environment, good role system, easy rules and blacklist-the owner(s) and other staff team are also very friendly and good to work with, so if anyone joins and thinks about applying for staff, don't worry; everyone is nice here!

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everyone involved with the process of making headmate packs? i hope you are having a spectacular day! thank you for taking the time to make packs for others <3

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you're the only one who understands me mr strobbery

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Tragic. Tumblr user made a good point but was unnecessarily condescending about it. Will not be reblogging

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STARBOUND SYSTEM

STARBOUND SYSTEM // STARBOUND COLLECTIVE :: A system or collective that has a close connection to stars, feels as if headmates or headspace is heavily related to stars, or formed in a way relating to space or stars.

NOVASYS :: Starbound Subsystems

[TERM CAN BE USED BY ANY SYSTEM :: SEPERATE ROLE FLAGS BELLOW]

SUNBURST :: Starbound version of a host or co-host. Co-hosts can also be referred to as solar-bursts, since the two are synonyms.

PROTOMATE :: A headmate or alter that doesnt have a recognizable role, and doesnt possess a recognizable role.

SIRUMATE :: Starbound version of a Gatekeeper

MELNIMATE :: Starbound version of a protector

PULSARMATE :: The starbound term for a comforter/soother. can be used interchangeably for both roles.

FORNIMATE :: Starbound version of a caretaker

ANDROMATE :: Starbound version of a Lover (link)

VELAMATE :: Starbound version of a traumaholder

CEPHIMATE :: Starbound version of a pursecutor

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Happy pride month to headmates with a queer identity that isn't the rest of the system's, especially and particularly of they outwardly present themselves as such to the external world!

Transgender men in cisgender men system brainbodies, transgender women in cisgender women brainbodies, intersex folks in perisex brainbodies, and similar folks should be given respect.

We do not necessarily know what kind of effort you are putting into their external world advocacy, and regardless of that — you are not harming anyone by existing! You should not NEED to do that to vibe with the queer community. It is not appropriation to talk about your experiences. They may be different than external world versions of the gender but they are still *your* experiences.

Speaking your truth in a world run by singlets and non-crazies is one of the most outstanding things anyone in a system can do and we're proud of you.

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r/systemcringe from Reddit is an Endogenic System!

Endogenic is an umbrella term that refers to all systems that are not completely traumagenic in origin, it encompasses many experiences. It is often seen as the opposite to the pathologized views of plurality, although can exist in harmony, even within the same system

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𓆝 𓆟 𓆞 𓆝 𓆟𓆝 𓆟 𓆞 𓆝 𓆟𓆝 𓆟 𓆞

Fishies to make it all hurt less

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dedicating my entire life to becoming the cringiest system known to mankind so fakeclaimers don't even know where to start with us and go into cardiac arrest instead

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saying "who said that" at the end of a sentence is a lot funnier when you're plural. who DID say that

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the urge to be super fucking annoying about how great created plurality is and how everyone thinking about it should totally definitely do it when theyre sure, vs knowing that some people are gonna be whiny little bitches about it and say that im "forcing it on ppl". girl the only forcing we're doing is TULPA FORCING AHAHAHAHAHAAA

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You know more about your internal self-perception than some rando on the internet

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My imposter syndrome for diagnosed DID went away when my answer for "Oh God what if I'm faking what if I'm just so mentally ill and making it all up?" Became "If I think I'm plural I can just... Be plural. No prerequisites, no trauma needed. I can just be comfortable with what's going on in my head."

Thank you endo systems ❤️

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As awareness of plurality continues to spread online, that also means more and more people will realize they are plural. And unfortunately, there will be a response from certain gatekeepy exclusionist types, who will push back against these newfound systems and insist on invalidating them. They’ll insist they’re just hopping on a trend, or just fooling themselves, or whatever other justification they can make up to maintain the idea that being plural is extremely rare and being plural means suffering for it.

Don’t fall for it. Being plural presents challenges and difficulties without question, but being plural also can bring joys and clarity that weren’t possible otherwise. Being plural can be hard, and it can be beautiful.

No two systems present and function exactly the same ways. No two systems are plural for the exact same reasons. So we can’t expect there to be an absolute common trait present in every system. So any attempt to weed out the “fakers” is pointless and malicious.

If someone believes themself to be plural, they have good reason to. No further “proof” needed. If someone comes to us believing themself to be plural, we will help them along without critique or question. And above all we will be happy for them. Even if someday they realize they aren’t plural, that process of being allowed to question and experiment is so important, and they should be allowed to do so regardless of where they end up.

Plurality is a spectrum that encompasses a vast swathe of experiences and outlooks. It can be difficult to reckon with, which is why community is so vital. And as that community online grows and becomes more and more visible, we should all do our part, systems and singlets, to make sure these newfound systems feel safe, seen, and welcome.

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since apparently this is controversial

I LOVE YOU WILLO SYSTEMS !!!

willogenic, traumawillo, endowillo, you name it !!!

created systems are valid ^_^

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someone being open about being intersex does not give you the entitlement to know what variation they are, nor what their genitalia looks like.