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In the middle of nowhere

"No man is an island"—a" phrase from an English poet and author that goes by John Donne.

Solitude is a word with a simple meaning, loneliness; however, it is a part of life that we can't run away from; in one way or another, each and every one of us experiences it. Some might experience solitude as a phase, and some might describe their experience as it has become their way of life, or in simple terms, it has become a common experience for them. We humans, generally, are social creatures, but in some cases there are people who have come to a tacit understanding that not everyone is fit for socializing and stuff, as others prefer to distance themselves from others to maintain their peace, but there are others that experience a different kind of loneliness; some might describe it as being "left out," and a prime example of that is me.

When I was a kid, all I thought was I was alone and no one saw that I existed. I wake up every morning and go to school ‘thinking that there's someone who can see me and be able to hang out with me,in short, a friend.'. And that scenario of my life repeated again and again till I went to high school. I still talk to some of my classmates, but to be in their circle, no one allows me. Though, after spending a long time on my own, figuring out my personality and thoughts, I realized that I am a pretty good person. I like being with myself. And I always did. I always loved spending time in my room, lying on my bed,listening to my favorite music,gazing at the stars,watching movies,cooking my favorite food,drinking my most-liked coffee,and wondering to a distinct place that I was only aware of. I don’t wait for weekends to have fun with friends. I look forward to every day enjoying one more thing, having new experiences, exploring the unexplored in our city, and doing whatever I always wanted all by myself. Without anyone’s opinion on my choice, without any intervention when I'm lost in the pool of my thoughts, and without letting anyone tell me if my idea of fun matches theirs.

So, the next time we feel the pang of loneliness or the pressure to constantly connect, perhaps it’s worth embracing that solitude for what it truly is: a personal sanctuary that gives us the freedom to explore the depth of our own thoughts, without needing permission or approval.

There is no need to feel lonely or sorry for yourself. Being alone is part of our lives; it’s a part of adulting. Your friends and mates cannot stay with you for the rest of your life. The simple truth of life is that people leave, for good or for bad, and life goes on, but the person you are when you’re alone is always there—unwavering and whole.