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How would you handle removing yourself from a situation where people you don’t really know were overheard talking about you behind your back? My boyfriend’s friends said I had “no personality” after what I thought was a fun night out with them.

Thats tough, I am sorry you’re going through that. One disappointing thing is life is that seemingly no matter how old you get or self growth you through people still “talk”. I wouldn’t take it to heart, they are clearly not your people, have no real concept of who you are and don’t have your best interest in mind.

Also may be something to chat further with your boyfriend about, depending on how serious you two are. While it really doesn’t not matter if the entity of his friend group speaks highly about you, its important he has your back and is sticking up for you in rooms when you are not there.

If they are not people you see yourself connecting with beyond just the loose connection through your partner, I would let it roll off your back, says more about them and where they are than about you.

While I am sure that was hurtful to hear, 1. Not everyone is going to be your biggest fan and thats okay. 2. Move forward and set boundaries as you need to, and don’t spend unnecessary time with them going forward.

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what is one piece of advice you’d share with your younger self?

- a 20 something year old girl

Don’t take everything so seriously and stress yourself out unnecessarily.

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