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guess i cant stop editing icons of yen, apparently u guys like it

give me likes, bye @mmerediths

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Geralt's age when things happen (based on Netflix)

Age 27: Beginning of the Great Cleansing, elves are slaughtered by humans

Age 32: Yennefer is born

Age 53: Renfri is born

Age 62: Jaskier is born

Age 71: Butcher of Blaviken. Renfri is killed by Geralt at age 18 (18! she deserved better)

Age 80: Meets Jaskier(18) and captured by elves while hunting for the Devil of Posada. "Toss A Coin To Your Witcher" composed.

Age 83: Breaks the Striga Curse. (The Striga is 14-years-old.) Meets Triss Merigold.

Age 89: Claims Law of Surprise (I'll accept his stupidity charges on count of being old).

Age 90: Ciri is born

Age 96: Becomes master of the Djinn. Meets Yennefer.

Age 102: Dragon Hunt. Breaks up with Yennefer and Jaskier on the mountain.

Age 103: Cintra falls at the hand of Nilfgaard. Meets Ciri(13).

Notes: Interesting how Geralt runs into two different teens(Renfri and Jaskier) who both inadverdently cement his public persona. Renfri's death makes him the Butcher of Blaviken and Jaskier's song makes him the hero Witcher.

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Jaskier: Sure is dark in here.

Geralt:

Jaskier: I’m not scared or anything.

Geralt:

Jaskier: I mean, who’s scared of the dark these days? Not me.

Geralt: Do you want me to hold your hand?

Jaskier: Yes, please.

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my kink is people being nice to gruff characters who seem mean and cold but are actually very soft and need love

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Please stop and read this.

I’m doing a project on gay rights in today’s society.

So if you believe that same sex couples should be allowed to get married, please reblog this.

This would be a lot of help, thank you.

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Man, I really hate shippy fics/posts that are exploring jealousy with Geralt at the moment, because they’re all way off the mark. Geralt is not a man that gets violent or angrily jealous. He’s not a possessive man. He isn’t above demonstrating some displeasure with people after his love, but he considers his SO’s interest in someone else ‘their right’, and the moment there’s significant competition? He bows out, because that just confirms he isn’t good enough for them. 

We have a canon example of this, where Istredd is pursuing Yennefer and he goes on a diatribe about how little Geralt can offer Yennefer, and not only does Geralt not argue against this (his argument to remain with Yenenfer is simply ‘Yennefer wants him’), when he finds out they have an equal chance to be with Yennefer, he immediately forfeits because he doesn’t perceive it as an equal chance; he just sees it as validating Istredd’s insistence that he is too inhuman to offer Yennefer anything.

And:

He doesn’t get angry. He doesn’t try to get back at Yen. He behaves despondently, tells Yennefer he won’t get in her way, internalises and repeats the things Istredd said about him, and the incident is so damaging that he attempts suicide later in the story. 

People who portray Geralt as this alpha male whose response to jealousy is to get angry and fight for who he’s with are completely off the mark. He’s a man who has been abused so badly throughout his life that he’s quick to accept that he isn’t worth being with, and he’s such a depressed, self-loathing wreck that he would rather court death than deal with losing one of the few people who treat him like a human being (this isn’t even the only time he decides death would be better than dealing with loss). I realise him being depressed and self-loathing will make Geralt less palatable for a lot of people, but that’s who he is. 

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Has this been done yet

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ladies do we care? do we care anymore ladies,?? do we care? ladies do we? do we care anymore ladies???? ladies do we caree??? do we?????

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WHEN A CHARACTER GETS WOUNDED AND THEY GO TO THEIR LOVE INTEREST FOR HELP AND WHILE THEY’RE GETTING THEIR INJURIES CLEANED AND PATCHED UP THEY FLINCH FROM THE STING OF THE ANTISEPTIC AND THEIR LOVE INTEREST SAYS “HOLD STILL” IN AN EXASPERATED BUT TOUCHINGLY CONCERNED TONE OF VOICE AND THEN THEY ACCIDENTALLY MAKE EYE CONTACT OR BRUSH HANDS AND JUST FREEZE IN THAT POSITION UNTIL THE TENSION IN THE ROOM IS NEARLY UNBERABLE BEFORE BOTH LOOKING AWAY AND PRETENDING THE UNSPOKEN THING THAT JUST PASSED BETWEEN THEM NEVER HAPPENED

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dealing with the worst case scenario

your condom breaks

you feel a lump on your breast

your friends are ignoring you

you’re stranded on an island 

you got rejected by a crush

you get into a car accident

you got stung by a bee/wasp

you got fired from your job

you’re in an earthquake

your tattoo gets infected

your house is on fire

you’re lost in the woods

you get arrested abroad

you get robbed

your partner cheated on you

you’re on a ship that’s sinking

you fall into ice

you’re stuck in an elevator

you hit a deer with your car

you have food poisoning

your pet passed away

you fall off of a horse

you or your friend has alcohol poisoning

you have toxic shock syndrome

your house has a gas leak

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I decided to create a masterpost that would help you with what you are struggling with. Hopefully any of the links below will help you! Reminder; You’re going to be okay. What you are going through will pass, just remember to breathe. 

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Distractions;

Here are some distractions to help keep your mind occupied so you aren’t too focused on your thoughts. 

-Draw something

-This website translates the time into colours.

-Create your own galaxy.

-Play flowing.

-Make a 3D line travel where ever you like. 

-Listen to music.

-Calm.

-Ocean mood, do nothing for two minutes.

Sleep issues; 

- 8 hour sleep music.

-Rainy mood. 

-Meditation.

-Coping with nightmares.

-How to cope with nightmares, 11 steps.

-Calm

-Foods that can affect your sleeping, both positive and negatively. 

  Uncomfortable with silence; 

-Rainy mood.

-10 hours of rain and thunder.

-3 hours of rain and thunder.

-Human heartbeat.

-Rainforest.

-Sound of rain on a tin roof.

-Autumn wind.

-Rain on a tent

-Traffic in the rain.

-Soft traffic. 

-Fan.

-Train.

-Simply noise.

-My noise.

-Rainy cafe.

Anxiety; 

-How to stop worrying. 

-Tips to manage anxiety and stress.

-The 10 best ever anxiety management techniques. 

-Self-help strategies for anxiety. 

-Helping a friend with anxiety. 

-All about worrying.

-8 myths about anxiety. 

Sad, angry and depressed/depression; 

-“I’m always sad”

-Feeling sad.

-Going through trauma.

-“I’m always angry”.

-Anger management. 

-All about anger.

-National helplines and websites.

-Self-help strategies for depression.

-Dealing with depression at work.

-Dealing with depression at school.

Isolation and loneliness; 

-Pets and mental health.

-All about loneliness. 

-“I feel so alone”

-10 more ideas to help with loneliness. 

-How to deal with loneliness.

  Self-harm;

-Alternatives to self-harm and distraction techniques.

-146 things to do besides self-harm.

-More alternatives to self-harm.

-Self-harm alternatives.

-How to take care of self-harm wounds/injuries.

-Getting rid of scars.  

Addiction; 

-How to help a friend with a drug addiction.

-What is addiction?

-All about alcohol and addiction.

-The facts about drug addiction.

  Eating disorders; 

-Helping a friend with an eating disorder.

-Eating disorder treatments. 

-Support services for eating disorders. 

-Self-help tips with eating disorders.

-Eating disorder recovery. 

-Recovering from an eating disorder. 

-100+ reasons to recover. 

-Understanding and managing eating disorders. 

  Dealing with self-hatred;  

-3 ways to ease self-loathing. 

-How to turn self-hatred into self-compassion.

-Self-hatred resources.

-10 step plan to deal with self-hate. 

  Suicidal; 

-International suicide hotlines (1)  (2)

-Preventing suicide. 

-Reasons to stay alive.

-Dealing with suicidal thoughts and feelings.

-Coping with suicidal ideation.  

  Schizophrenia;

-All about schizophrenia.  

-Helping a person with schizophrenia.  

-Understanding and dealing with schizophrenia.  

-Delusions and hallucinations.  

OCD;

-Managing your OCD at home. 

-Overcoming OCD.

-How to cope with OCD. 

-Strategies for dealing with the anxious moments. 

Borderline personality disorder; 

-Helping someone with BPD. 

-All about personality disorders.

-Treatment for BPD.

Abuse; 

-Healthy relationships VS abusive relationships. 

-Emotional abuse

-Overcoming sexual abuse. 

-Hotlines services. 

-5 ways to escape an abusive relationship. 

-Domestic violence support. 

-Signs of an abusive relationship. 

-What do to if you’re in an abusive relationship. 

-Surviving abuse. 

-What you can do if you’re sexual harassed. 

-Sexual assault support.

-What to do if you’ve been sexually assaulted or abused. 

  Bullying;

-How to stand up against bullying.

-How to protect yourself when it comes to cyber bullying.

-How to help stop people bullying you. 

  Loss and grief; 

-How to cope with a suicide of a loved one.

-Grieving for a stranger. 

-Common reactions to death. 

-Working through grief.

(Other loss and grief)

-Moving away from friends and family. 

-Coping with a breakup.

  Getting help; 

-Seeking help early. 

-All about psychological treatments. 

-Types of help.

-All about age and confidentiality. 

Things you need to remember; 

- Don’t stress about being fixed because you’re not broken.

-Remember to remind yourself of your accomplishments. Tell yourself that you’re proud of yourself, even if you’re not. 

- This is temporary. You won’t always feel like this. 

-You are not alone. 

-You are enough. 

-You are important. 

-You are worth it. 

-You are strong. 

-You are not a failure, 

-Good people exist. 

-Reaching out shows strength. 

-Breathe. 

-Don’t listen to the thoughts that are not helping you. 

-Give yourself credit. 

-Don’t be ashamed of your emotions, for the good or bad ones. 

-Treat yourself the same way as you would treat a good friend. 

-Focus on the things you can change. 

-Let go of toxic people. 

-You don’t need to hide, you’re allowed to feel the way you do. 

-Try not to beat yourself up. 

-Something is always happening, you don’t want to miss out on what’s going to happen next. 

-You are not a bother.

-Your existence is more than your appearance. 

-You are smart. 

-You are loved. 

-You are wanted. 

-You are needed. 

-Better days are coming. 

-Just because your past is dark, doesn’t mean your future isn’t bright. 

-You have more potential than you think. 

- Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.

Please remember to look after yourself and know that you are more than worth it and you deserve to be happy. Keep smiling butterflies x

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I’m really proud of this.

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As a women in the film industry... I’m angry. I’m shocked and I’m angry.

5 women in 92 years have been nominated for best director and only one has won.

And this year full of amazing movies directed by women (Little Women, The Farewell, Portrait of Lady On Fire, Booksmart, just to name a few) it is ridiculous that they couldn’t nominated a single one of them for Best Director.

And the fact that only one person of color is nominated in each acting category is astounding. Lupita Nyong’o, Awkwafina, Eddie Murphy, the entire cast of Parasite, Jennifer Lopez, EVEN BEYONCÉ got snubbed.

It’s ridiculous and the Academy needs to do better. I’m so tired of seeing the same white people win over and over again.

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