shysubmissive25-blog
shysubmissive25-blog
Finding FLR
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I am a 28 year old submissive male. I am learning about myself, more about Female Led Relatioships. I love chastity and denial and I am a service submissive.  This blog is primarly dedicated to FLR and Chastity topics. Also, I am looking for a Female Dominant to serve and please. For any questions, please message me and I will get back to you :) This blog is for 18+.
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shysubmissive25-blog · 7 years ago
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Sissy’s period
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Time should always be set aside on a monthly basis to coincide with Mistress’s schedule for wearing a pad and tampon…this is all part of being feminine, a good sissy should look forward to this
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shysubmissive25-blog · 7 years ago
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shysubmissive25-blog · 7 years ago
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The Slow Unfurling of Sadism
I don’t consider myself a masochist, but pain is an important part of my submission. Sometimes that feels weird to say—that I like pain and need pain, but I’m not a masochist. For me, the difference is that pain is an expression of my submission, not an end in itself. I enjoy the opportunity to give myself to my Dominant in ways that are hard for me. I enjoy knowing that I am a girl who doesn’t get choices, even if my Dominant chooses for me to suffer. And I need these “proof of ownership” moments, even when I don’t always enjoy them. 
But as someone who needs pain, I have dated sadists. Actually, I kind of adore them. Sadists are deeply emotionally aware. When you are a person who feels aroused and emotionally connected through inflicting pain, you learn to read every quiver, every trembling lip, the inflection of every scream. You become hyperfocused on your partner’s emotional and physical state because that’s what feeds you— and because you know what can go wrong.
Sadists know that they enjoy hurting people. For most, it takes time to come to terms with that. And even when you’ve accepted your desire to inflict pain, building trust with a new person is always hard. To show the person you care about that you love their agony… It takes time. No one in kink exercises more self-restraint than the sadist.
So this means people with deep emotional awareness are required to take serious emotional risks with their partners. This leads to an endearing pattern that I call the slow unfurling of sadism (alternate title: How Sadists are Like Shy Baby Groundhogs). Sadists tend to start slower than other D-types. They don’t cause a lot of pain right away. They test something out, then they back off a little. A flicker of pain, then back to soft and sweet. Then they push a little further, and then back off a little. Gradually, they create a safe space for their submissive to suffer—to let pain flow freely. They earn a submissive’s trust by showing they are in control and respect boundaries.
At the same time, they are also creating opportunities for their submissive to earn their trust—trust that they won’t be rejected and trust that what they are doing is consensual. Sadists need reassurance. Did you endure the pain out of submissive obligation, or did you want it? Did it mean something to you? They need to know if you felt a connection through the pain. They need to know if it turned you on. They need to know if you want more. As a submissive, I love these moments. I get to tell my partner that I love the glimmer in their eyes before they hurt me, or that I smile every time I run my fingers over the welts on my ass. I am honest about my limits, but I also show my sadist the joy I feel in serving through pain.��
The most rewarding moment is when a sadist looks deep into your eyes and tells you they want to lick the tears off your face while they make you scream. And then they do it. Because that’s when you know they’ve let you in. They’ve trusted you with a part of themselves that few people get to see, let alone love. That is a beautiful feeling, and well worth the time it takes to get there. 
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shysubmissive25-blog · 7 years ago
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he likes bitch claws
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shysubmissive25-blog · 7 years ago
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So true
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shysubmissive25-blog · 7 years ago
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Snapchats from my wifes phone
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shysubmissive25-blog · 7 years ago
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“There is a reason why you continue to visit my blog.”
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shysubmissive25-blog · 7 years ago
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This should send a shock to the slave wearing a shocking collar, so slave knows that his Owner needs him.
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I wish
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shysubmissive25-blog · 7 years ago
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Not a fan of what tumbler is doing! I feel as though I am losing friends I have made and a community that I belong in. I feel like I am starting all over and losing 2 years of what @melsplaytoy and I have learned, accomplished and the strong confident woman I have become! Even though we have both joined fetlife, it’s just not the same!
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shysubmissive25-blog · 7 years ago
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I just want to crawl in bed with someone I care about and have my heart feel at home again and watch movies and talk about random stuff for hours
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shysubmissive25-blog · 7 years ago
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im into humiliation but
me pegging you shouldn’t humiliate you, i do it to make you feel good, and to hear your cute moans. me dressing you up in cute girly clothes shouldn’t humiliate you, i do it to let you know how beautiful you are, that youre my good little girl.
im into humiliation. but it doesnt mean i dont care about you.
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shysubmissive25-blog · 7 years ago
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Last chance to tell the truth. You know how much I hate lying.
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shysubmissive25-blog · 7 years ago
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A Note to Minors:
I see a lot on tumblr lately regarding the defense of underage participants in a certain community, as well as the underage participants expressing anger that they are not welcome on NSFW blogs. As a NSFW blogger, as well as someone who has come to know various sex laws due to their career, I thought I would clarify some things:
1. It doesn’t matter what the age of consent in your state is. Age of consent refers to the age that you are able to consent to sexual activity only.
2. Even if you are able to consent at age 16 or 17, by law you are still a minor. Pornography cannot be sold or viewed by minors.
3. If you are under 18 and you post explicit photos of yourself, you can be charged with creating and circulating child pornography, as the images contain a minor.
4. It is normal to have interests in sex and kink, regardless of age. There are safe spaces on the internet to seek these out and ask questions regarding your interests. Spaces where you can communicate with other teens, that are well moderated and do not allow adults to freely graze and prey. Scarleteen.com is probably the greatest example.
5. As a minor, showing purposeful disregard for another blogger or a website’s request that no minors be present on the site (and for some explicit material, 21 is the age for legal viewership) puts the owner of that blog and/or website at risk. No one wants to see awesome sex bloggers get shut down or sex friendly spaces on the internet get hit for having underage members. Think about more than just yourselves.
If you’re under 18, unfollow me. Don’t argue, don’t flame me, just unfollow. I’ll be the first person to high five you when you turn 18 and we can reminisce about how much it sucked to wait. Until then, peace out.
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shysubmissive25-blog · 7 years ago
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Well Said. I totally agree with You
D/s is not an outfit
aka “But I’m wearing Converse!”
We all have images of D/s scenarios in our heads. The beautiful pictures we share on here influence where our minds wander when we fantasize about those situations. I’m no exception there.
When thinking about my submissive worshipping me the next time, I had envisaged him kneeling naked on the fur rug in my sitting room, the log fire burning, me looking gorgeous with hair and make-up done, wearing one of my beautiful dresses without underwear and a pair of my most beautiful heels. The Prada maybe, or the Lara Bohincs, Michael Kors or even the Louboutins. I have them for a reason after all.
But as is so often the case, real life has other plans. I had been travelling for work and being the good boy he is, he came to pick me up at the airport and drove me home.
Finally alone and behind closed doors, he dropped to his knees. No flames dancing in the fireplace, instead a slightly cold room because the heating had been turned down for the week I was away. No fancy make-up and hair, I had been awake for 24+ hours. No pretty dress, an eleven hours flight calls for comfy clothes. And sure as hell no high heels either. Instead, sneaker socks in white converse.
I stopped for a second, was this how I wanted it to be ? Slightly self conscious that I hadn’t had a shower in 26 hours, that my feet were swollen from hours of sitting on the plane, that I hadn’t shaved my legs … Just for a second though, because then I looked at him and realised none of it matters. Not to him, anyways, to him I was his Goddess regardless.
He knelt, he kissed, he worshipped and he held me tight there and then.
I have said it many times before, but I felt it so deeply in that situation :
D/s is not an outfit !
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shysubmissive25-blog · 7 years ago
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So Mordern.
kissing under the mistletoe is so overrated. deep throat him.
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