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Your f/o would absolutely research the things you experience or have in order to best support you. Chronic pain? Disorders or diseases? Mental or physical illnesses? Sickness or conditions of some sort? They're doing what it takes to figure out what you need, they'll ask you how they can best contribute and what they should know too!

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Imagine your f/o being unconsciously affectionate towards you:

Them hugging you from behind whenever you're cooking or washing dishes, pressing kisses to your cheek while talking about their day, body weighing down on you as they relax over your touch.

Them grabbing your hand and pressing kisses from your palm to your upper arm whenever they're bored, enjoying how soft your skin feels against their lips as they let out a happy sigh.

Having them lay their head on your lap while you're sitting on the couch, placing your hands on their head as they close their eyes in expectation, patiently waiting for you to play with their hair.

Hearing them grumble whenever you have to get up in the morning/through the night as their arms coil around you tightly, not wanting to let go off your warm body just yet.

Their hand automatically reaching for yours whenever you walk together, even if they're not into public displays of affection. They just want to make sure you're safe and that they won't lose track of you, plus your hands feel nice and warm around theirs.

Them placing a kiss to your cheek whenever you're busy or distracted just to remind you that they love you and smiling as you pucker your lips trying to kiss them back without looking away from your tools.

proship/comship/neutral DNI

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trying to learn how to draw f/o <- will struggle thru the entire art process just to be able to draw us kissing

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f/o who you latched onto during a time in your life you were struggling so it feels like they really did help you through that

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Reminder that your romantic f/o loves all of your insecurities.

Your stomach? Well they love it, they love the size, and they absolutely love to kiss it. They love to see your face flush when they do, they love to cuddle you and hold onto your stomach.

Your eyes? They love your eyes, they love the shape and the color. They love how your eyes shine in the sun and how your eyes light up at funny jokes.

Your smile? They love that too. They love when you smile with your full teeth, it doesn't matter what they look like. They love if you have a downward smile, loving to kiss the edges. They love to see you smile, to see the sign that you are happy.

Your face? They love to cradle it and place kisses all over it, who cares what the shape is? If they can kiss it they will. You have a scar? They'll kiss that too, a mole or birthmark? That leads to more kisses.

Your f/o loves you and nothing will or can change that.

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been seeing WAY too much selfship hate as of recent and just a bunch of gross shit in general SOOOO

imagine your f/o seeing you upset over someone or something online that made you kinda angry and they hold you close and rub your back gently and try to calm you down after that, and they tell you to put your phone down for a second to do some deep breaths. maybe you both take a nice comfortable bath or just nap together? maybe go out to eat? whatever makes you feel better, they just want to see you smile again. it's the best thing they could ask for.

read my pinned!

proship/comship/whatever dni this post isn't for you.

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Your f/o will do anything to ensure you feel safe. Their actions and words give you a stable sense of tranquility, comfort, and security. They want nothing more than to make sure you feel alright around them. And if it takes you time to open up, they won't judge you at all. They understand that it can be hard to be vulnerable or trust, and they won't rush or push you into anything you aren't ready to say or do with/around them. They respect your feelings, and their firm stance on that will remain, regardless of circumstance.

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this is a reminder for selfshippers that its okay to make your f/os obsessed with you. so true they WOULD think about you all the time. so true they WOULD bring you up in every conversation. the world could be ending and your f/o would only mourn not getting to give you enough affection

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f/o perfume best purchase i’ve ever made in my life. selfshippers i strongly urge u all to find a scent that reminds u of ur f/o and spray it on ur pillow every night b4 u sleep. if ur lucky maybe they have an official fragrance or smth but it doesnt have to be anything too complicated — just something that makes u feel like theyre there. trust me it will be so epic and awesome you have have to do it

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source▪️f2u (please don't claim as your own)

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your F/O would beat the shit out of your abuser, they would absolutely torment your abuser because no one hurts you and gets away with it , in your F/Os eyes your abuser deserves no peace

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autistic self shippers who have f/o’s from their special interests RAISE YOUR FUCKING HANDS!!!!!!

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wait a sec i gotta finish this random yet comforting scenario my mind suddenly came up with *stares at the nothingness in silence while having full f/o thoughts*

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When someone has the same f/o as you moodboard (ok sharing edition)

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sending love to all trans selfshippers, nb selfshippers, GNC selfshippers, unlabelled selfshippers, selfshippers with confusing/nonconventional genders, ect! we love you guys!!

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"haha yeah sorry i think of my f/o a little ooc-" No you don't. Your interpretation is accurate. If it makes you happy that's all that matters. You know them better than the writers. Ok?

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a lot of people say "your f/o loves you" without really going into the gravity of that.

think about how you feel about your f/o. the sometimes sky-high euphoria, sometimes gut wrenching feeling over them. and everything in between.

your f/o doesnt just love you. they feel all of that. they feel the exact same way as you do toward them. i mean that completely. they feel the exact same passion and depth toward you as you do toward them. its entirely mutual. theres no imbalance here. i dont care who you are or who your f/o is. they feel the EXACT SAME way about you. just think about that for a minute. let that sink in. they feel the same. i can't emphasize this enough. however you feel, they feel the same.