sissymaidpetra

[sissymaidpetra]

💖 For every like this photo gets… that’s one more day my little clitty stays locked away. 💖

💖For every reblog it’s an extra 3 days💖

Be gentle🥺… or don’t.🤗

💖150 reactions = Smaller Cage😭💖

💖200 reactions = First Plug 💖

(I’ll count up the likes after a week to see how long I’ll be caged for😣)

❤️ @sissydollyisabella 🩵 @happy-sissy-madison 🩷 @sissy-sabrinas-world 😂 @ditzybrainlaura 😍 @christina-tiara 🏳️‍⚧️ @prissytutu 🦋 @annas-worldxoxo 🌈 @sweetie-lindsey 😍 @veras-caption-haven 💓 @amberleannethenewgirl💋 @incognitoelizabeth 🍼 @sissymissyxo 💅 @honeyhornypup 🥵 @sweatersub 😍 @cassandra-the-baby-girl 😇 @goodwitchkylie 🏳️‍🌈 @its-me-mandi-duhhh 👑 @cutieecassie 🔥 @sleepy-bimbo-bambi-3 ♠️ @selenasgirltiffany21 🤍 @uneamifemme 💖 @leiamoony 😩 @pinkyfaggyx 🍆 @just-kailee 🎀 @sissyloren2 🩵 @remygurl45 💕 @supremefaggotdestiny6912 💝 @karlie-xoxo 😈 @beta-dreamsva 💖 @2inchchelsea���� @sienna-thee-sissy 🥺 @goodgirlmadison 🤗 @stacey-xox-bimbo ❤️‍🔥 @elektrarose 🤭 @jessigurll 💋 @thessa-xox 💘 @kimberly-kash 🥰 @youknowmemomma 🫠 @christina-tiara 💞 @pinkfemgurl 😵‍💫

♠️ @whiteboi-inferiority ♠️

[sissymaidpetra]

Pinned Post: Chastity Cheat Sheet!

I am aware that there is a lot of information on this blog - plenty of detail and explanation into the mindset and procedure of Male Chastity play. Perhaps too much detail!?

I get a large amount of emails and messages asking for a simple place to start, and while I usually point them to the very first post in this blog, I think the time has come to provide a quick 'Cheat Sheet' for those of you who need to recap or want to get started quickly and dig into the details later. As a starting point, here are some hotlinks to the main sections of the blog:

Introducing Male Chastity Play

The Science of Male Chastity

When to allow Release

How to allow Release

Teasing in T&D / Chastity Play

In addition to these articles, I will also provide a quick 'Cheat Sheet' based on a summary of the information above, blending in my 10+ years of experience as well as hints and tips I've picked up along the way. Here we go!

--- --- --- --- --- --- --- --- ---

WHY MALE CHASTITY?

Chastity play is the best example of 'power exchange play' where the (usually) female keyholder takes control of the couple's sexual dynamic.

Handing over control of their sexual release is a highly arousing experience for males. The tease and denial that comes with it heightens sexual excitement, increases the male's energy levels and (most importantly) makes YOU the focus of the sexual experience.

Male chastity play is not about having less sex - in fact, most couples in chastity play have a significantly more active sexual dynamic than the 'vanilla sex twice a month' crowd.

WHAT DO KEYHOLDERS DO?

Hold the keys and control when and how release takes place (see links) .

Set, communicate and enforce the keyholding rules at the start of the lockup.     

Tease - to keep arousal in peak state throughout lockup.

Make the most of (literally!) holding him by the balls ;).

BASIC KEYHOLDER RULES:

The wife can choose the chastity device. If you don’t feel like buying them then he should present you with a few options, colors and sizes.

It is no longer his penis - it is your 'nub'. Take ownership.

Hold the keys, keep them safe, do not let him access them - take it seriously.

The wife decides when the male will be unlocked, allowed an erection, or allowed release. SEPARATE the concept of 'unlock= orgasm'. In most cases it’s unlocked purely for teasing or training, for example.

TEASE AND DENIAL

The way to maximize benefits and (again, counterintuitively) maximize his chastity experience is teasing / arousal. This does not have to take a lot of time or effort. My ideal teasing effort is 2-5 minutes a day, or every second day… mix it up.

Is teasing cruel for the locked male? Absolutely not. Denial after 2-3 weeks of lockup is often described by locked males as "feeling like being half way to orgasm 100% of time". Quite heady stuff.

Some basic ideas:

Talk about his predicament: Tell him you like how it looks, how tight it must be, how full his balls look… Ask him to show it to you as a 'cage check’ at random times.

Make fun of it! “Ah sweet such a cute little nub.” A little-known side-effect: locked boys leak precum like crazy. Tease him about his constant ‘dribbling’ or ‘wet spot’ - you are sure to fire up even more production 😂.

Tell him to sleep naked now and again. Join him in the shower. When at home, make him wear tight clothing where the cage is clearly visible.

Play with his balls. With the nub locked, his exposed balls are infinitely more sensitive. Tickling / stroking will be irritating - what he will need is squeezing, slapping, hitting. Start slowly and build up intensity - he will tell you when to stop. Women are way too gentle with balls in general - most makes prefer far more rough play than they let on. Let him guide you if you are unsure.

Play with the cage - stroke any exposed bits, blow on it, whatever!

Kiss - the fastest way to turn him on, and it will make him strain in his cage. For added heat, hold his cage / balls while kissing.

Make him worship your body: make him go down on you, massage you, stroke you... use your imagination! Denying him an orgasm DEFINITELY does not mean reducing your orgasm count.

Nipple Play: With his cock locked, his nipples will heighten in sensitivity dramatically. Play with them by using nipple clamps, clothespins or even just by pinching and squeezing. Be careful, some locked males have been known to cum from just nipple play alone!

Edging: Stimulate your male until he reaches the edge of orgasm – then  pause or dramatically slow down your play to prevent him from climaxing.  You can do this many times in a row. This is extremely pleasurable for him, because it prolongs his pleasure and ultimately gives him a much stronger orgasm when compared to regular sex when you finally decide to  let him pop – although, of course, you can always change your mind and lock him back up before that happens.

HOW OFTEN SHOULD HE BE ALLOWED RELEASE?

This is up to you! If you are new to chastity play, I recommend a minimum 3 week initial lock up - no unlocking, no release whatsoever. 3 weeks is a full week beyond the typical 14 day prolactin/oxytocin cycle that follows a full orgasm in males. We want to maximize oxytocin (caring, devotion, sexual energy) buildup (14+ days) and minimize prolactin (grumpy, tired, loss of libido), which usually starts to stabilise at the 14 day mark.

Beyond that?

Feel  free to go with a fixed schedule, such as one ejaculation allowed per 3 weeks, if that makes things easier for you – but don’t make it too  predictable, so also consider delaying or skipping a release date.

For more experienced lovers, it is almost universally held by women who seriously practice chastity for their male that initial enforcement of chastity should be at least  three months of continuous wear without relief after you go through the  break in period of getting a device that fits.

HOW SHOULD HE BE ALLOWED RELEASE?

So many options!

Penis-in-vagina (PIV) orgasm: I discourage this one because I feel that sex and ejaculation need to be separated  to avoid accidents. We have sex several times per week and ejaculation  is never expected and rarely a topic of conversation. But if you do  enjoy the feeling of him ejaculating inside you, then you can of course  go ahead and allow him. Sex with a dildo or with him wearing a cock sheath means you get all the benefits of hot PIV sex without him having to orgasm.

Handjobs: The easiest and quickest for you! To spice it up, use a Timer - for example, if  his last ejaculation was two weeks ago, you could give him two minutes  to cum. If he doesn’t make it in time, he will be re-locked. If you don't feel like unlocking him, simply use a vibrator / electric massager on his cage - the vibrations will eventually lead to a strange, unsatisfying orgasm (perfect!).

Masturbation: Tell him to masturbate in front of you. Again, use a timer here to increase the pressure!

Prostate stimulation: If you are into this sort of thing, did you know you can actually 'milk' a male. It's true. Stimulating the prostate in the right way will lead to semen release without any orgasm and without even the need to unlock the nub.

Finally, and my favorite: The 'Touchless (aka Ruined) Orgasm': stimulate him until just before the “point of no  return” and then remove your hand and stop all stimulation. If you time  it right, instead of ejaculating in “bursts”, the semen flows  effortlessly down the penis – hence they are also misleadingly called  “ruined” orgasms. If done correctly, he will still be horny afterwards  and will stay hard as a rock, still wanting more. Perfect!

THAT'S IT!

Above all, enjoy it! I guarantee you, it will be a different, fun, unique and highly arousing experience.

[sissymaidpetra]

I hope you all having a glitter ✨ day 💥🌸

[sissymaidpetra]

[sissymaidpetra]

All sisiess sub who reblog this/leave a 💓 gets reward in this DMP=surprise💞 and sph tasks.

Telegram:Gothickmommy

[sissymaidpetra]

Master and Mistress bought me from my ex wife once she got done training me to be a sissy. I was a good sissy for my new owners. But they wanted me to be able to walk in higher heels. So I'm about to spend sometime on this device master made. First they dressed me in a PVC cat suit complete with a hood, of course I'm tape gagged under it. A collar was locked on. My arms were secured in my favorite armbinder. I had leg irons locked on and finally my heels. I was led to the garage made to step on the treadmill. I had a dildo put up my ass. The dildo was attached to a pole. I would have to walk at the speed they wanted me too. The pole was move, if I walk to slow and the pole extends to far I the dildo starts vibrating at a higher setting the farther away it gets from the starting point. My clitty was straining in its cage. I became very good at walking in heels after this training.

[sissymaidpetra]

[sissymaidpetra]

[sissymaidpetra]

That was really foolish hun. I read the entire transcripts of your role plays with your online ‘girlfriend’. Very degrading. I’m disappointed that you cheated on me. It must have been quite a shock that I switched the locks for the chastity cage you used to play with her. That must have freaked you out when your keys wouldn’t fit. When were you going to tell me? No matter. It stays locked and you can role play with me from now on. Well except it won’t be role playing. I hope you like being my Chastity Maid for real. Start cleaning dear. I’ll be out shopping for your new wardrobe and a firm crop.

[sissymaidpetra]

Sissy Captations Holy Grail

I recently discovered something amazing on Hypnotube. User "Taylormadeforyou" has uploaded what seems to be the full archive of the old F.A.G.S tumblr. It is sissy royalty and it is right here:

F.A.G.S. - Galleries - Hypnotube

The uploader also have a lot of other awesome slutty albums so give them a look the next time you are dolled up with you ass stuffed:

TaylorMadeForYou's profile - Users - Hypnotube

It gets better! I also found that the user Crissymonroe have uploaded a lot of full lenght sissy comics in their albums, so if you fancy some forced feminization go check them out:

Uploads by Crissymonroe - Hypnotube

Crissymonroe's profile - Users - Hypnotube

If you are right now sitting like a silly girl and wondering what even is this hypnotube?? Then girl, I got some amazing news for you! Hypnotube is a free porntube for sissy and feminization videos, hypnos and captations. It is amazing for a good slut that want to get even more horny in her chastity cage.

If you just want to dive in and have something nice and dirty to watch when you ride your dildo, these two playlist are a great place to start:

Hypnotube (Anal Hunger)

Hypnotube (Anal fucking)

So put your lipstick on and go enjoy yourself like a good girl <3

[sissymaidpetra]

[sissymaidpetra]

[sissymaidpetra]

Things Nobody Else Says to Sissys

So Im gonna...!!

This is for all sissygurls, but definitely the new and inexperienced ones. So, here's some opinionated straight talk and things to ponder for all you sissys. Normally Id post things like this on my blog over at the Spaces GurlsInc HQ, but i figured Id put it here for a change... So anyway...

As gurls, every one of you is unique, different, and beautiful. But you all are also MUCH alike. Youve all gone through similar good and bad times. You've struggled. Doubted. Fought with shoe sizing charts. Hidden your gurly side. Struggled with eyeliner. Come out to people and faced rejection. Asked yourself if you were pretty enough. Lost close relationships. Cursed garter clips. And a thousand other things. And, you all share a love of femininity.  With so much in common, why arent we all closer, and communicate more?? Ive done lotsa research, and found trends we should work on!! For instance, on Tumblr, did you know most sissys have less than 10 other sissies in their Inbox!! (I have THOUSANDS!!) Also, most gurls dont have another local sissy bestie. Thats a shame!! Almost a crime!! We need each other!! And, we are sooo much fun!! Trust me, if you havent gone to another gurls house, and with her n maybe others, gotten dressed, had drinks,traded stories and outfits... OMG, if you've never heard:

"Gurrrrrllll... Come here hunny, this dress and these heels will look sooooo good on you!!", LOL, then youre missing out!!

TRUST ME!!! 

So, instead of holding out on a saturday for some "guy" to come use you...how about spending the time with another gurl (or three) instead?? And btw, if its the naughtier events you crave- no problem. That meme about sissys fucking on the first date... Yeah, we know this- its pretty real 😈🤣!! While most gurls claim to be sub/bttm, the majority statistically lean more verse. Which means, if you have an oral fixation and want to practice your skills, no problem- open wide, throat filled, mission accomplished!! Gurls will be happy to let you (many/most of us still dig that!!). And, if you need to get bent over and devastated, thatll work too. Theres plenty of good, capable dick that hides in panties. Sure, some gurls just wont, or are caged and maybe tiny... But hey...TOYS!! Gurls always have plenty!!  And plus, spending time with other sissys helps you build your network... Maybe your new sissy friend knows a guy with the monster you've been craving. BOOM!! The hookup! Also, that network can alert gurls about bad or abusive ppl to avoid. YAY, NIGHTMARE AVOIDED!! Or, maybe new friends know someone who can teach makeup skills and yours still... suck. SHAZAM, beauty coach!! Of course for new and inexperienced sissys, meeting with a "regular guy" straight away is super scary, and lots of bad experiences happen that way. If youre meeting other gurls, hey, they're JUST LIKE YOU!! So theres no weird pressure or degredation, etc... (➡We want to nurture and help new gurls grow, NOT scar them and scare them away!!) You will understand each other!! And most gurls are really kind, so newbs really should meet other gurls as they grow into their new persona. This is where younger gurls can/should turn to older ones for expeience and help, too. Dont be an age snob, theres lots you can learn from them!! (and looking at you, older gurls... You should REALLY be taking new/younger gurls under your wing and helping them!!!) Oh, and these sissyfriends will always be there for you, unlike the guy you met that was only interested in your ass for 3.2 seconds and split. Im just saying, there are so many possibilities left unfound. So many opportunities lost. Our community is a MASSIVE resource for everything you could want or need!! So utilize it!! Sure, other gurls arent for everyone, but just think about it!! At the very least, SUPPLEMENT your inbox and friends list with some other sissys today!! Stop spending your tumblr time exciting the unwashed masses of drooling "men", and connect with someone who will love, understand, and appreciate you!! And yeah, LOL, that will fuck on the first date, 🤣 but only the way you want!!

Hope i didnt irritate too many ppl, i know "regular guys" will probably crucify me, and Im not targeting or picking on them per se, but this is somthing i just had to say... Because I have lived it and believe it!!

Btw, all that ⬆⬆ is the meaning and reason behind GurlsInc and the network id like to build...with your help... So thats it. Love to hear your thoughts...

Have a great gurly day!!!

     -Miss Nikki 💖😘💋

Please REBLOG often so all gurls get to see this!!

[sissymaidpetra]

BDSM Links And Resources

I thought I would update the list of BDSM links and resources I posted a while ago, as some links were no longer working and I had several new ones to add, including a list of books. These should be particularly helpful to those who are new to BDSM and looking to explore D/s relationships, as the best way to go about that is to first read everything you can and then read even more! Not only will this allow you to educate yourself, help keep you safe and avoid any potential mistakes or regrets, but also the more you understand something, the less intimidating it will seem.

If you have anything to add, please don’t hesitate to let me know and I will update this list, in particular if there any books that a submissive might find helpful or informative, as most of the books I have read or included are intended for Dominants.

Note: For the sake of consistency and readability, I have used capitals throughout this document and have not used lower case when referring to submissives or slaves.

Websites:

Babygirls ‘n’ Daddy Doms: Website dedicated to littles, babygirls and Daddy Doms, with a lot of useful information on the subject.

Collarme: A free BDSM dating website and community, that is probably the most popular and a better option than the commercial alternatives.

DS Arts: Academy of DS Arts, fairly self explanatory.

Evil Monk: Ambrosio’s BDSM Website, featuring many useful articles.

Fetlife: An online BDSM community that I would highly recommend and which is perhaps best described as Facebook for the kinky, allowing users to create a profile, publish photos or writing and join interest groups where you can ask questions.

Kink Academy: An online resource with many educational and instructional videos on various aspects of BDSM, although users must pay a small fee to access all of the content.

Submissive Guide: As the name suggests, this is an online resource for submissives.

The Iron Gate: A general BDSM online resource, with many aticles, essays and even stories on the subject.

Dating and Relationships:

10 Principles For Healthy 24/7 D/s And M/s (Source: sexgeek.wordpress.com)

Difference of Dynamics in BDSM (Source: the-little-kitten.tumblr.com)

Finding Your Dominant (Source: asubmissivesjourney.com)

How To Find A Partner (Source: Jack Rinella / leathernews.com)

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 1 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 2 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 3 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

So You Want Your Boyfriend To Dominate You (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate Her (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)

The Unfortunate But Common Misconceptions About DD/lg Relationships (Source: a-lolitas-life.tumblr.com)

Play:

Consent Is Mandatory And Non-Negotiable (Source: fortheloveofasub.tumblr.com)

Food Play (Source: bdsmsadomasochism.tumblr.com)

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)

Initial Steps Into Orgasm on Command Training (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Rules and Tasks for Building Confidence (Source: themostdangerousplaything.tumblr.com)

Tools of Consent in BDSM (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Training in D/s - Why? (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)

Training in D/s - How? (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)

Training in D/s - Thoughts And Concerns (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)

Wax Play (Source: bdsmsadomasochism.tumblr.com)

Safety:

Basics Of Safe, Sane And Consensual Power Exchange (Source: Molly Devon / the-iron-gate.com)

Common Sense (Source: Sean R. Powell / the-iron-gate.com)

Emotional Safety (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Offline/Online BDSM Safety Rules (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Ouch Is Not A Safe Word: Safe Words, Limits, and Scene Protocol (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Rules For Meeting Strangers (Source: Jack Rinella / leathernews.com)

Safewords and Safesigns 101 (Source: kinkology.tumblr.com)

S.S.C. VS R.A.C.K. (Source: Justin Medlin / the-iron-gate.com)

Checklists, Communication and Negotiation:

BDSM Play Partner Check List (Source: Sovereign House / the-iron-gate.com)

BDSM Scene Negotiations (Source: daddyvinnie.tumblr.com)

Can I Get That In Writing: Basics of Negotiations (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Communication (Source: submissivesupportgroup.tumblr.com)

If I Ever See Another Checklist I Will Scream: An Extremely Thorough Play Checklist (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Negotiation Forms (Source: Jay Wiseman, SM 101: A Realistic Introduction / greenerypress.com)

What Are Negotiations Good For? (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Sub Drop and Aftercare:

Aftercare for submissives (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Aftercare for Dominants (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Aftercare for Switches (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Emergency Self-Administered Aftercare (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Sub Drop (Source: David Williams / subshelpingsubs.tripod.com)

Sub Drop and Aftercare (Source: desires-of-a-domimant-man.tumblr.com)

Dominance and Dominants:

A Dominant is NOT… (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Advice to a Novice Dom (Source: Washington Sexuality University / the-iron-gate.com)

Advice to a Novice Dominant (Source: cherhatton.tumblr.com)

An Open Letter To A Novice Dom (Source: evilmonk.org)

Qualities of A Successful Dominant (Source: Polly Peachum / the-iron-gate.com)

Daddy Doms: They’re Not What You Think (Source: edenfantasys.com)

Domination for Nice Guys (Source: Franklin Veaux / the-iron-gate.com)

How To Spot A Non Dominant (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Learning To Be A Dom (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Run Don’t Walk: Warning Signs of A Predator Dom/me Part 1 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Run Don’t Walk: Warning Signs of A Predator Dom/me Part 2 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Red Flags, Warning Signs, and Intuition: Learning to Trust You Instincts - Part One: Dominants (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

The Dominant (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

What Is A Daddy Dom? (Source: babygirlsndaddydoms.webs.com)

What Makes A Good Dominant (Source: Kim Debron / kimdebron.tripod.com)

What Should A Dominant Be (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Submission and Submissives:

10 Considerations For Inexperienced Subs (Source: fortheloveofasub.tumblr.com)

A Submissive Bill of Rights (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

A Submissive’s Creed (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

A Submissive’s Ethics (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Introduction To Submission (Source: Kim Debron / kimdebron.tripod.com)

Learning to Trust Your Instincts (Source: bewildbetruebekinkybeyou.tumblr.com)

Red Flags, Warning Signs, and Intuition: Learning to Trust You Instincts- Part 2: Submissives/Slaves (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Some Rules For The Submissive (Source: daddylookingforhisbaby.tumblr.com)

Submissive Owner’s Manual (Source: youmadememe.tumblr.com)

Ten Tips For The Novice, Heterosexual submissive Woman (Source: Jay Wiseman / the-iron-gate.com)

Warning Signs for Submissives (Source: RC Bauer / the-iron-gate.com)

What Is A Babygirl? (Source: babygirlsndaddydoms.webs.com)

Books:

BDSM: The Naked Truth by Dr Charley Ferrer

Dear Raven and Joshua: Questions and Answers About Master/Slave Relationships by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera

Devil in the Details I: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - The Master, The Slave, The Power by LT Morrison

Devil in the Details II: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - Mastery Refine: The Issues, The Skills by LT Morrison

Devil in the Details III: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - Sustainable Structure and Traning by LT Morrison

Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by William Brame, Gloria Brame and Jon Jacobs

Living M/s: A Book for Masters, slaves and Their Relationships by Dan and Dawn Williams

Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice by Robert Rubel

Master/slave Relations: Communications 401 by Robert Rubel

Master/slave Relations: Solutions 402, Living in Harmony by Robert Rubel

Protocols: A Variety of Views by Robert Rubel

Real Service by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Phillp Miller and Molly Devon

SM101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman

The Control Book by Peter Masters

The Loving Dominant by John and Libby Warren

The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.

The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.

The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino

This Curious Human Phenomenon: An Exploration of Some Uncommonly Explored Aspects of BDSM by Peter Masters

Where I Am Led: A Service Exploration Workbook by Christina Parker

[sissymaidpetra]

Note on Re-Blogging: make sure to re-blog as text if you want the full content of the list to appear!

Social:

Communities:

Fetlife (Facebook for Kinksters)

Fetlife Novices & Newbies Group

Informed Consent (UK)

Datenschlag (DE)

Submissive Guide

People:

Lord Morpheous - author, sex-educator, photographer

Two Knotty Boys - rope bondage educators, authors.

Midori -  educator and columnist on adventurous sexuality.

Fred Kyrel aka ShibariK - French Fetish photographer.

House of Tanos - BDSM blog, Master/slave.

Events:

Shibaricon- large rope bondage convention in Chicago.

Electronic Resources:

Articles

BDSM Identities - My own post on

Darr_Syn’s Post Dump - Collection of posts by /r/BDSMcommunity’s Darr Syn.

BDSM for Nice Guys - be a nice guy and a Dom.

Restrained Elegance - slave position lexicon (nice pictures).

Tutorials

BDSM-Chicago Tutorials - collection of tutorials.

NLA Columbus SM101 - intro to SM by NLA Columbus.

Bondage on a Buck - tutorials, homemade toys.

DIY Tutorial Collection

Leathercrafting Blog - leather, howto’s

Make a Bullwhip

Nylon Whip - Part 1

Nylon Whip - Part 2

Duct Tape Flogger

DIY Velcro WristCuffs

Rope Related:

Be Knotty - Wiki

How to Tie a Karada

Rope & Knots

Animated Knots

Shibari Nation Tutorial on Rope

Wiki Article on Shibari

Videos:

KinkAcademy - Free Video’s (paysite)

Pleasure Shop Collection - free, short.

Whip Making Tutorial 1

Whip Making Tutorial 2

Rope Related:

Two Knotty Boy Collection

Rope-Topia Collection

How to Tie a Shibari-Style Rope Shackle

Twisted Monk Collection

Blogs:

Press Button For Sex

Podcasts:

Erotic Awakening

The Dark Side

Books:

“How to Be Kinky: A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM”

“How to Be Kinkier: More Adventures in Adult Playtime”

“Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism”

“The New Topping Book”

“The New Bottoming Book”

“The Better Built Bondage Book: A Complete Guide to Making Your Own Sex Toys, Furniture and BDSM Equipment”

“On the Safe Edge: A Manual for SM Play”

“Sm 101: A Realistic Introduction”

“When Someone You Love is Kinky”

Rope Related:

“Rope Bondage 101” - Free PDF via kinkfriendly.com

“A guide for rope bottoms and bondage models.” - Free PDF via rope-topia.com

“Esinem Style Takate-Kote” - Free PDF via esinem.com

“Complete Shibari Volume 1: Land”

“Complete Shibari Volume 2: Sky”

“Two Knotty Boys Showing You The Ropes: A Step-by-Step, Illustrated Guide for Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage”

“Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes”

“Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé”

“Bondage For Sex”

Stores/Retailers:

DHGate - cheap, low quality

Discount BDSM Gear - cheaper, okay quality

HalfwayCreations - leather, high quality

Mr S Leather - various, high quality

Fetish Jewelry - jewelry

Tandy Leather Factory - leather, leather working supplies

StockRoom - expensive, high quality, various

NorthBound Leather - expensive, high quality, leather

Paddles Of Distinction - expensive, high quality paddles

Bound to Please - bondage supplies

Beautiful Bondage - bondage supplies

Freak Clubwear - clothing, toys

Jack’s Floggers - impact toys

Rope Related:

EMT Shears

Aja Rope - hemp, MFP, paracord

Beautiful Bondage (UK) - hemp, synthetic hemp, cotton, accessories, bulk orders

BindMe.nl (NL) - hemp, jute

Boss Bondage - hemp, accessories

Erin Houdini - nylon specialist, UV reactive colors

Esinem (UK) - hemp, jute, linen

HandmadeRope (CA) - variety of handmade rope

HempTraders - raw hemp

Jade Rope (UK)(US) - variety of natural and synthetic fibers, accessories

Jakara Shibari (UK) - jute specialist

Jaoman (CA) - hemp

KinkyRopes - specialty ropes, jute, flax, hemp, rope toys

KnottyBound - hemp, jute, bamboo, bulk orders

Madame Butterfly - silk specialist

Maui Kink - hemp, jute, variety of exotic natural fibers, accessories, bulk orders

McHurt (DE) - hemp, general bdsm

Naturally Twisted (AU) - jute, accessories

Omega Jute - jute

Ouchy (NL) - hemp, jute, synthetic hemp

Rawganique - raw hemp, hemp products

Renaissance Rope - hemp, jute, bamboo

Rope Extremes - hemp, MFP, nylon, synthetic hemp, paracord

Shibari Ropes - hemp, jute, suspension rings

TwistedMonk - hemp, accessories

Venus Ropes - hemp, MFP, nylon, accessories

Vintage Rope - hemp, cotton, MFP, accessories

Fun/Fiction/Entertainment:

KinkForKindle - Free Kink Ebooks

“Nana to Kaoru” - Cute BDSM Manga

Sysmtoys - games, toys, ideas

Tentacle BDSM Chair - yup

Fiction Authors:

Cherise Sinclair - Great BDSM Fiction Writer

[Masters of the Shadowlands 1] “Club Shadowlands”

[Masters of the Shadowlands 2] “Dark Citadel”

[Masters of the Shadowlands 3] “Breaking Free”

[Masters of the Shadowlands 4] “Lean on Me”

[Masters of the Shadowlands 5] “Make Me, Sir”

[Masters of the Shadowlands 6] “To Command and Collar”

Extra:

Please Punish Me! - Punishment Generator

The Carlilock - Chastity Belt Time-Delay Key Holding

MojoUpgrade - Discover your kink Questioner

HumanSexMap - Exactly what it sounds like.

[sissymaidpetra]

[sissymaidpetra]

One and five

Which sissy skirt would YOU like to wear?

Pick out your favourite from 1-6 and reblog with your answer.

Let’s see what you pink sissies desire!