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Moon in 2nd house synastry

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Venus in the 8th House Synastry

In this house, love intensifies. Passions become deep. With Venus in the 8th house in synastry, intensity and eroticity are felt very strongly.

Physical contact becomes essential. It's hard to deny or not notice what's happening. Generally the person from the house notices Venus first, when he sees her he is fascinated at first sight, he wants to know more about her.

The house person then develops an obsession with the Venus person. For the house person Venus represents beauty, something they want to have all for themselves.

When Venus returns the attention, when she finally falls for the irresistible charms of the 8th house person, that's when the power and control issues start appearing. Generally the person of the 8th house will try to control what is theirs, in this case, Venus.

At first, the Venus person will have no choice but to surrender to the person of the house, since the magnetism that pulls them together is very strong.

Over time, however, Venus will notice how controlling the house person is, so the feeling of discomfort will arise. But even so, their body, their mind, cannot stop thinking, wanting, the 8th house person, so even if they do feel uncomfortable, the Venus person will want to return to the 8th house person's arm.

The 8th house person will have to give up their power and control at some point, especially if they want the relationship to continue.

Emotionally, Venus and the 8th house have a very strong emotional connection. Their physical bond is precious, it's where they find each other's soul.

Intimate connection is very important for this couple, they need each other's bodies, finding great physical and emotional satisfaction in the act.

The longer they stay together, the more addicted they get with each other.

It's possible that Venus loves to give things to the 8th house, or vice versa.

The 8th house needs Venus just as Venus needs the person of the house.

As if diving into a deep river, the Venus person finds themselves increasingly trapped and in love with the house person, and even if they break up, they will still remember each other for the rest of their lives, as the synastry of Venus in the 8th house is unforgettable and irresistible.

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8th House Synastry Observations

🍄 These types of connections (romantic or platonic) can't be lighthearted; if there is genuine care within the dynamic intensity is very likely.

🍄 You have to consciously tell yourself to "not react" in moments when the other person fails to meet your expectations.

🍄 Emotions flood within you before your brain can logically calm you down.

🍄 Upset facial expressions/elongated eye glances/staring oftentimes can occur when the other person is again *failing to meet expectations.*

🍄 You always will compare how *they* make you feel vs how other people make you feel.

🍄 With other intense synastry aspects (such as more 4h/12h, nodal, or vertex synastry) or genuine care, reading each other just by their eyes alone is extremely easy. Just by a look, you will know how they feel.

🍄 In these connections you may know what not to do, you logically will know that the long period of stares, the obvious dissatisfaction you feel is not really justified usually because of outside factors, the lack of foundation within the connection, or just by the fact there's been little to no communication on either end, and yet that doesn't change or minimize the pain or feelings you have towards them from their actions.

🍄 Even if one person doesn't have natal scorpio/pluto/8th house placements/aspects in their chart, if they care about the other person; they will also have intense expectations on the other person.

🍄 In a platonic opposite-gender connection where one party has a romantic partner, you might understand that their actions towards you should lessen, especially in respect towards their partner but despite that rational understanding, the pull of your connection with them often overrides. Even if a part of you wants to respect their relationship logically and consciously, the underlying need for their attention or care persists.

🍄 In romantic connections (especially with moon/venus in another's 8th house) their eyes (the planet person) tells you it's okay to let that vulnerable side of you that you've shunned out, and without words; that emotional closeness that you've always wished to feel is suddenly fulfilled and with ease.

🍄 8th house connections undertake more Plutonian energy. If you are un-healed, then their actions or lack thereof can ignite parts of your character that you don't even recognize.

🍄 If you struggle with BPD/BPD tendencies then connections that take on more 8th house/pluto synastry will feel enticing and familiar, you are more likely to be drawn to the intense high and lows that this connection brings.

🍄 The deep rooted attraction with these connections mainly lies in the fact that you can allow yourself to feel emotionally close and vulnerable to someone else, the more you crave expressing emotional vulnerability the more attractive they become to you. (especially with objective/attraction synastry aspects)

🍄 Once their actions or once certain consist factors/situations creates a severe emotional blockage between you and them; the less desirable they will feel to you (especially so if you struggle with polarizing emotions)

🍄 It could be months since you've spoken to them, months since their eyes have met yours and if you still struggle with emotional acceptance/self love/self worth/self value; then a longing for them might ignite in any abrupt moment (whether it be from a photo of them, running into a mutual friend, from reading a cathartic quote that reminds you of them) a spark that once persisted for so long will make it's self known, and the part of you that you thought you said good-bye too, might reappear again.

🍄 8th house connections consist of cycles and loops, it's a dilemma of letting go to longing, it's understandable to sometimes have these waves of wanting even if you logically know you shouldn't.

🍄 Longing for one another on both ends (all that needs to be present is sincere care) can occur.

🍄 The longing you feel if they do leave your presence is the part of you that craves emotional closeness and serenity.

🍄 Logically you may know and have objective expectations of how they should treat you because of other factors and yet certain expectations or desires you have within will persist.

🍄 Even if nothing substantial or foundational ever occurred between the two of you, the reactions within you might reenact as if the two of you dated for months, years even.

🍄 There could be an emotional block between you two and the desire for them may diminish but If they look at you for one second the way they used too, the desire for them will arise as if the feeling never left.

🍄 The intensity of this connection swings between unspoken loyalty and complete avoidance—one extreme is driven by the fear of showing disinterest, and the other is driven by the fear of being a burden. If you’re not preoccupied with displaying your loyalty to them in a room full of people, you find yourself avoiding eye contact or minimizing conversation to maintain a facade of “normalcy”—a normalcy that doesn’t truly exist in this connection.

🍄 In romantic/attraction based relationships, and if you share 12th/South Node synastry/conjunctions with them; then you might feel this underlying tension to stay loyal to them.

Example:

For the more anxious type or with natal 12th/8th influence: At a party you focus on not giving another person too much attention because you feel they might get jealous or upset, even if there's nothing foundational. You only focus on their eyes in the room, and you make sure to showcase that your undivided attention is on them; even if they don't do or say anything to receive that loyal behavior. You can't help it.

For the more avoidant type or without natal 12th/8th influence (or no attraction even): You might overcompensate and try to talk/give attention to other people in front of them to showcase how "little" you care; so you may try to act like they are unimportant. This behavior could be out of insecurity, especially if this occurs when you feel jealous/or if they didn't exceed an expectation you had. It also could stem from the fact you feel fearful that you care and it feels uncomfortable that you dislike when they receive attention from others. (another note is if you're avoidant and when you get too much attention from someone else, you may realize how little you care about the 'distraction' you asked for and you'll start to wish the person in front of you was person you share 8th house synastry with)

The loops!! Cycles!! Staring! Longing! You want them then you don't, then you do, then you don't.

💞 In these observations each individual has to be emotionally prepared and open to emotional closeness, if someone is emotionally and spiritually un-evolved then no matter how "open" you naturally feel with them, that should never justify reoccurring pain or abuse that the other party causes 💞

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8th house synastry overlays (outer planets)

inner planets overlay & asteroids overlay

jupiter in 8th house overlay

jupiter person: in this synastry, the jupiter person feels an expansive and enriching connection with the 8th house person, as their presence inspires a sense of abundance and possibility in matters of intimacy, shared resources, and emotional depth. on the positive side, the jupiter person may find themselves feeling optimistic and adventurous, embracing the transformative power of their relationship to explore new emotional territories and deepen their understanding of intimacy. this dynamic can lead to spiritual growth and a sense of shared purpose. however, the intensity of the 8th house can also overwhelm the jupiter person, making them feel anxious or uncertain about their role in navigating the complexities of the relationship, particularly if they sense the 8th house person struggling with their own insecurities or fears. the jupiter person may grapple with finding balance between offering support and needing to maintain their own optimism.

8th house person: for the 8th house person, the influence of jupiter can bring a sense of hope and expansion into their emotional world, encouraging them to embrace vulnerability and trust in the abundance of their connection. positively, they may feel inspired to delve deeper into the mysteries of intimacy, uncovering hidden desires and fostering a sense of trust and faith in the relationship’s potential. this dynamic can lead to a transformative experience, where the 8th house person feels supported in their journey toward emotional healing and growth. however, the weight of jupiter's expansive energy can also create pressure, leading the 8th house person to feel exposed or vulnerable, as they may fear their darker emotions could overshadow the positivity jupiter brings. they might oscillate between feeling uplifted by the jupiter person's optimism and overwhelmed by the emotional depth of their interactions.

couple tropes: the explorers of depth, abundant connection, cosmic lovers, trust builders, transformative duo, emotional adventurers, optimistic healers, intuitive synchrony, the secrets of abundance, the fated journey

saturn in 8th house overlay

saturn person: in this synastry, the saturn person feels a strong sense of responsibility and commitment toward the 8th house person, often striving to provide stability and structure within the relationship. on the positive side, this can lead to a profound sense of resilience, as the saturn person helps the 8th house person confront their fears and embrace vulnerability while establishing healthy boundaries. their presence can foster a deep sense of trust, encouraging both partners to explore the depths of intimacy without feeling overwhelmed. however, the weight of saturn's energy can also lead to rigidity or fear of intimacy, causing the saturn person to impose boundaries that may feel constrictive to the 8th house person. they might struggle with balancing their protective instincts with the need for emotional openness, potentially leading to misunderstandings and emotional distance.

8th house person: for the 8th house person, the influence of saturn can evoke a mix of feelings around resilience and boundaries, prompting them to confront deep-seated fears and insecurities. positively, they may develop a greater sense of self-discipline and emotional maturity, learning to navigate their vulnerabilities while establishing stronger boundaries in their intimate relationships. the presence of saturn can encourage them to take responsibility for their emotional well-being, fostering a sense of resilience in facing the challenges that arise. however, the heaviness of saturn's energy can also feel daunting, leading the 8th house person to experience anxiety around emotional closeness. they might struggle with feeling constrained by the boundaries set by the saturn person, causing them to retreat or resist the very intimacy they crave, leading to tensions in the relationship.

couple tropes: guardians of vulnerability, boundaries & bridges, the resilient souls, the healing process, teachers of trust, the emotional architects, commitment pioneers, shadows of doubt, the steadfast allies, transformative journey

uranus in 8th house overlay

uranus person: in this synastry, the uranus person brings a refreshing sense of independence and a desire for change into the 8th house person's emotional landscape, encouraging them to explore new dimensions of intimacy and personal freedom. on the positive side, this influence can lead to exciting experiences, as the uranus person inspires the 8th house person to break free from traditional boundaries and embrace their own unique expression of love and desire. the relationship can feel invigorating, filled with spontaneous moments and unconventional approaches to intimacy. however, the unpredictability that comes with uranus can also lead to instability, causing the 8th house person to feel anxious about the uranus person's need for freedom. if the uranus person leans too heavily into their desire for independence, it might leave the 8th house person feeling neglected or insecure, creating a push-pull dynamic that challenges their emotional connection.

8th house person: for the 8th house person, the presence of uranus can evoke a powerful sense of independence, prompting them to question their emotional attachments and explore new avenues of self-expression within the relationship. positively, this influence may empower the 8th house person to confront their fears and embrace change, fostering a sense of liberation and growth as they explore deeper aspects of intimacy. they may find themselves more willing to embrace the unknown and seek transformative experiences alongside the uranus person. however, this same energy can also lead to feelings of instability, as the 8th house person may struggle with the unpredictable nature of the uranus person's influence. if they feel overwhelmed by constant change or fear losing their emotional grounding, they might retreat or resist the very changes that could lead to deeper intimacy, leading to tension in the relationship.

couple tropes: revolutionaries of intimacy, wild cards, seekers of freedom, cosmic shifts, emotional innovators, the thrill-seekers, eccentric pair, the unexpected connection, freedom fighters, transformational journey

neptune in 8th house overlay

neptune person: in this synastry, the neptune person introduces a dreamlike quality to the relationship, creating an atmosphere rich in fantasy and emotional depth. positively, this influence can lead to a profound spiritual connection, allowing both partners to explore their emotional landscapes and desires in ways that feel transcendent and enriching. the neptune person may inspire the 8th house person to embrace their imagination and creativity, fostering a bond that feels otherworldly and deeply intimate. however, the downside of this dynamic can be the potential for deception and disillusionment. the neptune person's tendency to idealize or escape from reality may lead to misunderstandings, where the 8th house person feels confused or manipulated by the nebulous boundaries of their relationship. if the neptune person's dreams clash with the 8th house person's need for tangible intimacy, it could result in feelings of betrayal or unmet expectations, undermining the trust and connection they initially cultivated.

8th house person: for the 8th house person, the presence of neptune can evoke a heightened sensitivity to the emotional and spiritual dimensions of intimacy, prompting them to explore their fantasies and desires in profound ways. this influence can lead to moments of deep connection and shared vulnerability, where the 8th house person feels free to express their hidden emotions and aspirations. on the positive side, this dynamic can foster a sense of unity, where both partners engage in a mutually enriching experience that transcends the ordinary. however, the downside is that the 8th house person may struggle with the illusions and fantasies introduced by the neptune person, sometimes finding it difficult to discern reality from deception. if they become too enmeshed in the neptune person's dreamy world, they might feel disoriented or disappointed when faced with the harsh truths of their relationship. this struggle between fantasy and reality can lead to feelings of insecurity, especially if the 8th house person feels that their emotional needs are not being met.

couple tropes: dreamy lovers, the escapists, spiritual seekers, the mysterious pair, idealistic visionaries, the intuitive connection, the fantasizers, the illusionists, soulmates, healing bond

pluto in 8th house overlay

pluto person: in this synastry, the pluto person brings a deep intensity and transformative energy to the relationship, often compelling the 8th house person to confront their own issues of control and empowerment. positively, this dynamic can facilitate profound personal growth, as the pluto person encourages the 8th house person to embrace their own power and delve into the depths of their emotions, leading to empowerment and resilience. the transformative nature of this connection can foster a sense of shared purpose and a bond built on trust and mutual understanding. however, the intensity of pluto can also lead to power struggles, with the pluto person potentially exerting control or manipulation, causing the 8th house person to feel overwhelmed or trapped. if the pluto person's desire for control overshadows the relationship, it may lead to feelings of resentment or fear in the 8th house person, ultimately hindering the transformative potential of their connection.

8th house person: for the 8th house person, the influence of pluto can awaken a deeper understanding of their own power dynamics within relationships, prompting them to explore themes of control and emotional vulnerability. positively, they may find themselves feeling more empowered to address their fears and insecurities, leading to profound personal transformation and healing. the intensity brought by pluto can encourage the 8th house person to embrace their own desires and assert their needs within the relationship, creating a sense of empowerment and depth. however, the weight of pluto's energy can also provoke feelings of fear or inadequacy, especially if they sense the pluto person's intensity as overwhelming or controlling. this struggle with power can lead to emotional push-pull dynamics, where the 8th house person oscillates between embracing their newfound empowerment and retreating into self-doubt or defensiveness.

couple tropes: transformative duo, the power players, intense connection, the shadow explorers, the emotional alchemists, catalyst for change, trust builders, the bond of secrets, resilient survivors, fated connection

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