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what you allow……. will continue

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Real laughs 😊

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its a girl eat girl out world

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Word up! That’s why we need it legal on federal level.

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Six simple rituals: 1. Drink a glass of water when you wake up. Your body loses water while you sleep, so you’re naturally dehydrated in the morning. A glass of water when you wake helps start your day fresh. 2. Define your top 3. Every morning ask yourself, “What are the top three most important tasks that I will complete today?” Prioritizes your day accordingly and don’t sleep until the Top 3 are complete. 3. The 50/10 Rule. Solo-task and do more faster by working in 50/10 increments. Use a timer to work for 50 minutes on only one important task with 10 minute breaks in between. Spend your 10 minutes getting away from your desk, going outside, calling friends, meditating, or grabbing a glass of water. 4. Move and sweat daily. Regular movement keeps us healthy and alert. It boosts energy and mood, and relieves stress. 5. Express gratitude. Gratitude fosters happiness. Each morning, think of at least five things you’re thankful for. In times of stress, pause and reflect on these things. 6. Reflect daily. Bring closure to your day through 10 minutes of reflection. Asks yourself, “What went well?” and “What needs improvement?”

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Poly Terms

I’m trying to compile a list of terms related to polyamory for newcomers to the community and anyone else who’s interested in learning about it (I practically had a google tab open whenever I was reading about poly stuff). If you think anything should be added or changed, please let me know.

Bigamy: being married (in a legal sense) while already married to another person (usually illegal)

Bipoly: a shortened term for bisexual polyamorous

Closed relationship: any configuration in which partners are not allowed to seek other partners outside the configuration

Compersion: the opposite of jealousy; an empathetic response to a partner’s happiness with their other partner(s)

Hierarchical relationship: a polycule configuration in which there is a primary partnership which takes priority over one or more secondary arrangements 

Metamour: your partner’s partner that you are not otherwise involved with non-platonically

Monogamish: a term used to describe a relationship which is a closed couple most of the time, but has exceptions

Monogamy: the practice or state of having a non-platonic relationship with only one partner

Non-platonic: a relationship that has a romantic and/or sexual nature

Nonmonogamy: blanket term which covers several types of interpersonal relationships in which an individual forms multiple and simultaneous sexual or romantic bonds with informed consent from all involved

NRE: acronym for new relationship energy, the feeling of euphoria associated with the beginning of a relationship

Open relationship: any configuration in which partners are allowed to seek other partners

Polyamory spectrum: a continuum of monogamy to polyamory

Polyamory: the philosophy or state of being non-platonically involved with more than one person at the same time with informed consent from all involved

Polyandry: polygamy in which a woman has more than one husband

Polycule: a network of people who are involved in non-platonic relationships and their metamours

Polyfidelity: three or more people in a closed relationship

Polygamy: the practice or custom of having more than one wife or husband at the same time

Polygyny: polygamy in which a man has more than one wife

Polysexual: someone who has the capacity to be attracted to multiple genders, usually more than two (frequently confused with polyamorous)

Relationship orientation: a person’s identity as related to their preference for monogamy or polyamory

Serial monogamy: not included under the polyamory umbrella; multiple monogamous relationships one after the other

Swinging: a configuration in which a couple has a relationship that is open strictly for sexual flings

Unicorn hunters: a couple looking for a woman to be their “unicorn” (usually has a negative connotation)

Unicorn: a bisexual polyamorous woman who is open to forming a (usually closed) triad with an established couple; referred to as a unicorn because women as described above are extremely rare

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Wait, wait a minute, that phone background. Is there a difference between Polygamy and Polyamory? Are there others?

oh yes! there is! first, let me explain a couple things

POLY- poly means many, but not allMONO- mono means one, singular-GAMY - gamy means marriage, legally or not-AMORY - amory means romance, relationship-FIDELITY - fidelity means faithful, exclusive

here is a helpful graph:

So, let me explain them:

MONOGAMY: a marriage in which you are dedicated to one other person, no one elseMONOAMORY: a relationship in which you are dedicated to one other person, no one elseCHEATING: a relationship in which you do not tell your partner that you are seeing another person. even if you are sure they wouldnt mind, not telling your partner is cheating! cheating CAN happen in a poly- relationship, it still can have disastrous effects, it doesnt matter!DON’T ASK DON’T TELL: a relationship in which your partner is aware that you are seeing someone on the side, and they dont mind, they dont bring it up, they dont want to know who it is, its a secret between the three of youOPEN RELATIONSHIP: a relationship in which your partner approves and allows you to have one-night stands with a person on the side. said person could be a mutual friend, or a stranger, and your partner likes to be kept up-to-date on whats happening.POLYGAMY: a marriage in which you are dedicated to more than one person, everyone in the marriages are aware and approves of the other people involved, you can marry an additional person if you wish and the others approve POLYAMORY: a relationship in which you are dedicated to more than one person, everyone in the relationship is aware and approves of the other people involved, you can date an additional person if you wish and the others approvePOLYFIDELITY/POLYEXCLUSIVITY: a relationship in which you are dedicated to more than one person and they too are dating each other. everything is mutual and everyone is aware of everyone. if you wish to date an additional person, the others of the relationship must agree, approve, and also be in a relationship with themSOLO POLYAMORY: a relationship in which you are dating more than one person, but you do not want to move in, do not want to marry, you want to be on your own and have your own space and your own time to yourselfRELATIONSHIP ANARCHY: yeah, this ones great, fucking hilarious, woo!!HIERARCHICAL POLY-[blank]: in which one partner is more important than any others EGALITARIAN POLY-[blank]: in which all partners are equal to each other

so, for me? im Egalitarian Polyfidelity. i have three partners, they are all aware of each other, they are dating each other, and i love them all equally.

good luck on your poly adventures, friends!!♡

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