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I knew if I looked long enough I'd find this post again. Dude just emailed me on EM and seems WAAAAAY weird!!!

This guy messaged me on SD4M. First of all, if you can spell your name im 100’s why the fuckk do you have a cheap ass couch?!

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I've seen this pic before. From a LONG time ago, I think somewhere on Tumblr, but I'm not sure. Who is this? He sent me a message on EM and seems REALLY strange and like a REAL fr SALT and LIAR. Who's had contact with this dude?

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You are clearly supposed to text, type, whatev with two thumbs not one finger like you don't know where shit is lol

Yeh MOM??? taylorswift

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The Heel Dictionary

Via

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I just wanted to warn some girls that are on the Sugardaddyforme website ! This is for the Los Angeles area! There is a man that goes by Charles Hansen his Screen name is WCH770. He claims to be a writer from Beverly Hills , he is in fact not a writer . He's just a regular guy ( he isn't wealthy) so he's a fake sugardaddy. Do not respond to him !

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SUGAR BABY ADVICE MASTERPOST

Here’s a list of advice and tips from various sugar babies. This will work for newbies, and sex workers too. I’ll be updating this list often on my profile so go here for more. 

» 10 Questions To Ask a Potential Sugar Daddy Before Starting an Arrangement 

» How To Be a Pure Sugar Baby

» How To Become a Sugar Baby

» How To Stand Out As a Sugar Baby

» A List of Sugar Sites To Check Out

» How To Stay Safe While Being a Sugar Baby

» How To Be a Kept Woman

» How To Ask For Gifts

» The First Date: 10 Tips To Help You Master the Art of the Sugar Date

» How To Respond to Someone Who Calls You a Prostitute

» 100 “Non Allowance” Questions To Ask Your Pot Or Sugar Daddy 

» How To Cheat Your Way Through Intelligent Small Talk

» Free Background Check Website

» How to Get a Job In The Luxury Industry 

» Why Sugar Babies Are The Next Generation Of Entrepreneurs 

» Internet Safety For Sugar Babies

» Sugar Survival Kit

» Literature For Starting Sugar Babies

» Freestyling Guide 

» What Makes a Successful Sugar Baby

» 5 Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To An Allowance Offer

» What To Say To Get The Allowance You Want

» The Sugar Baby Mentality 

» Allowance Talk

» Closet Classics Checklist

» 100 Ways To Be Elegant 

» Sugaring Research Resources 

» Creating The Perfect Profile

» What To Do With Your Allowance

» Common Sugar Baby Acronyms 

» The Psychology Of Persuasion 

» Invest In Yourself

» What To Pay Attention To On Dates

» Let’s Talk Budgeting

» Online Safety 

» What Is a Sugar Baby?

» How To Spot a FAKE Sugar Daddy

» The First Date

» Allowance & Bank Laws

» I Am Not Attracted To My Sugar Daddy

» Plus Size Sugar Baby

» Sugar Baby Shopping Tips

» The Married Sugar Daddy: Guide To Being The Other Woman

» Underage Sugar Baby: 17 & Under

» Sugar Baby With a Baby

» The Rules Of The Sugar Baby Job

» Tip For Traveling Sugar Babies

» Meeting Your First POT

» How To Handle The First Date

» Best Apps And Websites For A Sugar Baby

» The Ultimate Guide To Being A Sugar Baby

» How To Disappear Online

» The Stress Test

» "What Are You Looking For?"

» Ways To Say “No” Politely 

» What To Wear While Shopping With A SD

» Income vs Allowance 

» The Master Sex Worker TV Marathon

» New Sugar Babies, Please Read This

» How To Weed Through Messages & Profiles From A Sugar Site

» Travelling With Your SD

» More Tips For New Sugar Babies

» Hardcore Online Security For Sugar Babies

» Turning A Man Into A Sugar Daddy 

» More Safety Tips. These Could Save Your Life

» Hustle Is A Euphemism For Manipulation 

» Red Flags

» MORE SAFETY TIPS

» Tips On Messaging Someone

» This Lifestyle Isn’t For Everyone

» Free Online Safety Tool

» Red Flags On Sugar Dating Sites

» A Word About Sex And Sugar Daddies

» Calculating The Maximum Allowance A Man Can Give You Based On His Income And Taxes

» Researching Your SD Or POT

» Cash Tips

» Making A Set List Of Your Rates

» What To Say If A POT Date Is Salty And Cheap 

» Sugar Baby Shopping Tips

» 1 Sentence, 7 Different Ways

» 5 Newbie Sugar Baby Mistakes And How To Avoid Them

» Establishing And Arrangement With A Pot

» A Few Tips

» Protecting Yourself

» Messaging A Sugar Daddy 

» When Is It Right To Start Sugaring?

» Control Your Speech

» Never Lower Your Standards For A Pot

» The Money: How To Make Good Money

» A Successful Sugar Baby

» Sugaring Mistakes

» Money 101

» 5 Ways To Showcase Yourself To Your Sugar Daddy

» How To Manipulate The Conversation

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Half of them are full of shit anyway. I think what gets stuck in their head is the stereotype of what a ghetto black woman is. I've had so many guys that have wanted to take me out and then ask "What are you mixed with?" Or say, "I don't normally go out with black girls... but you're different." They're simple-minded and or full of shit.

If I see one more profile saying “only seeking caucasian, asian, or latina” or “not interested in african american/black women” I am going to scream. 

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And I still wouldn't listen

What if Rihanna, Beyoncé, and Nicki made a girl group for one short album and called themselves R’NB

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Who said it was a scary language. Isn't it one of the closest to English? Lol

destroy the “german is a scary language” stereotype 2k15

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Very perceptive. It's ALL about control. Women do it too. When jokingly telling a guy, "You and I will never work because of 'xyz.'" I find they try even hard to PROVE it will work.

Gather round kids while I explain this manipulation tactic that men perpetually try to use and why it’s bullshit.

If someone is openly showing interest in you by making disparaging or disappointed comments about your age, they’re trying to put you on the defensive. This guy wants me to try to quell his discomfort, to bring up that I’m only a month shy of 20, etc. - he wants me to try to prove myself to him, that I’m mature and adult enough for a man like him.

His goal is to establish a power imbalance right off the bat. If we were to date, I would constantly be on the defensive, constantly striving to be an equal, constantly trying to prove my “adult” credentials. Anything he says or does or wants from this point on that I object to would just be seen as a strike against my age, proof that he was right and that I’m not mature enough for him. This is how SO MANY men pressure younger individuals (primarily women and girls) into situations and relationships they aren’t comfortable with. If he truly thought I was too young for him, he wouldn’t have messaged me. This is a very calculated move, and it’s fucking gross.

Adult relationships with age gaps are completely fine, but only if all parties view each other as equals. If someone is trying to set you up in a way that ensures that’s never a possibility, run far away.

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Which diet pills are you using and do you think they're working?

They're called phentermine. It's a prescription appetite suppressant and yes, they really do work.

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Really? She is straight from the Mother Land and people try to "whitewash" her to make her more acceptable. Smh

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Do you blur your pictures on sd websites ?

No, I don't. I have regular pics that you may find on any dating website (nothing too provocative) and if there is a "private" pics feature I may have something a little sexier, but like in real life, I usually portray myself as mostly conservative, but still sexy and attractive.

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^Lmao, she can hide EVERYTHING else besides her tracks lol

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This was so me a few months ago. Time always helps get over assholes and brings closure.

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That's hella fucking weird

there’s a lot of weird shit on this site but have you ever seen a peeled lemon

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That hoe fucked EVERYBODY!

pac fucked madonna