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feeling really big today

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Likes/replies/reblogs are appreciated <3

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Funnel feeding is so fucking hot. I wanna see your eyes roll back from pleasure and pain as you feel yourself getting fatter and bigger from all the thick cream I’m pouring down your throat. I wanna watch you go from struggling to keep up with swallow to desperately sucking it down as you caress and feel your heavy belly growing outward with every gulp. I want to hear you whine when it’s all gone, whine for more as you sit there, shirt busted open and belly swelling on your lap. So fucking greedy for me. But of course I have more for you, if that’s what you really want.

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I love hearing boys make the most desperate sounds. Strained swallows as they’re chugging, moaning after they burp, whimpering at how full they are, moaning through mouthfuls as I feed them. They’re just so cute. It only makes me wanna feed them more. I wanna hear my pretty boy make all those perfect noises for me~ and if that means feeding him more, then I’ll simply never stop 😍🥰😈

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Gaining for Dummies (or other people who dont know how to gain weight good)

Tools You may Use~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

• WEIGHT GAIN GOAL DATE CALCULATOR

• GAIN CALCULATOR

• BMR CALCULATOR

• MYFITNESSPAL

• FLIPP

• CALORIC INTAKE ESTIMATOR (select: Muscle Gainz)

Other Beneficial Links~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

 How to Gain Weight:  

25 Foods that will Make you Hungry: 

Weight Gain Foods: 

BMI stock Charts: 

BMI Comparison Charts (40-80BMi demonstrated): 

Body Composition: 

Volume of the Human Stomach

TERMS TO KNOW~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

BMR | Basal Metabolic Rate. what your body needs calorie wise in order to sustain its vital functions (return to zero, aka if you laid in bed all day doing nothing what your body needs calorie wise to continue fueling itself)

BMI | body mass index

GW | Goal Weight

CW | Current Weight

LW | lowest weight

Immobile | to be bed bound, in this case as a direct or indirect result of weight gain.

FA/FFA | Fat admirer. Someone who identifies as being attracted to people who may fall along the spectrum of fatness (in obvious varying degrees)

Encourager | Someone who may or may not identify as a feeder who likes to see others eat & possibly gain weight. Often the softcore end of the FA spectrum

Feeder | Someone who either in person or online is interested in spurring or causing another person’s weight gain.

Feedee | Someone who wants to be fed to gain.

Foodee | Someone who loves food, is passionate about the culinary arts.

BHM | Big handsome man

BBW | big beautiful woman

BASIC THEORY~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

How does a person gain weight? In theory, whenever your calories IN are more numerous than your  calories OUT, you will see weight gain. My personal belief is this gain is compounding, as weight increase generally means activity decrease, thus being easier to continue to gain weight over time as much as your BMR will be directly impacted by your gain (more calories needed to sustain/maintain higher weight). For someone who is accidentally or unintentionally gaining, this usually looks like <500 calories more than their required BMR in a day. 500cal+BMR/BMR would in theory result in 1lb of weight gain in a week (52 weeks in a year = 52lbs). For someone who is intentionally gaining, it isn’t unheard of for someone eating a surplus of 1500-3500cal a day to see 1lbs a day (1500-3500+BMR/BMR a day = 3-7lbs a week) or 150lbs-374lbs in a year (both numbers are dramatically noticeable gains if you are hoping to do so in secret). With the help of an online encourager (and from my personal experience) you can expect to see upwards of 5-20lbs in a month gaining, while those with in person feeders often see more aggressive results. Use any of the above calculators to get your BMR as a base line - and the Prokerela calculator if you have a target date for your weight gains (ex: if you were 180lbs today and wanted to weigh 400lbs in 18 months) and it will provide you your approximate necessary caloric intake to get you to said weight by the date.

TECHNIQUES ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Overview: Additional tips and tricks, methods - some old “wives tales” and other unproven sentiments.

1. Don’t drink water before or during meals. Water is a necessity, but we hear about using water as a substitute for other drinks & drinking between bites as a means to lose weight, not gain. Drink (homo) milk instead.

2. Stop drinking 1-2% or skim milk! (160 calories versus 40-75 per serving)

3. Use creamer (10%+) instead of milk in cereal.

4. Eat more often! Despite the “benefits” of gaining to be had from putting “your body into starvation mode”, this isn’t healthy nor is it a viable option in the long run. 

5. Use bigger plates & fill them!

6. Weigh yourself & keep logs of calories in & out, as well as weight !

7. If you are having a hard time because you have a fast metabolism, or have a natural inclination to be athletic/muscular - double, triple, or quadruple your current food intake !

8. Intermittent fasting can be beneficial, however try to limit food intake to hours in a day versus staggered days of eating & not eating - 12PM-8PM for example, or 12PM-12AM.

9. Nuts & carbs are your best friend.

10. peanuts, cashews, and olive oil - yogurt, fruit pies and granola bars are all healthy fatty snacks as well 

11. (Stolen from Wikihow) Eat late at night. Without even upping your food intake, changing your eating times can facilitate the weight gaining process. Have a big dinner late at night and after that? Pile on dessert. A recent study shows that people who snack after 8 p.m. have higher body mass indexes (BMIs) than people who don’t nosh at night, even though they don’t eat significantly more total daily calories

12. Eat fast food.

13. Buy snacks you love, and buy them in bulk on sale (check flipp app for coupons/flyers, go to Costco etc.)

14. Eat meal replacement snacks as a second snack or between meals.

15. Grazing can be a good maintenance trick for people trying to rewire their brains to lose weight, but consistently eating (making sure you have a snack in your hand or within your arms reach) for 10-12 hours a day is a surefire way to put on weight.

16. Use desjardin breakfast drinks, ensure, k brand, or other stir-in meal replacements in your milk on top of your meal.

17. High fat foods and high protein foods will be a major help.

18. Limit your physical activity ! Fuck walking, drive. Fuck taking the stairs, be lazy !

19. Make friends in your community that also enjoy gaining weight, or feeding - hell, even make some plus size friends who love to go out and eat- the power of having friends around who also want to snack all the time is lucrative !

20. Weight gain shakes, protein bars, etc.

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I got the good graces of making out with a feedee trans girl and once you get that priveledge you can't go back

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Honestly I've met this feedee/er couple who have been fattening each other up for years now and it's so so nice being in their home. One of them gained weight so quickly and it's sooooo hot to think about. They keep making jokes like "oh we should buy X a funnel haha" and I'm just sitting there blushing out of my mind... Like yeah... If you do buy one invite me over smh.

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Honestly as a new feeder I think the hottest possible thing would be to sit down with a feedee who knows what theyre doing and what they want and so I start meekly feeding them and being shy about it, and then they grab my wrist and start shoveling the food into their mouth with it to show me how they can REALLY eat and. I think. I think I would explode, tbh.

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Bellies and thighs in fishnets. Send post.

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couples who get fat together stay together 🍩🐷

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My love handles are starting to spill over the side of my pants. Would love to meet a gainer/feedee for a few beers.

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I need someone to start encouraging me to eat more... Tell me I'm just not full enough yet and I have to keep working through it if I want some kisses and rubs.

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I can’t stop thinking of that “fall out boy fan to feedist pipeline” post but I have to ask. What about the my chemical romance fan to feedist pipeline. We need studies done on this.

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🍄 What does feedism mean to you? 🍄

Growth: A Queer Feedist Zine

I and four other queer feedists here on Tumblr, including Onyx @feedemon, Prince @smollestpuppyprince, and @alittlepudge-neverhurtnobody, have worked super hard the past several months putting together Growth, a zine by feedists, for feedists.

Growth is a bite-sized anthology of prose, poetry, and visual art responding to the question: What does feedism mean to you? It touches on topics such as asexuality in kink, kink discovery, kink positivity, overcoming disordered relationships with food, and and the intersections of feedism and trans identity.

The zine is available for a limited time digitally as an accessible interactive PDF, or in print as a half-page color booklet!

Download it digitally here for free via WeTransfer until August 21st, 2022!

To order a paper copy of Growth, I am taking preorders until August 29th, 2022.

And please consider donating a little for digital copies or chipping in a little extra for print copies, as any donations go straight to the queer kinky artists and writers who helped put this project together! 🖤

Details about ordering and accessibility under the cut!

Ordering a paper zine to a US address:

Make your payment via Cashapp to $anxietyqueer. These amounts are just to cover printing and shipping costs:

1 zine = $4.57

2 zines = $7.51

3 zines = $10.45

Send me a screenshot of your payment, the number of zines you are ordering, and your shipping address by direct message or to kinkratonthestreets@gmail.com. I will respond to confirm, since I know tumblr messaging can be screwy.

Zines will be shipped in discreet packaging after preorders close on August 29th.

Ordering a paper zine to an address outside the US: please send me a direct message or email me at kinkratonthestreets@gmail.com and we can talk shipping cost. Payments by PayPal (or let me know if that doesn't work for you!)

Accessibility:

Paper zines include image descriptions on the last page.

Digital zines are in interactive PDF format, able to be used with screen readers (there is one emoji at the end of a line of text, please let me know if this will be an issue!), and all images have embedded descriptions. Text can be highlighted with a cursor. (It *mostly* works in 'liquid mode' on the Adobe app, too, except for the poem which it converts to an image for some reason?)

Large print available upon request, just dm or email me to let me know!

Please reach out to me if there are any other accessibility needs or questions you have!

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