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Mood Board: Summer Getaway x Melanin: Yellow Edition

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Zendaya for ESSENCE magazine Nov/Dec 2020

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calm men are my favorite. i find soothing, gentle, calm auras so attractive. i love a man who’s good at comforting you, who doesn’t yell or slam things when they’re upset, when talking to him eases your anxiety and you just feel calm and safe. be with a calm man.

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Perfection is not attainable, but if we chase perfection we can catch excellence. -Vince Lombardi

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i say this to every girl i love: abandon shame

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heather o’neill

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F*ck being the nice girl 2020

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him: whose pussy is this

me: mine why

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your blog sucks

you should see my life

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How to be Mentally Strong

1. Don’t look to the world to give you an identity.

2. Don’t look to your family and friends for approval.

3. Set your own goals and believe in yourself.

4. Expect things to take time.

5. Expect to meet with setbacks.

6. Expect people to put you down, and for some to walk away.

7. Don’t be swayed by pressure from others. 8. Don’t resent others gifts and successes.

9. Accept that somethings cannot be controlled.

10. Believe that you will make it one day.

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