softservefeeder

[softservefeeder]

kissing and licking your tummy just above your boxers btw. if you even care

[softservefeeder]

anyone interested in letting me rub my face on your tummy like a cat

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the natural urge to be dominated by a belly

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Hot take: although its common, I believe the assumption that feeder = dom and feedee = sub is dangerous.

I’m sick so my head is a bit cloudy but hear me out.

I don’t have an issue with the dynamic itself, but that the fact that it’s assumed that every feedee is a sub unless stated otherwise is rooted in fatphobia. Society is conditioned to believe that fat people are weaker than skinny people, that we always get bullied and the only way to stop being bullied is to get skinny, that if you’re fat you aren’t strong and can’t do the same stuff a skinny person can. When none of that is true. (And even if it was who tf cares just because a fat person maybe can’t do a lot of stairs doesn’t mean they don’t deserve to be treated like a human being??)

I do understand that this dynamic can be a way to explore that trauma in a safe and healthy way, but I do take issue with the assumption that that dynamic is the only way to be. Or that it is the default. Especially when a lot of us fat people have trauma in regards to fatphobia and maybe we don’t fucking want some random person in our dms telling us we’re fat piggies when that wasnt at all requested.

Of course, that’s also just an issue with consent or lack their of in general. Which I feel isn’t often addressed as much as it should be. But I believe that the assumption that every feedee is a sub only fuels that danger.

A side note, feedees aren’t the ones that gave feederism the reputation of random feeder goes after random fat people purely because they are fat and nothing else. Feeders did that. The fact that feedees are the ones that get the most fucking backlash is insane to me.

Anyway, feeder = feeder, feedee = feedee, sub = sub, dom = dom. Easy.

[softservefeeder]

need to be degraded and shamed by a beautiful huge fat person for being so horny and pathetic and ready to submit

[softservefeeder]

Dominant greedy and spoiled feedee + subby enabler feeder is a really hot dynamic just saying 👀

[softservefeeder]

Couple goals: doting on them, making them absolutely pile on that “relationship weight”. Can we even say we’re dating if you haven’t gone up at least one size?

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i really really really need someone to kiss me all over my belly after i get stuffed~

just fill me until im about to burst then lavish me with affection and praise, make me feel like the most special little princess even though i just ate so much i cant sit up without whimpering~

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If you like having your belly worshipped, you’re hot

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I would very much like to see a soft boy sitting in a chair he's fast outgrowing just mindlessly munching on snacks, oblivious to how crazy his light little moans of enjoyment and his gentle caresses of his full growing belly are making me

[softservefeeder]

the idea of fattening someone up by just taking really good care of them is so cute. buying lots of their favourite snacks and making sure they always have some around. bringing them takeaway every night, and they can order as much of whatever they want because they dont need to watch their calories. making them milkshakes that aren't just meant to be super fattening but are also sooo delicious. taking care of chores and bringing them the things they need so they dont need to keep getting up. buying them cute clothes that are also comfy and stretchy so they arent uncomfortable. just looking after someone so well they become the happy, lazy fatty they were meant to be.

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I think I need to be let loose on a fat belly to make out with and grope and squeeze and lick and rub and wobble it soon or I'll die

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Brain going crazy watching them sit down with their legs slightly spread. Seeing how their thighs strain their jeans a bit. Seeing how their stomach pushes against their shirt and pulls it tight over the softness that seems to have gotten softer in the last few months. Wishing so badly I was on my knees between their legs, kissing and biting at their thighs and soft lower belly until their head rolls back and all they can do is whine and run their fingers thru my hair. Goddd I want so badly to make their face flush red as I lock eyes with them from between their legs and praise and praise their body until they’re melting under me. All these things they can make me feel just by sitting down in front of me.

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been really idea of a fabulously spoiled feedee lately. every whim catered to, plate after plate after plate of expensive gormet meals and desserts with exotic ingredients, plush comfy chic furniture that accommodates their ever growing body, constantly getting newer and larger clothing for an expansive wardrobe with pieces that show off and accentuate their pampered fat belly and curves with the finest silks and cashmeres. everything this feedee wants they get, and as they get bigger so does their appetite for anything and everything

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insane to me btw that princesses aren't drawn fat more often. you're literally a state-sponsored spoiled brat. like that's your job description. i would literally eat nothing but steak and cake every day until i was visiting the royal tailor on a bi-weekly basis and every maid in the castle would be teasing me sexfully about it

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recently i just looove the idea of somebody getting spoiled by their s/o and they just laze around plump up from all the attention they're given

to be pampered with gentle forehead kisses and fed rich desserts until moving comfortably isn't an option anymore, your s/o rubbing deep circles into your belly to make space for more. cooking you large breakfasts in bed and taking you out to lunch and encouraging extra helpings at dinner, making sure your growing belly is filled with snacks between meals, hand feeding you rich heavy desserts when you're too full and sleepy to eat anymore.

thinking your tummy is only rounded out from being kept so full all the time but you gradually become softer around the edges, your thighs a little chunkier, your stomach starting to soften and fill out until all your tshirts are a little too tight against the soft curve of your chub and your jeans barely hold together when you sit down

indulging in belly rubs at all times - after being fed large meals, when you're sleepy, when we're cuddling, when we're kissing - your s/o kneading and massaging and rubbing your plump belly, fingers sinking into the new plushness, hands squeezing your softened hips.

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When someone you love says “I’m hungry” and you suddenly just wanna dote on them. Especially if they’re tired from a long day too. Like I just want you to be full and content and rest well because I know you’ve been working hard. I love you and I don’t want you to go hungry, you deserve the world. Y’know what I mean?