the guilt and self-doubt and self-blaming part of adhd really isn’t spoken about enough and i’m so so happy aimsey mentioned it in their adhd video because it’s been kicking my ass lately. executive dysfunction, adhd paralysis, rsd, all the invisible issues that feel too fake/taboo/embarrassing to talk about or that feel like excuses… it’s easy to forget that they’re symptoms. that it’s not just You. that it isn’t your fault. even if it’s hard to explain. even if it seems like you’re just careless or lazy. even if you start to believe you are. it’s so easy to blame yourself and not the ADHD. i really needed that reminder :,)
u gotta be hedonistic about vegetables. they're not good boy food that u eat to prove you're mature, they're the food that you can shovel into your mouth at 5 am without getting nauseous
I’m amazed there’s people nostalgic for highschool and being a teenager literally when I feel super low I think “well at least I’ll never be 17 again” like a positive affirmation and it does make me feel better
while it's all well and good to teach people how to understand and criticize the messages and morals in fictional media, i think it's ultimately more important to teach people that they shouldn't be getting their understanding of ethics from fiction full stop period.