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Hi I was having a relationship ocd episode so I decided to project onto some characters to cope and ended up with this exchange that is lowkey rewriting my brain patterns:

“I don’t feel…deserving of love.”

“I’m sorry. But that’s not up to you, is it.”

“No, I guess not.”

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I fucked up so badly on this sudoku page no ones ever gonna wanna have sex with me

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This is an impromptu strap harness you can make with rope and a metal o-ring! A practical diy ;)

This starts with a double coin knot! Tutorial for that is on my profile!

I have done…. a lot of trial and error testing on this design… some variations aren’t as sturdy but this holds up well!!

Just pop your favorite strap-on in the o ring and you’re ready to go!

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rope bondage as an act of body worship: adorning your partner with pretty rope as you trace your hands over their beautiful shape, paying extra attention to every perfect curve, kissing them all over as you go. praising their stunning form with every second. leading them to the mirror, waiting expectantly for your love’s reaction… the smile spreading over their face as they feel the adoration woven over their frame, the beautiful offering you have left at their altar.

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hiii tboys with pretty unsucked dicks hiiiiiiiiiii

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Hey there! On your Heart Hip Harness, how do you get the heart itself to lay so nice and neat? The last time I tried it, the heart came out wonky, and only sat flat if it was super loose, thus ruining the look of the harness. (Could very well be user error, I'm only just getting back into shibari after a very long time of being out of it.)

Hi!! Thanks for asking! This is a pattern I’ve practiced a lot and I would love to share some tips. I’ve also been saying I’d make a troubleshooting post for ages so hopefully this will help with some common issues!!

If it looks like this - you followed the steps right, so you’re on track! But you can flatten out the ropes so they lie parallel and the harness will look a lot better.

To fix that from the start, try to keep your ropes flat on your body, and adjust them when they twist.

Holding them between two fingers and a thumb helps.

Working out those twists helps the whole thing lie flat!

It could also end up more like this -

Again, you followed the steps correctly, it’s just an issue of tension and symmetry here.

I recommend checking the symmetry and tension at each step of the process. Are both sides looking the same?

At the end, you can go back in and adjust individual knots.

(part 2 soon)

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another cute simple tie tutorial!!

this is a heart thigh garter I’ve posted a bunch of times :-)

<3<3

(be cautious with rope tension, keep ties around your thighs loose! make sure nothing is cutting in or causing weird feelings. as always, read up on safety first and listen to your body!)

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once again I LOVE nontraditional kink dynamics. some favorites….

masochist dom bossing around a cute service top sub who is eager to bite and hit harder for praise

brat sub with a gentle dom who can get them overwhelmed and pliable with the softest things

rigger sub tying their rope bunny dom as an act of body worship

sub who’s sometimes just soooo good at what they do, their dom is the one who ends up overwhelmed and whimpering

switches who just push the dynamic in both directions back and forth, a constant exchange of control

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strap harness!

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a valentines’ sweet treat…

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They should invent biting a man's thighs and growling with your teeth clamped. For men

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realizing i am thinking about you instead of the audiobook and going back 15 seconds on the libby app. realizing i am thinking about you instead of the groceries and i have been in this aisle forever, just staring at bread choices. realizing i am only on instagram to send you things. realizing i am thinking about you in the middle of my morning routine like you pardon the early hour just by existing.

little hopscotch moments where i get to nest in the memory of you. i get stuck, candycoated in the sound of your voice. the shape of your hands. the little spray of freckles over your cheeks. your hair fanned across my bedsheets. realizing i am thinking about you instead of applying for jobs. realizing i am thinking about you instead of writing poems. realizing the sound of your name has become a second heartbeat somewhere in the rabbit warren of me.

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Me overcoming my bottom dysphoria

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