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I appreciate your point "irritated me to the point I felt the need to say something" but you see thats my point too. I felt I had to do this, you see I know of the other person involved, at least one of them and it makes me feel sick inside when someone does that. I wonder how many more there are. Have you seen what it does to friends and family of someone when they commit suicide ? I find it disgusting that someone can be so blasé about being so obnoxious to someone who they know is suicidal and then trying to get sympathy when they have been blamed for it.

I'm not doing this for myself or for attention, god knows I don't want that sort of attention. I braced myself for the hate mail but so far the messages of thanks outweigh the haters.

As Rachel herself would point out this is the Internet and she advocates being able to say whatever she wants, so I'm hardly likely to take notice of you telling me what I cant do.

There is no point saying brutally honest, honesty is to be expected, so it is just brutal.

You think this is immature, and I expect you think it was poorly thought out, and you probably think I don't care about the fanbase. But non of that is true. I cringe every time someone replies and I feel the need to respond, because I do care. But like you said yourself about replying to me, I felt I HAD to do this.

Don't take it personally, neither of us know each other enough to judge each others logic, it was just a come back as you said - a game of words. It is not my wish to cause the sort of upset to anyone that Rachel has.

If you or anyone else know anyone else who pushes people to suicide AND then complains about being blamed for it I will gladly do the same. But not for just causing drama in the tag as you suggest.

Pushing someone to suicide                                          $ shame on you  Complaining that they blame it on you                        $ double shame on you Admitting you do it for fun - Playing the victim when you are the culprit Saying that you don’t care, then complaining about everyone hating you and wondering why your friends don’t care about you                                          $ ….   Saying that you’re not That dumb                                 $ priceless 

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It was unfortunate it was necessary. And the amount of hate she gets is BECAUSE shes so rude and obnoxious. So you don't understand how thats possible, well I'm sure there are numerous things that you don't understand but yet they happen.

Whether she targets people or not the effect is much the same. I mean she manages to target the entire lights fandom in one go.

I think you have an unfollow button too ? yet you chose to add your reply. It started off as a single post that would probably have got lost. Its nice to see your logic is so much better than the rest of the Internet.

Pushing someone to suicide                                          $ shame on you  Complaining that they blame it on you                        $ double shame on you Admitting you do it for fun - Playing the victim when you are the culprit Saying that you don’t care, then complaining about everyone hating you and wondering why your friends don’t care about you                                          $ ….   Saying that you’re not That dumb                                 $ priceless 

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It would hardly have the same effect if I did that would it now. Im merely reposting her own words with a little added humor. That would be unfortunate, but I don’t think the people that she upsets are happy. I would be happy for it to end but thats not exactly up to me is it as she has said she wont change.

Pushing someone to suicide                                          $ shame on you  Complaining that they blame it on you                        $ double shame on you Admitting you do it for fun - Playing the victim when you are the culprit Saying that you don’t care, then complaining about everyone hating you and wondering why your friends don’t care about you                                          $ ….   Saying that you’re not That dumb                                 $ priceless 

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You said "it was probably some 10yr old ..." thats different to "what if". 10yr olds are also people with feelings too you know, its not okay to push them to suicide for whatever reason. 

And this is the point I'm making - that its not okay to treat someone who is on the edge of suicide in such a way that it pushes them further. No matter what. No excuses. Doesn't matter why they are suicidal. Doesn't matter if they are young or immature, in fact its actually worse.

What is it you want proof of exactly ? I'm sure you're capable of finding Rachel's words above on the forum. As you seem to think its okay to treat people like this I don't see much point in giving you any further information.

Hate causes people to send hate messages, hate isn't restricted to young and/or mature people. Why wouldn't someone send it as anon. You should think more carefully about the meaning of what you write rather than just the grammar.

Pushing someone to suicide                                          $ shame on you  Complaining that they blame it on you                        $ double shame on you Admitting you do it for fun - Playing the victim when you are the culprit Saying that you don’t care, then complaining about everyone hating you and wondering why your friends don’t care about you                                          $ ….   Saying that you’re not That dumb                                 $ priceless 

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So, you admit you don't really have a clue what you're talking about, apart from having lurked her blog. But then you try and say how the victim was 10yrs old and they didn't have real problems and it happened a long time ago. Somehow you seem to think that makes it okay ? 

How do you know they wern't more mature people with very difficult problems who are interested in lights because she helps so many people so much ?

Think about what you said. Think about how you look. I'm not interested in insulting you or making you look bad, but you seem to be doing a pretty good job of that yourself.

I'm not doing this because I enjoy it - I don't. I'm doing it because I think its very wrong to treat people who are maybe on the edge of suicide in such a way and then show how little you care about doing it, then trying to get sympathy for them blaming you. It doesn't matter how young they are, in fact that makes it worse.

I also obviously know a lot more about what went on than you do, whats worrying is that it now seems like its much more than one or two.

Pushing someone to suicide                                          $ shame on you  Complaining that they blame it on you                        $ double shame on you Admitting you do it for fun - Playing the victim when you are the culprit Saying that you don’t care, then complaining about everyone hating you and wondering why your friends don’t care about you                                          $ ….   Saying that you’re not That dumb                                 $ priceless 

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omg I love you for calling out thelightsarebokan.

Gosh, I really wasn't expecting this at all. Thank you. <3

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If you don't know her what makes you think that ? isn't that just wishful thinking/naivety ? Saying someone wants attention is just a glib/insulting way of dismissing someones problems. I can't understand why you can't answer the last question for yourself. If someone pushed you to suicide wouldn't you be mad at them ? She admits she gets a lot of anon hate, she may just have assumed it was from them. Being immature is not an invitation to be pushed into suicide. These are her words she wrote in the image, they are unaltered.

Pushing someone to suicide                                          $ shame on you  Complaining that they blame it on you                        $ double shame on you Admitting you do it for fun - Playing the victim when you are the culprit Saying that you don’t care, then complaining about everyone hating you and wondering why your friends don’t care about you                                          $ ….   Saying that you’re not That dumb                                 $ priceless 

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Really ? I don't think people deserve to get pushed to suicide, do you ?

Pushing someone to suicide                                          $ shame on you  Complaining that they blame it on you                        $ double shame on you Admitting you do it for fun - Playing the victim when you are the culprit Saying that you don’t care, then complaining about everyone hating you and wondering why your friends don’t care about you                                          $ ….   Saying that you’re not That dumb                                 $ priceless 

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Thank you so much, its corrected now ;)

Pushing someone to suicide                                          $ shame on you  Complaining that they blame it on you                        $ double shame on you Admitting you do it for fun - Playing the victim when you are the culprit Saying that you don’t care, then complaining about everyone hating you and wondering why your friends don’t care about you                                          $ ….   Saying that you're not That dumb                                 $ priceless 

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Pushing someone to suicide                                          $ shame on you  Complaining that they blame it on you                        $ double shame on you Admitting you do it for fun - Playing the victim when you are the culprit Saying that you don't care, then complaining about everyone hating you and wondering why your friends don't care about you                                          $ ….   Saying that you're not That dumb                                 $ priceless