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Hiiii is this still a thing? lol 💕😝

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I’ll be a mom ❤️🙏🏻

“6 months from now I will be in a different situation.”

Speak it into existence.

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When people tell stories about how their parents beat them, it’s always interesting to see their face change because they expected me to say “me too lol” but I instead say “I’m really sorry. You didn’t deserve that” Last time a co worker who also has West Indian parents was telling me in a joking way how he remembers being beaten with a belt because lied about his report card. As he was laughing it off and saying he deserved it, I just said “wow that’s awful hun. You didn’t deserve that.” And his whole face changed. Like it hadn’t occurred to him that it’s messed up that a part of remembering his childhood is remembering how badly it hurt to be beaten so badly at such a young age. Another time I had a friend, non West Indian parents, who talked about how she made a mess on a dress that her parents got her. It was really expensive apparently and she spilled red juice on it. She talked about how she was ordered to take the dress of and was beaten with a belt too without any clothes on. And she was laughing and said “I was a bad ass kid lol” and I said “no hun you were just a kid”. And she looked at me and immediately stopped laughing and just sat there like “yea…I was just a kid. I don’t know why they did that to me” My mom was raised in a household where she was beaten so badly….I just don’t understand how she is so loving now growing up in a home where she got so little love. They called it discipline, but once she became a social worker she began to see that it was abuse. That she grew up terrified of her parents, although they thought it was respect that my mom felt. It was fear. We have to get comfortable challenging what is often seen as cultural norms. We have to be a generation of people who are not ashamed to say “I would never beat my child”.

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once i figure out how to hold a conversation, it’s friendship for you bitches

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Me Dijo mi papá que voy a tener padre por muchos mas años.

I pray that God hears us!

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Life isn’t fucking fair!! We were all so excited and happy because of my baby. Now this....

I keep hearing all the conversations I had with my dad about my baby and him. I swear to God. If my dad doesn’t meet my baby, I’m going to die of a broken heart.

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My dad had a stroke on Friday.

Today we found out that a vein from his brain, is 80% clogged up. I can’t stop crying. I’m not ready to lose my dad. He’s my everything. I can’t see myself without him. My heart is beyond broken. I just want him to be okay and healthy. I’ll give up 20 years of my life , just so I could have him for another 5 years.

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Para los que me conocen saben lo mucho que Cesar(Aaron) y yo hemos deseado a este Bebé!..

La verdad que no tengo palabras para expresar todo lo que siento! Lo único que si se es que me siento sumamente bendecida. After 3 long years, God is blessing us with the most precious gift. I dreamt of this moment for years and it finally happened.(not the way I wanted but, that doesn’t matter) My husband and I are expecting our first child together. For this child we have prayed. We still can’t believe it. ♥️🙏👶

Baby Gonzalez Briones is coming #October2019 #fallbaby #octoberbaby #mommatobe #werepregnant

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one day you’ll find someone who loves every part of you, whether you think you’re hard to love or not

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Yess!!! Those were the only men I met in 2012 - early 2015 . No I don’t want to go to your house at 11pm, no I don’t want to hang out or watch a movie, yes I’m lame, leave me alone.

Thank God that I found a good man in 2015 (he’s my husband now) Don’t lose hope ladies.

Niggas really hate taking women on dates now it's so crazy to me

A guy will deadass ask you to chill in the car, or come through to his house, when you barely even know him, but flip out as soon as you say “no, I’d rather do something in public”.

The fuck I look like chilling in some niggas car or at some niggas house if we not even cool like that. I don’t care if you’re on a budget or you don’t got it like that. You find a free activity, use groupon or something and you take that girl on a GOTDAMN date. Act like y'all have some damn sense when it comes to courting a woman.

This is why I’ve been dubbing niggas since 2015. Don’t look at me. Don’t ask me to go no where. Don’t breathe on me. Just go.

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Best thing I did in 2018 was to cut off friends who weren’t good for me.

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How I feel about turning 25 in 4 months. 😩

why why why why why why why why why

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I want to be the person you can’t get enough of

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The energy I’m on.

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come into bed and listen to the rain with me