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Every now and again I think of this Sarah tweet and just stare into the middle distance.

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GAMING NEWS !!

expensive

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Really fucked up that you can just inherit complexes from your mother and be fully aware that they're complexes from your mother but still do all that shit

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Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuck I need to hurt The Character

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Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuck I need to hurt The Character

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Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuck I need to hurt The Character

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Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuck I need to hurt The Character

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Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuck I need to hurt The Character

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why is ao3 is blocked on the hospital wifi????

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asexual sex workers are braver than any US marine

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the love was there. it didnt change anything and it wasnt even thematically relevant and honestly it kinda got annoying to the point where i wished for hatred and malice instead and it ruined the whole thing for me

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What if you went grocery shopping and the produce section was just missing?

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it's kinda sad that slop is such a popular pejorative now. after all it has done to nourish the noble hog

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how do people even date or have fwb or anything? people keep telling me that it just happens and not to force it, just be social and not a shut-in and that's it

meanwhile i'm well on my way to become a wizard against my wishes

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i find it v cute when rpgs offer me, someone whose sole strategy is “attacking enemies,” status changing effects. “this lowers your enemy’s speed” you know what else would lower their speed? being dead, from my fists

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I think mostly what young fandom types (and I guess younger people in general) who are very very invested in the idea that “20 is still basically a minor” need to understand is that the feeling of “I’m just a child pretending to be an adult, and everyone else around me is a REAL adult” is DEEPLY universal (and won’t stop, ever, by the way, sorry!) and also is not, like, praxis.

Believe me, I get it, but the self-infantilization needs to stop, especially when you’re trying to engage in conversations about actual children and the harms they can face. Yes, it is scary to wake up and realize you’re 22 and you still feel like you’re 15, but it happens to all of us. You’re an adult. You have to deal with it.

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i have another bomb to throw, girls who hated pink and femininity in childhood were not experiencing internalized misogyny; it was a rejection of the conditioning pushed on us from birth which we never felt passion for and grew resentful towards because of adults’ insistence on us following the rules of being a girl. when you hit middle-high school and get more say in how you look it feels fucking incredible to reject and be openly hostile to the things you were forced to embrace your whole life. you people just don’t know what internalized misogyny is and tumblr choice feminism lied to you