Books Read / To Be Read in 2023
Updated 1/29/23
Read in 2023
How to Write a Song That Matters - Dar Williams
How Language Began: The Story of Humanity's Greatest Invention - Daniel L. Everett
Currently Reading in 2023
The Goldfinch - Donna Tartt
The Ode Less Travelled: Unlocking the Poet Within - Stephen Fry
Faking It: The Quest for Authenticity in Popular Music - Hugh Barker
Piranesi - Susanna Clarke
The Red House Mystery - A. A. Milne
To Be Read in 2023 - Non Fiction
Dear Mr Andrews - Latham, Lotte
Hurts So Good: The Science and Culture of Pain on Purpose - Cowart, Leigh
How to Read Literature Like a Professor - Foster, Thomas C.
The Anatomy of Anxiety: Rethinking the Body, Mind, and Healing of Anxiety - Vora, Ellen
The Lexicographer's Dilemma: The Evolution of "Proper" English, from Shakespeare to South Park - Lynch, Jack
Noise: a Human History of Sound and Listening - Hendy, David
Rude: Stop Being Nice and Start Being Bold - Reid, Rebecca
The Art of Noise: Conversations with Great Songwriters - Rachel, Daniel
Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life - Nagoski, Emily
The Embodied Mind: Understanding the Mysteries of Cellular Memory, Consciousness, and Our Bodies - Verny, Thomas R.
Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good - Brown, Adrienne Maree
First Light: Switching on Stars at the Dawn of Time - Chapman, Emma
Through the Language Glass: Why the World Looks Different in Other Languages - Deutscher, Guy
Music, Lyrics, and Life: A Field Guide for the Advancing Songwriter - Errico, Mike
Jesus and John Wayne: How White Evangelicals Corrupted a Faith and Fractured a Nation - DuMez, Kristin Kobes
A Sense of Self: Memory, the Brain, and Who We Are - O'Keane, Veronica
Priestdaddy - Lockwood, Patricia
Appetites: Why Women Want - Knapp, Caroline
Seductress: Women Who Ravished the World and Their Lost Art of Love - Prioleau, Elizabeth
The Highly Sensitive Person: How to Thrive When the World Overwhelms You - Aron, Elaine N.
You're History: The Twelve Strangest Women in Music - Chow, Lesley
Burn It Down: Women Writing about Anger - Dancyger, Lilly
Fear Is My Homeboy: How to Slay Doubt, Boss Up, and Succeed on Your Own Terms - Holler, Judi
Psychology of Music: From Sound to Significance - Tan, Siu-Lan
How Music Works: The Science and Psychology of Beautiful Sounds, from Beethoven to the Beatles and Beyond - Powell, John
Together: Why Social Connection Holds the Key to Better Health, Higher Performance, and Greater Happiness - Murthy, Vivek
Feeling & Knowing: Making Minds Conscious - Damasio, Antonio R.
Fierce Love: A Bold Path to Ferocious Courage and Rule-Breaking Kindness That Can Heal the World - Lewis, Jacqui
The Kindness Cure: How the Science of Compassion Can Heal Your Heart and Your World - Cousineau, Tara
How to Write One Song: Loving the Things We Create and How They Love Us Back - Tweedy, Jeff
Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before? - Smith, Julie
The Sunny Nihilist: A Declaration of the Pleasure of Pointlessness - Syfret, Wendy
Awake Where You Are: The Art of Embodied Awareness - Aylward, Martin
The Wakeful Body: Somatic Mindfulness as a Path to Freedom - Baker, Willa
I Didn't Do the Thing Today: Letting Go of Productivity Guilt to Embrace the Hidden Value in Daily Life - Dore, Madeleine
A New World Begins: The History of the French Revolution - Popkin, Jeremy D.
The Atoms Of Language: The Mind's Hidden Rules Of Grammar - Baker, Mark C.
The Great Eskimo Vocabulary Hoax and Other Irreverent Essays on the Study of Language - Pullum, Geoffrey K.
The Light of Days: The Untold Story of Women Resistance Fighters in Hitler's Ghettos - Batalion, Judy
A Molecule Away from Madness: Tales of the Hijacked Brain - Peskin, Sara Manning
Fragments: Poems, Intimate Notes, Letters - Monroe, Marilyn
The Assertiveness Guide for Women: How to Communicate Your Needs, Set Healthy Boundaries, and Transform Your Relationships - Julie de Azevedo Hanks, PhD
Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... And Start Speaking Up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, And Unapologetically Being Yourself - Gazipura, Aziz
The Nice Girl Syndrome: Stop Being Manipulated and Abused -- And Start Standing Up for Yourself - Engel, Beverly
Miss Leavitt's Stars: The Untold Story of the Woman Who Discovered How to Measure the Universe - Johnson, George
Too Fat, Too Slutty, Too Loud: The Rise and Reign of the Unruly Woman - Petersen, Anne Helen
Your Brain Is a Time Machine: The Neuroscience and Physics of Time - Buonomano, Dean
Music, Math, and Mind: The Physics and Neuroscience of Music - Sulzer, David
Fundamentals of Musical Acoustics - Benade, Arthur H.
Refuse to Be Done: How to Write and Rewrite a Novel in Three Drafts - Bell, Matt
How to Write Like Tolstoy: A Journey Into the Minds of Our Greatest Writers - Cohen, Richard A.
Divergent Mind: Thriving in a World That Wasn't Designed for You - Nerenberg, Jenara
Bow Down: Lessons from Dominatrixes on How to Be a Boss in Life, Love, and Work - Goldwert, Lindsay
Dear Scott, Dearest Zelda: The Love Letters of F. Scott and Zelda Fitzgerald - Fitzgerald, F. Scott
Bodyfulness: Somatic Practices for Presence, Empowerment, and Waking Up in This Life - Caldwell, Christine
Sex Outside the Lines: Authentic Sexuality in a Sexually Dysfunctional Culture - Donaghue, Chris
The Art of Possibility - Zander, Rosamund Stone
Physics and Music: The Science of Musical Sound - White, Harvey E.
Music and Mantras: The Yoga of Mindful Singing for Health, Happiness, Peace & Prosperity - Girish
The Sound Book: The Science of the Sonic Wonders of the World - trevor cox
Of Sound Mind: How Our Brain Constructs a Meaningful Sonic World - Kraus, Nina
Good and Mad: The Revolutionary Power of Women's Anger - Traister, Rebecca
The Power of Fun: How to Feel Alive Again - Price, Catherine
Big Wild Love: The Unstoppable Power of Letting Go - Murray, Jill Sherer
Sensitive Is the New Strong: The Power of Empaths in an Increasingly Harsh World - Moorjani, Anita
Finding Meaning: The Sixth Stage of Grief - Kessler, David
Equipment for Living: On Poetry and Pop Music - Robbins, Michael
Saved by a Song: The Art and Healing Power of Songwriting - Gauthier, Mary
The Wave in the Mind: Talks and Essays on the Writer, the Reader and the Imagination - Le Guin, Ursula K.
How a Poem Moves: A Field Guide for Readers Afraid of Poetry - Sol, Adam
The Midnight Disease: The Drive to Write, Writer's Block, and the Creative Brain - Flaherty, Alice W.
Howdunit: A Masterclass in Crime Writing by Members of the Detection Club - Edwards, Martin
Writing Poetry To Save Your Life: How To Find The Courage To Tell Your Stories - Gillan, Maria Mazziotti
Famous Father Girl: A Memoir of Growing Up Bernstein - Bernstein, Jamie
It's Too Late Now: The Autobiography of a Writer - Milne, A.A.
Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships - Ryan, Christopher
Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love - Levine, Amir
Mating in Captivity: In Search of Erotic Intelligence - Perel, Esther
You Are Your Own: A Reckoning with the Religious Trauma of Evangelical Christianity - Finch, Jamie Lee
#ChurchToo: How Purity Culture Upholds Abuse and How to Find Healing - Allison, Emily Joy
The Journey from Abandonment to Healing - Anderson, Susan
How to Be Alone: If You Want To, and Even If You Don't - Moore, Lane
From Heartbreak to Wholeness: The Hero's Journey to Joy - Carlson, Kristine
How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love - Ury, Logan
Anxiously Attached: Becoming More Secure in Life and Love - Baum, Jessica
The Book Your Church Doesn't Want You to Read - Leedom, Tim C.
Leaving the Fold: A Guide for Former Fundamentalists and Others Leaving Their Religion - Winell, Marlene
A Manual for Being Human - Mort, Sophie
Whenever You're Ready: How to Compose the Life of Your Dreams - Kim, Jeeyoon
Fierce Self-Compassion: How Women Can Harness Kindness to Speak Up, Claim Their Power, and Thrive - Neff, Kristin
This Is Not a Book about Benedict Cumberbatch: The Joy of Loving Something--Anything--Like Your Life Depends on It - Carvan, Tabitha
Find Your True Voice: Stop Listening to Your Inner Critic, Heal Your Trauma and Live a Life Full of Joy - Brunner, Emmy
Dead Girls: Essays on Surviving an American Obsession - Bolin, Alice
No Kidding: Women Writers on Bypassing Parenthood - Mantel, Henriette
Sex and the Single Woman: 24 Writers Reimagine Helen Gurley Brown's Cult Classic - Smith, Eliza
No Cure for Being Human: And Other Truths I Need to HearBowler, Kate
Little Weirds - Slate, Jenny
The Musical Human: A History of Life on Earth - Spitzer, Michael
Why Good Sex Matters: Understanding the Neuroscience of Pleasure for a Smarter, Happier, and More Purpose-Filled Life - Wise, Nan
The French Revolution: From Enlightenment to Tyranny - Davidson, Ian
The Golden Age of Murder - Edwards, Martin
Survival of the Prettiest: The Science of Beauty - Etcoff, Nancy L.
Real Men Don't Sing: Crooning in American Culture - McCracken, Allison
Tinseltown: Murder, Morphine, and Madness at the Dawn of Hollywood - Mann, William J.
Reading Like a Writer: A Guide for People Who Love Books and for Those Who Want to Write Them - Prose, Francine
The Adventure of English: The Biography of a Language - Bragg, Melvyn
Seven Types of Ambiguity - Empson, William
The Literary Mind: The Origins of Thought and Language - Turner, Mark
Blood Relations: The Selected Letters of Ellery Queen 1947-1950 - Goodrich, Joseph
Because Internet: Understanding the New Rules of Language - McCulloch, Gretchen
Mind – A Journey to the Heart of Being Human - Siegel, Daniel J.
The Consciousness Instinct: Unraveling the Mystery of How the Brain Makes the Mind - Gazzaniga, Michael S.
The Molecule of More: How a Single Chemical in Your Brain Drives Love, Sex, and Creativity—and Will Determine the Fate of the Human Race - Lieberman, Daniel Z.
The Hidden Spring: A Journey to the Source of Consciousness - Solms, Mark
Rethinking Consciousness: A Scientific Theory of Subjective Experience - Graziano, Michael S.A.
Permission to Feel: Unlocking the Power of Emotions to Help Our Kids, Ourselves, and Our Society Thrive - Brackett, Marc
The Empathy Effect: Seven Neuroscience-Based Keys for Transforming the Way We Live, Love, Work, and Connect Across Differences - Riess, Helen
Trick Mirror: Reflections on Self-Delusion - Tolentino, Jia
The Self Delusion: The New Neuroscience of How We Invent—and Reinvent—Our Identities - Berns, Gregory
The Power of Agency: The 7 Principles to Conquer Obstacles, Make Effective Decisions, and Create a Life on Your Own Terms - Napper, Paul
Don't Read Poetry: A Book About How to Read Poems - Burt, Stephanie
Singing School: Learning to Write (and Read) Poetry by Studying with the Masters - Pinsky, Robert
The Sound of Poetry / The Poetry of Sound - Perloff, Marjorie
The Sounds of Poetry: A Brief Guide - Pinsky, Robert
The Poetics of American Song Lyrics - Pence, Charlotte
The Poetry of Pop - Bradley, Adam
Laziness Does Not Exist - Price, Devon
In Awe: Rediscover Your Childlike Wonder to Unleash Inspiration, Meaning, and Joy - O'Leary, John
It Didn't Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle - Wolynn, Mark
The Child in You: The Breakthrough Method for Bringing Out Your Authentic Self - Stahl, Stefanie
The Good Girl’s Guide To Being A Dck: The art of saying what you want, asking for what you need and getting the life you deserve - Reinwarth, Alexandra
The Five Invitations: Discovering What Death Can Teach Us About Living Fully - Ostaseski, Frank
Rage Becomes Her: The Power of Women's Anger - Chemaly, Soraya
Late Bloomers: The Power of Patience in a World Obsessed with Early Achievement - Karlgaard, Rich
Why You Like It: The Science and Culture of Musical Taste - Gasser, Nolan
Beauty Sick: How the Cultural Obsession with Appearance Hurts Girls and Women - Engeln, Renee
A People's History of the United States - Zinn, Howard
The Future of the Brain: Essays by the World's Leading Neuroscientists - Marcus, Gary F.
The Brain: The Story of You - Eagleman, David
Consciousness and the Brain: Deciphering How the Brain Codes Our Thoughts - Dehaene, Stanislas
How to Create a Mind: The Secret of Human Thought Revealed - Kurzweil, Ray
Buddha's Brain: The Practical Neuroscience of Happiness, Love, and Wisdom - Hanson, Rick
Self Comes to Mind: Constructing the Conscious Brain - Damasio, Antonio R.
Mind Wide Open: Your Brain and the Neuroscience of Everyday Life - Johnson, Steven
The Feeling of What Happens: Body and Emotion in the Making of Consciousness - Damasio, Antonio R.
Soul Made Flesh: The Discovery of the Brain--and How it Changed the World - Zimmer, Carl
How Emotions Are Made: The Secret Life of the Brain - Barrett, Lisa Feldman
Incognito: The Secret Lives of the Brain - Eagleman, David
Black Hole Blues and Other Songs from Outer Space - Levin, Janna
The Invention of Murder: How the Victorians Revelled in Death and Detection and Created Modern Crime - Flanders, Judith
The Art of the English Murder: From Jack the Ripper and Sherlock Holmes to Agatha Christie and Alfred Hitchcock - Worsley, Lucy
To Be Read in 2023 - Fiction
The Lost Apothecary - Penner, Sarah
The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue - Schwab, V.E.
Wakenhyrst - Paver, Michelle
Garden Spells (Waverley Family, #1) - Allen, Sarah Addison
Lament: The Faerie Queen's Deception (Books of Faerie, #1) - Stiefvater, Maggie
All the Crooked Saints - Stiefvater, Maggie
Heartsick (Archie Sheridan & Gretchen Lowell, #1) - Cain, Chelsea
Not Even Bones (Market of Monsters, #1) - Schaeffer, Rebecca
If We Were Villains - Rio, M.L.
Eileen - Moshfegh, Ottessa
A Certain Hunger - Summers, Chelsea G.
Wild is the Witch - Griffin, Rachel
The Whalebone Theatre - Quinn, Joanna
The Girl from the Other Side: Siúil, A Rún, Vol. 1 (The Girl from the Other Side, #1) - Nagabe
Siren Queen - Vo, Nghi
Poison for Breakfast - Snicket, Lemony
The Essex Serpent - Perry, Sarah
A Declaration of the Rights of Magicians (The Shadow Histories, #1) - Parry, H.G.
We Are the Fire - Taylor, Sam
Flyaway - Jennings, Kathleen
Hild (The Light of the World Trilogy, #1) - Griffith, Nicola
Ring Shout - Clark, P. Djèlí
Anatomy: A Love Story - Schwartz, Dana
Comfort Me with Apples - Valente, Catherynne M.
In the Ravenous Dark - Strickland, A.M.
Small Favors - Craig, Erin A.
The Bone Maker - Durst, Sarah Beth
The Faceless Old Woman Who Secretly Lives In Your Home (Welcome to Night Vale #3) - Fink, Joseph
You Feel It Just Below the Ribs - Cranor, Jeffrey
Deathless - Valente, Catherynne M.
Tripping Arcadia: A Gothic Novel - Mayquist, Kit
Nothing But Blackened Teeth - Khaw, Cassandra
Damnable Tales: A Folk Horror Anthology - Wells, Richard
Drive Your Plow Over the Bones of the Dead - Tokarczuk, Olga
The House in the Cerulean Sea - Klune, T.J.
The Wilds - Elliott, Julia
Foul Lady Fortune (Foul Lady Fortune, #1) - Gong, Chloe
Spells for Forgetting: A Novel - Young, Adrienne
Babel, Or the Necessity of Violence: An Arcane History of the Oxford Translators' Revolution - Kuang, R.F.
Nettle & Bone - Kingfisher, T.
Tell the Wolves I'm Home - Brunt, Carol Rifka
Villainous: An Anthology of Fairytale Retellings - Ward, L.T.
The Glass Woman - Lea, Caroline
For the Wolf (Wilderwood, #1) - Whitten, Hannah
The Wolf and the Woodsman - Reid, Ava
What We Devour - Miller, Linsey
Down Comes the Night - Saft, Allison
The City Beautiful - Polydoros, Aden
Wake the Bones - Kilcoyne, Elizabeth
The Other Girl - Major, C.D.
Plain Bad Heroines - Danforth, Emily M.
The Year of the Witching (Bethel, #1) - Henderson, Alexis
Gideon the Ninth (The Locked Tomb, #1) - Muir, Tamsyn
Rebel Rose (The Queen's Council, #1) - Theriault, Emma
Every Heart a Doorway (Wayward Children, #1) - McGuire, Seanan
The Girl Who Raced Fairyland All the Way Home (Fairyland, #5) - Valente, Catherynne M.
The Boy Who Lost Fairyland (Fairyland, #4) - Valente, Catherynne M.
Radiance - Valente, Catherynne M.
The Ladies of Grace Adieu and Other Stories - Clarke, Susanna
The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society - Shaffer, Mary Ann
To Be Read in 2023 - Folklore
The Oxford Companion to Fairy Tales - Zipes, Jack D.
Nonsense: Aspects of Intertextuality in Folklore and Literature - Stewart, Susan
The Mythology of Fairies: The tales and legends of fairies from all over the world - Keightley, Thomas
Discovering the Inner Mother - Webster, Bethany
Maiden to Mother: Unlocking Our Archetypal Journey into the Mature Feminine - Wilson, Sarah Durham
Beowulf: A New Translation - Unknown, Maria Dahvana Headley
Fearsome Fairies: Haunting Tales of the Fae - Dearnley, Elizabeth
The Fairy Tellers - Jubber, Nicholas
Folklore 101: An Accessible Introduction to Folklore Studies - Jorgensen, Jeana
Why Fairy Tales Stick: The Evolution and Relevance of a Genre - Zipes, Jack D.
The Uses of Enchantment: The Meaning and Importance of Fairy Tales - Bettelheim, Bruno
The Book of English Magic - Carr-Gomm, Philip
On Monsters: An Unnatural History of Our Worst Fears - Asma, Stephen T.
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Books Read / To Be Read in 2022
Updated 7/7/22
READ
The Secret History by Donna Tartt
various Ellery Queen
Win Your Breakup: How to Be the One That Got Away by Natasha Adamo
Collected Poems 1919-1962 by Babette Deutsch
What Kind of Creatures Are We? by Noam Chomsky
The Picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde (read by Stephen Fry)
The Witch and the Beast #1 (manga)
Music, Lyrics, and Life: A Field Guide for the Advancing Songwriter by Mike Errico
In/Spectre #1 (manga)
READING
Manga: I Am a Cat Barista #1, Witch Hat Atelier #1, Moriarty the Patriot #1
Wild Mind: Living the Writer's Life by Natalie Goldberg
The Way of Integrity: Finding the Path to Your True Self by Martha Beck
The Sunny Nihilist by Wendy Syfret
How Language Began: The Story of Humanity's Greatest Invention by Daniel L. Everett
Reading Like a Writer: A Guide for People Who Love Books and for Those Who Want to Write Them by Francine Prose
The Jazz of Physics: The Secret Link Between Music and the Structure of the Universe by Stephon Alexander
The Elements of Song Craft: The Contemporary Songwriter’s Usage Guide To Writing Songs That Last by Billy Seidman
Why Bother? by Jennifer Louden
TO BE READ
Tinseltown: Murder, Morphine, and Madness at the Dawn of Hollywood by William J. Mann
Because Internet: Understanding the New Rules of Language by Gretchen McCulloch
Black Hole Blues and Other Songs from Outer Space by Janna Levin
Little Weirds by Jenny Slate
Blood Relations: The Selected Letters of Ellery Queen, 1947-1950 edited by Joseph Goodrich
Manga: Hard-Boiled Stories from the Cat Bar, Nicola Traveling Around the Demons' World
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Welcome to my Lair!
“The only people for me are the mad ones.” - Jack Kerouac
I have always loved villains. Not for me the Disney princess. For me, the wicked witch, the mad scientist, the Cruella de Vil, the Carmen Sandiego...
For too long the image of the sweet, subservient 50s housewife has been held up to women as the ideal of success. Some of us aren’t the sweet girl next door (if you are, more power to you!). Some of us are the vixen, the femme fatale, the rebel... the villain[ess]*.
After a recent dive into the bottom of my personal mental illness hell-hole, I came back realizing one simple thing: “Nobody’s perfect... so why not be bad?”
Even vices can be virtues. Setting a goal and sticking to it? Loving yourself? Surrounding yourself with a supportive team? Mastering your craft? Never giving up?
These sound like your average girl-boss traits. But I guarantee you, they are all traits shared by a kick-ass villainess.
I want to encourage us all to dig a little deeper and discover our inner bad girl.
Over at thevillainess.co I will be sharing my thoughts on some of these vices/virtues and how to use your weaknesses as your greatest strengths.
Here on this blog I will be sharing my own journey with mental illness and how “villain” traits inspire me to love myself and get shit done. Be it doing the dishes (lair maintenance) or world domination (uh, self-explanatory). Since I am not qualified to speak on mental illness as a professional, and only to my own experience of my own diagnoses (Major Depressive Disorder and Generalized Anxiety Disorder) these blog posts will be strictly personal and not meant to advise. However, if one person finds them useful and/or inspiring, then my work shall not have been in vain. *insert maniacal laugh here*
Until we meet again,
-Chantelle
* All genders and absence thereof are welcome here!
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