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this one goes out to anyone who struggles with thinking or saying unkind things about themselves-

your f/o will never stand for it.

Any time you say something that could be anything like unkind about yourself, no matter what it is, your f/o will be right by your side in an instant. Theyll tell you in the kindest way possible "hey! thats my partner you're talking about. No one is allowed to talk to my partner that way."

your f/o won't let anyone talk about their partner like that. not even you <3

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f/o rub back when pain . yes ? agree?

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If you’re feeling insecure (based on physical appearance) here’s your reminder that your f/o’s love for you isn’t based on something as superficial as looks. Of course they think you’re beautiful/cute/handsome/attractive etc, but that’s not why they love you. Their love for you runs so much deeper than that. It doesn’t matter how your appearance changes. They love you regardless. They love you for who you are. They love your very being and soul.

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Applying to whichever time period that your F/O is in, how dated/modern are they with technologies and how they decorate places/dress themselves? If theyre our modern day, maybe they still use VHS tapes and have stereos with built-in record players, or fumble trying to play certain games or figure out certain smart-devices because they aren't used to having to use two joysticks at once to control their view and walking with the other one, or aren't used to the amount of complexities of smart-devices settings. Or it shows in how they dress and carry themselves, maybe even with how they speak and the slang or speech patterns they have.

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Imagine your clingy F/O always needing to be near you. Imagine them wanting to constantly be touching: coming up and wrapping their arms around your shoulders from behind (even when you're busy doing something), sitting as close as possible to you, playing with your fingers and hands if they are free, etc. Imagine them constantly asking where you're going, if you want them to come, making up excuses as to why they should probably join you anyway even if it's a one-person errand. They just always want to be with you!!

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Imagine yourself deliberately speaking in a different language, one that your F/O struggles to understand. You do this with a playful intent, believing that it adds an element of fun or perhaps a touch of mischief to your interactions. In this moment, it might seem like you’re poking fun at them, but underneath the playful banter, the words you choose are actually filled with affection and tenderness. You’re expressing your love in a way that only you understand, creating an intriguing mix of annoyance and endearment.

Now, envision your partner turning the tables. If they have a different language at their disposal, they begin to do the same with you, intentionally speaking in a tongue that leaves you scratching your head in confusion. They find joy in your puzzled expressions, thinking it’s all in good fun while their own affectionate messages are cloaked in an air of playful secrecy.

But what if, instead of this light hearted back and forth, you both decided to take a different approach? Imagine sitting down together to teach each other the nuances of your respective languages. You exchange words, phrases, and even cultural tidbits that go beyond simple translations. The process of learning becomes an intimate experience, deepening your connection as you both strive to understand and appreciate each other’s linguistic backgrounds. As you slowly pick up bits and pieces of each other’s languages, you find yourselves able to communicate in ways that are richer and more meaningful, fostering a bond that transcends words and allows your love to flourish in new and unexpected ways.

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"I don't deserve them" F/O x "I don't deserve them" S/I

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Sometimes you just gotta look at your f/o and start giggling and kicking your feet like a teenage girl! It's healthy and good for you!!!

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How it felt joining the selfship community

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Not being able to concentrate while drawing your f/o because you keep losing your shit every time you look back at their reference 😭

(incest and adults who ship w minors DNI!)

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struggling with self care? here's a few things you can do to include your f/o in your day to day life to maybe help you out :)

— make your f/o breakfast! or lunch, or dinner, or a snack, or a cup of tea, whatever they like!

— your f/o really loves the smell of the body wash you use! take a shower tonight with it so they can smell it while they're cuddling you asleep. same goes for your shampoo!

— your f/o has an outfit they wanna wear tomorrow, but its not clean. may as well do your laundry too while you're at it!

— your f/o had a movie they wanted to watch with you. take a moment to relax with them tonight.

— your f/o wants to have a nice cozy night with you tonight. why not make your bed so you have a nice place to snuggle with them?

— having trouble cleaning your room? that's okay, your f/o is gonna help you do it! try to get it started for them.

note; these are just a handful of things that help me. I dunno if they'll help you but you can try, if you'd like :3

— take a break from social media tonight and talk to your f/o! maybe draw or write them something, and if you aren't feeling that, just take some time to appreciate life with them.

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Revisiting your F/O's source media like

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❤️❣️Reminder: Your f/o’s love for you will never be out of character❣️❤️

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Imagine giving your touch-starved F/O an unexpected hug, especially before you guys start dating. Imagine the way they'd stiffen at first, unused to the affection. Then, slowly, you'd feel them melt against you. Their arms moving to return the embrace, face pressed into your neck. Almost like they are trying to get as close as possible to you.

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i hope i'm not just a selfshipper to you but also a canon character from my f/o's source