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(I'm just rambling no need to read)

It's crazy how much feedee content is reblogged by people with "fat fetishists/feeders/feedees DNI" in their bios

Like, I think lots of people in the world are tummy lovers and fat admirers (bc it's inherently lovely as are all bodies) but the label of feedism (or specifically FEEDERISM) is seen as this manipulative and sick kink when... it's rly not. So many people seem to really be into soft feedism, but think that if gaining to immobility and health problems aren't involved that means it's no longer feedism? They don't see that extreme feedism is not what the majority of the community partakes in.

Not that extreme feedism is manipulative or bad either! But they're just so repulsed by the concept that they won't take any time to approach it and learn what it is. So they think there's no way for feedism to be practiced ethically and write it off entirely.

I think feedism and fat admiration in kink is something that people are going to need to evaluate and accept if we are ever going to get true fat liberation. It's okay to want to be fat, it's okay to be turned on by your fat body, and it's absolutely okay to be aroused by eating and/or getting fatter. Food and fat and body worship is the basis of feedism (in its simplest form) and I think none of that is inherently evil. If being fat makes you happy and horny, get fat.

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@sucle_gourmet

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im sick w queer yearning rn but no one will care about my ocs on main so fuck em. these are for u only

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i’m backk omg it’s been a while !! happy new year everyone ❤️

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Carrie Metz-Caporusso

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Feederism and fat kinks are valid and lovely! They are not inherently disrespectful fatphobic when practiced in Risk-Aware Consensual Kink spaces. Some kinks such as this may be a sore spot for people within the community, but it may also be a place of exploration and finding self-love and celebration for others, and they can definitely be practiced in safe ways. Just because you are into feederism for yourself/a partner doesn’t mean that your kink is disrespecting anybody or furthering fatphobia, as what you enjoy in sexual spaces is your own business. Furthermore, as consenting adults, we all deserve to express our sexuality in appropriate situations and can be responsible for our own health and impact on others.

Whether you simply like to fantasize about it, simulate it alone or with a partner(s), or practice it in real life, your kink is natural and totally okay. Whether you focus more on eating, on gaining weight, or on feeding a partner/watching a partner eat, you deserve to explore your kink and have sexually fulfilling experiences.

Many kinks are dedicated to the exaggeration or growth of body parts, and linking food/consuming food to arousal is a natural bodily experience for many people.

You and your kink deserve acceptance and respect!

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Japanese Neapolitan (matcha, hojicha, black sesame) & the famous White Rabbit candy ice cream 

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https://www.instagram.com/p/CbEN3OZvjsf/

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Can we just take a minute to appreciate not only female plus size models, but males too?

Absolutely love to see brands being inclusive to all sizes.

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Thick thighs and squishy tummies are perfect

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What if we dated and you sorta just really got comfortable and put on like 30-40 lbs. and I tease you for but also encourage you to keep eating and you gained like…. 30-40 more… would that be fun.

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exactly 😭 a lot of his fav foods are gluten based 💔 i just hope he doesn’t have to completely cut it out of his diet… he would have to if he has celiac, but i hope that’s not the case 😭

nooooo poor jk has a gluten sensitivity and shouldn’t eat gluten… this is so tragic for him, he’s such a foodie 😭

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nooooo poor jk has a gluten sensitivity and shouldn’t eat gluten… this is so tragic for him, he’s such a foodie 😭

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the body positivity movement needs to start moving hard into including disabled bodies and this is what I mean by that. yes, it was a good step forward to change the rhetoric from “your body is a good body if it meets these arbitrary aesthetic standards” to “your body is a good body because it completes these tasks for you” (ie: walking, eating, laughing, hugging, etc.) but that rhetoric is still not fully body positive, because it excludes bodies that do not do these things. the same as saying how we need to “focus on healthy bodies not skinny bodies” sounds good at first, but it completely misses the point that unhealthy bodies deserve to be appreciated too. disabled bodies are still beautiful and still fundamentally good, not because “your body is kind to you so you should be kind to your body”- because not everyone’s body is kind to them. but all bodies are still good bodies because they are what houses your soul. your body is what allows you to exist and live your life in whatever way you live it, and for that reason, it is a good and beautiful body. your body is what your loved ones see when they look at you and the love they feel for it as an extension of you makes it a good and beautiful body. your body doesn’t have to look a certain way or behave a certain way to be good. it is good just for being here.

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I want to buy you food and snacks and drinks. I want to keep you full and warm and never wanting for anything, never hungry. I want to feel your softening belly and know it was me who did that to you, know that I am the reason for your shirts clinging tighter to your tummy, your pants straining more against your thighs. I want to make you bigger, make you softer, make you happy and content. Let me buy you food please