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Fake Account: Matthew Gray Gubler

An Instagram page called @cowgril appeared, made a poster, and exposed an intimate and private matter about the Kelch family (MGG). Where did this person go wrong? They tagged the actor’s entire family in their posts, hit a sensitive spot, and their posts were aggressive. Then, while talking to someone from another country (Ireland), she decided to create an Instagram page to express her discontent regarding MGG. I supported it because I thought she was afraid of losing her personal account and was creating a backup account to speak out. But no, she created a fake account, and Reddit users started accusing me of being the admin of that account simply because we followed each other. I sought help, I looked for support, and I didn’t get any answers. I don’t need a fake account; every time I express my opinions, I do it openly because I have nothing to hide. I cannot simply be unjustly accused of something that belongs to a third party. I am 40 years old, turning 41 at the beginning of August. I am not a kid who needs a fake page to say what I think. I believe human beings are specialists in judging, condemning, and sentencing others before even seeking the truth of the facts. I could have just let it go and not explained myself, but given the uncomfortable situation, I preferred to prove my innocence. It is up to people to investigate and learn the facts before attacking someone based on speculation.

By Mirley Patrícia

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Reddit Forums Dedicated to “Matthew Gray Gubler”

Someone from the Reddit forum r/gublergraymatthew went to my Instagram, took a screenshot of a post from my feed, and turned it into a poster. They took the time to screenshot it and write a text based on assumptions, but didn’t have the same effort or empathy to message me directly to discuss the topic; instead, they chose to judge and expose me. When I found out, I took several screenshots and made a post about it on my Instagram feed (which I archived after a few days). I am bringing these screenshots to this page as a warning. Just like the pages r/gublergraymatthew and r/MGGcandor, there are people who participate in both communities, of which I am also a member. These are the same people who showed empathy when X (Twitter) communities would take screenshots and harass individuals who made any criticism toward MGG. Yet, these were the same people who didn’t think twice about doing the exact same thing to me on the Reddit forum r/gublergraymatthew. The post is still there, and they NEVER publicly apologized to me for what they did, because their empathy is selective.

By Mirley Patrícia

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Matthew Gray Gubler

With the buzz around the supposedly paparazzi-caught photos in London—which look more like a forced setup through marketing—I took a stand by commenting on three gossip profiles, two on Instagram and one on Facebook. It’s not the first time that fake accounts have come into my Instagram DMs to insult me, disrespect me, and make threats. I think society needs to learn how to use social media respectfully in order to manage their accounts properly. As a human being, I also make mistakes, but I have never needed to hide behind a fake account to express what I think, and most importantly, I have never messaged anyone to intimidate them. Fanaticism is a disease.

By Mirley Patrícia

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Matthew Gray Gubler

I often see people trying to justify MGG’s actions and behavior based on his past relationship patterns. The answer is simple: “LACK OF EMOTIONAL RESPONSIBILITY!”

By Mirley Patrícia

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Matthew Gray Gubler

Today, the fans who have been following him for 10 or 6 years are deeply disappointed with his incoherent stance in this year of 2025. He had several opportunities to publicly support WA, yet he chose the Happy Park Festival in London, where she opened for an artist accused of domestic violence. Not satisfied, he enjoyed the singer’s show as if nothing had happened. I saw current fans justifying it with: “He was there for the music, not for the singer.” If you like the music, listen in your car, at home, or on Spotify. Supporting the concert of an artist accused of domestic violence while claiming to be a defender of women is a direct offense to women who are victims of domestic violence, abuse, and sexual harassment. Today, the young women aged 18 to 30 will also grow older, mature, and in 10 years, when MGG fails again as a person and as a human being, they will be able to understand the feeling of frustration and disappointment. People are removing God from the center of their lives and putting artists in His place, worshiping and idolizing them. I don’t believe he changed; I think the mask finally fell off. Today, he is showing the public that, throughout all these years, he has sold an image of something he is not and never has been.

By Mirley Patrícia

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Image of Matthew Gray Gubler

I went into the comments section of that fan page on Instagram and shared my opinion (photos above), and the admin simply hid it. I found that disrespectful because they preach love, respect, and the artist's privacy — yet in practice, they won’t stop exposing him on social media. Only comments that align with their own views are allowed to stay.

It was never my intention to expose Matthew — what I expressed was my indignation toward these Instagram fan pages that pretend to support him while constantly boosting engagement for someone else. That’s pure hypocrisy.

My Instagram post and caption ended up costing me intimidation and threats in my DMs… I don’t want engagement — I just want the right to freedom of speech to express my opinion. I never claimed to hold the absolute truth; I simply made a behavioral analysis.

And yes, I tagged Matthew and his siblings in the post because I’m not the kind of woman who hides. I also didn’t expect my post to end up on the Reddit forum r/MGGcandor.

By Mirley Patrícia

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Silence Speaks

It's not just what people say that hurts. Sometimes, what truly wounds us is what was never said. Swallowed words, interrupted conversations, eyes that turn away. The absence of an answer that echoes louder than any scream.

We grow up hearing that silence is wise. But they forget to say it can also be cruel when it wears the face of neglect. Some silences scream, they bruise, they push us into an abyss of doubt. Was it me? Did I go too far? Did I deserve the emptiness?

I’ve learned — the hard way — that not all silence is peace. Some are punishment, manipulation, cowardice. Others are walls built by those who can’t face their own pain. And then there are those silences that are unspoken goodbyes — departures that hurt even more because they never say farewell.

But with time, we begin to understand silences. To discern which ones ask for patience, and which demand distance. To realize that silence is sometimes protection. A way for the soul to restore itself, far from the noise of others. A healing disguised as absence.

Today, I’m learning to be silent for myself. Not as an escape, but as a choice. Not everything needs to be said, not every wound needs an explanation. There are pains only our silence can understand. And there are silences that speak for us with a wisdom no scream could ever reach.

By Mirley Patrícia

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M.G.G. Makes People Uncomfortable…

"I don't know where people got the idea that Matthew uses drugs… He has never spoken in interviews about having ASD or ADHD. And even if he did, would that be a problem? Would it change anything about his talent? These are baseless speculations about an authentic and eccentric human being—speculations driven by malice, not by fans. The lack of common sense in some people is downright disturbing."

By Mirley Patrícia

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Sightings of Matthew Gray Gubler…

Where are the candid shots? So far, there’s no solid evidence of any real flagrant moments between the aspiring singer and Matthew. The only public record was a dinner at a restaurant mentioned by Deuxmoi as one of the spots frequented by celebrities where fans have a higher chance of running into them. Strange to be "caught" at one of the two restaurants listed by Deuxmoi, right? Suggestive and ambiguous posts that only hint but never confirm anything—just enough to fuel speculation. And obviously, lots of engagement for the one posting. You know what’s funny? Laura Dahl and DJ Gray Gubler, Matthew’s siblings, don’t follow Willow Avalon on Instagram—nor does he follow her back. Actually, it’s quite odd that someone who implies she’s dating an older man is ignored by his own siblings. Funny enough, not a single friend or close person to Matthew has ever confirmed anything going on between him and the person who insists on pushing the same exhausting narrative. What’s more interesting is that Matthew’s siblings actually follow his ex-girlfriends on Instagram.Matthew Gray Gubler remains private, quiet, and mysterious as he’s always been. He has never sought the spotlight, and his ex-girlfriends were always seen by his side naturally—never trying to gain attention on social media just for being close to one of the most sought-after artists in Hollywood.It’s worth noting that at this very moment, Matthew Gray Gubler isn’t working—he’s off the radar. Odd, because if he were really in a relationship, he would be supporting that person’s work. He would be showing up at her barely-attended shows labeled as a “tour,” attending her festival appearances, liking her posts, and showing support in subtle, discreet ways.Am I the only one not seeing this happen? The inconsistency is obvious!If she had any chance, she may have just shot herself in the foot. Instead of getting closer, she may have made Matthew quietly pull away—without being rude.

By Mirley Patrícia

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Matthew Gray Gubler

When a man is truly interested in a woman, he would go through hell for her. He makes a point of including her in his life.

This is my opinion about what’s going on, considering the obvious lack of coherence in the facts.

Matthew Gray Gubler was in Nevada, spent Easter with his family, and then went with them to Disneyland in California. Willow Avalon went to Nevada with her friends, but Matthew didn’t include her in the family trip. On Tuesday, she went to Los Angeles; on Wednesday, he traveled to New York. Then Willow went to the Caribbean with her friends and her manager. If there were truly a romantic relationship between them, she would be with him in New York, not vacationing in the Caribbean. And from there, she went on to yet another destination.

If Matthew were genuinely interested in her as a woman, he would be the one chasing after her — not the other way around, with her following his every move.

And no, she’s not exposing him because she’s in love. It’s self-promotion. She’s riding the wave, trying to gain national and international attention by attaching herself to Matthew Gray Gubler’s image. If Willow Avalon were truly a fan of Matthew Gray Gubler, she’d know that he’s discreet, private, and values living his personal life anonymously — the exact opposite of what she does: constantly creating theatrical narratives to attract attention and engagement.

If she truly cared about her artistic career, she’d be focused on showcasing it: doing live streams of her shows on Instagram and TikTok, posting her own videos to her stories instead of just reposting what others tag her in, sharing videos of herself composing, rehearsing, in the studio — content that reflects her work. But she doesn’t. She exploits her image, not her career. Instead of filling the gaps in her tour schedule, she chooses to fuel gossip, trying to link herself to public figures. People who aim to grow through their own effort and talent don’t use others as stepping stones.

Matthew Gray Gubler’s silence is already an answer. He could end this whole story with one simple sentence: “I’m single.” But he doesn’t. Instead, his actions clearly show that this narrative is created and maintained solely by her.

And don’t even come at me with: “But she’s fighting for what she wants (Matthew).”

I’m 40 years old. Do you really think I’ve never made the first move toward a man? I’ve fallen flat on my face enough times to learn that I was putting the cart before the horse — denying the other person the chance to notice me without any effort. When someone wants you, they make you feel special. You don’t need to devalue or humiliate yourself to fit into anyone’s world.

Don’t romanticize a lack of self-love.

By Mirley Patrícia

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Some people don’t want to be seen beside someone. They want to be mistaken for that person. They create closeness where there was only silence. They stitch stories with vanity’s thread and finish them with the needle of exaggeration. They don’t admire, they project.  They don’t get inspired, they infiltrate. 

It’s curious how certain figures suddenly appear, always with perfect timing: a strategic appearance, an ambiguous caption, a whisper dropped in the right place — and there it is. The illusion is formed. They don’t even need to say anything, because the audience does the rest.  Doubt becomes hype. Mystery becomes likes.  And vanity smiles, satisfied. 

But what happens when the other person doesn’t go along with the script? When instead of fueling the plot, they literally fly in another direction? The stage collapses. The fiction runs out of breath. And the silence that once seemed “discreet” now sounds like shame. 

Those who hold truth don’t need smoke. Those who care don’t need a stage. Real admiration respects the other’s boundaries and time — it doesn’t use feelings as a strategy or turn affection into a tool for self-promotion. 

In the end, truth doesn’t need to prove anything. It just needs to be. And whoever forces a script eventually loses the character.

By Mirley Patrícia

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Feeling You Without Knowing

Feeling you without knowing

is like hearing a song without lyrics:

I don’t understand the language, but I dance.

I can’t explain the reason, but I feel it.

There’s something in you —

that doesn’t need to come close

to pass right through me.

It’s a presence that echoes,

like wind on a hot day:

you don’t see it, but it brings relief.

Maybe you’ll never know…

but even from afar,

you touch me.

By Mirley Patrícia

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By Mirley Patrícia

While He Doesn’t Know

He lives there, in a world that may never cross mine.

And still, he’s the scene of some of the words I write.

He doesn’t know about the texts. He doesn’t have to.

Because what moves me isn’t being noticed — it’s feeling, and writing when the feeling overflows.

And in that, I am whole.

Even if he never reads them. Even if he never knows.

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By Mirley Patrícia

About Feeling from Afar

I don’t know you. Not really. But there’s something in your way of being that reaches me.

Like a song I’ve never heard but somehow recognize.

Some days I wonder if you also feel these invisible waves that connect strangers from within.

Maybe not.

Still, I write.

Because some feelings don’t ask for permission — they just want to flow.

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By Mirley Patrícia

Letters Never Sent

Sometimes, I write as if you were going to read it.

Not because I need a reply, but because some words don’t fit in silence.

They are born between a memory and a sigh, and find shelter on paper.

I don’t know your address, but I trust the universe delivers.

Not everything that’s written needs to be seen. But everything that is felt deserves to exist.

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By Mirley Patrícia

If only my words could find you…

You’ll probably never read this. But there’s a piece of me that believes even unspoken words travel.

I’ve admired you from afar — across oceans and time zones — not just for what you do, but for who you seem to be when no one’s watching.

There’s a gentleness in your presence that calms me, an authenticity that inspires me, and something unexplainable that makes my heart feel… seen.

I don’t want anything from you. I just want you to know that you’ve touched someone quietly — someone who writes under the stars in a place far from yours, someone who believes that deep connections don’t always need proximity.

Maybe one day, this energy finds its way back to you. And if it does… I hope it makes you smile.

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While He Doesn’t Know

He lives there, in a world that may never cross mine.

And still, he’s the scene of some of the words I write.

He doesn’t know about the texts. He doesn’t have to.

Because what moves me isn’t being noticed — it’s feeling, and writing when the feeling overflows.

And in that, I am whole.

Even if he never reads them.

Even if he never knows.

By Mirley Patrícia