personally if i accidentally came out via gay joke at the fan convention i would not keep doing gay jokes at the fan convention. but misha foot in mouths georg who lives at the convention and makes over 10000 gay jokes a day....
There is a sort of constant battle between the two of them to the degree that they are fighting, but they are taking care of one another. When the sugar goes on the cheek of Patrick, Art takes it off with his hand in a very nice gesture of kindness -- and very intimate, I would say. But at the same time, they are really tense. And I think it’s about being jealous of one another, but at the same time wanting one another.
Since I just saw this reblogged, here is the scan of the article about the lapdance Patrick got on his birthday:
Yesterday, for example, was the lead singer’s birthday–he turned 22. There was no party, as such, but the band did arrange for a local stripper to give him a lapdance in the dressing room. Stump, however, spent the entire dance sending his band members a lengthy text: “I know it’s a present and everything, but I feel really uncomfortable and it’d be great if you could make her stop…” Once she left, Stump cheered up considerably and took the band out for ice cream.