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*Trigger Warning: self harm, suicide, ed, rape*

I genuinely love Taylor with my whole heart. Taylor is my entire life, she’s become my best friend. I found her a couple months after my brother started to rape me. I was 9. For three years Taylor was the only thing to give me a purpose during the abuse. Almost all my life my mother would call me fat, worthless, and anything else you could think of. She would do this when she got drunk, which was pretty much every day. In 8th grade I started being bullied severely. They would push my into lockers and down the stairs. They would verbally harass me until I just spent all my time crying in the bathrooms. I turned to pills, not enough to kill myself but enough to where I knew it could mess up my body if I did it long term. Near the end of 8th grade I started cutting. Not bad or anything. More of small cat scratches with a screw. I told my parents and my mother told me that it wasn’t cutting because it wasn’t bad enough and that I was an attention whore and from the start of high school I would cut increasingly worse as well as taking on other issues like my anorexia and bulimia. For the past 11 years I’ve listened to Tay as much as I possibly can. Her past two tours I have been in the hospital. After my last suicide attempt thinking about hugging Taylor and thanking her was what got me to push through. Last year when I was raped I really thought my life was ending. Things got so bad. How could someone I thought I loved do that to me? Taylors court case was both heartbreaking and empowering for me. I won’t say that some days my ptsd doesn’t get the best of me but more often then not I can put on all of Taylor’s albums along with take medication to help keep my flashbacks to a minimum. At the beginning on June I lost a close friend to suicide in June and he always knew me as the girl who loved Taylor Swift. Every time I listen to her I know he is with me. I sit here now in an emergency room after finding my best friend who I live with after she overdosed on medication to end her life. I’m heartbroken but thankful I found her when I did. As I listen to Taylor and talk to one of my close swiftie friends @good-girlfaith I feel a sense of relief♥️

So now That I’ve shown you my story I want to show you my accomplishments in my recovery! As of right now (7•5•2018) I am 3 weeks clean from cutting. I’m 6 months clean from purging. I recently attempted suicide but I have been out of the hospital for about a week now. Im trying the best I can and want to make Taylor proud. My mother and I have healed our relationship. I will be studying psychology and criminal justice starting in September. And on July 28 I will see Taylor Alison Swift from Section B4, Row 34, Seat 24 for the first time since the Speak Now tour!!!

I want so much to have the chance to hug Taylor. To cry to her, not from pain but for happiness. I’ll be getting a taylor inspired tattoo over my self harm scars on my right thigh and it would be so cool to tell her my idea for the tattoo and have her know my story. @taylorswift if you are reading this; thank you for giving me a safe space, great music to listen to, and an idol who has never let me down♥️ if any Swifties are reading this; I love y’all more than you will ever know. Thanks for being the only whole family I have. If you guys could help me out and share this anywhere and everywhere you could I would be very grateful @taylornation

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It’s here. It’s yours, it’s mine, it’s ours. It’s an album I wrote alone about the whims, fantasies, heartaches, dramas and tragedies I lived out as a young woman between 18 and 20. I remember making tracklist after tracklist, obsessing over the right way to tell the story. I had to be ruthless with my choices, and I left behind some songs I am still unfailingly proud of now. Therefore, you have 6 From The Vault tracks! I recorded this album when I was 32 (and still growing up, now) and the memories it brought back filled me with nostalgia and appreciation. For life, for you, for the fact that I get to reclaim my work. Thank you a million times, for the memories that break our fall. 💥🐉🏰  Speak Now (MY VERSION!) is out now. 

http://taylor.lnk.to/SpeakNowTaylorsVersion

PC: Beth Garrabrant 

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I’m now almost 4 1/2 years clean from self harm and it’s been 3 years since my last suicide attempt. I have grown so much in my recovery and as a person in the past few years but one of the things that stayed the same was my love for taylor. Her music still brings me so much joy and pure happiness as well as a good cry when needed. I feel so connected to Taylor and the swiftie community. I’m so blessed to have been able to share this journey with you throughout the years. I’ve been a swiftie for almost 16 years and I couldn’t imagine my life without taylor and her music. I now have three Taylor tattoos over my scars on my legs. I just saw the Eras tour at Gillette stadium (the same stadium I got to tell Taylor I love her and she grabbed my hand😭). It was such a magical night and I have the time of my life dancing screaming and crying with you @taylorswift

*Trigger Warning: self harm, suicide, ed, rape*

I genuinely love Taylor with my whole heart. Taylor is my entire life, she’s become my best friend. I found her a couple months after my brother started to rape me. I was 9. For three years Taylor was the only thing to give me a purpose during the abuse. Almost all my life my mother would call me fat, worthless, and anything else you could think of. She would do this when she got drunk, which was pretty much every day. In 8th grade I started being bullied severely. They would push my into lockers and down the stairs. They would verbally harass me until I just spent all my time crying in the bathrooms. I turned to pills, not enough to kill myself but enough to where I knew it could mess up my body if I did it long term. Near the end of 8th grade I started cutting. Not bad or anything. More of small cat scratches with a screw. I told my parents and my mother told me that it wasn’t cutting because it wasn’t bad enough and that I was an attention whore and from the start of high school I would cut increasingly worse as well as taking on other issues like my anorexia and bulimia. For the past 11 years I’ve listened to Tay as much as I possibly can. Her past two tours I have been in the hospital. After my last suicide attempt thinking about hugging Taylor and thanking her was what got me to push through. Last year when I was raped I really thought my life was ending. Things got so bad. How could someone I thought I loved do that to me? Taylors court case was both heartbreaking and empowering for me. I won’t say that some days my ptsd doesn’t get the best of me but more often then not I can put on all of Taylor’s albums along with take medication to help keep my flashbacks to a minimum. At the beginning on June I lost a close friend to suicide in June and he always knew me as the girl who loved Taylor Swift. Every time I listen to her I know he is with me. I sit here now in an emergency room after finding my best friend who I live with after she overdosed on medication to end her life. I’m heartbroken but thankful I found her when I did. As I listen to Taylor and talk to one of my close swiftie friends @good-girlfaith I feel a sense of relief♥️

So now That I’ve shown you my story I want to show you my accomplishments in my recovery! As of right now (7•5•2018) I am 3 weeks clean from cutting. I’m 6 months clean from purging. I recently attempted suicide but I have been out of the hospital for about a week now. Im trying the best I can and want to make Taylor proud. My mother and I have healed our relationship. I will be studying psychology and criminal justice starting in September. And on July 28 I will see Taylor Alison Swift from Section B4, Row 34, Seat 24 for the first time since the Speak Now tour!!!

I want so much to have the chance to hug Taylor. To cry to her, not from pain but for happiness. I’ll be getting a taylor inspired tattoo over my self harm scars on my right thigh and it would be so cool to tell her my idea for the tattoo and have her know my story. @taylorswift if you are reading this; thank you for giving me a safe space, great music to listen to, and an idol who has never let me down♥️ if any Swifties are reading this; I love y’all more than you will ever know. Thanks for being the only whole family I have. If you guys could help me out and share this anywhere and everywhere you could I would be very grateful @taylornation

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I don’t really post on here often but it’s been a little over 1 month since my eras tour show and I miss you so much🥹 ♥️ I love you forever and always @taylorswift

my top 3 most magical nights ever:

1. Rep Tour (I got to tell taylor I loved her and she grabbed my hand)

2. Eras tour

3. Speak Now tour

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THE WAY THIS MAKES ME WANNA CRY FROM HAPPINESS SNSKS I GET TO SEE MY FAVORITE PERSON EVER ON TOUR IN CUTE COSTUMES WITH MY BEST FRIEND IN MY FAV STADIUM IN 64 DAY🥹🥹😭🥰🥰💁🏼‍♀️

In my Eras era. 💅

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Thank you Jenny Han for debuting my version of This Love in the trailer for The Summer I Turned Pretty!! I’ve always been so proud of this song and I’m very 🥺🥺🥺 about this turn of events - This Love (Taylor’s Version) comes out tonight at m i d n i g h t! Pre-order now http://taylor.lnk.to/thislovetv

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my reaction to listen to Love Story Taylors version for the first time and watching the lyric video; spoiler alert I was NOT prepared. Seeing all the pictures and videos again reminded me of being a child loving taylor not realized 13 years later I’d still be here singing my heart out to taylor always🥺🥺 I don’t think l will be emotionally prepared to relive these album releases while remembering how I felt first listening to them @taylorswift @taylornation

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The video for cardigan “cabin in candlelight” version is out now using new behind-the-scenes footage from the album photoshoot.

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happy selfie night and HAPPY DISABLED PRIDE MONTH!!

my friend @isntitdelicateswift​ and i noticed a lack of appropriate disabled representation and a lack of knowledge from abled people about our community, so we decided to change it! we’re starting a nonprofit called disability together! we officially launch on the 30th anniversary of the ada, july 26th and will become an official nonprofit later. our current board members are myself, @isntitdelicateswift​, and @delicate-ciana​!

you can click here to follow our instagram and join us on july 26th at 7pm est for our zoom discussing ableism! we have a great lineup of speakers and some cool giveaways…i’ll be posting more info soon :)

if you’re disabled and interested in sharing content on our platform, let me know!

so excited for what’s to come 💕♿️

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TW: self harm/suicide

As of right now I am 1 year and and 3 months clean from self harm! For the 8 years I struggled with self harm I never thought I’d get to the point where I felt like I didn’t need to do it again and I’m really proud of how far I’ve come🥺 I’m getting a tattoo when it’s safe that says “I think I’m finally clean” over my faint scars, I cant wait to get it!! In January I attempted suicide and it was very scary but I have gained so much love and appreciation for life after that and am genuinely doing better that I ever was. Thank you @taylorswift for helping me throughout the past 12 years of my life, your music has gotten me through so much. Can’t wait to see you at Lover Fest West whenever it’s rescheduled to😁♥️

*Trigger Warning: self harm, suicide, ed, rape*

I genuinely love Taylor with my whole heart. Taylor is my entire life, she’s become my best friend. I found her a couple months after my brother started to rape me. I was 9. For three years Taylor was the only thing to give me a purpose during the abuse. Almost all my life my mother would call me fat, worthless, and anything else you could think of. She would do this when she got drunk, which was pretty much every day. In 8th grade I started being bullied severely. They would push my into lockers and down the stairs. They would verbally harass me until I just spent all my time crying in the bathrooms. I turned to pills, not enough to kill myself but enough to where I knew it could mess up my body if I did it long term. Near the end of 8th grade I started cutting. Not bad or anything. More of small cat scratches with a screw. I told my parents and my mother told me that it wasn’t cutting because it wasn’t bad enough and that I was an attention whore and from the start of high school I would cut increasingly worse as well as taking on other issues like my anorexia and bulimia. For the past 11 years I’ve listened to Tay as much as I possibly can. Her past two tours I have been in the hospital. After my last suicide attempt thinking about hugging Taylor and thanking her was what got me to push through. Last year when I was raped I really thought my life was ending. Things got so bad. How could someone I thought I loved do that to me? Taylors court case was both heartbreaking and empowering for me. I won’t say that some days my ptsd doesn’t get the best of me but more often then not I can put on all of Taylor’s albums along with take medication to help keep my flashbacks to a minimum. At the beginning on June I lost a close friend to suicide in June and he always knew me as the girl who loved Taylor Swift. Every time I listen to her I know he is with me. I sit here now in an emergency room after finding my best friend who I live with after she overdosed on medication to end her life. I’m heartbroken but thankful I found her when I did. As I listen to Taylor and talk to one of my close swiftie friends @good-girlfaith I feel a sense of relief♥️

So now That I’ve shown you my story I want to show you my accomplishments in my recovery! As of right now (7•5•2018) I am 3 weeks clean from cutting. I’m 6 months clean from purging. I recently attempted suicide but I have been out of the hospital for about a week now. Im trying the best I can and want to make Taylor proud. My mother and I have healed our relationship. I will be studying psychology and criminal justice starting in September. And on July 28 I will see Taylor Alison Swift from Section B4, Row 34, Seat 24 for the first time since the Speak Now tour!!!

I want so much to have the chance to hug Taylor. To cry to her, not from pain but for happiness. I’ll be getting a taylor inspired tattoo over my self harm scars on my right thigh and it would be so cool to tell her my idea for the tattoo and have her know my story. @taylorswift if you are reading this; thank you for giving me a safe space, great music to listen to, and an idol who has never let me down♥️ if any Swifties are reading this; I love y’all more than you will ever know. Thanks for being the only whole family I have. If you guys could help me out and share this anywhere and everywhere you could I would be very grateful @taylornation

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Almost 9 years dbdkdnd

how long have you guys had your current url for?

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I got tickets for lover fest today and I’m so excited and happy I’ll get to see my fav album live🥺👉🏼👈🏼 @taylorswift

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'But if the story is over why am I still writing pages?'💗

Cause I love you so much @taylorswift 💗

Hope you will see it and hope you will like it🥺💗

I LOVE YOU AIN'T THAT THE WORST THING YOU EVER HEARD?💗 @taylorswift

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Not a lot going on at the moment

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It’s National Siblings Day! My brother Austin is one of my best pals, and I’m really proud of him because he’s in a film that came out today called We Summon The Darkness (which he also co-produced). Photo by Gigi. My facial expression by 3 glasses of wine.

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Captain Olivia Benson off duty like -

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@taylorswift Hi buddy🖤 I hope you and your family are staying healthy and keeping busy during this crazy time! Thank you for being so outspoken about the importance of social distancing and helping the best we can. In February I lost my job due to my medical issues I’ve been dealing with. Losing my job was heartbreaking because I loved what I did and I was on track to make a better life for me and my parents🥺 both are at risk right now because of age and medical issues (my mom doesn’t have a spleen which makes it very hard for her body to fight infections). My mom has been out of work and struggling while my dad puts his life on the line every day to go to work and make sure he can keep us afloat. We are doing our best to make it through but things are getting scary. My mom and I will listen to your music to help us relax. She’s always been the one person who has loved you with me ever since the 3rd grade. You’ve brought us close together in a times of need and I’m so thankful for you and grateful for everyone coming together right now🥺♥️