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Sir Ian McKellen attended the Evening Standard Theatre Awards in London, Nov 13.   

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Reblog while you still can ;(

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My theory is actually that women ship men because they're usually two very well written characters, interesting, deep, and not overly sexualized. And they typically build their friendships on very solid foundations that COULD take romance extremely well.

I actually can't think of a single hetero couple that fits that (whether it be platonic or romantic).

Why we love gay ships

I’ve wondered about this a lot and for a long time. I think at least PART of the reason that people, young women especially, become so attached to gay male ships–canon or not–like Destiel and Johnlock is because it’s two men showing emotion toward each other. We appreciate that it’s a cultural stigma for guys to show affection, especially for each other. But it’s what we crave from them. It’s no secret that we nerdy girls often feel a lack of attention and affection from guys. So the idea of men comfortable not only with treating women well, but men, too? Maybe that’s reassuring. Some of us may find it attractive when a man doesn’t feel the need to reassert his masculinity every time he hugs his buddy. Of course, there is the obvious reason of wanting equal representation as well. This is just my theory. :)

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petition to rename the usa ‘south canada’

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WHO made this

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just a small town girl. Living in a racist, insensitive, sexist, homophobic world,

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Female pilots edited out of the Star Wars movies.

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my aesthetic 

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cute new co-worker is super cute and this is a problem.

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im serious about that “stop saving things for special occasions” bit tho like. even if u aren’t in your 20s. thats for everyone. its one of the most useful things ive learned lately

stop! just stop. eat the special snack. drink the expensive hippie tea. use the incense or the bath bomb or whatever you paid way too much for because you were feeling really bad and retail therapy makes u feel alive

when we save things for special occasions/rainy days it contributes to us feeling like A.) our day to day existence is lackluster and B.) you have to be feeling a certain level of Bad, or have to reach a certain level of Socially Accepted Achievement, to enjoy things

just give yourself stuff. there are definitely sometimes reasons to withhold things from yourself - as motivation, if it’s something you consciously want to use sparingly, etc - but at least for me half the time it just turns into self-flagellation and also cool things and cool experiences and nice treats just collect dust while i wait for some fabled day when i convince myself i finally Deserve it

just fuckin give yourself stuff dude. life’s so mindblowingly short

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having to use your own art as reference cause you forgot how to draw

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The Bioware Lonely Hearts Club 5/? Giving their love, in their own ways

Kaidan | Carth | Alistair

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Arthur and Hazel.

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David Tennant’s NTA Special Recognition - His Reaction