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Wenn ich jemanden anerkannt habe, erkennt die Person das daran, dass sie immer wissen wird, wo sie mich findet.

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embrace your feminine energy. do nothing. embrace having nothing. spending money on useful items. sit with your shame. dont chase. be social, but just value. if you arent valued, dont mind. be okay. be at peace. be okay with your standard. you are normal. you need to stop needing to prove yourself

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Sebastian Pether (1790-1844)

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“I can’t begin to heal,

not yet,

because I am still breaking.”

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“Be messy and complicated and afraid and show up anyways.”

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Glennon Doyle Melton

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“The Greek word for return is nostos. Algos means suffering. So nostalgia is the suffering caused by an unappeased yearning to return.”

— Milan Kundera

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shit no one tells you #9

you left that relationship or cut that person off for a reason. don’t try and go back to them just because its 3am and you’re lonely. you don’t miss them, you just miss the thought of having someone. they can be replaced

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Shared via Instagram. Poem by Nayyirah Waheed. From salt.

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Sometimes suffering is just suffering. It doesn’t make you stronger. It doesn’t build character. It only hurts

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10 Relationship Killers

1. Breaking trust

2. Lack of respect

3. Jealousy

4. Angry outburst/ high volatility

5. Making assumptions

6. Unreasonable expectations

7. Bitterness

8. Unforgiveness

9. Being cold and uncaring

10.Failing to prioritize your partner.

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“I fell for his lust even though I knew better.”

- B.M.

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“The Greek word for return is nostos. Algos means suffering. So nostalgia is the suffering caused by an unappeased yearning to return.”

— Milan Kundera

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“Be messy and complicated and afraid and show up anyways.”

—

Glennon Doyle Melton

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“I can’t begin to heal,

not yet,

because I am still breaking.”

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“I lost me while making us.”

— tara love

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the first thing i notice: you’re not mine anymore

the second thing i notice: you never really were.