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i feel like something that's missing from some people's understanding of kink fiction and fantasy is, like... in fiction and fantasy, everything is in-scene.

when real people do kink in real life, you gotta do all that good out-of-scene stuff like discuss boundaries, set limits and expectations, check in with each other, do aftercare, et cetera et cetera et cetera... but in fiction, everything can be in-scene!

the people in that fanfic don't exist any more than, like, the make-believe sexy football star and make-believe sexy cheerleader in a couple's roleplay exist. that couple doesn't need to get into character and then pretend to be a sexy football star having an important consent conversation with a sexy cheerleader, because that's a conversation that's already happened out-of-scene and out-of-character. (i mean, if you're into in-character negotiations, chase your bliss.) when they're in that scene, they can just pretend to be a sexy football star having sex with a sexy cheerleader. that's okay.

so like. when fiction does kink in a way that would be unsafe or harmful irl... just keep in mind that you're not watching actual people neglecting check-ins or ignoring their set contract or genuinely harming each other. you're watching a scene without the behind-the-scenes bits, and that's okay.

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everyone say thank you ancient central and south american agricultural heroes for beans

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pretty sure cuddling together in my bed while it rains outside is definitely going to increase your lifespan, just saying <33

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“I don’t think that I accepted that I wasn’t gonna die young until I was 26 or 27. I really don’t think I fully…when I was 14, 15, 16, 17–I mean I knew as sure as I know that I am wearing green shoes that I was going to die before much happened. It was a certainty for me. And I had shaken off the directly suicidal urge by the time I was 21 or 22, but I still was pretty sure I was going to die pretty young, it really felt like an inevitability. It takes a long time to realize no, you’ve changed…if you shared those feelings with people at some point you go, ‘well, I guess we’re going to stick around.’ And it’s a funky thing to admit because there’s a part of your inner younger self that kind of judges you for that.”

John Darnielle fucking me up with the single most relatable thing he’s ever said

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being a poc sucks because sometimes a movie comes out about discrimination and they'll have The Racist Guy, a character who's clearly meant to embody oppression and prejudice against minorities. and then you open up tumblr and everybody's like omg i could totally fix Racist Guy trust me guys!!! Racist Guy x reader 20k spicy slowburn #canoniswhatimakeit here's a massive gifset for Racist Guy he's just soooooooooooooo hot. you guys look like this

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i can’t stand “it’s not that deep” attitudes like even if it really really isn’t that deep just PLAY WITH ME. just fucking PLAY. have a meaningless but deep analytical conversation with me. just like think about shit for fun. does anyone else like to think about stuff for fun. it’s so lonely

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Wolves sitting on a tree’ or 'My Dream’ by Sergei Pankejeff, 1964

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I just watched the first episode of Jellyfish Can't Swim in the Night, and it left me full on ugly crying.

It brought to mind just how much time I've let pass me by, while I sit around craving the concept of being an artist. Over the years I've learned like 5 instruments (all mediocrely), dabbled in drawing and animation, and dipped my toes into writing. I've always wanted to make art, but I've never practiced enough to truly retain or get better at any of it.

And I know part of it is my mental health, and part of it stems from being autistic and adhd. But I'm constantly beating myself up about it. I crave creativity, and yet I consume art way more than I create it. And I hate that about myself.

No matter how often I try and change that, it always falls right back down the rabbit hole. And the first episode of that anime just brought all those thoughts and feelings crashing into my like an isekai truck.

I just needed to vent about this somewhere, I know it doesn't exactly fit the stone queer crow vibe, but it is what it is. I'm gonna go distract myself now (and by that I mean probably disassociate from these feelings lmao)

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No I dont think it's racist to hate robots, I just think it's weird that as a white person you keep trying to come up with slurs for them and describe acts of violence usually directed at racial minorities

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is this a safe space? can i admit that scars "son" in lion king 2 simbas pride is a transgender lioness and made me want to be a lesbian as a kid?

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There’s something so hot about hypnosis and ahegao, like yes you are just blank, mindless, obedient, let your eyes roll up into emptiness, tongue falling out like a good girl, and start drooling to top it all off.

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Gay people possessed me

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@ mutuals

u look good

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have you lot heard about the tiktoker who’s taking on the actual government over a parking ticket? because she’s a hero

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