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CW: HEALTH ISSUES, NEAR DEATH, CAUTIONARY TALE

Small PSA because I'm not sure how well it will land

I saw a post regarding excitement over type 2 diabetes, and as a diabetic, I wouldn't really wish it on anyone. Here's a little bit of my experience:

From years of uncontrolled blood sugars, I've ended up with permanent nerve damage in my fingers and toes. Too hot and too cold water is extremely painful and if it progresses, you cross into the territory of losing limbs or succumbing to infection.

I have retinopathy, meaning I'm at risk of losing my sight. At this point, I can't reverse the damage I've done to my body; only slow its progression.

January of 2022 I was hospitalized for a condition called Diabetic Keto Acidosis (DKA) which is a condition where high blood sugars lead to your body absorbing and breaking down your fat as a way to fuel the body. Your fat has something called ketones, which in high amounts will turn your blood acidic, causing dehydration, multiple organs failure, and cerebral edema (swelling of the brain) which can (and will if untreated) result in a VERY painful death.

Once again, this is from uncontrolled blood sugars. (brought on by a depressive episode where I stopped taking all medication for over a week). It started with chest pain and tightness. I was out with friends and called my gf at the time while driving an hour home, as I was beginning to feel Very Wrong™️ (spacey, hard to breathe, nauseous and tired).

I asked her if I should go to a hospital before following it up with how I wasn't sure if it was truly something wrong. I hadn't checked my blood sugars or taken insulin in over a week on top of having had cake and cookies in excessive amounts. She pushed me to go and I put the hospital I normally go to in my GPS. I was pretty out of it, and picked the wrong hospital, one without an ER. I decided to go home. As soon as I got home and sat on my couch, I passed out a few times while sitting up. At this point, my cat was crying at me in a way he hadn't before. I went to bed, hoping I'd be better when I woke up.

I woke up at about 3am with severe nausea. I vomited for hours. Scared, I called my best friend to take me to the ER. By the time she had me in her car, I was delirious. I was wheeled into the emergency room, and at this point, the details become foggy. I was out of it for 2 days, alternating between sleep and going from very small amounts of water, to being on a liquid diet. I stayed in the ICU for about 5 days, where I was told a bunch of things I still can't remember. But what I do remember is that I was TERRIFIED. I was dying, and if I hadn't gotten emergency care, I would've died a painful, and terrifying death.

In case you took the time to read, I wrote all this as a caution. This disease could either kill you, or cause lifelong damage to your body. Either way you can guarantee a miserable existence without the proper care. It didn't feel very hot, sexy, or cool to experience what I did. And I hope no one in this community will have to experience it too.

Please be safe

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fatness as an act of resistance

one of the news stories doing the rounds in the UK today is about the government’s new proposal to push weight loss drugs on unemployed people (presumably including those classed as unable to work, based on their previous rhetoric), in an attempt to get them into employment.

if you’re seeing this post you probably don’t need me to explain the extremely dubious ethics of such an idea, or the way it stereotypes unemployed people, or indeed the way it frames fatness as something that must be “cured”.

but something that’s been stuck in my mind all day is the concept of fatness as an act of rebellion. it’s an idea I’ve been interested in for ages (I’d love to write a longer-form story using it at some point), but it’s been brought to the fore by this story.

fatness is already a rejection of so many toxic aspects of society, but particularly so in the case of choosing to be fat. to decide for yourself that actually, you do want to allow yourself to overindulge. you want to live a little hedonistically, because you only get one go at life; you don’t want to waste it living a life of compromise and restriction.

to be fat, and to enjoy being fat, is to stick two fingers up at every expectation placed upon you by the world we live in. when we’re innately expected to hate fatness, to be scared of it; I think it’s beautifully disobedient to reject that mentality and choose a different outlook.

we’re expected to view fatness as undesirable and disgusting, but why? fuck that, fatness is magical. a life prioritising pleasure and joy sounds infinitely more fulfilling than one centred around fetishising control and shame. as a culture we only perceive fatness negatively because that’s the mentality that surrounds us; there isn’t really any substantive justification for that view.

to then hear the government itself stigmatise fatness in a cheap attempt at winning favour with a particular section of the public; it doesn’t half make me double down on viewing fatness as a fundamentally bold and rebellious state of being. if it isn’t already – though you could certainly argue it is – it would make deciding to be fat a political choice in its own right.

tl;dr it’s punk as fuck to be fat and happy about it, and I think you’re cool as hell for it

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Sure, lazy couch potato cheeseburger and french fry feederism is cool, but hear me out.

Give me feedees who don’t want to be helpless and immobile. Feedees who love their bodies but also love their hobbies. Feedees with interests apart from becoming a sentient couch for someone else to look after. Feedees who cosplay or garden or want to eat a variety of things. Feedees begging their feeders to learn how to make authentic chicken vindaloo, Jamaican style curried goat, maduros and ropa vieja, real pirogi, or llengas tacos. Feedees who work all day and come home and wolf down a table full of food because being productive enhances their appetite like no other. Feedees who absolutely want homemade apple butter and biscuits over egg mcmuffins. Feedees dragging their feeders out to the local U-Pick and eagerly filling their buckets with fresh summer berries and going “youre going to make pie AND cobbler right? and jam? i need that clove and raspberry jam. please.” 

And give me feeders who can’t just cook, they can throw down. Feeders who can make - and cure - their own sausages and bacon. Feeders who bake bread without recipes because the way their feedee eats it’s honestly easier to just bake it than keep going to the store every single day. Feedees who take pride in the variety and quality of what they put into their feedee. Feeders getting mad their feedee bought canned whipped cream because fresh is so much better and of course, there’s whipping cream already in the fridge just get the hand mixer out it takes like 20 seconds what are you doing with the Reddi-Whip. Feeders who make artisan ice cream just for their feedees. Feeders grinning at the U-Pick because they’re going to make pie, cobbler, jam, and summer berry wine for when their feedee wants something special after dinner. Feeders who have enough food skill to run a homestead if they really wanted to.

Give me cozy, loving, interesting, high-variety, quality over quantity style feederism that’s less about size and more about nurturing and the long, drawn-out path between “starting” and “ending.” Give me a leisurely walk in the inbetween instead of a sprint, and live your life in the meantime.

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Stuffed full of pasta and pesto bread

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Feeling heckin’ full

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important mini kink conversation (4.5 i guess)

it is GOOD to have kink centered PLATONIC relationships. people that you can discuss with, people you feel safe with, and people that you are not engaging in kink with.

these are the people that HELP you.

help you grow, learn and educate yourself.

HAVE KINKY PLATONIC FRIENDS

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Btw fat trans men are soooo hot and sexy and deserve to fuck nasty. Love them. ❤️

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Couch Training

A good piggy is a lazy piggy, so let’s all remember to spend plenty of time on the couch! I know in the beginning it might be hard to stay on the couch all day, but after a few weeks of denying yourself a walk around the neighborhood or a trip to the gym in exchange for the coziest spot in the house, you’ll forget all about exercise in no time!

Just like an athlete, it’s smart to prepare yourself for couch training, but instead of stretches we’ll be gathering supplies to keep us happy, comfy, and fed all day! Remember, when we’re prepared, we don’t have to get up!

Some handy piggy supplies might include your favorite blanket, some nice stretchy pajama pants for when you’ve been snacking, a nice big drink that you won’t have to refill, and of course, enough snacks to last you at least 3 hours! If you’re like me and you like variety, go ahead and bring everything you might want to eat into your piggy pad with you so that you don’t have to get up when you inevitably get hungry for it!

When it comes to couch training, lazy piggies shouldn’t look to accomplish much, but here are some activities to help keep you sedentary! There’s always tv to provide hours and hours of mind numbing entertainment, but don’t forget about movies, feedee podcasts, or even audio books! Having to actually read books might be hard for the lazier piggy, so don’t feel like you need to challenge yourself with any of those! Playing video games, scrolling TikTok, or watching dirty videos are other great options! Doing things that don’t require a lot of brain power is key!

Another good activity for couch piggies is playing with yourself, stuffing, or sexting/facetiming your feeder! If your feeder is home with you, you can always incorporate feedings into couch training, too, as a reward or incentive to not get up!

When you’ve thoroughly exhausted yourself by sitting on your ass and eating all day, it might be time for a much deserved nap! Couch training should include frequent naps so that the piggy doesn’t get too tired to eat!

If the piggy ever gets sore or feels the need to stretch after sitting for so long, try taking some pain meds and massaging your fat rather than getting up! If your feeder is home, ask them to rub you down to help with the soreness. There are also plenty of stretches piggies can do while remaining seated! You know you don’t really want to get up, so don’t!

After a few weeks of couch training, lazy piggies should notice that they’re sitting on the couch for at least 4 hours a day, but optimally 8 or 9 if you work from home! With any luck after a few months, your hips will be bigger than the couch cushions and you’ll be too fat to even consider getting up anymore!

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No more trans doom scrolling! Today we are embracing trans hedonism!

T4t love, polyamory, queer platonic relationships, and friendships are so beautiful! Embrace pleasure, embrace rest, embrace yourself and all those you love! Eat that cake, kiss that person, take that nap, enjoy your life! Today I call for an era of radical trans joy!

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I'm literally built like this lady, my followers know LMFAOOOOO. Follow me for pics of my Fat belly, ass, and thighs! You can catch em in all my posts! And feel free to hit my dms up! 🍑💞

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Reblog if you don't mind fat humiliation asks!

I don’t mind, I love hearing how I’ve let myself go,etc.

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Are you a PIG or a COW?

In this community, there is a reductive spectrum that mostly all feedees fall somewhere upon. Pigs and Cows. Some feedees are pigs. Some are cows. Most have a little bit of both.

Cows slowly graze, often mindlessly. These types of feedees willingly let their minds dim as they shut their thoughts off, chewing what's brought in front of them. Cows love having their tits played with and squeezed as they grow, having intrusive thoughts about their boobs being udders. They love having their heads rubbed and being rewarded/praised for how much they're eating. A cow may enjoy being hand-fed by a feeder while having their body rubbed and adored. They love praise and guidance, mentally surrendering by letting someone else do their thinking for them. Cows are more apt to have a breeding or lactation fixation. A cow naturally loves giving oral. Cows are extraordinarily submissive and willing to let the feeder grow them to the size the feeder wants, yet they will more commonly have weight limits. They'd gladly let you put a collar around their neck because they want to let the world know they belong to you. Cows love having a feeder and, more often than not, require having a feeder in their life to help them grow. They are very motivated to please someone else in the pursuit to fatten up.

Pigs get off to gaining weight, often enjoying rapid weight gain. They are more apt to stuff, loving the results that overconsuming can bring to their bodies. Pigs love being teased and humiliated about their weight and love having their growth pointed out. They love being spanked and degraded, called names, and stuffing themselves into outgrown clothes while seeking public humiliation. Pigs are more apt to enjoy eating on all fours, using their hands, or just going face first. They enjoy being funnel-fed by feeders or force-feedings. A pig may not enjoy giving oral, but like all of their fat counterparts, they're good at it. Pigs are a little more rebellious but can become submissive through the right food-related or sex-related incentive. The pigs may not have a weight limit but often have weight goals. Unlike cows, when pigs reach their goal weight, they move the needle to the next goal weight, unable to help themselves from chasing the thrill of gaining. More often than not, pigs get off to seeing the number of the scale going up. A pig doesn't necessarily need a feeder, given they are naturally able and motivated to grow. They are very motivated to please themselves in their pursuit to fatten up.

Feedees, are you a pig or a cow, or something in the middle? Not sure? I'll tell you what you are.

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in the mood for someone to secretly make me gain, gaslight me and give me more food without telling me, refill my drinks and shakes while i’m not paying attention, if I ask, play dumb. Watch as all of the work you’re putting in pays off, little by little you get to watch as I fill out my clothes more and more until they’re straining to keep all of my contained in them and when I bring it up make up some excuse, they shrunk in the wash, it never my fault nor yours

i need someone to make it so I struggle to find clothes that aren’t going to hug my skin and show off every new inch of me

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im kind of wide 😌🖤 reblog if you like wide girls

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RB IF YOU’RE A FAT ASF TRANS MASC :D (I’m so horny)