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My body is my only true home. even then, I’m borrowing her from the Earth

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things to do when your day's been bad

lie down on the floor beside your bed

take a shower, use the good soap

listen to a song you liked ages ago

write your thoughts out in all caps

draw a head and then 'decorate' that head however you're feeling (I drew a man with a hole for a face. It worked)

listen to a song and try to focus on one (1) instrument at a time, baseline, drums, guitar, another guitar, repeating sound effect

wash your face

take a nap or go to bed early

call someone. tell them about your horrible day or let them talk about theirs or both

go through your camera roll (specifically the screenshots folder)

go through your saved instagram posts / tumblr likes

watch That One Really Great Live Performance of That Artist You Love, then read the comments of everyone having great taste like you do

cry a little about it

remember that this day will end and another will begin. it'll be all new, never experienced before, no bad things will have happened, and you'll be okay.

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I hate when people ask me about my preference but I don’t understand their preference level. Like yes I kinda want Chinese food 10% more than I want a sandwich but if you want a sandwich like 40% more than Chinese food then I would say it’s totally reasonable we get sandwiches.

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what are you waiting for? someone to grant you permission? the perfect and permanent emotion? a shooting star to magic away every problem you have or ever have had? alright, wait away then. but no one is going to live your life for you while you wait to become someone else

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Martin Buxbaum

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― Sylvia Plath, The Unabridged Journals

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the thing about children is that they’re always delighting in the world in front of them.

wisdom to heal the earth, rabbi tzvi freeman / madeleine l’engle / grave of the fireflies (1998) dir. isao takahata / iroquoian woman, barbara alice mann / rainer maria rilke / star wars: attack of the clones (2002) dir. george lucas / the little prince, antoine de saint-exupery / the spirituality of parenting, david spangler

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the thing about children is that they’re always delighting in the world in front of them.

wisdom to heal the earth, rabbi tzvi freeman / madeleine l’engle / grave of the fireflies (1998) dir. isao takahata / iroquoian woman, barbara alice mann / rainer maria rilke / star wars: attack of the clones (2002) dir. george lucas / the little prince, antoine de saint-exupery / the spirituality of parenting, david spangler

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they laced this bread with olive oil and sundried tomatoes

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i had a joke about orpheus and eurydice but looking back it wasn't a good idea

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i want someone to keep a picture of me tucked inside a heart shaped locket but noo it’s always “what’s ur insta?”

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the phrase ‘this is my first time being alive’ has done wonders for me recently. Yeah, I don’t know how to navigate this situation! It’s brand new to me and I’m learning on the fly, aren’t humans such wonderfully adaptive creatures?

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gently pressing your head against your lover’s back while they cut vegetables, your lover sitting on the kitchen counter while you talk about your day at work and wait for the water to boil, giving them little pecks while they stir the vegetables, eating the food together, washing the dishes together… you know what i mean

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sorry i was passionate & intense & insane. it will happen again

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i will never understand the emphasis society places on romantic relationships. why is the ideal future always portrayed as living with your significant other in a happy, committed, romantic relationship? why is there a whole holiday dedicated towards romantic love? i've heard so many people i know say that they're so lonely because they aren't in a romantic relationship, and i can't help but wonder how are they lonely with so many friends around them? so many things have become romanticized to the point where people no longer think it's socially acceptable to do them with friends. maybe people would feel less lonely then if it was normal to hold hands with people, to give them your sweaters, to lay together on the couch while watching a show. human connection is so so so important. i will never understand how is it that in a world full of love, we only seem to idolize one part of it.

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May Sarton, The House by the Sea