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Do you have a snuggly F/O?

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shout out to the self shippers who are scared to talk about their f/o for some reason. maybe you’re scared of judgment or afraid someone will try to steal them from you or you’re embarrassed or you don’t feel like you’re heard so you don’t bother. I hope you can overcome your fear or find alternative ways to express your love💕you’re not any less valid than the people who are loud about their f/o!

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do you have an f/o who has DID (dissociative identity disorder)?

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your f/o would have protected you from whatever happened, by the way.

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i love being obsessed with awful people characters like omg he is soooo cute when he lies and schemes to get his way 😍😍😍

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fetishizing normalizing romanticizing sexualizing carmelizing that old man in my mind this morning

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Hot take/pet peeve but I absolutely HATEEEEEEEEEEE that OC x Canon and selfships are seen as the same by a lot of the fandom community that aren’t in selfshipping spaces. Bc as someone who selfships and enjoys OC x Canon it’s a pain in the ass to have to be like. “This character is not my self insert. I see her solely as an OC and I do not selfship with her canon partner” or “I actually project myself way more onto the canon character in this relationship than I do the OC. She’s not my self insert but the canon character basically is”. Every time I publish a new chapter of my fic I always put in the tags like guys I’m not a forty year old single mom she’s not my self insert

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So I prefer selfshipper

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Holding your f/o's waist from behind as they try to cook dinner on the stove, giggling quietly as you try to coax them into dancing to the radio with you 💕

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Imagine your f/o very seriously and earnestly informing you that rawr means i love you in dinosaur

🦖 🦕🦖🦕🦖🦕🦖🦕🦖🦕 <- dino parade

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Having a late night bus ride home while your f/o leans against you, knees touching and hands entwined ♡

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How do your F/Os like to reach out to you when they're missing you? Do they shoot a message asking for another hang out session? Maybe they just show up and quietly crash on your couch even if yall never directly do anything together? Do they start sending you a surplus amount of calls or messages, pretending like they aren't missing you when they very much clearly are? Do they send you a gift? Maybe they just flat out say that they enjoy your company and wanna schedule a next meet-up?

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Don't you see? You are so loved, so appreciated by your f/o. The love they have for you, the gratitude that fills their heart and soul, it goes beyond vocabulary. It would extend past the farthest corners of the earth and would reach past all of the stars in the sky and it would be deeper than the darkest depths of the sea and shine brighter than the sun.

You are cherished in ways you can't even imagine, please never forget that.

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Imagine cupping your F/O's face like a kitty cat's and kissing them all over it insistently while they squirm.

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To those with PTSD, C-PTSD, anything alike

You don't scare your f/os. They don't fear you. They don't think you're not valid just because you don't have more extreme responses to the trauma. Even if you have more extreme responses, they're still not scared of you. They won't run, hide or think you're weird or off putting for it.

If you have more silent responses, they can immediately sense it from you. They can feel it forming within you. They can feel the stress building up and the anxiety aswell. They can see it in your body language, your eyes, everything about you.

Weither it'd be a panic attack, flashbacks, or just sitting there, stiff as a rock, never being able to escape the moment or place that made you have these moments. They can see the inner turmoil building and will help you however they can, grounding techniques, smells, psychical touch, venting. Anything you need, they got it for you.

They'll always be there to remind you that you're valid and it's completely okay to have these feelings and resentment.

They don't care how long it takes, you'll ALWAYS be worth their time, they'll ALWAYS be there to help you through anything you'd want them to.

If you both have ptsd/c-ptsd, they know you both got each other's back.

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Pro.ship, ajacent, neutrals dni. Not proof read. Don't use my mental health affirmations as diagnosage. Do not reuse or edit.

Those who are experienced in treating ptsd, c-ptsd or have been diagnosed for a long time, please correct me on things if needed! Don't be hateful however. Please use tone tags.