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2022

Wow. Another year gone again. They say that the older you get, the quicker time passes. Turns out I've now only got one full year until I'm in my 30s. I do feel so grown up now. If 2021 was the year I learned, 2022 was the year I changed. Life is good again. I still have bad days. I still wake up some mornings after a bad dream and wish it would all go away. But most mornings I wake up with life in my belly.

I started writing this at the end of 2022, but I will finish it in January.

This was the first year since Covid that has been almost entirely normal. Hell, I can't even remember when we had to stop isolating for COVID, or when we stopped having to wear masks?

I've really tried to make the most of it. It can be hard. In the big city, with so many friends, yet sometimes so lonely. I knew it would never be perfect, and I give myself grace for when I go wrong. But absolutely I've done so many positive things this year. I've started dating again. And lots of it. More than I'd like if we're being honest. But it makes me feel alive to get that feeling in the pit of stomach when I send a text. It's disappointing when it doesn't work out, but I have to believe that good things are coming.

This time last year, I made a list of 'resolutions' to try and uphold. Some of them were tangible and others less so. They were as follows:

1. Keep practicing mindfulness. Renew affirmations - This one didn't go great. I still practice mindfulness from time to time, but not as often as I'd like. I think I've abandoned the idea of affirmations. I'm still working up the courage to try therapy.

2. Try something genuinely new or adventurous every month - this is fairly ambiguous. I've probably not fulfilled it, but I think I've gone a fair way toward it

3. Walk 3,650,000 steps in the year - absolutely smashed it, over 4,100,000.

4. Cook at least one new recipe a month- definitely tried some, but other factors sort of got in the way!

5. Don't fear being needy with friends. Message them - I've definitely done this a few times!

6. Take on at least one new project or challenge at work - I don't think there's one particular thing here, but I've definitely done loads of extra stuff, and got my promotion.

7. Say something nice when you can - can definitely do this more

8. Do something nice when you can - and this

9. Travel again - Yep! Ticked off 4 new countries, and some staycations too

10. Eat a little better - hmm

11. Volunteer for something - I definitely tried at times - I'll keep this in mind

12. Just try your best - most days I do my best, and any day that's not my best is forgiven.

At the end of this post I will consider some new resolutions for 2023. I think some will be more measurable.

For now though I shall continue with my review of this year, in the usual way.

Falklands Take 3 - With Rose wanting to move in with Chris, we had to move out of our flat. It felt like a perfect chance to go back to the Falklands, and not pay rent whilst I was there. Another opportunity to save up some more money. But more importantly, a chance to rewrite the narrative. I saw one of those inspirational Instagram posts that said 'Laugh in the places you've cried'. That really stuck with me. I can safely say that every single tear I cried in 2021 during my time down south was replaced with a laugh this year. None of this is to downplay some of the times I had in 2021, and particularly the positive impact the people around me had. But this year was all positive. Quarantine was only 5 days this time, and also in the UK. It wasn't fun like the year before, but it definitely went quicker. The next 12 weeks were an absolute blast. At work, I was the experienced one, the person to come to with questions. That felt empowering. The team were amazing. The mess was so much friendlier than it been subsequently. I had many fun nights drinking in the bar, or in Stanley. Some shifts were really fun. My birthday night we took over the mess and did karaoke. There was the night we dressed up to watch Antz in the common room. I finally managed to visit Sea Lion Island, and I returned again to Saunders. In my last week, we had a dinner party at Katie's house. Just the met team. I honestly don't think I've laughed that much in so long. The place is dark and haunting, and it can engulf you, but in a such a beautiful way. It exhibits and almost Stockholm Syndrome like hold on me. I'm genuinely so excited to go back.

Holidays - One of my goals was to travel again. I managed to tick off 4 countries (maybe 5?) In 3 trips. Me and Chris went to Kosovo and Macedonia as a cheap replacement for Norway, where we were supposed to do a marathon. It was a cheap time, but it was a great mix of city sightseeing with beers, a nice relaxing canyon trip, and a big mountain walk. For only 5 days we packed it all in. I then went to Athens and Brussels for a couple of nights each. They were really enjoyable in their own ways, but they did make me question how I should handle my solo trips now. I thought I'd treat myself to hotels, but it just made me a bit lonely. Maybe a rethink this year.

Weddings with uni people - 2 sets of my uni friends got married this year. Will and Pippa in August, then Luuk and Georgina in November. They were both so beautiful in different ways. For Will and Pippa we made a long weekend in Devon out of it. I don't get the chance to spend that much time with these guys these days, so it felt like a real throw back. Similarly for Luuk and Georgina's, it felt so wholesome. I hope I can hang out with this lot a bit more this year.

Bill's wedding - this was special in a different way, as he asked to me be his best man, just before I left for the Falklands. It didn't allow me to help in any way whatsoever, nor to sort a stag. I felt bad, but I couldn't do anything about it to be fair. I was so proud to have that honour. It's good to know that I have friends like that.

Ashbury - as always. What a privilege to spend 3 days with the best ones from the first days. I'm so glad we're still a tight group, and I'd love to hang out with them more.

It feels a bit empty to have such few things here. I think maybe that's one of the positives this year. It's been moments and days that have been excellent. And there's been loads of them. Just vibes.

I do need to dedicate some space to my Nanny. She passed away at the end of the year after a few months of deterioration. I miss her terribly. My grandad is still not himself now, although my mum is back to normal, on the outside at least. I am so glad I came back to Bristol fairly regularly in those months, to get to see her one last time. Love you.

And we come to my goals for 2023. Last year I decided to make goals that would enable me to slightly alter the way I live my life. Goals to encourage me to do more, and pay more attention to the relationships I have with friends and family. This year I want to be more specific with some of them. And so.

Run a sub 4 hour marathon

Run a sub 1:45 half-marathon

Send a V4 bouldering route

Be able to do 20 pull ups (maybe a bit tricky, but stretch goals init)

Travel more again

Go camping

Eat better

Do more things that frighten me

Get out of bed!

Try therapy (haven't done it for the last two years so not expecting big things from myself here)

Be proud of myself

These goals have some more physical aspects to them, and some pretty specific. I feel like I'm currently in the shape of my life, and I need to make the most of it. I should be in my prime so why not help myself.

2023 feels like it's going to be a transition year for me. I am going to the Falklands again in September for the end of the year. It will feel like a bit of a time bomb, especially when it comes to summer. I'm expecting big changes in 2024, and this year is leading up to it. Maybe that means it's a really good chance to have loads of fun. Make the most of my 20's and all that.

All I ask of myself is to do my best. To embrace change, but hold on to what matters. Spend time with family, with friends. Work on myself. Bad days are just that.

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2021

 I’m a bit annoyed as I started to write this a few days ago, but didn’t save a draft so I guess it’s my fault. 

 I didn’t publicly post my 2020 summary, but I did write one. This year I’m going to post this no matter what I end up writing. I’m planning to be pretty straight up and candid. There’s something that feels pretty freeing about knowing that I can post this in public, but also that nobody will read it. I don’t want to focus too much on the bad parts here, but I also think it’s such a key part that I have to.

 The reason I didn’t post last year’s summary was mainly because it wasn’t really a summary I normally do. I was dumped on NYE, after a week or two of being put in a really horrible situation where I was left with no idea what was going on. It was the trigger for what has been the worst year of my life. It seems ironic to say that I didn’t do a post for 2020, which I consider the best year of my life, yet I’m doing one for the worst. The break up was a trigger for me to completely re-evaluate my life, my brain and my body, my relationships with others, and my relationship with myself. I still have a long way to go in the healing process, but that is the way it is supposed to go. You can’t heal yourself in a few months. You can never heal yourself fully. It’s an ongoing process.

 I am happy in the knowledge now that I���ve come to the end of this year as a better person. 

 Back to the start of the year. We were in a newly announced lockdown. Amy broke up with me over the phone from thousands of miles away. It sounds silly, but Liverpool decided they could no longer play football. All of the good things in my life, the things I enjoy, the people I love, being taken away from me. Now, I’m not naïve or arrogant enough to believe that what I was going through was the worst thing anyone can deal with. I’m hyper-aware that in the grand scheme of things, this is a fairly minor issue. But I was taught at some point not to under sell your issues. Just because someone else is going through something worse, it doesn’t mean that your own issues are unimportant or don’t matter - as long as you are aware of the overall significance in the world. 

 I have written privately about all the things that Amy put me through, and all the thoughts I have had, most of which have twisted and altered themselves as the year has slowly passed. The feelings I had from January through to around April were ripping my heart apart, and tearing my mind into pieces. I have never had to experience the loss of someone close to me. One set of my grandparents have died, and although that upset me a lot at the time, I only ever saw them a couple of times a year, and of course at an elderly age, it’s never quite so much of a shock. Without considering it directly, in a way you spend your whole life preparing yourself for that. This was something new. I felt unloved, and I felt abandoned. Anyone who knows me really well will know that I have always struggled to allow myself to get close with someone. I don’t really know why that is. The whole timing of what happened, with Amy being away and not actually speaking to her at any point left me with so many questions. By the time I went away to The Falklands at the end of February I thought I was starting to deal with things. 

 Going to the Falklands again; the place where I’d met Amy, where I’d fallen for Amy, where we had done so many things together, was always going to be tough. When I arrived and was put in quarantine for two weeks, I was worried that so much time with little else to do but think would send my head into disarray. The reality was different. I began to realise there were hours at a time where Amy didn’t occupy my thoughts. Perhaps this was the beginning of better times. 

 Upon release from quarantine, I began to visit all the places that meant more to my relationship with Amy. The office, where our names where on the wall together from our balloon. Stanley, where we’d been on dates together, and places that reminded me of specific days, of specific conversations. The bedroom opposite mine which had been Amy’s. A door I had once knocked on and found happiness. My old room, which I had once heard knock, and my heart skipped a beat knowing who it was. This really got me back into a bad place. There are a few people I’m extremely grateful to for getting me through the next month. The people who answered the phone when I rang them because I was finding myself in tears in my bedroom for no reason in the middle of the day. The people who sat with me and let me just talk, and then talked back about their own problems. The people who just listened, and those who showed me things about how to support myself. 

 Eventually, and I remember exactly when I felt the tide change, things improved. It was a series of events over a few days. Firstly, a conversation I had with Sophie, one of the Army officers in the mess, who also happened to be one of Amy’s good friends. I was able to remove her as a trigger for thinking about Amy, and she was able to become her own person in my mind. The next week I got my first vaccine, and whilst in the med centre, I finally worked up the courage to book to see a doctor. I did that the following day. He was able to reassure me that I was going through normal processes, and that I wasn’t depressed, and that he wasn’t worried about me. He gave me tips to help me sleep. A couple of days later it was my birthday, and it felt like a real turning point. 

 Ever since my birthday, I have focussed on things I can actually do for myself. The progress I have made on myself is so far beyond what I could have considered possible. This isn’t to say I feel like everything is better. If I’m being totally honest, I do still feel bad sometimes. I still have bad dreams where I’m abandoned over and over. But I go whole days where I barely think about Amy now. She is still important to me, but I really believe I have so much to thank her for. She gave me a chance to love, but also she inadvertently gave me the push I needed to really make changes in my life to become better. In all honesty, I still love her. I want to say, I love you. I miss you. Fuck you. You can’t fall out of love with someone, but you can change the way you love them. I now think about Amy and reminisce in a similar way to university. I would absolutely love to go back to university for a week or two, back with all my friends, going out and partying, having fun every day. But I’m so far beyond that now. I have outgrown that life. Amy is the same. I would do anything to go back and have a week, two weeks, a month with her. But I have outgrown her. I have outgrown my old self.

 With that I’m going to move onto what is mainly the second part of the year, where I can mention some of my favourite things that have happened. One thing I told myself in April was that I had grown lazy with life. I wasn’t looking for challenges, for new adventures. I forced myself to try things that I hadn’t before. I ran an ultramarathon. I learnt to roller-skate (not that well). I started to climb. The last couple of months I’ve maybe fallen back into some bad habits, but I’m going to partially blame a couple of injuries, some bad shift patterns, and obviously the poorer weather. It is partly down to me losing that desire to get on with things, but in some ways again that’s a good thing. It means my mind is transferring itself back to a normal mind. Hopefully it has changed still. In acknowledgement of this, I’m going to set myself some New Year Resolutions, though not in the strictest sense.

 Without further ado, in the style of previous years, here are a number of my favourite moments:

1. Ultramarathon

 I signed up to run an ultramarathon in February. 100 KM. I was in crisis mode, and needed a challenge. What a challenge it was. I’m a mediocre runner; reasonably athletic, moderate stamina, average strength of mind. I’d run a marathon before, and a couple of halves over 5 years ago, but had only just started running again properly at the turn of the year. I don’t know what part of the process I’m most proud of. Throughout the summer I had to maintain discipline with my training programme. I probably wasn’t quite able to do as much as I planned, but by the end I was using up most of my days off running 20-50 KM. The day itself is a strange one. There was no way I was ever going to give up, out of sheer embarrassment. 

 What felt like at the time was the longest day ever, all feels like a bit of a blur to me now. I remember the oddest feeling being at the 80 KM mark, where the sun was close to setting. I was thinking to myself, “just a half marathon to go”. I’d been going for about 12-13 hours at this point. Most people I know have never gone that far in one go in their life, and here I was, saying there’s only 20 KM left, after already doing 80 KM. I ended up about 2 hours slower than I’d have liked, but to be fair it was much tougher than I thought. About 15 minutes after finishing, I burst into tears, and I didn’t really stop for about 2 hours. I couldn’t sleep my legs and back were in so much pain. It’s not something I’ve ever really said before, and that’s through genuine lack of belief, but I was so proud of myself that day. It’s something that’s cropped up a few times this year, and that can only be a good thing. I’m a still mediocre runner; reasonably athletic, good stamina, monster strength of mind.

Who knows what runs I sign up for next year, all depends on how quickly I can heal this ankle!

2. Friends, New and Old

 So easily underappreciated. I have lots of friends, all of which have their own special relationship to me. Some I speak to all the time, but generally only about superficial things. Some I rarely speak to or see, but when I do we are there for each other in a meaningful way. Others fall somewhere in between. No matter what type of friend they are, I have become so much more aware of their presence, and so much more grateful for it. God knows how bored some of my friends must have got with me talking and talking about things at the start of the year. But they put up with it. From then I realised I need to cherish moments with them more. A great example of this is my friends from school. Rob and Emma got married in September, and it was such a good day. We got to celebrate them, but also spend time together. I don’t think I’m the only one that realised something that day. I’ve since seen much more of some of them than I had previously, whether that’s coming back to Bristol for the weekend, having a meal with the London lot, or something as organised and large-scale as Ashbury. 

 I also managed to make some new friends. The first time I went to the Falklands I made some friends, some of which I still speak to sometimes, but mostly they faded away. They’re friends for when you’re there, but everyone knows that when you get home that’ll be it, other than a like on your new profile picture here, and a happy birthday there. This time I really feel like I made some great friends to continue for years to come. The office this time had such a feeling of togetherness, with everyone going through something, it really warms my heart to think about seeing smiles on their faces.

3. Football

 There was a time during my healing process that I decided I let football dictate my life too much. I let it dictate my mood too much, but also my schedule. I made some mental changes to try and remove it from being a big part of my life. I think in my head it was one thing that Amy didn’t like about me. Since the summer though, I have come to realise that it isn’t me. I love football, and I love cricket. They make me feel passion, and that’s a good thing. I think towards teh end of the year I have managed to strike a good balance. I will no longer put off other plans to watch a football match. I will no longer let it ruin my day to the same extent it used to. But I still feel that same passion, I still look forward to kick off on game day. That will never change.

4. Family

 In a similar way to friends, it is very easy to forget how much your family mean to you, and how much they do for you. I actually managed to open up to my mum about things I was feeling at the start of the year, and I really think it helped our relationship. We’re closer now as people, rather just parents and son. The idea of impermanence has become more of a theme to my thoughts. Not in a negative way, but in a way that makes me want to embrace time with my family more. My nephew has turned into a little person now, and my niece, who was born while I was away, is growing every day. My grandparents are getting ever older, so I want to maximise time I have with all of them.

5. Wembley  

 How can I not mention this. We somehow managed to get tickets for the England v Germany last 16 game at Wembley. Quite a few of us managed to get tickets. I think what made it really special was that it was everyone’s first real foray into this type of atmosphere and event since Covid. Speaking of Covid, this was also where I contracted Covid for the first time! The atmosphere was amazing, I was with my friends, and I got to see us beat Germany. What a day that was by the way.

6. Work

 I’ve never been too worried about my work. It’s not something I’m particularly passionate about, but I enjoy it some of the time, and I think I’m pretty good at what I do. Along with being less lazy in life, I wanted to apply that to work. As I was in the Falklands at the time, it was pretty simple to begin with. I think I did a really good job. Since returning, I’ve decided that even if this is a job I don’t want to be doing for years to come, I should still try and be as good as I can. I’ve started working quite often on the senior bench, with the idea of promoting next year some time. I’m going back to the Falklands with confidence, rather than trepidation I had last time. I’m still pretty sure I’ll be out of this job in 2/3 years time, but the way I handled work this year is genuinely another thing I’m proud of. The particular incident will be talked about in job interviews for years to come. The calm and assurance I had when making the decision about whether the emergency medevac could go or not was the first time I realised how competent I was. I was proud of how I handled it, and how I have dealt with everything since - nothing I ever forecast again is going to have that pressure.

And so onto the New Year.

I am so keen to continue the progress I have made this year to heal and better myself. If I stagnate it can only be a bad thing, but I cannot punish myself when I do. I am finally ready to move on and date again, I can feel it. I go away again in February, and return in May. It’s so important to me that I overcome what ate me up last time, and I make the most of my trip this time. When I return, hopefully there’s not much Covid to worry about, and I can really make the next step with my life. I will have to move in somewhere new, which could lead to new friendships and opportunities. I’m going to get myself a car again, to open up my options of adventure. This is the year of me.

Resolutions

 I am writing a list of goals, rather than resolutions as such. There is no pressure for me to keep to anything, just try.

1. Keep practising mindfulness. Renew affirmations. Continue to work up the courage for therapy.

2. Try something genuinely new or adventurous every month.

3. Walk 3,650,000 steps in the year.

4. Cook at least one new recipe every month

5. Don’t fear being needy with friends. Message them!

6. Take on at least one new project or challenge at work

7. Say something nice when you can.

8. Do something nice when you can.

9. Travel again

10. Eat a little better

11. Volunteer for something

12. Just try your best

 Maybe they aren’t tangible goals with a clear and concise measurement metric. But that’s definitely a good thing. Just ways to live my life.

 Goodbye to 2021. I will not forget you, for you have taught me so much. But I will leave behind the sadness and the fear that you created in me. And so, almost a year to the minute since my world changed, I am changing my world.

 New year, new me. 

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Things of the year - 2019

I accidentally called last year’s post 2019 - I was very confused when looking back through. The actual 2019 has been another hectic rollercoaster ride. Many good points, many not so good. Who’d have thought I would be sat writing this on the other side of the world in the Falkland Islands?

1. Move to Belfast

I knew since around last November that I would be having to move to Belfast in the spring time. It was frustrating not knowing exactly when I would be going, but I was quietly excited. I eventually found out I would move in early April, just after a week’s leave I took around my birthday at home. It’s been an interesting and good experience. Although there are difficulties within the job making it hard to make friends, I’ve enjoyed my time in Belfast. It’s been good to experience life in what is a similar culture, but markedly different in certain ways. I’ve definitely learnt alot, and to be fair, if it was easier to get over to England for things I would probably be more than happy to stay. 

2. Falklands

 Clearly the major event of my year, it’s been a complete roller coaster of a time. Four months in, with another to go, I can honestly say I’m so glad I came down here. Yes, at this point, I am really looking forward to going home, but I’ve experienced so many amazing things that I will never ever get a chance to do again (and I’ve saved up some cash money to boot). The work heavy nature of our office down here has absolutely exhausted me, only having one day off in a week doesn’t give you much time to recover, but I’ve still found time to see some incredible wildlife (penguins, sea lions etc.) and see some great scenery. I’ve made some friends from living in such close proximity, and some other special experiences such as getting to look out the back of an A400, and swimming with dolphins in the 8 degree Suuth Atlantic . It’s definitely also made me more confident professionally which always helps. I will completely consider returning at some point (If i still do this job!) 

3. Morocco

In June I had a week’s leave booked but nothing planned. I love an adventure and a challenge so after copious googling, I found that a good trek at that time of year that wouldnt be too expensive was to tackle Mount Toubkhal in Morocco, the highest peak in North Africa, in the Atlas Mountains. Peej, Olly and Russ joined me, and it was a class experience. The views were stunning, and it was hard work walking in 30 degrees and then going to freezing temperatures the next morning to get to the top. We then spent a few days in Marrakech, which was another cool place - though not my favourite place I’ve visited. 

4. Weekends home

Being so far away in Belfast made the couple of occasions I was able to come home to Bristol that bit more special, especially now Hannah and Will have moved back down. I came back for the weekend twice, once just for one night because of my annoying shifts. Both weekends were organised with the boys (and girls) and we were lucky they were both beautiful weekends. The first was a night to say goodbye to the garage (RIP) and then the other to say goodbye to Rach before she left for NZ / say hi to Glen while she was visiting back from NZ! It’s class to spend time being stupid with the guys and i can’t wait for the next one. The second weekend was also Alfie’s first birthday! He’s growing up so fast, it’s going to be mad to see him after 5 months when I get home. That day also happened to be the day England won the cricket world cup. What a moment, I’ll never forget it.

5. Birmingham

I always love a trip back to Brum, and I got to do 2 this year. The first was the standard Paddy’s day visit, which this year doubled up with a surprise party for Beard. Most of that crew were there and it was probably the first time I’ve been there with that many people from uni since we left. The second time was for the 10th Anniversary of the UoB GAC dinner, which was another great weekend. There was so many people there I really dont and wont get to see in any other setting.

6. Friends and Portugal

I took a week of leave in late August, which finally allowed me to have people come visit. Within a week, I had Coz come to visit, I went to Faro in Portugal for a couple of days, and then Hook and Peej came to visit. When the boys came I did far too much drinking, but it was nice to be able to show people round Belfast. I was only in Faro for a couple of nights, but it was nice to get some hot weather (doesn’t exist in Belfast apparently), and a little bit of relaxation.

7. Worcester

Lowri is normally good at organising things for her birthday, and this year was no different. Rather than the standard Cardiff visit, she organised a Murder Mystery party and we got a big Airbnb house near Worcester to do it. It’s the only time this year I got to see most of the old house crew, and i t was such a fun and chilled weekend.

8. March

Politics in 2019 have not been a good memory. Brexit is now going to happen, which is pretty shit. There have been a series of marches in protest against it, and in March, I went along to one with Hook and Dill. It was a long tiring day, but it was a great experience to be amongst all that positivity, and then we went for alot of beers which is also fun.

9. Liverpool

I can’t not talk about how football has made me happy. What a year it’s been, with us winning the Champion’s League, Super Cup and Club World Championship. The Barcelona match at Anfield was just insane. To top it all off, we’re in the best possible position to go and finally win the league. We;ve not done it in my lifetime, so I have no idea what it will feel like, but i have all my fingers crossed.

Going into the new year, I have some things already to look forward to. I’ve another month in the Falklands to make the most of, and then I get to go home which will be so exciting when it comes close. Then I’m going to New Zealand for 3 weeks which should be class, and then I’ll come home and move back to London. From that point on, I have 0 plans and 0 clue what will happen, but hopefully I won’t have to move again for quite some time, and I’ll finally be able to settle somewhere. Who knows.

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Things of 2019

 Lord knows why I am still doing this. I am though. 

 Thinking of things to write has made me realise that this year has been a little bit plain for me, and short of just describing every weekend I’ve been away, I have struggled to think of many things to discuss. It’s probably mainly due to this is the first year I’ve worked full time for the entire year. Coupled with the fact I’ve barely taken half of my annual leave it adds up to a quiet year in terms of meaningful events. A couple of major things have changed my life, and many more minor things. 

1. My nephew was born

14/07/2018. Alfie is now the absolute light of my life. Was so proud of my sister and brother-in-law when he was born. Meeting him was a delight. Being able to spend the last week of the year with him was so special. I can’t wait to watch and help him grow up.

2. Moved to London

My job (which I still don’t know if I like or not) took me to Exeter last year, and in August brought me to London. Obviously London has it’s flaws. I have always said I didn’t want to live in London. I feel differently now. You can miss out on alot if you’re not in London. It’s been nice to see more of friends that live here that I wouldn’t normally see much of. Knowing I won’t be here very long has meant I haven’t fully immersed myself in a sustainable lifestyle, which has left me feeling very unsettled. I’ve also met some special people here, and they make me sad that I have to leave.

3. Short Holidays

 The small amount of leave I took this year has allowed me to go on a few short trips. In March, I went to Riga with Ed, Chris, Rose and Helen. We also went to Stockholm in November. I’m glad I have this crew to go away with. Most of my friends either have a closer set of friends they go away with or a partner, which means I’m fairly restricted on people to go on holiday with. I also went to France for a few days with the family. This included a night in Nice on my own - a good reminder that travelling alone can be enjoyable. My dad and I also went to The Hague for a couple of nights with my uncles and cousins which was really nice. I would definitely like to enjoy a longer trip somewhere next year.

4. Ashbury

They say you lose touch with your friends as you grow older. This is happening to an extent. However, although we don’t all see each other too often, it’s so special we’re still able to try and find the time to do so when we can. Rob organised a trip down to Devon to stay in a hotel with loads of sports facilities and it was one of the best weekends of the year. Christmas Eve also continues to show this, and I hope it will for a long time to come, until everyone starts families etc.

5. Summer

 This summer was a belter. The weather was amazing, footy and love island on the telly, trips to the pub and the beach. It felt free of responsibility, which perhaps it was to an extent. My job was definitely at a relaxed point, something I won’t see again. It’s such a shame that I’d started to really feel comfortable and happy in Exeter when I had to leave again.

 2019 will involve more huge changes for me. In a couple of months I will be moving to Belfast. I didn’t get to choose this, and to be honest, I keep yo-yo-ing as to whether I’m excited or not. There will be lots of opportunity there but I don’t think I will want to stay there long term, which will make it hard to settle. I may find that I love it, and with all my heart I hope I can. At this point though it just feels like I’m having to close doors that could be interesting to leave open wide, and they do feel like lost opportunities. 

It also looks like I’ll be spending next winter working in The Falkland Islands. I’ll be honest, I don’t think I’ll enjoy it after the initial wow factor has worn off and I’ve seen all the penguins and seals. It’s financially incredibly beneficial though so it seems likely to be a good idea. I can’t see my feelings towards next year being any more positive than I am being here (maybe because I’m writing this hungover with the blues, watching Taylor Swift’s Reputation tour video). Let’s hope for more though

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Things of the Year - 2017

It’s that time of the year again. 2017 has been the most life changing year. I read back on my 2016 post in which I stated how I had no idea what was going to happen, and in no way could I have predicted what I’ve done. A number of major changes have taken place for me, leaving me with what I can only describe as a feeling of contentment and confidence. 

 I started the idea with no plans or goals and ended up in a new town, at a new job and went on the trip of a lifetime.

1. Travelling

 It’s strange how things happen without plans. From no desire to travel, to going to South America with pals to going to India on my own, my plans seemed to change every month! Looking back I’m so glad I ended up going alone, as it allowed me to fully immerse myself in the experience. I ticked 4 countries off the list - Qatar, Sri Lanka, Nepal and India. I met some incredible people and saw some incredible things. There were some bad points where I felt lonely, or I felt ill, but these are so insignificant compared to the magic I experienced. I’ve now got the travel bug and I can’t wait to see where I end up going next.

2. Moving

 My life has taken a proper step in the direction of the real world. After months of applications, I finally managed to land a job as a Trainee Operational Meteorologist at the Met Office. This has also meant a big move, uprooting myself and heading on down to Exeter. I only moved in November so at this time I’m still finding my feet, both at work and in my social life. Fingers crossed I can get myself stuck in this year. It’s also going to be interesting as I will be spending 6 months away from Exeter - in an as yet unknown location!

3. Windmill

 I didn’t particularly enjoy my life as a barman and waiter at the windmill. There were a lot of days where it was hard work for very little reward. But behind all that, I really enjoyed working with a great bunch of people, and we had a lot of fun both in and out of work. When it came to it, I was actually quite sad to leave.

4. Menorca

 The first thing I did upon quitting was go on a short holiday to Menorca with Chris, Rose and Helen. It was my first holiday in absolutely ages and it was so needed. I hadn’t really spent that much time with these guys since uni so it was nice to have a few days drinking cold ones, swimming and kayaking. And eating Lays. The weather was perfect too.

5. Driving

 It was foolish of me not to learn to drive in sixth form. 6 years later, I was delighted to pass my test. First time as well. It opened up more opportunities and freedom, and allowed me to go a small way to repaying countless lifts I’ve received from friends and family. Next step is to get a car!

6.  Ross on Wye

  I returned from travels desperate to see people. I had really missed them whilst I was away, so to have a weekend away with the old house from uni was perfect. It’s hard now to see much of people so it’s important to take every opportunity before friendships start to fade as some inevitably will. 

7.Rough Runner

 This was a very fun day in the summer where myself, Chris, Low, Jarvis, Billingsley and Patrick ran a big ol’ inflatable obstacle course. It was a lovely day of laughs and fun, followed by beers and beers. 

 The amount of changes that have occurred this year is huge. I’m not sure I can handle another year of that. But regardless, it almost feels like my life is almost just starting now, as I become a proper adult. By the end of the year I hope to have a car and my own flat, I’ll know where I’m going to be settling and will hopefully have had the opportunity to do some amazing things. Working full time leaves less time for interesting things, but hopefully it will make them even more special!

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Things of the Year - 2016

 My traditional review of the year to ensure I don’t forget things is late this year but still here. As with last year I’m not putting a number on the moments I discuss, just the ones I remember. 

2016 was, as for many other people, quite a shit year for me. It’s difficult to put my finger on specific aspects that made it so bad, but this new year was the first time I have ever genuinely felt as though I needed something of a new start. Despite having spent a good chunk of 2016 feeling low, there have been a vast array of fun and fantastic things that I have been lucky enough to be a part of. Besides the things I mention here, there are loads of little things that I will hope to remember that will bring a smile to my face.

1. St Paddy’s

 Every year since I joined Gaelic I had intended on going to the parade on St Patrick’s day, and every year I had been too hungover from fab to bother. As this would be my final year I was determined to make it, especially after hearing all the stories of how amazing it is. It definitely did not disappoint. From starting the day with a green pint at 10 am, to drinking whiskey in a college auditorium all afternoon, it was undoubtedly one of the best days I had at uni. The atmosphere was incredible, and who doesn’t love day drinking?

2.  T20 Drinking & Sport’s Night

 Speaking of day drinking, on the final Wednesday of second term was my last ever sports night. To celebrate this, as it also coincided with England v Afghanistan in the World T20, Jay, Storinho and I decided to make a T20 drinking game. Oh, and the game started at 9am. It wasn’t the most exciting game ever, and we don’t remember it all, but it was a good laugh, especially when the Mango Moeen rule came through. We went to play football in the afternoon then napped before sports night, where we went to different houses for pre’s. It was possibly one of the best sport’s nights ever, which is saying something!

3. Gradball

 I went to gradball in 2015 too, but 2016 gradball was a slightly different experience, and I think possibly better too. I didn’t know as many people there as the year before, so I was able to spend more time with my close friends, especially when they played Will Grigg’s on Fire live. The fab after party was better than last year too, because more people stayed to the end.

4. Budapest

 Best week of the year hands down. As per, too much happened to put down in one paragraph, but I have to say that the day we spent in the Spa was probably my favourite day of the year. We were all hungover so a relaxing day was needed, but I had no idea how good it would be. It’s essentially just a swimming pool, but to sit on the side with a beer or two and watch the Euro’s with loads of mates was fantastic. On the way home we drove little car things through the park which was hilarious and topped it off with a boat party that nobody remembers. So much else happened, and it was just amazing.

5. Wedding

 This was a big year for my family because in August my sister got married and Will joined the family. It was such a special day with loads of family and family friends around, and everything went perfectly! I had to do a reading in the church which was nice and I actually got really emotional for about a week afterwards. 

6. International Rules

 After trying for three years, we finally won international rules. I was only allowed to play on a technicality because I had already left uni. We did only win because they combined the girls score with ours, but they were the rules and we won. Meant we had a big night to celebrate!

7. Graduation

 Graduation the second time round was basically the same as the first, if not even worse considering I had less friends around and I was super hungover. But it did mean I got to go back up for a sports night (which granted I don’t remember). It was strange being back in the uni environment, and I felt so old and mature which was odd. Fun still.

8. Project

 This is called ‘Things of the Year’, so they don’t necessarily have to be good. Summer was a really strange period for me, because although I did loads of fun things dotted around, the majority of the time I was quite bored and lonely. I had a few people around, but it wasn’t the nicest of summers. My project is bitter-sweet for me, as I can’t say I enjoyed particularly, but it is something I am proud of, and I worked really hard for. Getting food poisoning the night before the deadline was the worst timing possible, but in some ways it compounded my relief at the end of it all.

9. Summer Night Out

 Glen and Ritchings had a joint birthday night out down Gloucester Road in July which I had to come down from Birmingham for, but it was definitely worth it. Basically everyone was around for it, which is becoming rarer and rarer these days. It’s sad that people have all moved around but it’s nice catching up with people when you do get to see them. It was a really nice evening and we all just had a quality time.

10. Juliette’s 

 One of the fun outings in summer was when Piz, Beard and I went down to Juliette’s in Oundle for a night. Some of her other friends were there and we just had a BBQ and beers and it was just a really nice summer evening. The next morning we went for breakfast and a swim in this pond/pool place which was perfect. It was so relaxing and for the day I completely forgot about all my project.

11. Winning the League

 We won the league in third year, and without games being postponed, this would have been on the Things of 2015. However, we went into our final game in January needing to beat Hallam away, after they had beaten us at home. We produced one of our best ever performances and destroyed them 46 - 8, which is insane. I even grabbed myself a rare point! It was even better than winning the year before because we had come from 6 points behind with 2 games to go, and doing it as captain made it one of my proudest moments.

12. Playing Cricket Again

 I have always been mad about cricket, and I can’t really remember why I stopped playing when I was about 15, but this summer I decided to join a team in Birmingham and play again. I only ended up playing two games because I was so busy, but I picked up a couple of wickets in my first game, then in my second game I had the same guy dropped 4 times and ended with a solid 1*. Hopefully I will play again this year, wherever that may be.

13. Soccer AM 

 This is the final thing, and I have chosen to put the most surreal experience here. I grew up watching Soccer AM on a Saturday morning, and when I got the chance to appear on it, I couldn’t say no. Jay and I had to pretend to be Burton fans, and we were put up in a hotel the night before. It was strange seeing everything from behind the camera. My big regret was missing my shot at Neuer and only getting one shot. It was a mad day, but one I won’t forget.

 I think by doing these every year, when I look back it will help me remember the positive things I have done. I don’t want to look back in 5 years and remember 2016 as the year I got really stressed for the first time in exams, or when I felt lonely in the summer, or low when I couldn’t get a job in the autumn. Everyone has low points and 2016 just happened to have a few extra for most people.

 I am so excited for 2017 and what it might bring. It’s the first time I’ve ever gone into a new year and had absolutely no clue what will happen at any point. I am working at The Windmill for now, but at any point one of my job applications could finally come good and I could be off somewhere else to start my adult life properly. Whatever happens I am going to try to be positive about everything, and really make the most of it.

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Things of the year

In a radical change from my normal post, I am not naming 15 things of 2015. I am just naming things of the year, with no aim for a specific number of things. I will continue to do this for myself to look back on, but my descriptions won’t be anywhere near as long!

1. Krakow

 Possibly the best week of my life. ‘Tour’ with the gaelic boys and girls has become the best part of the year. Galway in 2014 was amazing, but Krakow was even better. Despite the horrors of travelling to Stansted over many hours over different buses, I was still buzzing when we arrived in the late afternoon. It is folly to list everything funny that happened; that is all described in the sleeve we created in the funniest ever McDonald’s. To say I spent the entire time laughing is so close to true it’s unbelievable. We mixed in all the fun of drinking with actually quite alot of culture too, and Krakow is such a beautiful city.

2. Amsterdam

  It was so nice to have a trip away with the physics boys before the start of the uni year. I have to say that Amsterdam was fantastic, and is probably the only overseas place I’ve been that I could consider living in. The night before we went out for Hannah’s birthday in Midsomer Norton which was hilarious and then flying drunk was fun too. The weekend was so chill, and we got a good chance to see loads of culture and experience Dutch things which was cool.

3. FinFest

 Finlay’s birthday party in the summer was in Norwich, which is well far away. It meant I had to get the bus to Birmingham and then we drove down the next morning. The weather was on point and he had a bug garden with a huge hog roast and silent disco and beers and it was just loads and loads of fun.

4. Stafford

 Similar to Finlay’s, Ellie had a ‘surprise’ party which wasn’t a surprise. It was nice to see people after a while of summer and hang out for one of the last times. A night out in Stafford was another interesting one! 

5. Graduation

 This was both boring and surreal at the same time. Drove up with my parents early in the morning, then had to go through the arduous ceremony before meeting outside for food and pictures etc. It didn't feel quite right considering most of my course mates weren't graduating so it didn't feel like it was completely ending for me, which as it turns out it hadn’t. I decided to stay the night after and we went out for drinks with some of the guys and girls which was fun.

6. Taylor Swift

 Everyone knows how much I love Taylor. The amount of times I’ve gotten up for 9am for tickets and not managed to get any had infuriated me far too much. This year I finally managed to get 2 tickets for her headlining the British Summer Time festival in Hyde Park. The night before I had gone out and then slept on the trampoline with Cozza and Sean and then my Sister came and picked me up. It was quite a long day including some decent artists like Ellie Goulding. Taylor was on for quite a long time but it felt like 5 minutes it was so amazing. I will always remember it,

7. Gradball

 This was such an amazing and interesting night. You couldn’t go 10 meters without bumping into someone you know and stopping for a chat. It meant that I didn’t really do anything for the whole time except chat to people, which was why it was so good. Fab after was good but should not have stayed till 6am, what a bad idea. 

8. Sports Ball

 This was the third night of an end of exams session and fab n friday and then awards night. It was fun to be involved in the big sports event of the year. It wasn’t as big a deal as I thought it would be, but followed by the after party it was quite a memorable night.

9. Stratford

 At the end of the year we had an away game cancelled, but we were unable to cancel the minibus, so we decided to have a day out in Stratford. We didn’t do much except walk around a bit and go to the pub, but we were so excited for it and I would have regretted not going.

10. Marathon

 I’ve put my half marathons in previous year’s things, but they were nothing on this. It was the toughest thing I’ve ever done (apart from Will Farr’s Planets exam) but it was so rewarding. Despite not enjoying it at all, and not generally enjoying running, I have a real urge to run another. And maybe train.

11. VK and Cheese Night

 This year we have started enjoying an orange VK or two, so in the Core 4 we decided to have a definitive taster night. It was a weird and random thing to do, but every time we do something we just laugh loads.

12. Manchester

 Champs weekend the year before had been in Birmingham, and a very successful weekend it was. This year we were put into the first division which we weren’t confident about, but also had a second team in the second division. We went up on the Friday night and were staying in a big room of 30 lads which was great fun in itself. On the first night we went out for food and a quiet drink bit ended up in a German bar and had a stormer of a night, but remained fresh for Gaelic the next day. The Gaelic went as expected, but we didn’t care and went out for a very very memorable night out with lots of funny things happening, thankfully not to me!

13. Christmas Night

 Hopefully this will become a semi regular event of some kind as it is a great way to get the whole gang back together at once, or at least most of us. It just brings back great memories going to places we always used to go and having beers like we used to and just having a great time.

14. New Year’s

 This was the pinnacle to the good times I had working a new job this year. I started working at the Windmill in the summer and really enjoyed it (for a job anyway) and came back at Christmas. I get on with everyone so well and although I was disappointed not to be with my friends for New Years for the first time since 2008, I had a great time. Customers buying me beers and jaegerbombs behind the bar, then going down to Dave’s for more drinks was a more than acceptable replacement.

2016 hasn’t started well thanks to Benteke, but hopefully it will improve and I will be able to write as many good things as I have this year. When I come back to write another one I will have a Masters degree and hopefully a job of some kind. My sister will be married and I might be living somewhere completely new. There’s a good chance this will be a difficult year but I will do my best to make the most of it!

Ciao x

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14 Things of the Year

 This year I did it a little bit differently. Throughout the year I've thought of times that may be applicable to this post. I never seem to get enough. It's only going to get harder. Might have to cap it at some number. 

 Nonetheless, I have come up with 14 things that I remember most about my 2014

1. Winning Champs

 In our Gaelic calendar this is the big one. We worked hard all year to get to this point where we could say we were the champions. I've never actually won anything proper before so this was such a good feeling. It wasn't easy, we nearly lost a few times, but in the end we won the final comfortably. That afternoon I spent around 10 hours in the pub just getting sloshed. So much fun was had that afternoon, and then in the evening a few of us went in to town. Bearing in mind it was a Sunday night, it was probably a bad idea. Anyhow, we ended up in Legs 11 which was odd. Possibly the best day of my year overall.

2. Tour

 Tour in Galway was my only holiday this year, and it's also the best weekend I had. We left super early on the Friday morning and arrived in the afternoon. There was far too much to go into detail about, but the best day by far was going out to The Aran Islands and hiring bikes. The weather was so good and it was so enjoyable. I ended up pink as a salmon after that day, which was followed by the England - Italy game. Was very interesting watching it in the company of which the vast majority was supporting Italy. Obviously we lost but it was still a mega night as was the next night. Steve Stone and John Stones was said too many times though.

3. My Birthday

 My birthday this year encompassed 3 or 4 days surrounding it. I had a couple of uni friends visit which was sound. On the Sunday Beard came down and we went to Clarence and then the Plough which was funny to show him after the many Plough stories I've told. The next morning we hopped on a train to Cardiff to see Low. We had a ramble round then Patrick came as well and then we went out. It was a really fun night! We came back to Bristol the next day and spent the afternoon in town, then took Beard to Lounge for a couple of beers. The next day was actually my Birthday; yay! Low joined us from Cardiff, and the three of us went to Noah's Ark to see all the animals and have fun like a kid and stuff. The weather was deece and the animals were in good moods. We went out in the evening with all the home people and went to mbargo I think. I don't remember too much of that but it was bare fun. That pretty much concludes.  

4. London

 Near the start of October, myself and Dizz were supposed to visit Paul in London. Dizz was an idiot and had a test or something, but I went down anyway on the Friday (I only went for one night). There wasn't an awful lot of time to do stuff when we got there so we grabbed some food with Russ and then went out with Dommy B in tow! Was a fun place to be fair to Roehampton SU, but it ended at 2 which is a travesty. Wattsy was there too and had a good laugh. The next morning I ended up being lost and couldn't find my way back to Paul's which was more great banter. I had to catch my train back so Russ and I went back in and met up with Hook and George Phillips for a little while before I made my merry way home.

5. International Rules

 Every year Gaelic Football play Aussie Rules at a sport called International Rules, which is basically a mash up of the two sports. It does a pretty decent job of meeting halfway. We hadn't done any training as a team until pretty much the week before which was probably a mistake. The game day was a disappointment as we lost. It was still a big occasion though, and it got a decent crowd. It definitely means that in 2015 this should be involved in this post and we will have won!

6. Sheffield

 This is the last Gaelic thing I promise (I think). I say 'Sheffield', but most of the fun happened between Sheffield and Birmingham. We were up in Sheffield to play the annual game against Hallam, which we won after extra time. This put us in a pretty buoyant mood, so stopped off for some beers to have in the minbus on the drive home. We ended up drinking them all out of the trophy, and needed the toilet. People claimed they could hold it in, but I was really, really struggling. Luckily Pete was struggling even more and almost pissed himself until we pulled over just a mile from home. Everyone ran out the bus and into a bush. From there we went straight to Urban to watch the rugby and then on to get a curry. The curry house was a disaster and we ended up leaving after about 2 hours. We're not welcome at that curry house anymore. 

7. Swansea 

 Towards the beginning of March, Bessie and I went down to Swansea for a night. It's actually really annoying doing physics, days off are hard to find so visiting people is harder. Luckily I had Wednesdays off so we went down on a Tuesday lunchtime. We were met by the boys and then went off for food and to see Glen. We went to Ritchings' flat for pre drinks then the SU for a night but I can't remember what it is called. From there we went to pop world. I don't remember much of the night but the bits I do remember were class. One off nights in places with your mates are the best.

8. Coniston

 Each year the Physics department does a trip to Coniston in the Lake District where the uni owns a little retreat. You have to sign up and hope you get in, which we were lucky enough to do this year. The coach journey up ended up with getting loads of free KFC accidentally. No complaints there. On the Saturday we climbed the Old Man of Coniston. It was just so calming, forgetting any work that might have to be done. Being out in the countryside with all that fresh air and great views was such a nice break.

9. Half Marathon

 I know I did this last year but I was struggling for 14 things, okay? It was pretty much exactly the same as the year before, although this time I didnt do my thigh in two days before. It was the same weekend as going to London so I had to use the Saturday night for recovery. I had done alot less training than the year before because I was stupid enough to kick a post in July which stopped me running for about 12 weeks. I was really pleased because I actually still beat my target. I wasn't expecting to get under 2 hours with my lack of training, but I kept running within the time and just kept going. I ended up in 1:58:30 which isn't brilliant by any stretch of the imagination, but I was pleased. 

10. Free House

 In August my parent's went away for a couple of weeks leaving me with a free house. This was good as it meant I could have some people down from uni to stay. Apart from when my friends were down I didn't actually particularly enjoy this period however. It got quite lonely at home, but I was working at 6 am most days so I didn't really have the opportunity to do things. When my friends came down was great though. We didn't do much more than go out into town, but it was really great to see people after not having seen them for a couple of months.

11. Tom's Birthday Snobs

 This is mainly on here because it was really funny. That sounds odd but because it's also the only time I went out with just these lads I remember it more. Not alot to say that I can really remember other than making random friends at snobs and doing the footballer turn around thing all night. Didn't get back till around 6 am either. Was also the last time I got to go to old Snobs.

12. World Cup

 This one is more of a time period than an individual event. Beginning with the end of 2nd year and then going into home summer, it just signifies the summer really. It was always a good reason for people to meet up and obviously, I love football so it's win win. Some really good nights were made out of it and it helped make summer really good.

13. House Christmas

 Although this happens every year, I felt this year's was even better than normal. I woke up very hungover from Fab but was in a good mood anyway. We had the whole house up and around all day doing interesting stuff like cooking and playing games. Everyone's Secret Santa's were amazing and it was just super fun. It was a bit sad thinking that it was my last Christmas at uni. 

14. Christmas Night

 Finally, showing up very late in the year, was our Garage Christmas night. Pretty much everyone showed up and that's the first time in forever. We went for food at the windmill then just had fun all night. Everyone was laughing so much it was a nice way to end the year.

 It's been a fabulous year for me, but particularly those last two events make it seem quite scary. 2014 is the last year I will spend fully in the cotton wool of education. I've grown up a lot over the last year and the years before it, but it's going to be a big step up going into the real world. Hopefully this time next year I'll have embraced it.

 I hope to have achieved the best grade that I can in my degree. Only I will know if I could have done better, and I don't want that hanging over me for the rest of my life. That's my only goal for this year. That should make it quite simple. 

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 We went into the game on a run of bad results, but despite the media calling for changes to the line-up, the same starting XI was sent out to get a result.

 The game began well, with easy chances being converted for an early 2-0 lead. Defence hung on well to go into half time with a clean sheet, but the attack could feel disappointed that plenty of great opportunities to increase the scoring went begging.

 A defensive blunder to let the opposition in for a tap in at the beginning of the second half was a sign of things to come. Two further quick fire goals leaked by the complacent backline sent the manager spiralling into a fit of rage. The 60 minute mark cued the first change sent to rally the wounded defence, but to little avail.

 There is only 15 minutes to go, and there are only two changes left for the manager to make. We really need a result, but the fans aren't expecting anything. Can the flair players off the bench create something special?

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its never not a good time for this video

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14 years old: I'm young but I know what I want. This isn't that hard, I'm all grown up already and have everything figured out.

17 years old: Well, this is a little harder than I thought. School is almost ending. What am I going to do with my life?

21 years old: What the fuck is going on? Where are my socks?

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ah yes, the majestic Word Bank.

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13 Things of the Year

 Once again comes the time of year, in which I struggle through my cluttered life in order to decipher the most amazing memories I have gained since the previous New Year. Whilst readers have dwindled to the few folk left hanging on the edge of the tumblr cliff, the main reason for penning this every year is for the benefit of mine own. 

 In no particular order, my 13 things of 2013 are:

1. Fresher's Week

 An altogether different experience to last year's, it was less a case of meeting people, and more of a case of seeing friends for the first time in months. Moving in to a new house was so much fun. The best thing about this week was that there was no uni in the day time, so we could actually do stuff together! Just catching up with loads of people made it so great.

2. My Birthday

 A quiet one in all honesty. Didn't get up to much in the day time really. In the evening we went to a few pubs, ending in The Plough. It was a quiet Tuesday, and there was pretty much only us there. It was on 5 or 6 of us, but we stayed till 3ish, and just had such a laugh. Great way to spend my birthday.

3. Completing a Half Marathon

 I've never been someone to have any real achievements or accomplishments. Running a half marathon isn't the world's hardest challenge to take on, but it's not easy. To miss out on my target by 3 seconds was demoralising, but considering I ran the whole race with an injury after a far from brilliant training regime, I know I can be proud of myself and all my friends who also ran it. It's something I want to do again and improve on, but it's a nice thing to say I've done.

4.  Learning a New Sport in Gaelic Football

 After spending my first year at university enjoying myself, I wanted to branch out and try something new. I really wanted to play a sport at uni, but obviously you have to be pretty good to make the team for one of the more usual sports. Chris and myself decided to try out Gaelic Football, and it's turned out to be one of the best decisions I've ever made. To begin with, the whole game was difficult to get to grips to, but looking back now, just a few months later, the improvement has been amazing, where I'm now at the stage of being able to play in games and performing competently. But more than playing, the team has been such a big factor in me enjoying this year. Having a group of people you can just have a laugh with, but with all the team spirit behind you is just brilliant. The essence of the fun is shown on Sports Nights which have just been the most enjoyable nights out. Absolutely love it.

5. New Quay

 For a few days in July, a few of us went to Rach's House in New Quay (thanks Rach!). Playford and I went a day later than the rest but stopped off in Cardiff on the way, where I met with Lowri and we went and watched the final Lions test in a pub. Being in Wales for that was something special, the Welsh love their rugby. From there it was to New Quay, and the whole time there was so relaxing but fun. Day on the beach, evening getting drunk (maybe watching Mama Mia). The photos from the weekend show how it was all just a great laugh. You can't beat breaks like that.

6.Glen's Garden Night

 One summer's eve, Glen offered her field for a sleepover! We had a great night making up stupid games, dressing up in pots and pans and just having general stupid fun. Me and Dill actually slept outside under the stars, which was probably a bad move; we didn't factor in dew! It was probably the night that best defined my summer at home. I didn't do much, but when we did, it was great fun.

7. Alton Towers

 Quite possibly my favourite day of the whole year. 3 car loads of us went up to Alton Towers in June after exams. The weather was perfect. The only bad part of the day was some of the rides being shut, but we really didn't care. It was such a care free day, epitomised when we went on Battle Galleons, a kids ride with water guns, which was actually the best part. 

8. 24 Hour Football Match

 At the start of June I was offered the opportunity to take part in a charity 24 hour long football match. It was such a tough experience, but so fun. In total I got 1 hour of sleep, although I hurt my ankle so got a few hours of rest! The whole thing was brilliant, from the proper kits, to getting Dixy Chicken ordered at 3am. My team won about 140-120, which we were pretty pleased with, and I think I knocked in about 10 myself. The entire of the next day I spent sleeping, and then for some unknown reason went out. Our legs didn't work at all after running for 16 hours or something, so dancing was tricky. Nonetheless, possibly one of the most interesting things I can say I've done.

9. Start of June

 This is more of a time period that just feels good to think back on. Exams had ended, the weather was fantastic, and spirits were high. Every day I just woke up with a smile on my face. I had no worries. Days were spent going to the park and just hanging out in the sun. They were spent going down to the cage to have a kick-about, or sitting in someone's lounge just having fun. All I think of from nights out in this time is the silent disco in Fab. I Don't Care came on every time and we were loving it. A couple of dips in the Vale lake. That was gross, but everything was just so fun. Absolutely my favourite time of the year.

10. Louis' Leaving Weekend

 As Louis was leaving on his lengthy travels around the world, he wanted to have a night out to say goodbye. It was in March so most of us had to come back from Uni. I told Louis I couldn't make it home. I did come home. Teehee. The Megabus home wasn't my favourite mode of transport ever, but it did the job (eventually). I saw Knutsford on the Friday and we had a girly day out. The Saturday night was one of the best nights I've had in town. So many people were out, Shakespeare was out! I don't remember now what happened, just that it was a classic. Everyone loves the classics, don't they?

11. Opening Day of the Season

 This is one that doesn't involve my friends, except maybe my good friend Daniel Sturridge. My dad got 3 tickets in the Kop for the opening game of the season against Stoke. We went up and along with my Uncle David, had a pint before heading in. It's the first game I'd been to in a couple of years, and the few games previously had been dire affairs. This game had such a good atmosphere compared to games I'd been to before. Nothing could match the elation I felt when Mignolet saved that last minute penalty. The whole stand was shaking, the buzz was like nothing I'd experienced. Here's to many more of these moments.

12. Sarkars Birthday

 This was one of the last things we did before the start of term. It was great for me, because it also encompassed the new hobby I took up over the summer; golf. I've really enjoyed playing, even though I'm still quite rubbish! Myself, Russ, Charlie and Hook went for a morning round, before we went down to Aadam's house. We got pretty drunk playing stupid drinking games in the sun. Does much more really need to be said?

13. My First Trip to Snobs

 Last but not least, my first trip to Snobs represents alot more than just Snobs (Snobs being a club in Birmingham). I've chosen this because it represents some of the great friends I made at the start of 2013. Flat 41 were guys I hadn't really spoken to before Christmas, but became really close with during the Spring term. One night they were going out, and I said I wasn't. They eventually persuaded me to join them, and I didn't look back. So many in jokes were started that night. The night itself is mostly forgotten (an unfortunate theme emerging from my nights out), but from that night, I became great friends with the lads, and I'm really glad I did.

 It's been a rollercoaster year. I've had my ups and downs, but looking back now, I can barely think of a down. The good aspects of this year have so much outweighed any little negatives, that it really doesn't matter. No year is going to be perfect, but focussing on the good bits can make it seem pretty close!  

 That concludes my 13 things of 2013. Join me next year, where I will have to think of one more thing of 2014! 

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