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Ate guz 3 chiken tenders and most cheesy fries full af now took 1 b complex and 2 calcium tablets wow the mental fortitude kicking in strong and nice mm feeling catharsis up in the brain fr yesss nice washing over me so nicely

Its nearing 3pm but dont feel like i need to est for the rest of the day! Will do anothe back workout its almost healed fully.. Maybe shoulders instead

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Uses to feel this a bit but then i started living for.myself snd not letting others control.me. now i just feel like im not doing enough for myself and meeting mt own weekly monthlt needs etc. I have so many m0te needs than i did as a kid its all spilling out

everything feeels so heavy im so tired

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Man even that one calcium tablet with no food just calms me a little more than i am normally.. But gotta eat early tomoz so i can take 2

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Took 1 scoop creatine 3g then 1 calcium tablet some walnuts 1 vitc tablet.

Went outside in morning 5mins then just now 15mins to play tennis but some old introvert was hanging clothes expecting some conversation or some shit lmao. But once he got this idea im just playing my tennis he resumed his clothes hanging.. Besides me feet getting too slippery without socks in those crocs so needa wear crocs when i go out again in 1hrs+ food should be here in 15mins then ill take 2 more calcium tablets and a b complex later will do magnesium

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Come back home then put on the 2hr wild west nmplol 2023 november vod stream uploaded to youtube

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Ive let mums asshole behavior turn me into a mean person into a judgemental person over the years.. That combined with not being ideal skinny bodytype yet is alwaus a bad look 247.

This negativity only suppressed my natural beauty and wonder and curiosity for beauty..

And i become less beautiful as a person inside and out.. So time to evolve on my own 247 when not habing to be around annoying ppls

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It never is right? Only one way to learn by facing forward and accepting but realise you have to make mistakes asap to learn asap. No mistakes equals no progress! Not facing majority of ypur fears will just let them control you like that!

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If it comes up tell lins about the neurosurgeon who talks about the mind being a garden which restructures itself based on needs of the brain over time.. It makes use. Indian guy on a podcast that really broadened my perspective of mental illness.

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Tumblr is the place that brings me to my senses and heals. When all other social media turns into nothing more than energy siphons. God i bet theres good books on it.

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Comment by arran-reddit on Reddit

It was very prevalent when I’ve done certain jobs. Working as a designer or a developer and grouping together and fostering a loathing of the marketing department. When I worked those roles at fashion companies the festoon people tended to group by what they designed and there was a lot of muck flinging between their teams (was quite common to see folks crying outside the office on their break).

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Comment by postdarwin on Reddit

Posting from Ireland. We were puzzled by The Breakfast Club. Why couldn't they all be friends or date each other? There are plenty of dickheads in our schools but everyone talks to everyone. Also, no fraternities in college here. Wtf are they all about? Made the Monsters Inc sequel so insular as to be incomprehensible to foreigners.

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Comment by cowfish007 on Reddit

Unfortunately, things never really change much from high school. Networking and who you know is often more important than effort or quality of work.

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Comment by thinker1919 on Reddit

I've been in this situation and have a few suggestions.

You said that 70% of the people are in the clique so what about the other 30%? Are they also trying to enter the clique? Thing is the clique, as self interested as it sounds, are only going to bring you in if they perceive you as bringing something to the group. Probably not worth judging it - just human nature.

That said you can instead focus on creating your own fun with your friends from the 30% and gradually bring the others in. Remember the people in the clique are comfortable but not necessary having more fun!

Also how comfortable are you being by yourself? The longer you can withstand the social pressure (which does not really exist btw) and be solo between conversations the easier it will become. So if you are frozen out and left standing there. Remain for 30 seconds, 1 minute and so on. Think about whatever positive thoughts you want but still enjoy yourself and this will show that you truly don't need anyone. I'll write more about this another time.

Not easy but good luck:)

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Comment by DeOh on Reddit

I've been there on both ends, so maybe I can shed some light for you.

As the person on the inside of the "clique", I don't feel like getting to know people I will never see again. I find the precious time I get now is better spent/invested with people I already have built rapport with and has potential to build more. I'm fully aware that this appears cliquish to people at a party, but those are times when I have no interest in meeting and greeting people. I do find it highly annoying when people interrupt the conversation. It comes off too needy. It's possible to break into the group, but you need to *play to the group*. Not force attention to yourself. This can simply mean standing by and listening in and maybe help guide the conversation and comment. If I want to catch up with a friend, you are by all means welcome to listen in and comment and ask questions that I might not have thought of myself.

On the other hand, I've been to places where I am an outsider. I'm not included and attempts to fit in are met with coldness. It can feel awful and you just want to leave. When I see this I myself lack motivation to start something. There is nothing you can do if the group continues to give the cold shoulder. But like I said try to play to the group.

I do however feel the person who hosts has a responsibility that all his or her guests are having a good time and that can mean shirking your well established friends for a bit.

And there is no reason why you couldn't talk to people on the outskirts; other people who are otherwise not engaged in anything. They are more receptive. It's a part of reading social *context*.

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why do people form cliques?

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Comment by Aztecah on Reddit

Indeed, but they're like-minded on the need of finding those new and loose friendships. They both have the same goal at that point. But those attachments fall apart because they aren't deep.

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Comment by [deleted] on Reddit

Yep. I infiltrated and took them all with me when I quit.

Lol it takes that kind of person to be in a clique dont it