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sugarspiceandtequilatwice · 5 years ago

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Rinsing: A Guide

I came to the realization that a significant portion of my income or gifts that I receive from sugaring, is not from arrangements that I procured, but rather, from one-time meetings with a POT, or what I refer to as rinsing. There’s a well-known TV series based in the UK called Sex, Lies, and Rinsing where models receive clothes, jewelry, trips and other gifts from guys who have only ever seen them online. This isn’t exactly that, and as a matter of fact that’s difficult to achieve unless you have public social media. What I refer to as rinsing and what it’s been in my experience is finding a guy, meeting him in person once (or a couple times max), and having him spend either through physical gifts or money while intentionally not meeting this person again.

My first experience with rinsing was actually my first POT date, but I did a lot of things wrong. I met this guy through SA and ended up giving him my real phone number (mistake, but I changed it right after). We ended up meeting for dinner in his hotel lounge (big, big mistake), and ended up chatting over a drink. I didn’t explain the details of the arrangement either, and he definitely was expecting more to happen. I convinced him to give me $500 in cash, analogizing it as a security deposit. Then I bolted. Even though I got something (and nothing bad happened to me), you should not do what I did. My success came largely from luck, but since then I’ve dramatically changed what I do. Learn from my mistakes.

1.) You need an expensive persona.

You hear this statement all the time in the sugaring world as advice. From my experience, to get an arrangement, this is not true. A number of SD’s don’t necessarily want someone dripping in gold - they might be just be looking for someone clean, classy, and put-together. Not necessarily someone who’s adorned in Dior from head to toe. If you want to rinse? You need to look expensive. It’s a psychological trick, because men tend to categorize and classify women based off of the first impression that they give off. If a girl is pretty but comes off as lower brow, when she asks a guy to spend or take her shopping, more often than not it won’t work because her tactic of manipulation seems obvious. It’s obvious that she’s using the man to try and get something that she doesn’t have, and without him, she wouldn’t be able to get it. That puts the power in favor of the man. To change this dynamic, you should look expensive and composed, and that means: nails are noticeably well-done and manicured, skin is well-cared for, outfit is tailored, made to fit, of a good material, and enhances your look, and make-up is long-lasting, works with your natural features, and works with your outfit. As for jewelry, some well-made and simple pieces, no more than a couple. Less is more. A number of name-brands or statement pieces help secure this status.

This is so critical to being successful at rinsing because it makes the gift or money that you’re receiving expected. If men recognize that you most likely get a great deal of male attention already and you’re already well-off, that makes it the social norm, and they’ll feel greater pressure to give you what you ask for. Let me give you an example. I met a guy through mutual friends, and we discovered that we were in a social club together and held a lot of the same interests. We were also in the same major. This guy is pretty young, only 22, but we hung out and I noticed he had generous tendencies. He went to a strip club and spent $1,000 that night, and so I thought, well if this guy can spend $1,000 a night - surely he can spend that on me over time, especially since he had taken a liking to me. He put his credit card information into my Uber and my UberEats, and I ended up convincing him to go shopping with him - and surely enough, over a couple of weeks, I spent over $1,000 of his money, and no, I did not have sex with him. I asked about his impression of me later, and he told me, I know you come from a rich family, and I asked him why. He said he didn’t know, but just the way I carried myself, the way I dressed and talked, made him so sure I came from wealth. I suspect this was a big reason why he spent on me.

2.) Finding the right target

Regardless of your external persona, not everybody will be susceptible to rinsing. Sometimes, they’re just cheap, they’re broke, or they’ll be insecure and angry about it. In general, there are three general characteristics that I look for in a guy that I can rinse: 1) generosity, 2) impulsiveness, and 3) naivete.

Why you want generosity is self-explanatory. Find out by whether or not he is willing to spend on going out, food, wine, etc - whether he spends a lot on the high life. If a guy drops a lot of money on his hobbies and enjoying the finer things in life, he’s more likely to spend money on women. Who cares how rich a guy is, if he’s stingy? Another thing when talking to these guys is not to mention the terms arrangement or sugar daddy. Imo, most vanillas have a skewed perception of what an SD is. They think they’ll get a hot, young girl doing the most for a $100 ppm. If you’re good-looking enough, they might say yes, but to be honest, the majority of them have nothing to offer. If a guy really likes you or is attracted to you, he’ll spend money. He’ll drop loads to impress you. It’s natural. So if you’re looking for guys to rinse online or something, don’t mention that you’re looking for an SD, mention that you’re interested in the finer life, you enjoy being spoiled, and you have high expectations, something along those lines.

Impulsiveness is another quality that I’ve noticed. Approach things with a sense of urgency, because rinsing is all about seizing the moment. Rinsing is all about taking opportunities and skewing it in your favor. Most likely, if an older vanilla guy sets up a date with you and you go in with the intention of rinsing him, but he sets it up for next week or the next time, he’ll forget. Or he’ll re-think it and wonder. He won’t follow through, or you won’t get the end result that you want. You want it within a day or right on the weekend because you give them less time to plan the whole thing out (I’ll spend X amount on this date, because I need to save money, etc). Making the date immediate places more pressure, meaning they’ll be willing to spend more.

The final thing I look for is naivete. Remember, you’re not looking for someone super experienced and who can sniff you out. You’re not looking for someone who knows the bowl - you’re looking to get that money, leave, and never talk to that man again. I’d suggest expensive, pricey hangouts and activities - like shopping or a Michelin-star restaurant. If he avoids discussion of money, tries to deflect, or either says something along the lines of why or to that you need to incentivize him, get rid of him. Look for enthusiasm and someone who is eager to please.

3.) Getting the money

Remember, you are in control. Always map an escape route, share your location with your friends, and have your information protected. When you actually go out with this guy, come across looking very expensive but also act and talk that way. Resolve - you will not sleep with this guy, no matter what. You’re not here to go on a date - you’re here to make as much profit as possible.

IMO, the guys who are the most generous are the ones that you naturally have chemistry with. You can sense it- that conversation flows naturally. If he’s only interested in sex or initiating sexual conversation, forget it. Same if he gets too handsy. You also need to be aggressive in projecting your persona - sometimes when I was out rinsing, my techniques wouldn’t work. This is where you need to discipline these guys. Female aggression is only accepted in certain forms, and one of the most effective, especially in sugaring, is being chiding in a dismissive way. The attitude you should adopt is to become aloof - become detached, adopt an uncaring and leisurely manner, and feel as though you can walk out the door at any minute. It’s a very effective means of social shaming. I’ll throw in a comment there too, if he mentions going to Calvin Klein for instance, I might say, “Oh, I’ve heard that’s so basic, nobody thinks that’s in fashion anymore, there are so many better quality stores, etc” - when in reality, CK is fine, but I can get that on my own time. The point is to comment things that appear objective and their negativity isn’t intentional, but it’s pointed to discipline and socially pressure the guy to a higher standard. You hold the cards, you’re doing these men a favor.

After sensing some chemistry, they may falsely believe that something may happen. So after dinner or shopping, I sit them aside in a private area and let them know, I’m interested in a mutually beneficial relationship. That’s when they lay it on you. If you’re attractive, cultivated a high-class impression, and initiated some level of chemistry, 99% of the time they’ll say yes - and if you’ve done steps 1 and 2, they’ll pay you. Then, it’s your time to leave - saying some excuse along the lines of I need to go - I have something in the morning, or I have a flight, or maybe even I don’t sleep with guys on the first date. Then leave with a kiss or hug, be very affectionate and grateful, then you leave with your gifts.

Additional notes:

Revenue from rinsing is inconsistent. Don’t make it your only form, and don’t do it when you’re in severe need of money, because like sugaring, it will skew your perception and intuition.

Don’t attempt this if you’re an amateur, I’m sorry. You will most likely not have the intuition well-developed enough to pursue this regularly and may end up seriously putting yourself in danger.

Use these as a guidelines, not as absolutes. These are what I’ve figured out work for me pretty consistently, but dependent on your natural inclinations and what you’re comfortable with as sugaring, it may be different.

Again - don’t attempt this if you’re a newbie. Seriously. I didn’t really rinse at all until at least over half a year in the bowl.

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sugarspiceandtequilatwice · 5 years ago

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Look at all men this way

”A man’s goal is to fuck me. He will be nice to me. He will be sweet to me. If that does not work, he will ignore me. He will threaten me. He will challenge me. He will push me away then try to pull me back. He will even act as if sex isn’t important. These are games. His goal is to fuck me.”

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TIPS: How To Manipulate the Conversation

1. You want me to look beautiful, don’t you?  (Translation: Buy me that outfit/hair/nails/lingerie)

2. You said you want the best for me. (Translation: Give me the extra money)

3. I just want to feel safe and secure. (Translation: Get me my own hotel suite)

4. You’ve inspired me to be better (Translation: pay for this elite yoga retreat)

5. I feel like you don’t trust me and I’m giving you my body.  (Translation: Give me the money first)   6. Take me to XYZ and I’ll look so beautiful you’ll make all the men in the room jealous  (Translation: Take me to this broadway play)

7. I bought a new bikini for you! When are you gonna let me show it off for you (Translation: take me to Hawaii)

8. That man is making me uncomfortable *hold his hand while someone else is checking you out*  (Translation: other people think I’m hot and check me out all the time. Know that.)

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The Jetsetting chick and IT girl guide

This is a guide for girls wanting whale daddies and long term relationships or to live like a Russian IT girl. This is for girls who are interested in the jetset lifestyle. Yachts, parties, international travel and galas.Who want to do more than date men.This is by no means easy. And not for the faint of heart

1. You

You are your biggest investment. And if you want investment then you invest in yourself!!!!You’re much more likely to go to a store that is clean and presentable cause it shows they’ve actually put effort into making the place look decent for customers. Same with you.

You are best your asset so read the following

2. Your look

Looks matter. But you don’t have to be beautiful, just attractive and captivating. We all like things that appeal to our senses. Notice how some dudes have fetishes for legs, heels, tight dresses and long hair, that’s how powerful the physical is!

Ideally, you are likely to be a show stopper, luxurious flowing hair, good skin, you look amazing in your fitted clothing and your body looks great. You dress to accentuate your best features. You do not neglect details and your nails,makeup and scent are on fleek. You look expensive and alluring.

3. Career

A lot of your mega successful SB’s hide behind their businesses and careers.Most successful men are career driven so this is a fairly easy way to meet them & owning a business no matter how small gives you endless excuses to go to networking events and business socials all over the globe.

Any job can be turned into a goldmine Here are some industries and careers you can look into.

Real estate/property

Makeup and fashion

Chef and waitress

Realtor, designer

Personal shopper

Air hostess

Dancer and musician

Hair stylist

Adult entertainment(stripping for example)

Personal assistant

Oil and gas industry

Hostess

Jobs in business district

4. Socialize

Socializing is at the heart of everything. Knowing the right people is essential if you want to get invited to a yacht party in France.

A lot of these sites are trashy and the men have no tangible assets. It is not like it used to be. These men often do not live lavishly. Do what Russian women do and go outside. They practically plant their selves where rich guys are. They’re not sat down waiting for a inbox message. Its basic mathematics, the more options, the more chance you stand of getting what you want. Your social life needs to be a daily thing. You could

Go to auctions

Exclusive nightclubs

Take art classes

Volunteer

Get involved with local politics

Visit country/ private members clubs

Investment seminars

Dine and drink in exclusives wealthy areas

Learn sailing, assistant, skiing, tennis, golf

Black tie events- make an effort to go to galas, races and balls

Opera, galleries, theater and ballet

Move, travel and or live a wealthy area

Gyms in rich areas

Dance classes -some rich folk love to dance

Art classes

Hotel bars

Upscale supermarkets

5. Perceived value

You need to be good at something. It is a market place out here. We are conditioned to want the best and be surrounded by it. And when you’re someone who is successful, you’re gonna be drawn to success in others

Put yourself and talents on the limelight. If you are beautiful and tend to stand out, act as if you are the perfect eyecandy. Maybe you are domineering and bossy which may be a good thing for someone tired of having their ass kissed all day.Maybe you are super intelligent and a real delight to a hardcore scholar.If you are super funny and nice to be with, show it off. Own the hell out of your skills and best attributes and you’ll attract the right people, It has been proven time and time again that’s there’s no real different between some expensive brands and regular ones. Only the perceived value.

Your reputation, attributes and persona makes your perceived value. act royal , get treated royal

6. Fit in

Ancient courtesans groomed their selves to fit in with the upper echelon. They would train for months to years. Nobody questioned their motives cause did what the rich did and as a result became one of them. They were often accepted into the toughest of circles and able to gain access to wealthiest of men for this reason.

Learn luxury living inside out. Learn about watches, cars, property and expensive and fancy shit.Eat what the rich eat if you can afford to. Go where they go. Party where they party. Read what they read.Don’t lie and say you’re accustomed to luxury living when you don’t know your Chanel from Cartier. Which brings me to….

7. Etiquette

Learn how to speak, act and present yourself. Learn your basic etiquette. You’ll be amazed at how simple things can be perceived as rude or classless.Always be learning and be in motion. Learn several subjects and do courses. Expand your vocabulary.

8. Social skills

You need to master social skills from eye contact to tone of voice. You need or be an amazing conservator. You need to learn how to diffuse tension.You need to be friendly and approachable, You need to be able to discuss some topics with passion at any one time.

Then you can move on to heavier things like manipulation, seduction and persuasion.

9. You

don’t force yourself into a lifestyle you may not enjoy.Take care of number one. always take time off to look after yourself.You don’t need a man to live a fancy lifestyle, you may just want to network.

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How to be a kept woman

Any woman who dares to suggest that it’s OK to live off a rich man is likely to be dismissed as a traitor by feminists. Yet this is exactly the lifestyle promoted in a new book by Abigail Bosanko. Though the novel is fictional, the author was ‘kept’ by her husband, an investment fund manager, in an elegant Edinburgh mews house while she wrote it. Here, we present Abigail’s guide to becoming a kept woman… KNOW WHAT YOU WANT BEFORE you even contemplate being a kept woman, know what kind of man you want. If you want an art historian or collector who works for Sotheby’s, don’t settle for a picture framer, even if he has a string of shops. Be confident - an intriguing 21st century woman with her own independent pursuits and talents. You want this man to fall in love with your beautiful mind. HAVE A SKILL Choose an unusual skill - this is intriguing and sexy. Play polo, or golf (not football - men see women who like football as spies in the camp); have an intimate knowledge of 18th and 19th century courtesans; play an instrument; learn about wine or speak an unusual language. Knowledge of food is always sensual. SPEND TIME ON YOURSELF This is something puritans disapprove of, but spending time on yourself - doing your nails, having a massage or a facial, or even just wearing your favourite perfume - is all good for your self-image and self esteem. UNDERWEAR Lingerie is psychologically revealing. If a woman is in a happy relationship she has all sorts of fabulous lingerie, but when she’s unhappy she’s got her 90-denier winter warmers, and fleecy vests, because she’s not particularly interested in sharing that part of herself. Even if you feel like 90-denier, wear something silky that makes you feel good. CLOTHES Nurture your curves like actresses Kate Winslet, Catherine Zeta Jones and Marilyn Monroe. There is nothing wrong with being a size 14 - look at Nigella Lawson. Think Forties Domestic Goddess. Wear elegant, simple, well-cut clothes, such as shawl-collared suits which hug your curves, in neutral tones. And don’t forget your heels. WHERE TO MEET The first-class lounge at the airport is perfect. Save up all your air miles and buy a club class seat to somewhere such as Paris or New York. Hope for a delay, then you will all get to know each other playing Scrabble, with endless free drinks. Fine art, furniture and jewellery auctions at the top auction houses are also perfect. WHAT KIND OF MAN? Obviously he’s got to be wealthy, but he’s also got to be discreet. Showy wealth is a definite no-no. Lots of gold jewellery shows someone who needs to be in a credit card club to feel financially confident. All a man needs is a beautiful watch, or a signet ring with the family crest. Find out where he has been on holiday. There are two types: if he has been scuba diving in the Maldives or white-water rafting in the Amazon, this shows he has money and a sense of adventure. Alternatively, cushy stays in sumptuous hotels are perfect. If he hasn’t had time for a holiday, he’s too busy to appreciate you. HIS PERSONALITY He should have an active hobby - one that shows stamina, which is vital. He should be generous, of course, and protective of you. He should be well-read and informed, reading at least one newspaper in addition to the FT. Books could be things such as Martin Amis’s Experience, or J. M. Coetzee’s Waiting For The Barbarians. DROPPING HINTS In our modern world where women are career- queens, men find this concept odd. One male friend of Abigail asked: ‘Why would an intellectual woman want to be bank-rolled?’ But when it was explained that it would allow her to follow her vocation, the concept became quite appealing. Start by saying that you would love to be able to pursue your passion as a rare book restorer/ cartoonist/script writer, but can’t afford to. He’ll be impressed and will offer to pay. HOW DO YOU KNOW HE WILL KEEP YOU? The first sign is when he offers to pay off your overdraft, then credit card bills, then suggests you don’t go in to work but spend time with him. While he’s at a business lunch he would love it if you went shopping - he will pick up the tab, of course. When it comes to this sort of arrangement, you have got to be honest, clever and sophisticated. TERMS Be bold, be daring, be honest. You need a joint bank account - you set the limit - plus your own personal savings account. He can buy you a chic mews house, a penthouse flat - or, of course, you can move into his mansion. Ask for accounts at your favourite shops. You also need treats such as manicures, pedicures, chocolates and flowers. Exotic holidays and weekend breaks are essential. SEX This is sensual, loving, tantalising sex, not you fulfilling his fantasy - not unless the fantasy is mutual. When it comes to sex, remember, curiosity comes first. With all the money you now have access to, you can change the venue as often as you like. Instead of going home, book into a five-star hotel. It will never get boring. GIFTS You should ask for gifts that are original: ‘A friend received an embroidered silk cheongsam (Mandarin gown) from her lover who was travelling in China.’ Expect a single, beautiful pearl, elegant jewellery, a race-horse, £1,000 worth of Lottery tickets or rare books such as the original Les Liaisons Dangereuses. HOLIDAYS At least four times a year, not counting short breaks. Abigail’s husband often takes her to a romantic hotel near the Sorbonne in Paris. Think skiing in Aspen, scuba diving on the Barrier Reef, a trip to the Galapagos or Madagascar, sunbathing in St Lucia. He might have his own private yacht, so cruise the Caribbean or the islands in the Mediterranean. WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR TIME Write that novel that’s said to lurk inside us all - Abigail wrote hers; finish your art history degree. Get to know the best restaurants and cafes so you can lunch at length with your friends. Afternoons-should be reserved for shopping or pampering, and evenings with him. WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR (HIS) MONEY It goes without saying that you will revamp your wardrobe. Keep champagne, chablis, caviar, organic bread, bacon and quails’ eggs in your fridge. A bit of philanthropy is essential, too, so set up covenants to your favourite charities and feel charitable towards bone fide beggars - give more to buskers and pavement artists, because they are at least trying. Send your family on their dream holiday, and treat your man to a surprise trip on Concorde or the best seats at a major international sporting event. WHAT TO SAY TO CRITICS Always keep a bottle of champagne in the fridge for your disapproving female friends. They will be extremely envious, so kill them with kindness. Never apologise about your chosen lifestyle. Don’t brag about it either - it’s not dignified. END IT You can insist on an expiry date - a year and a day maybe - but you decide when. Do not return your gifts. When it ends, put all your overflow cash into an ISA and go on holiday for a month. Go somewhere romantic and beautiful, and take time to think. You never know, he might follow you there and beg to keep you in a permanent arrangement. Lazy Ways To Make A Living by Abigail Bosanko, Time Warner Books, £5.99.

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sugarspiceandtequilatwice · 6 years ago

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If you loved Lolita when you were young you were bound to have a sugar daddy.

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Not a good POT, but $

So I’ve read a ton of posts on how to spot a good POT and it’s become second nature at this point. The number one thing for me is their initial contact message. It’s always direct, clear, and you aren’t wondering how you’re gonna ask if they’re serious about an arrangement. You don’t feel like there’s any confusion. It’s clear that they know what their end of the deal is. But I wanted to make a post about guys that are definitely not potentially long term SD and how to make the most out of it without doing the most. I’ve actually had tremendous luck with this. When a real POT contacts me I definitely don’t throw numbers out instantly (even if I may want to) and I don’t word things bluntly. However, I had a ton of messages in my inbox that didn’t meet the quota for a real full response and I had left them on read. I recently tried something new, an automated response. I wrote up a little template for every guy that sent me “hi” or “hey.” Or expressed interest but was vague and didn’t seem like a serious prospect. I took a few days away from checking my sugaring website to find 120 unread messages and most of them weren’t my idea of a good POT. I figured that if I wasn’t gonna reply, I had nothing to lose being BRUTALLY blunt if I did. So I copy and pasted this.

“Hi, I apologize in advance for such an impersonal and direct message, I know some people don’t like being approached super directly , however I returned from the holiday with over 100 messages to respond to. You’ve showed interest in my profile and I’m also interested so I’ll cut to the chase. Chances are you’re probably receiving this also because I didn’t find a lot of information in your profile or message. I would absolutely love to know more about and you a view any recent photos you may have. I’m currently asking 100$ for platonic meets OR a gift you pick out of any value. I ask this because it’s helped me gauge who is serious and who’s not or even what type of person you are based on what type of gifts are given. It actually used to more of common tradition in first meets, and I loved the idea because it’s so old fashioned and even if we dont meet again , I end up having great memory. If we end up seeing each other often or it seem like a serious prospect , we can discuss a monthly down the line. I realize this may not align with everyone, and if so feel free to chat with me about it or simply just disregard my message and have a wonderful evening. ❣️”

The same evening I got an offer from a guy to meet and I told him I was busy. He offered me 500$ for a meet and greet. He ended up being completely strange , but he was otherwise harmless and I got paid 500$ to hangout for an hour. Since then I’ve actually been super aware that not everyone guy will be my dream sugar daddy, but there is so much money untouched if you ignore these guys. I’m not telling you to deal with the rude or douche guys, but the ones who fall in between with the “hi” and lazy responses may be worth your time if you can work it right. The guys that don’t want to spend and are looking for a sugar baby without having to provide sugar usually block me. So it’s been a win-win, as I wouldn’t normally response to these messages at all. I turned a “hey” into 500$ and I think you can too.

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So I’ve been waiting until I had something worthy to post to actually write something about my own sugaring experiences. I used all the advice on here to get back into sugaring after years of dancing and being a dominatrix and it TREATED ME SO WELL. I was able to make 10k this past month. I don’t think I would have been able to find the gems without the advice I found on here, so I’m so grateful for the community on here. I met mt favorite sugar daddy so far, Florida. He was my town for business and we ended up meeting up and he honestly is the sweetest person ever. He’s in a relationship with his former sugar baby who is a “swinger” with him but she refuses to sleep with other people and from what I gather she’s trying to cash in and get married so she’ll let him do whatever when he’s out of town. He asks me for advice but that’s her hustle, so I just kinda play dumb. I got a brand new memory foam mattress from him for Christmas and 2k for the few days I spent with him when he was in town and we talk daily. I also met a guy off seeking who wanted to see if during separation from his wife (former escort )?if he could sleep with someone else , so he picked his favorite girl (awe me), and I met him. He initially gave me 700$ and we ended up talking about life and he told me he found me attractive but that he realized he wanted to make it work with her. Which was bittersweet because he was young and hot, but at the same time I told him he was awesome and that I wished them nothing but luck. When I left he gave me another 1400$. We didn’t do much as even touch. Oddly, I found that every guy that I didn’t have any physical contact with ended up spending over 1,000, but I never saw them again. I started sugaring again because I was in crisis needing to get an apartment last minute and not only is that happening, but Im nearly caught up on all my bills. I also have been chatting with a guy from New York and I’ve felt a total connection with him , he’s funny and intelligent and I’m supposed to meet him early this month in New York. And if that goes well I can fly free to New York anytime and stay with him. He also bought me 700$ worth of Honey Birdette for Christmas. I’m so so so grateful and excited to see where it all goes. Thank you ladies who post advice because I couldn’t do it without you.

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Advertising for Escorts

So here is a list of advertising mediums in the US:

1). EROS: Pro: EROS is more likely than any other site to bring clients with money. It is super easy to make an ad on EROS, just make an account and make the ad. EROS allows you to have both a visiting and a home ad up at once. EROS allows you to use vanilla visas to pay for ads. Con: It is the most expensive advertising medium, it can cost from $100-400 for an ad and way more if you want premium placement. EROS is a gateway of sorts, it brings in a lot of newbies that will waste your time.

2.) TER: Pro: It’s free! Most clients that respond to TER ads know exactly what they are doing and don’t fuck around. You can post an ad once a week. Con: TER has many rules regarding posting ads and if you include a link to your website it must be authenticated by TER first.

3). P411: Pro: It’s free! Like TER, the clients that respond are P411 members so screening them is easier and they are usually serious about booking. While the ad board has been removed, your profile can be bumped to the top of the list just by signing in. There is also the “available now” feature which lets clients now you are ready and waiting, this can be useful in the event of a cancellation. Con: You have to have reviews in order to get a profile.They will only let you have one city listed as your “home” so if you split your time between two cities, this could be a problem. You’d have to buy a visiting profile often.

4.) Date-check: Pro: It’s free! It also doubles as a screening service and gives more options than P411 in terms of vouching (there is a spectrum of okay and there is also a ‘do not recommend’ rather than refusing an okay). Con: The layout of the website is horrible and it’s difficult to use. The customer service is also atrocious. It is incredibly difficult to initially get a profile, they want you to have reviews spanning at least six months as well as a website, the list goes on and on.

5.) Eccie. Pro: It’s free! In certain parts of the country (Texas) it is THE site to use and it will bring in a lot of good clients. It is easy to use. It is easy to get a profile on Eccie. Con: Eccie seems to be one of the most public advertising sites. You can see a lot of info without even becoming a member which is kind of scary. It has a very forum like set-up so it’s not particularly good for clients because men tend to be visual creatures. In most parts of the country, there is not a huge client population that uses this board.

6.) Slixa. Pro: It’s more affordable than EROS but still has a slick design that is user friendly. It’s easy to make a profile and an ad. In certain markets, it can bring good business. Con: Slixa has been known to price differently in the same area, even giving free ads to certain escorts. Slixa is only available in select markets. Slixa also tends to be not as well known as some of the other advertising venues so responses may be variable.

7.) Cityvibe. Pro: It’s free! In certain places like California, it can be good for getting clients. It’s easy to make a profile and easy to use. Con: It has a Backpage type of look to it so it may be hard to grab a client’s attention unless you come up with a really cool ad title. In most areas, it is not widely used.

8.) RS2k. Pro: If you purchase an ad through RS2k, you basically get screening for free. It’s the go to site in Chicago. Con: It can be expensive, A month can range from $165-300. The site is really old and the layout is pretty shitty. For the price you pay, you’d think they could hire a webdesigner to update it. The verification can be within minutes if it is a slow time. If it’s peak time, you could potentially wait hours for a response and since most guys in Chicago are last minute, you’ll miss out on bookings.

9.) Naughtyreviews: Pro: It’s free! It’s easy to make a profile and post ads. Your ad posting abilities are nearly unlimited. I don’t think they max you out ever so you could post a bunch of ads in a day. Con: They now have it marketed as a “dating site” so they have removed donation lists as well as website links. They do not allow watermarked photos on profiles and right click is enabled so be aware than men are going to be downloading your photos. They also have this weird thing going on where they have mirrored their site onto www.tempted.com, not sure what that’s all about. Seems sketchballs.

10.) Backpage. Pro: It’s affordable. I’ve not used it so I don’t know exactly how much it costs but it’s not more than EROS or Slixa. It’s pretty well known so there is a lot of traffic on the site. It can be a good advertising tool in rural areas that aren’t listed on other advertising sites. Con: It has the reputation for being unsafe, there may be a high level of LE activity. Many ads will offer low donations or will promise to see clients with no screening.

11.) Adulthobbyboard. Pro: It’s free! It’s easy to make a profile. It can be a good advertising tool in the West part of the country. The moderators are really nice and prompt with their communication. You can post ads every 3 days. Con: Most of the clients on this board tend to be cheapasses. It is mainly a forum so it’s not particularly visually stimulating.

12.) Local hobby boards. Pro: They are free! They can be good to network with other ladies and have access to blacklists particularly for your area. It can give you a place to let your personality show which may garner more business. Con: Local hobbyists can be very catty and be much too invested in hobbying. Hobbying is literally their hobby so if you get on their bad side, it can be a huge pain.

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