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Watch and Learn!

Learning how to thread your eyebrows.

Learning how to tint your eyebrows. 

Learning how to do at home lash extensions. 

Learning how to do your own gel nails.

Learning how to do your own acrylics.

Learning how to wax your body hair.

Learning how to do a full sew in with closure.

Learning how to install your own braids.

Learning how to install a closure wig.

Learning how to exfoliate your own skin.

Learning how to improve your posture.

Learning how to microneedle your skin.

Learning how to edit your Instagram photos. 

Learning how to build a capsule closet.

Learning how to dress snazzily.

Learning how to walk in high heels.

Learning how to choose a perfume. 

Learning how to choose lingerie. 

Learning to improve and work on your femininity.

Learn about interracial dating. 

Learning how to improve the way you speak. 

Learning another language.

Learning about real estate. 

Learning about investing.

Learning how to get a job as a flight attendant.

Learning how to improve your cursive writing.

Learning how to improve your handwriting.

Learning a new makeup style.

Learning a natural makeup look.

Learning to use a claw clip for hairstyles. 

Learning how to curl your hair.

Learning to do a sleek low bun. 

Learning how to straighten your hair.

Learning how to do a Dominican blowout.

Learning how to apply false eyelashes.

Learning how to apply self tanner.

Learning basic sewing.

Learning how to begin Iyengar Yoga.

Learning how to treadmill productively.

Learning to have toned ballet legs.

Learning how to work towards a toned body.

Learning how to make your bum bigger. 

Learning how to understand ballet.

Learning how to understand operatic film.

Learning how to follow a simple ballet.

Learning daily etiquette.

Learning dining etiquette.

Learning how to walk elegantly.

Learning how to emulate Miss Universe. 

Learning about plastic surgery.

Learning how to bartend.

Learning how to open a bottle of champagne.

Learning how to make a cucumber sandwich.

Learning how to make a fresh mimosa.

Learning how to serve tea.

Learning how to tight line your eyes.

Learning how to microblade (NOT AT HOME).

Learning how to choose a designer handbag. 

Learning how to choose designer jewelry.

Learning how to rush a sorority.

Learning about equestrianism.

Learning the basics of skiing. 

Learning how to sail a sailboat.

Learning how to golf.

Learning how to play tennis.

XOXO,

Renata.



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Easy to spot a yellow car when you are always thinking of a yellow car.

Easy to spot opportunity when you are always thinking of opportunity.

Easy to spot reasons to be mad when you are always thinking of being mad.

You become what you constantly think about. Watch yourself.

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21 Tips to Become the Most Productive Person You Know

I wanted to help you create explosive productivity so you get big things done (and make your life matter). Here are 21 tips to get you to your best productivity.

#1. Check email in the afternoon so you protect the peak energy hours of your mornings for your best work. 

#2. Stop waiting for perfect conditions to launch a great project. Immediate action fuels a positive feedback loop that drives even more action. 

#3. Remember that big, brave goals release energy. So set them clearly and then revisit them every morning for 5 minutes. 

#4. Mess creates stress (I learned this from tennis icon Andre Agassi who said he wouldn’t let anyone touch his tennis bag because if it got disorganized, he’d get distracted). So clean out the clutter in your office to get more done. 

#5. Sell your TV. You’re just watching other people get successful versus doing the things that will get you to your dreams. 

#6. Say goodbye to the energy vampires in your life (the negative souls who steal your enthusiasm). 

#7. Run routines. When I studied the creative lives of massively productive people like Stephen King, John Grisham and Thomas Edison, I discovered they follow strict daily routines. (i.e., when they would get up, when they would start work, when they would exercise and when they would relax). Peak productivity’s not about luck. It’s about devotion. 

#8. Get up at 5 am. Win the battle of the bed. Put mind over mattress. This habit alone will strengthen your willpower so it serves you more dutifully in the key areas of your life. 

#9. Don’t do so many meetings. (I’ve trained the employees of our FORTUNE 500 clients on exactly how to do this – including having the few meetings they now do standing up – and it’s created breakthrough results for them). 

#10. Don’t say yes to every request. Most of us have a deep need to be liked. That translates into us saying yes to everything – which is the end of your elite productivity. 

#11. Outsource everything you can’t be BIW (Best in the World) at. Focus only on activities within what I call “Your Picasso Zone”. 

#12. Stop multi-tasking. New research confirms that all the distractions invading our lives are rewiring the way our brains work (and drop our IQ by 5 points!). Be one of the rare-air few who develops the mental and physical discipline to have a mono-maniacal focus on one thing for many hours. (It’s all about practice). 

#13. Get fit like Madonna. Getting to your absolute best physical condition will create explosive energy, renew your focus and multiply your creativity. 

#14. Workout 2X a day. This is just one of the little-known productivity tactics that I’ll walk you through in my new online training program YOUR PRODUCTIVITY UNLEASHED (details at the end of this post) but here’s the key: exercise is one of the greatest productivity tools in the world. So do 20 minutes first thing in the morning and then another workout around 6 or 7 pm to set you up for wow in the evening. 

#15. Drink more water. When you’re dehydrated, you’ll have far less energy. And get less done. 

#16. Work in 90 minute blocks with 10 minute intervals to recover and refuel (another game-changing move I personally use to do my best work).

#17. Write a Stop Doing List. Every productive person obsessively sets To Do Lists. But those who play at world-class also record what they commit to stop doing. Steve Jobs said that what made Apple Apple was not so much what they chose to build but all the projects they chose to ignore. #18. Use your commute time. If you’re commuting 30 minutes each way every day – get this: at the end of a year, you’ve spent 6 weeks of 8 hour days in your car. I encourage you to use that time to listen to fantastic books on audio + excellent podcasts and valuable learning programs. Remember, the fastest way to double your income is to triple your rate of learning. 

#19. Be a contrarian. Why buy your groceries at the time the store is busiest? Why go to movies on the most popular nights? Why hit the gym when the gym’s completely full? Do things at off-peak hours and you’ll save so many of them. 

#20. Get things right the first time. Most people are wildly distracted these days. And so they make mistakes. To unleash your productivity, become one of the special performers who have the mindset of doing what it takes to get it flawless first. This saves you days of having to fix problems. 

#21. Get lost. Don’t be so available to everyone. I often spend hours at a time in the cafeteria of a university close to our headquarters. I turn off my devices and think, create, plan and write. Zero interruptions. Pure focus. Massive results. I truly hope these 21 productivity tips have been valuable to you. And that I’ve been of service. Your productivity is your life made visible. Please protect it. Stay productive.

See more at: http://www.robinsharma.com/blog/09/become-the-most-productive-person-you-know/#sthash.8b8nnYDA.dpuf

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Throwing in an ask in case the dm gets buried. Is being a Male sugar baby even a thing, for an older woman? This intrigues me but I'm as green as the grass outside when it comes to sugaring. Never had an issue talking to women, but this sounds like a whole different ballgame.

When I turned 17…it was a year of reckoning. 

My friend Neil, 20, sat me up with this 25 yr old chick that summer. He was banging her friend who was 27. Me and my woman just talked for awhile before she curved me. Neil on the other hand was banging the hell out of his lady and….Running her pockets. 

That fall I started working at a fast food joint. Another close friend I call Tony, 17ish, started working there and a few months later his mother too. Tony was a cool - and we clicked.

After a few weeks tho, his mother started hitting on me. I turned her down - Tony was my boy. Couldn’t do that. And she was old asf - in her 40′s. When all else had failed, she played on my pride. Said a bunch of things to bruise my ego and one night after work - we got a room. 

She wanted to fuck regularly but I wasn’t interested. I thought about Neil and after several more attempts by her, I told her she needed to pay me. Can’t remember how it went but something to the effect “I ain’t paying you…” and “….this lil young nigga trying to play me” and “…i’ll never pay a nigga” head roll and all that. 

About 5 months ago. I fucked my coworker. It was the culmination of months of seduction. As she grew to like me she would call me on her way into work and ask if I wanted breakfast - at her expense. She’d offer to get me something when she went to lunch. If she was already out she’d call me and ask if I wanted her to bring me something. We’d go out for lunch or drinks after work and she’d offer to pay.

She saw me looking at the Gucci store online. I told her I was working on my wardrobe so she offered to buy me shirts, and belts etc., if she was in the mall and saw something she thought looked good on me. But the trick in me told her no. “Oh you can pay me back later…” she said. But I knew I didn’t have to. 

So here I am. One of the biggest tricks out here and I got this 33 yr old trying to spend on me. The universe is never without irony. See when a lady likes you and in her feelings, age unimportant, she’ll do the most. The first few times we fucked she still lived with her ex and she’d offer to pay for the room. When she got her place, she bought a box of Cohibas and kept them there for when I came over. 

Whats the importance of all this? I got your DM you sent where you asked for pointers. And the aforementioned stories illustrate one point you need to know: YOU NEED GAME. But you don’t have it. 

If you did then you would’ve already known the answer to your question. Yes there are sugar mommas out here. The same rules apply - An attractive young hoe seeks to provide companionship to the older and financially secure members of our society. But you not ready tho. 

I’ll tell you like Neil told me - because I had to know how did he get that 27 yr old chick to spend when the 25 yr wouldn’t even give me kitty. I told him about the MILF and how I couldn't’ get her to spend either

Neil looked at me and burst out laughing, falling back on his car as he said, “Nigga you ain’t got game.” I knew I was a better catch than Neil. Neil had 4 kids already and worked as a dishwasher and a car detailer. Here I was about to go to college in a few months. I ain’t say that…but Neil knew it. He added, “You got the look. You got a nice setup. Bitches like you. You going places. But like most niggas you just have no game.” Then he bust out laughing again and said, “You think these girls just start doing stuff for me? No. I make ‘em like me or fall in love first. And once I can tell they falling, I go in for the kill.” 

You can’t make this shit up. Over the next 10 years I watched Neil get chick after chick and literally everyone of them gave him money, bought him cars, you name it. All dimes +/- 3 points He was type of guy that could go into a strip club and pull a stripper then have her bring her spoils home when she raked. Neil was always broke…but he had bitches and they took care of him. The last one I know about, who has half black half Filipino, 5ft 1, and weighing 130 lbs and a ass to go with it, bought an entire business in her name for him. 

Yes there are women out here taking care of men. You don’t have to be a sugarbaby to older women either. You can be a spoiled boyfriend to some chicks your age

I’m laughing but i’m being very serious. A lot of you ladies reading this taking care of some fuckboys right now…so don’t front. Many of you will gladly take the money you tricked with Daddy for and go spend it on some cute fuck boy. 

And to you my little gigolo….you need to get your game together so you’re one of them. Hey I can’t teach you everything in one sitting. Best thing you can do is go study the art from pickup artist or PUA as they are called. Just google it - you’ll find all kinds of websites and forums dedicated to being a fuckboy. It’ll take you some time  but with dedication you can do it. 

You see I trick because its easier. My coworker started getting needy. She wanted to fuck every other day, wanted me to take her out on dates once a week, wanted to spend our lunches together. she needed the one thing I didn’t have a lot of….time. Here is the link to some free books - https://pualib.com/

I reckon some of you ladies reading this won’t like my advice…but I’m here for everyone. Daddies, sugarbabies….female and male 😂😂 - information is free

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Tips on manipulating men ?

You might not like my answer; but read. Read MULTIPLE works. The goal of manipulation is to change people’s perception of you. 

I feel like everyone recommends Ho Tactics and it seems to have been effective. I couldn’t make it past the first chapter though, so I never read it. The works of Robert Greene have great strategy (The Art of Seduction, 48 Laws of Power, 33 Strategies of War) and are a gateway. 

My advice would be to look into Philosophy, Psychology & Sociology which make up Social Engineering (strategy, deception, etc.). To get the ball rolling, here are some works that I recommend in no particular order:

The Prince – Niccolò Machiavelli

The Art of War – Sun Tzu

Hagakure – Yamamoto Tsunetomo

Strategy - B.H. Liddell Hart

On War - Carl von Clauswitz

Influence: Science and Practice (The Psychology of Persuasion) – Robert Cialdini

How to Win Friends & Influence People – Dale Carnegie

Social Engineering: The Art of Human Hacking – Chris Hadnagy

Covert Persuasion: Psychological Tactics and Tricks to Win the Game – Kevin Hogan & James Speakman

Get Anyone to Do Anything: Never Feel Powerless Again – David J. Lieberman

Genghis Khan and the Making of the Modern World - Jack Weatherford

The Art of Worldly Wisdom - Baltasar Gracián y Morales

It’s Not All About Me: The Top Ten Techniques for Building Quick Rapport with Anyone – Robin Dreeke

What Every BODY is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent’s Guide to Speed-Reading People – Joe Navarro

Telling Lies: Clues to Deceit in the Marketplace, Politics, and Marriage – Paul Ekman

A very important thing before you even get into manipulation is learning how to control yourself and understanding why you think and act the way you do. Here’s some recommendations:

Positioning: The Battle for Your Mind – Al Ries & Jack Trout

Thinking, Fast and Slow –  Daniel Kahneman

Predictably Irrational: The Hidden Forces That Shape Our Decisions – Dan Ariely

The Social Animal – David Brooks

The Laws of Human Nature – Robert Greene

Philosophy also plays a major role. I quite enjoy the works, and apply some of the philosophical outlooks of Thucydides, Seneca the Younger, Marcus Aurelius, Epictetus, and Zeno of Citium. 

I don’t know if you were more referring to physical presentation, or body language, etc. for manipulation, but this is pretty solid. You don’t have to read everything, but be sure to read something. 

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Books to Manifest Prosperity, Confidence, and Wealthy Men (Part Two)

Law of Attraction, Manifestation, Wealth, and General Self-Improvement

♥ Anatomy of the Spirit: The Seven Stages of Power and Healing

♥ As a Man Thinketh: 21st Century Edition (audio)

♥ Courage to Change: One Day at a Time

♥ Creative Visualization: Use the Power of Your Imagination to Create What You Want in Your Life

♥ Dave Ramsey’s Complete Guide to Money: The Handbook of Financial Peace University

♥ Dominating Money: Tapping into Gods Supernatural Economy

♥ Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff and It’s All Small Stuff: Simple Ways to Keep the Little Things from Taking Over Your Life (audio)

♥ Driven by Eternity: Make Your Life Count Today and Forever

♥ Ego and Self: The Old Testament Prophets from Isaiah to Malachi

♥ Emotional Intelligence 2.0

♥ Focus: A simplicity Manifesto in the Age of Distraction (pdf)

♥ Fun Is Good: How to Create Joy and Passion in your Workplace and Career

♥ God is My Source

♥ God Never Blinks: 50 Lessons for Life’s Little Detours

♥ Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance

♥ How Successful People Think: Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life (audio)

♥ Man’s Search for Meaning (audio)

♥ MONEY Master the Game: 7 Simple Steps to Financial Freedom

♥ Positive Thinking Every Day: An Inspiration for Each Day of the Year

♥ Rich Woman: A Book on Investing for Women, Take Charge of Your Money, Take Charge of Your Life

♥ Start With Why (audio)

♥ Successful Women Think Differently: 9 Habits to Make You Happier, Healthier, and More Resilient

♥ Super Rich: A Guide to Having It All

♥ Targets with Absolute Confidence and Certainty

♥ The 4-Hour Workweek (audio)

♥ The 80/20 Principle (Third Edition): The Secret to Achieving More with Less

♥  The Aladdin Factor (audio)

♥ The Alchemist (audio)

♥ The Art Of War (audio)

♥ The Compound Effect: Jumpstart Your Income, Your Life, Your Success (audio)

♥ The Energy Bus: 10 Rules to Fuel Your Life, Work, and Team with Positive Energy

♥ The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom (A Toltec Wisdom Book)

♥ The Fred Factor: How Passion in Your Work and Life Can Turn the Ordinary into the Extraordinary

♥ The Magic of Thinking Big (audio)

♥ The Millionaire Next Door

♥ The ONE Thing: The Surprisingly Simple Truth Behind Extraordinary Results

♥ The Path to Success Is Paved with Positive Thinking

♥ The Power of Broke: How Empty Pockets, a Tight Budget, and a Hunger for Success Can Become Your Greatest Competitive Advantage

♥ The Power of Focus (Tenth Anniversary Edition)

♥ The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment

♥ The Procrastination Equation: How to Stop Putting Things Off and Start Getting Stuff Done

♥ The Richest Man in Babylon

♥ The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success: A Practical Guide to the Fulfillment of Your Dreams (audio)

♥ The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life

♥ The Success Principles (10th Anniversary Edition): How to Get from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be

♥ The Tipping Point: How Little Things Can Make a Big Difference

♥ The Ultimate Credit Repair Guide to Having Luxurious Credit

♥ The Wealth Choice: Success Secrets of Black Millionaires

♥ The Wealth of My Mother’s Wisdom: The Lessons That Made My Life Rich

♥ Triggers: Creating Behavior That Lasts – Becoming the Person You Want to Be

♥ Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma

♥ What Keeps Me Standing: Letters from Black Grandmothers on Peace, Hope and Inspiration

♥ Willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength

♥ Write It Down Make It Happen: Knowing What You Want and Getting It

♥ Your Best Life Now: 7 Steps to Living at Your Full Potential

♥ Your Best Year Ever: A 5-Step Plan for Achieving Your Most Important Goals

♥ Zero Limits: The Secret Hawaiian System for Wealth, Health, Peace, and More

Confidence, Seduction, Style, Etiquette, and Psychology of People

♥ 4,000 Questions for Getting to Know Anyone and Everyone

♥ A Guide to Elegance: For Every Woman Who Wants to Be Well and Properly Dressed on All Occasions

♥ Emily Post’s Etiquette (19th Edition): Manners for Today

♥ Finishing Touches: A Guide to Being Poised, Polished, and Beautifully Prepared for Life

♥ Goodbye to Shy: 85 Shybusters That Work!

♥ How the Mighty Fall: And Why Some Companies Never Give In

♥ How To Be Chic And Elegant: Tips From A French Woman

♥ How to Speak Like a Pro

♥ How To Win Friends and Influence People (audio)

♥ Lessons from Madame Chic: 20 Stylish Secrets I Learned While Living in Paris

♥ Mastery

♥ Men Are Like Waffles – Women Are Like Spaghetti Devotional Study Guide

♥ Never Eat Alone: And Other Secrets to Success, One Relationship at a Time

♥ Own the Room: Discover Your Signature Voice to Master Your Leadership Presence

♥ Pitch Perfect: How to Say It Right the First Time, Every Time

♥ The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership: Follow Them and People Will Follow You (audio)

♥ The 33 Strategies of War (audio)

♥ The Art of War for Women: Sun Tzu’s Ancient Strategies and Wisdom for Winning at Work

♥ The Bombshell Manual of Style

♥ The Charisma Myth: How Anyone Can Master the Art and Science of Personal Magnetism

♥ The Definitive Book of Body Language: The Hidden Meaning Behind People’s Gestures and Expressions

♥ The Gift of Fear

♥ The Greatest Salesman in the World (audio)

♥ The Little Dictionary of Fashion: A Guide to Dress Sense for Every Woman

♥ The Power of Who: You Already Know Everyone You Need to Know

♥ The Sensuous Woman

♥ The Wisdom of Psychopaths: What Saints, Spies, and Serial Killers Can Teach Us About Success

♥ Three Steps to Yes: The Gentle Art of Getting Your Way

♥ What Every BODY is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent’s Guide to Speed-Reading People

♥ Worldwide Gestures: A Traveller’s Introduction to Common International Gestures & Symbols

Sugaring, Relationships, Love and Marrying Wealthy

♥ A GOAL Digger’s Guide: How to Get What You Want Without Giving It Up

♥ Become Your Own Matchmaker: 8 Easy Steps for Attracting Your Perfect Mate

♥ Being a Woman: Fulfilling Your Femininity and Finding Love

♥ Getting to ‘I Do’: The Secret to Doing Relationships Right!

♥ Have Him at Hello: Confessions from 1,000 Guys About What Makes Them Fall in Love . . . Or Never Call Back

♥How To Date Like a Courtesan: Attract, Seduce, and Manipulate Men for Love, Money, and Marriage

♥ How to Marry the Man of Your Choice

♥ How to Meet the Rich: For Business, Friendship, or Romance

♥ Lucrative Love: An Insider’s Secrets to Marrying Millions!

♥ Marry by Choice, Not by Chance: Advice for Finding the Right One at the Right Time

♥ Mars and Venus in Love: Inspiring and Heartfelt Stories of Relationships

♥ Mars and Venus in the Bedroom: Guide to Lasting Romance and Passion

♥ Mars and Venus on a Date: A Guide for Navigating the 5 Stages of Dating to Create a Loving and Lasting Relationship

♥ Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: Practical Guide for Improving Communication

♥ Pussy Power: How to Keep Him and YOU Happy

♥ Sex and the Single Girl

♥ Shanghai Girls: Uncensored & Unsentimental

♥ Simply Irresistible: Unleash Your Inner Siren and Mesmerize Any Man, with Help from the Most Famous – and Infamous – Women

♥ The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts

♥ The Power of a Praying Wife

♥ The Seduction Mystique

♥ The Vixen Manual: How to Find, Seduce & Keep the Man You Want

♥ Trophy Man: The Surprising Secrets of Black Women Who Marry Well

* Continue to check back for updates with links to audiobooks and PDFs.

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Allowance use

Alright my dolls, you locked that SD and started getting that money, what y'all gonna do with it?

-don’t even think about spending the whole amount. I mean NO. No matter if you are sure that’s a steel deal you got yourself, remember your daddy can leave you any time. So -

-always take some of your allowance and stack it like it doesn’t exist, literally, DEAD, burnt. Have your own little rainy day trust fund, it can be your childhood piggy bank, I don’t care as long as those paper bills aren’t spent. Why? You are in a great position now yet how you gonna know what tomorrow can bring you? Maybe you will be in drought for weeks sometimes a month or more. Always be prepared.

-don’t get into that terminator spending mode as soon as those hands feel the paper. Do you really need them Chanel bags and Loubies? If you are really craving for it make your SD get em for you. But honestly, shoe/bag/clothes shopping will make you happy for a while, a car or a house/apartment shopping would make you a bit more permanently happy ? These are big goals I know however aren’t unreasonable and aren’t something so not possible to reach.

-first take care of your bills/rent/tuition/food supply, COVER your basic needs for the month, SAVE the rest. You would be amazed by the sum if you counted all of them bills spent on cute little things you bought yourself from sugaring.

-Keep the receipts and sum it up in the end of a month, if you aren’t going to keep track of your money who will? God? No.

-set up some bigger goals that you plan on reaching from sugaring. It’s maybe paying off that student loan, signing up for masters degree, saving up for your own place, investing in stocks or a small start up of your own. You name it. But I’m sure there must be something more valuable to you than the shopping sprees. Tend to be more friendly to your future.

-I saw a movie few months back, and there was this scene where a bodyguard of a rich guy asks these SBs hanging in the mansion how are they investing their money? What they all said-shoes and bags. And then he spilled the basic truth, What y'all gonna do with them shoes and bags in few years? Mr X will replace you all with them younger bitches and then what? You gonna live in ya shoes? Damn. Opened my eyes. You ain’t gonna be sugaring forever.

-if you HAVE a vanilla job, don’t even dream about leaving/quitting! NO. No matter what or how good your SD is. No matter what he promises to you no matter how much money he gives you. THAT is NOT your PERMANENT INCOME. Allowance is your little/big lottery ticket you are getting every month/week. Treat it like one. It CAN be a losing one just from next time.

-be a HOE but a smart HOE. Always mention to these SDs your actual goals for your future, he is more likely to spend and help ya out with that education/business venture for example than he’ll be interested in spending on some flashy superficial stuff. I’ve learned that hard way.

-think about the way you get your allowance (wire transfer, pay pal, cheque etc) this does vary on a country you live in but CASH will always be the good old almighty cash.

-if he gives you a card, don’t buy everything you see! Take cash from ATMs and stack it. If that card is really at your disposal use it SMART. Pay your groceries with it, bills if possible, replace a thing in your home, help out your family if you are able. But don’t go on a crazy mall tour. Your SD won’t really give a damn how you used it, moreover you can earn bonus points if he notices you are spending it smart.

-I’m not saying that you should not go shopping eventually but be smart about it. Keep inventory of your wardrobe, do supply/demand chart. Do your supply renewal every 3 or 6 months. PLANNING is the mother of SPENDING. If you take care of your wardrobe it will always look fresh and new. Respect it. Remember- your bomb pussy earned that!

-you have stuff in your closet you haven’t worn a year? Great. Sell it online. It will clear up your space and get you some extra $$$.

-another tip on saving- don’t necessarily go all the time to beauty salons (if it’s not something mandatory you can’t do yourself), take some time and do your own mani/pedi, if you can style your hair (there’s some new brushes that literally do the straightening for you while using it, if I find a link I’ll post it) learn to do your own makeup. Don’t buy all the most expensive beauty products all the time, there are cheaper ones which are also good. Take note: BRAND sells the product. So don’t be a victim of someone’s successful advertising. Just because it’s a Dior cream it’s why you need to own it?

-stack as many SDs as possible, short time ones, regular ones, it means MORE money for your wallet.

-don’t show off, don’t bring that negativity out from people. It’s still bad energy and why would you possibly want to make yourself a problem or an unpleasant situation? E.g. Outing you to your friends family coworkers etc, list has no end. You DO NOT have to impress anyone! You live in your OWN skin NOT in other peoples EYES!

-if you can’t keep track of your finances/spendings hire an accountant, it will help you big time!

-take advantage of the sales when you are getting your food/wardrobe or whatever

-don’t be lazy and go to the restaurants all the time! LEARN how to cook if you don’t already know. I’m aware how delicious that home delivery is but the price of a single order could maybe cover more meals if you went to the supermarket. It’s ok occasionally ordering food/going out to eat but think how much you can save up just by cooking yourself.

-be bills and environmental friendly, which means that you don’t need to have all of your lights in the home ON all the time, take your charger out when finished charging your phone/computer, don’t leave your desktop running all day/night or on sleep mode. Same applies to your tv. Take showers instead of filling up the tub. You will be amazed how much all of that can reduce your monthly expenses! Now sum that up for a year! Oh, yes.

-instead of paying for a crazy expensive gym, go out for a run, work out at home/in nature, don’t be lazy and look up YouTube tutorials for different workouts that don’t include gym.

-use public transport whenever you can instead of taxis/uber/your own car (if you own one), take a bicycle if you can, it will do magic to your body and your bank account.

-learn the difference between your NEEDS and DESIRES. Your desire can be your worst enemy if you can’t control it.

-don’t hoard food! Do your supply AD HOC (when necessary).

-make list of all monthly expenses you have, write PROs and CONs for each. Ask yourself do you really need it every month? Cut all unnecessary things off that list.

-get a vanilla job if you already don’t have one!

Combine some of these tips and do good for yourself, doesn’t necessarily mean you have to follow up to the point rather customize it to your own convenience!

Be a smart Hoe with your money.

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Never will I compete for a spot in anyone’s life

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At first, I was so 😠, but reading this thread toward the end had me like:

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“If a writer falls in love with you, you can never die.”

(via suspend) This quote is one of my ultimate favorite quotes in the history of ever. (via bthnyy)

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she’ll be immortal.

(via femininephilanthropist)

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Amen to that

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To All SBs with an iPhone!!!

I just recently updated my phone to iOS11 and noticed this. If your SD or POT has an iPhone which he may use to FaceTime/Skype/Video Chat, he could possibly record you without you knowing. Here’s how:

Go to Settings > Control Center > Customize Controls > Add Screen Recording

Once you enable that, it’ll appear like this in your Control Center:

This allows you to record whatever is on your screen. So if he’s talking to you, he can possibly be recording you. Be careful girls!!!

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i hate when people say stripping is easy money. it seriously takes a strong person to strip. it’s physically, emotionally, mentally, psychologically, and socially exhausting beyond any other job. but i can never talk about it to any non-sex workers because then they rant about how harmful the sex industry is and how i should get out of it when in reality i’m still happier here than slaving away anywhere else for $10.00 an hour.

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This really applies to both men and women but the message is still clear 🤷🏾

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Vasectomies

“I had a vasectomy 11 years ago because I don’t like using condoms”

Honey, it’s not your super-sperm that I’m worried about; it’s your nasty-ass, who-knows-where-it’s-been STI-laden dick.

Nice try, next!