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You Already Know You're Gonna Be Rich

See the thing about life is that it is like a mind game, when you have control of your mind, then you have control of your life. It all begins with the mind. The fall and the rise is all associated with the mind. This will summarize a lot of books so you don’t have to read them all, through programming your mind, you have programmed how the life you live should be like. It is very important that…

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Forbes 30 under 30

Dear Forbes My name is Sula Thembumenzi Mabuza, and I am hoping to one day make it to your 30 under 30 list. I do not expect you to see this message but I am using it as a public statement and a vote of confidence that I will make it to your list. I am currently at a position whereby things are not really going my way, not where I thought I would be. You see when I was young, I thought I would…

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SEOs & Algorithms, What In The World Are Those?!

SEOs & Algorithms, What In The World Are Those?!

We’ve all heard these a couple of times, if you need to tackle social media then you better understand SEOs… Oh how about the all classic “the algorithm must choose you” as if the algorithm is some god with powers to choose who succeeds on social media or does not. Look man, some of us can’t even find love amongst our fellow humans, how in the world can we make algorithms love us? They don’t even…

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How Much of a Perfectionist Should You Be?

How Much of a Perfectionist Should You Be?

A lot of people consistently give us advice on how we ought to actually be okay with the idea of not being perfect. It has come to my knowledge that that advice actually comes at a price. The more you are wealthy, monetary wise, the more you have the freedom of not being perfect (well as long as you’re not a public figure, right?) The less privileged you are, the more you should be perfect. Us…

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Success Beyond Hunger [It Get's More Interesting..]

Success Beyond Hunger [It Get’s More Interesting..]

This will probably be the first manifestation blog that you have ever read written by someone on an empty stomach. For the past week, I have only been surviving on popcorn, salt and water, it’s crazy. I know this is not a normal way of living and I also just know that there has to be a reason for such hard times. Like most of all the people out there, I degree’d and then got unemployed. I am…

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It Won't Work Until... [Success Advice]

It Won’t Work Until… [Success Advice]

The internet (our new resource) has a lot of strategies and tutorials or blueprints on how to become successful and we spend a lot of time trying them out, moving from one possible source of income to the next. For the past 4 years, I spent my days following the blueprint that was being offered online. I went from blogging to vlogging to podcasting and then from completing online surveys to…

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Kill Men, Nullify Their Existence

Kill Men, Nullify Their Existence

Tweets a woman while her baby boy is sleeping in the other room, and her husband is at the nearest convenient store getting them the night’s grocery. “All men deserve to be burned,” shouts a women with a poster by the corner down the streets while her grandfather is making her hot soup and watching the news in his old rocking couch. “All men are rapists,” tweets a teen girl while his father goes…

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Nothing is Real, Choose You

Nothing is Real, Choose You

Let’s make this short; no one will have your back more than you can because you know yourself, your story, your dreams, and how far they seem to be, which means you know how hard you will have to work. The greatest mistake we make is to give our all to other people and their benefits such that we end up getting frustrated and hurt when we realize the people we had their backs don’t have us.…

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Marry or not Marry?

Marry or not Marry?

The most significant debate we have all had internally is whether one should marry or not marry. I think the more we grow, the more we cannot simply ignore such a topic; perhaps now is the right time to talk about it. According to people on Quora, the sides to this debate are decided by which gender one belongs. I want to state that, just for this run-through, we will only focus on the two sets…

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Relationships Are Tricky But This Is Important To Know

Relationships Are Tricky But This Is Important To Know

Hi, I would like to talk to you; I do not even know where to begin, it has been a bumpy road, and I think this is probably the best time to write to you. To start with, I am writing this while listening to Jhene Aiko’s Bed Peace track with Childish Gambino. So, yesterday, I was a bit down, and it got me thinking that maybe I should cover all the topics that I barely have covered on this blog, let…

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Social Media Madness

Well, hello there, how are you doing? No, seriously, how are you doing? So, in the previous months, I had to sit down and monitor the use of social media, especially those that are using it to gain some “fame” from it. These are called content creators, and well, Instagram models. Some of these people happen to be in my inner circle; some well, I watch them from across the screen. Social is the…

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The Purpose of Fear

The Purpose of Fear

I am currently writing at a faster speed haha, hopefully, this message gets to you before I lose internet connection. Hey, hello, I hope you are good, I am writing to speak about fear and why you are probably scared about maybe your goals, your plans, or that one thing that you have to do, maybe that thing is supposed to be your major breakthrough or something, well you know best. Anyways, I am…

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Taking a NO

One of the worst mistakes we make as individuals is to refuse to take a no from the world. I have taken a lot of NO’s, and I am still taking NO’s even today from the universe. I remember losing one of the most important people in my life – I used to call her Legne. She was nothing but the best. Sometimes I think of it like she was the only person I was meant to be with forever. She was a Shona…

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One step at a time

One step at a time

You might not have noticed this, or you might have heard it multiple times; tomorrow is not guaranteed. We all go to bed without even thinking that there is a possibility for us never to wake up AGAIN. I am not trying to scare you but to grab your attention to the most important thing that I want to talk about, taking things one step at a time. Now, one thing to note, I am not writing this based…

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Feedback as your fuel to success

Feedback as your fuel to success

Hello, you are probably here because you know of feedback, and at some point in your life, you have heard this word being used quite more often. You have been chanting the feedback anthem for a long time, but what happens when you get the feedback? What happens when you get a whole lot of that feedback? It would shock you that feedback is one thing that many people deem as something they like,…

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We're building a world that is unfair to boys

We’re building a world that is unfair to boys

It has become a norm to always think of people who speak on behalf of men or boys to be seen or taken as someone against women. Therefore, before I go any further with this article, I would like to say I respect women and advocate for all rights. It has been quite unfortunate to see women suffer over the years at the hands of men. Hence, I would like to sincerely apologize to any female out there…

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A Poem From An Admirer

A Poem From An Admirer

After staring at you for a while I realized that I’ve never seen you before Not because of your shiny petals Not because of your eyes, though they do look like a setting sun, that’s still not it After staring at you for a while, I’ve realized I didn’t know you Not because you are a rare breed, Not because of your angelic smile and certainly not because of your queenship, though I can still see…