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Throwback to when I took painkillers and woke up with Photoshop open on my computer to this image I had made

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Jessica Lange photographed by Mark Seliger [2024]

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me going to bed tonight

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daydreaming about writing: 🥰😍🥹❤️😊🌺✨😘

the act of actually writing: 😭😰😵‍💫😭😰😭☹️😖

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some of my favorite replies to this tweet. happy lesbian visibility week!

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you’re stuck living with your icon for a month have fun

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“when witches don’t fight, we burn”

- ahs: coven

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Taylor Swift (feat. Florence + The Machine), from Florida!!!

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Shout out to femmes with body hair. Your choice not to shave shouldn’t be treated like an “unfeminine” thing. If you’re feminine and have body hair, guess what that body hair is now feminine too!

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That post that's like "stop writing characters who talk like they're trying to get a good grade in therapy" really blew the door wide open for me about how common it's become for a character's emotional intelligence to not be taken into consideration when writing conflict. I remember the first time I went to therapy I had such a hard time even identifying what I was feeling, let alone had the language to explain it to someone else. Of course there are plenty of people who've never been to therapy a day in their life who are in tune to their emotions. But even they would have some trouble expressing themselves sometimes. You have to take into account there are plenty of people who are uncomfortable expressing themselves and people who think they're not allowed to feel certain ways. It also makes for more interesting conflict to have characters with different levels of understanding.

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I swear I get sad if I wake up and one is on the floor

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joan nestle on butch/femme dynamics in the lesbian almanac compiled by the national museum & archive of lesbian and gay history, 1996

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— Mary Oliver, North Country