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do your balls hang low? Do they wabble to and frow?.. can you tie 'em in a knot? Can you tie 'em in a bow..?

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just saw a furry go "ugh pup masks are the worst thing to happen to the furry community" and it's like what are you talking about those are your cousins, at the end of the day you're both pretending to be gay dog men, i think it's just an aesthetic choice at that point

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Lex and Clark in #Superman be like

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Ough, this is gorgeous

I love part 5 😀 !!!!!!!! 🐬🫧🐙

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conflict

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favorite word?

I say dude a lot but Idk if that counts

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I appeal to you all ❤️‍🩹

Hello, my name is Fahed, and I'm from Gaza. Life here is harder than you can imagine, but today I share my story with hope in my heart, because your kindness has given us tremendous strength. This is my daughter, Sahar, speaking in the video. She once hoped to become a doctor.

When I first reached out, I couldn’t have imagined we’d make it this far. Your support has been a light in these difficult times, and we are so deeply grateful for every single contribution.

But the road ahead is still challenging. Every day, we’re reminded of how much we’ve lost and how much we still need for your support, we can get out of this great danger. .

Here’s what life in Gaza looks like for my family right now:

There is no safe place. Danger surrounds us from all directions. The bombing is violent every moment, every day. Dozens of women and children are dying. Zero health care, pollution everywhere. Outbreaks of disease and famine that ravage our bodies.

How You Can Help Us Cross the Finish Line Even the smallest act of kindness can make a difference:

$5 may seem small, but to us it makes a difference. And a reminder that kindness still exists. ❤️

Can’t donate? Reblog this post to help us reach someone who can. Every share matters more than you know

Thank you for helping us get this far. Your generosity and compassion have already brought us closer to a better tomorrow, and for that, I’m endlessly grateful.

With all my love and gratitude,

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becoming an adult cheat sheet!

learn to coupon

what to do when you can’t afford therapy

cleaning your bathroom

what to do when you can’t pay your bills

stress management

quick fix meals

find out if you’re paying too much for your cell phone bill

resume workshop

organize your closet

how to take care of yourself when you’re sick

what you should bring to a doctor’s appointment

what’s a mortgage?

how to pick a health insurance plan

hotlines list

your first gynecology appointment

what to do if the cops pull you over

things to have in your car in case of emergency

my moving out masterpost

how to make friends as an adult (video)

how to do taxes (video)

recommended reads for surviving adulthood (video)

change a flat tire (video)

how to do laundry (video)

opening a bank account (video)

laundry cheat sheet

recipes masterpost

tricks to help you sleep more

what the fuck should you make for dinner?

where should you go for drinks?

alcohol: know your limits

easy makeup tips

find seat maps for your flight

self-defense tips

prevent hangovers

workout masterpost

how to write a check

career builder

browse careers

birth control information

financial management software & app (free)

my mental health masterpost

my college applications masterpost

how to jumpstart a car

sex ed masterpost

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it’s crazy that they’ve invented online robot sex slaves for men but not cigarettes that are good for you. our society’s priorities are so fucked dude

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Poopy Joe was tf2s 911

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*scrolling tumblr* hmmm. i agree with the sentiment of this post, but the phrasing feels off to me. it doesn’t really have that Reblog factor, you know? *scrolls* oh good, a post that just says “i jerk off till my penis scrweam” . i better reblog this

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Idk anything abt tadc I just rlly like Scott Pilgrim

I just had to...

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Gorillaz - Pandora “Sounds Like Gorillaz”

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hey. do whatever you want btw. it’s your identity. kiss people for fun. enjoy sex. nobody’s stopping you. being aro and/or ace doesn’t mean you have to be repulsed by romantic or sexual activities if you don’t want to.

and also! things only mean what you meant them to mean. you can have platonic sex and platonically make out with your friends. it’s true. just be sure to communicate so that everyone involved understands and you’re good.

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I love himb 🥹🥹

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I'd like to make something very clear, and this post will be pinned on my blog for a while. Usually I like to think of myself as a positive figure on Tumblr but I've been pushed to a limit where I feel it's better to step away while I can and am deeply uncomfortable.

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I no longer want to be associated or part of the Eltingville fandom.

Yesterday there was an incident where a minor - who I won't name or tag because I don't want them to get any sort of backlash - was encouraged to draw suggestive and NSFW requests by anonymous users, which they of course posted onto their blog.

The problem isn't that they were drawing these things at all, I myself was once a teen and drew lewd artwork. It's normal for minors to explore their own sexuality with others their age.

My problem is that adults were distributing the drawings and encouraging this minor to continue.

Some of you might not want to acknowledge it, but even something as little as a reblog or a like on those posts is your way of normalizing adult on child interactions, blurring the line of what's okay or not. Because initially, the minor began to delete comments and was dismissive about the warnings given to them.

Luckily, they have since taken down those posts and said they wouldn't do it again for their own safety, which I can only hope they will stick to. And I'm very happy multiple users (along with myself) weren't afraid to explain why this behavior could put the kid in danger.

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This situation only confirmed a staggering fear I had about the Eltingville fandom. There is a concerning amount of people who are dismissive about these sorts of interactions, and many that knowingly participate in paraphilic content.

Whether it be 18+ Discord servers or NSFW Twitters, I was appalled by how much dangerous and frankly vile content there is constantly being pumped out by big artists in the fandom. With themes such as: pedophilia, zoophilia, necrophilia, and rape.

I won't say who in particular, because I don't want any minors to have these things readily available to them. But if there ARE any underage users reading this, I can only ask that you carefully and safely look into the people you're interacting with online before becoming their friend, including who their mutuals are.

I know you hear this hundreds if not thousands of times. But once you've been scarred, those memories and experiences stick with you for the rest of your life, even if only subconsciously. Know your own boundaries, trust your gut and your friends if they tell you an adult is being weird or intrusive.

Don't EVER let anyone of age convince you to do something sexually gratifying for them. Even if it's just for laughs, even if you trust them or like talking to them, even if they're having a bad day and need something to cheer them up. They are an adult, and you don't owe them anything.

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All of that being said, I can put up with a lot of things.

I can ignore how catty, mean and borderline hurtful some people have been towards me. I can excuse a person not knowing that one or more of their mutuals was creating and gaining pleasure from disgusting content. And I will NEVER blame a child for being tricked by the adults around them who know better.

But the incident from yesterday put the final nail in the coffin for me.

I don't have to put up with people who put "DNI minors" all over their account, but then continue to like and repost underage user's content constantly and even make friends with them.

And I'm certainly not going to tolerate people fetishizing and sexualizing underage characters. The epilogue versions of the four main guys are right there, and yet I continue to see full grown twenty-somethings make NSFW content of the teen versions of the characters.

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I'll still reblog and like Eltingville fanart here and there because I do enjoy the source material. But it'll be very minimal, since I no longer want to be associated outside of the few reasonable and kind individuals I've met on here.

For those who have read this far, thank you for taking the time out of your day. Stay safe, and do better.

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